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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Would these be signs of an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Sometimes when I masturbate I get this rush of blood over my face and body, My muscles go really tight, I feel like I'm going to pee, my uturus goes warm and expands and my heart pounds really fast. Would this be the signs that I am having an ...

I feel bad that I haven't been touching him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and I currently have a great boyfriend. He has been coming over and we have been making out and he has been touching me. But I haven't been touching him. He wants me to though. And I feel bad I haven't been. Should I feel this way? And also ...

My husband stopped having sexual desire!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I really need some good advice here. I'm having lots of trouble finding it out why my husband stopped having sexual desire. He went to the doctor and they said he is healthy, so it's must be some psychological stuff. Now ,we also went to sex ther...

Recently been bleedin during sex.. but I never have before!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I’ve been having sex with my long term bf for over a year now... and never had any after pains or bleeding... but past few weeks I have been bleeding during sex and for a day after.. I’m not due my period and I have no pain but I’m a bit worried... ...

Deep French kissing and dry humping: did he get satisfied?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts What do you think the norm is to this question? I belive I have the answer but would like you input. 24 year old guy deep french kissing and dry humping (with clothes on) for a couple hours. do you think he got satisfied? thank...

What makes a woman want to do that for her man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - This has happened to me on more than one occasion, the chick I could be with, goes down on me, and I'm thinking(assuming really) that she knows what she's doing. It starts off nice, it feels good, I get into it, annnnnd. TEETH. SCRATCH. SCRAP. CHEW ...

Orgasms since I was six, is that unusual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - I'm male, in my 30's. And I've been able to have orgasms since I was 6. Maybe even younger. Serious. (Of course I was shooting blanks back then). Is that normal? Anyone else?...

Males: Does jelquing work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Have any of you males out there tried Jelqing? If so, did it work for you? I'm thinking of trying this. My penis is the average size, it varies in length between being slightly under 6 inches to slightly over, and about 4.5 in girth. Anyway,th...

Damage through prostate massage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Earlier this week, I gave myself a prostate massage. Since then, I have struggled to get an erection or even become aroused. Is it possible that I have somehow damaged myself? I've never felt like this before. My Penis feels sort of... not "numb"...

Wife tied me up for bondage then proceeded to list all the things I did wrong, and no sex!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - hi aunty,I got married for 6 months now..2 nights back,we decided for bondage sex,so my wife tied me down to the bed with handcuffs..intially she teased me and kissed..once I was tied up properly and at her mercy..she slapped me..and then yelled at ...

Older women Vs younger... What do you think are the advantages and disadvantages?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Datin older women, its a fad that's taking over under the radar more than you think. I love older women, between 28 and 39 is awesome, they just know more about what they want and either already have it or are very close to getting it. I have been ...

My wife's sex drive is nearly extinct and I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - My wifes sex drive is nearly extinct, I don't know what to do, 9 times out of 10 she states she doesn't want sex when I try to start intimacy, or she has some other excuse. My wife (common law)is a very sexual person, in the first 3 years of us ...

My husband wants me to be more dominent when having sex, but I don't enjoy it...What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I have a sex question. My husband and i have been married 5 years and our sex life has declined a lot. We have sat down at long last and talked about it, which was good... But what came out of it, is now a bit of a problem for me. This h...

Should I meet only women who can handle me in bed? And if so, how should I treat her in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - My post this time really isn't a problem, its more of a brag, but its not intended to be. See I have a very high sex drive, I haven't ran across many women can stand it, longevity is what I like and what I practice when I have sex. I believe I'm ...

Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they ...

We both think going down on each other is gross. What can we do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - im dating a guy who was a virgin before i met him. we have basically done everything except oral on me. he tried oral on me once but didnt like it. he thinks its gross because of my natural scent. i told him there is nothing wrong but he insists its ...

Is it satisfying to a man to just fool around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts, What do you feel the norm answer to this question is. If a guy 20 something has been deep french kissing and dry humping (clothes on) for a couple of hrs, do you think he got satisfied? Thanks in advance for any answers....

She's 16, I'm 25, and I fear that the changes she'll go through in the next few years will cause us to break up. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Im 25 and my girl friend is 16.I love her more then anything in life and she admits i am her first love and I believe it for the fact that i known some of her exs that sh dated for awhile and never had sex with them.we dated one month before she ...

I lost my virginity to my now ex-boyfriend, but according to him I wasn't a virgin before him! What do you make of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I had my 1st sex last year when I was 20 wid my ex-boyfriend. But according to him, I was not virgin. I actually didn't understand what he meant. As according to him, I didnt suffer any pain much, and everything went so smooth. I got a lil confused ...

I'm attracted to my wife's best friend and curious of what it's like to sleep with another woman! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 11 years now and she has been the only woman I have ever had sex with. For about 9 of those years she has had a lot of issues physcially and mentally that has caused her to totally lose her sex drive. For the most ...

Will my 'bent penis' affect my ability to have sex in future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Have had a normal sex life as a maried man. Lost my wife about 10 years ago and apart from masturbation have not had a partner since. Recently I noticed that my penis is bent almost at 90 degrees when erect. The more erect it becomes the more it ...

Is my semen safe enough for my wife to consume?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Am married man. My wife has fetish for oral sex.. she loves all time to sawllow my semen atleast 3-4 times in a week. as she like the taste and smell.. she often applies to her face and she believes its gives wonderful results on skind. what i...

Was it too soon to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I am worried that I have made a big mistake. I met a guy a few weeks ago, and we are both in our 40s. We really hit it off and have had a great time just being together. He acted very interested in me--lots of heavy kissing, etc. Well, Friday ...

I have no interest in sex whatsoever with husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I am a 29-year-old female, and I have been married for four years, during which time I have become less and less interested in physical intimacy with my husband. Over time this has become a difficult matter for me, and for the last year I haven't ...

We don't have sex anymore and I don't know why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Heres my story i bin with this guy for two years now and we do not have sex anymore i just dont get why im not ugly im thin im not loose what so ever im definetly not boring in bed i have done everything and when we use to have sex or id give head ...

How do you get over being cheated on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I do not want to have sex with my husband anymore. I found out he cheated on my five months ago and since then I have had absolutely no desire to have any kind of sexual contact with him. We have been through couseling, but it seems like nothing ...

How big or not big do ladies like him to be?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...

He spat on my vagina to lubricate it! Now I don't want him to touch me!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - While making love, my vagina was a bit dry so my partner spat into my vagina to lubricate it. i feel so degraded by this i cannot bear him to touch me since. Am i over reacting?...

I have always wanted to wait until marriage. Now I'm having second thoughts...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I've always wanted to wait until I was married to have sex... but recently I've been really wanting to go further with my girlfriend. I want to now (or soon, at least), but at the same time I want to wait. I really love her and I really want to have ...

Husband's bad breath, horrible care make me only want to be friends with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hi all, just looking for some support. I love my husband a lot but only as a good friend/partner. we have been together 10 years and have 2 kids. I feel NO attraction to him whatsoever. The main thing is he doesn't take care of himself, showers only ...