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Archived questions from: 13 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why would she want to have sex with me with a penis that size?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - Ok. I'm really embarrassed. Have been all my life. It's just i have a really small penis. Its 10cm erect, and I HATE myself because of it. I recently got my first girlfriend, and i have done 'stuff' for her, but she hasn't for me, because i keep ...

How long does nuva ring work after being removed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - How long does the nuva ring work after it has been removed? I always take it out during sex because the guys say they can feel it, then put it back in after. Last night I forgot to put it back in after sex and fell asleep. In the morning we had sex ...

Will this regret ever fade away?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - I’m 28 and newly married. I love my wife and the life that I have with her except that I am riddled with regret over missed opportunities. I can’t go a minute without wishing I had sowed my oats before getting married. I never had the desire t...

What is the difference between a long distance boyfriend and a friend with benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Just wondered...What is the difference between a long distance boyfriend and a friend with benefits? - I see a guy from time to time, am in love with him and we sleep together when we can. But we only see each other as and when (as he lives lo...

Since I bought my girlfriend a vibrator, my needs have been neglected! How can I sort this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of about a year and 3 months has recently been, well, pressuring me into buying her a vibrator so we can experiment. I thought i was good in bed, I always make sure she's fully satisfied and am always open for experimentation. So i...

Sex has lost its "umphhh" over time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been dating for a year and 3 months now and the sex was great at the start of the relationship because i was a virgin. She brought a few kinky night dresses about 4 months in. It all fell apart about 8 months in. I found i ...

I've lost interest in my FWB but he doesn't want to end it! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I am a 24 yr old female and I have been in casual relationship with a guy older than i am for a little more than 3 years now. But during all this time, we never really shared any kind of bond except mindblowing sexual chemistry. Sex has always been ...

If I overdose on birth control pills will I be safe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - before getting married i have indulged in sex wid some other guy and have takenpills to not get pregnant.so my question is that will i get pregnant after marriage because i have eaten so many pills to not get pregnant before marriage while doing ...

Will I still pass as a virgin when I get married even though I've had sex 3 times?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - had sex 3 times not planing on having sex for 2-3 years will i still pass off as a virgin when i get married? (all 3 times bled)...

He's very experienced but I'm bored of the same position during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Right, this is really embarrassing but i really need to ask!! My boyfriend has always gone on top when we have sex, he was my first and is very experienced so he knows what he is doing, its all good and everything, but to be honest i get a tad bored ...

Our lack of sex is making me want an open relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Question 1: its been almost 20 months now and my boyfriend has followed a partern of only have sex with me every one to three months what does this mean and why Question 2: if my boyfriend is not having sex with me should i ask to have an open rel...

Why doesn't he make love to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend makes excuses to have sex with me he says we will but it never happens and every time i bring up the subject it causes an argument and he makes more excuses why we havent had sex its been 3 months now and still im waiting why is he ...

What can I do to see my boyfriend and not get him into trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and have been talking about having sex for a little while as we wanted to make sure we were ready for it. So the other day we decided to have sex. But when I got home I had a text saying that his ...

I'm straight but I like to read erotic stories about girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - im 16 Recently ive been thinking and i really dont understand what i think. Im straight, i always date boys, and fancy one in particular at the moment. Im always flirting with boys and i have sex with boys. But for some reason when im masturba...

Confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - Hi, Basically a straight forward question. I'm confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time. I've heard it loads of times about 'breaking in' etc but still don't get it, is it messy like a mate of mine said years ago? what ...

Just how insulting to men with erection troubles can women be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - I lost my erection about a month ago and my wife is just on my back all the time about it. Why can't she just leave me alone while I work this out? She's got a damn' vibrator, is it too much to ask that she backs off? And for that matter, why do ...

To the men out there - do you get excited by the idea of seeing your wife having sex with another man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - I would like to see my wife having sex with another man, the thought excites me. Does any other male have this feeling....

Is this a normal relationship? I think he might just love my body!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Hi I meet my boyfriend more than 1 year.At first he was being the best boyfriend,he treated me nicely and friendly to my friends...etc...very awesome.Then after 1 year,he start being a nasty boy which is what he thinks is sexy.He has asked me too...

Is my boyfriend's penis too big? It will be my first time and I'm scared of the pain!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I am a 19 virgin and ready to lost my virginity to my bf. When we want to have sex last night and found that his penis is too big. I don't think he able to fit inside me without hurting me a lot. I ask him to measure it for me and is 8.5" long and ...

Can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy? I feel really unstable i don't know what's going on. This guy I've been seeing and spending time with has me feeling so confused. We do have sex, and I love it. However I don't kn...

I just want to have sex to get it over with.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - I am jealous of sex because, I have not had sex yet. I am 17 years old and I never had a girlfriend before, or even kissed a girl. I am forced to lie to everyone that I have had sex so I will not be embarrassed of my virginity. I don't want to wait ...

I want to have sex but I fear getting pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - i am currently seeing a guy who is great. the problem is my parents don't know I've been seeing him. I am 20 years old and currently live with my parents who feel that i should just be friends with this guy. i have done things with him but we ...

Living with a boyfriend in a dorm room: good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! My situation is that I have been dating my boyfriend for ten months now. We have pretty much decided that we will get married one day and that we are soulmates. He just finished college and I have one year left. The school t...

Why does unbelievable sex not drive a man to pursue it again and again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for a few months and he called me out of the blue. I go over to his house, we hang out all night and day, and have sex 11 times, I repeat, 11 times!!! He goes on to tell me he thinks that this is the best sex he has ever had. ...

Am I meant to shave or what if we have sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - This is a weird question I know I'm 15 yr old female currently in a relationship I've done things to him but I won't let him do anything to me because I'm worried.. Am I meant to shave or what if we have sex? It's worrying me if I do it wrong? ...

Apart from watching , what else could he be doing on a porn site? And what does BDSM stand for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Why would a seemingly 'Godfearing' guy resort to using an adult dating porno website to meet women??? He is not ugly( about a 5) is EXTREMELY successful, can get almost ANY woman he wants to date him - and he goes on an awful lot of dates - driv...

Why do some guys like to stay 'friends' with a former 'friend with benefits'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Why do some guys like to stay 'friends' with a former 'friend with benefits'??? I know some of you will say this is for 'back up' but not in all cases. There's this guy who i was friends with and slept with ONCE. He wants to be friends on the ...

I just don’t get why I would still want someone who could be so mean!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Can any guys out there help me? How can guys be so nice, loving and affectionate to someone they don’t even care about!!?? I was friends with a guy for a few years. We would hang out but never really did anything even though he always wanted to! ...

I'm bleeding when I shouldn't be!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Ok, so I'm not supposed to have my period until August 20th or somewhere around there. Friday I started feeling a little nauseas and my throat started hurting and my ear as well. I thought that I could possibly be pregnant and that was what was ...

He wants every girl but me, yet he spends all his spare time with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I met a guy just over a year ago i was 25 and he was 22 and it was great at first, there was lots of physical stuff and affection everything seemed like it was going well. Gradually over the course of about 2 months the sex almost completely stopped ...