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Archived questions from: 18 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Please help me spice my relationship up with some roleplay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner almost 10 years and its been almost 3 since we've made love.I dont want anyone else-though i have had a couple of offers and i trust my man completly.I want our sex life back,but i dont want to get into a rut-which i ...

My girlfriend wants anul sex, but I dont, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have seen each other for a year now, and we have been sleeping with each other for half of that. The thing is, she asked me about anul sex, because she wants to try it, but im not sure, i dont really want to try it. i know it ...

My past makes me nervous about sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Okay, I REALLY need help! My explanation is quite dark so...be warned if you happen to be under 16 (just in case, don't want any tweens getting freaked out) I am 19 and my bf is 21 and we are going to have sex for the first time...soon. And I am a v...

Do I hang on in there in the hope it is a blip or end the relationship? I feel like I'm in limbo....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Have any of you ever been in a relationship where you feel like you are no longer going out with your partner yet nothing has been said by the other person? For the last year I have felt like my boyfriend, who is in his mid-thirties, is completely ...

Golden Shower Problem, Please Help!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - me and my fella have been together for 6 months now, and both are adventurous in the bedroom. he recently told me about a fetish he has, of being peed on (his stomach, penis and basically lower body) being a fantastic girlfriend (and quite curio...

Taking the pill, but should I still ask him to wear a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm in a bit of muddle at the moment and not sure what to do. Basically I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I genuinely love him and feel comfortable in the relationship in every way. However, since going on the contraceptive pill, I'...

Can you live without sexual intimacy in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - How do I know if my husband sexual problem is medical, or something else? He has ed and low sexal desire, but the DOCTOR NEVER FOUND ANYTHING WRONG. His health is k, so it is not medical so far ,unless they didn't find out why. I would fully exce...

Is this consider masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Heyy im really confused about something i need someone who actually knows the answer .... I dont wanna ask anyone i know cuz its embaressing.... So here it goes What i like to do is watch a good sex scene on youtube and when i do this i cross my...

My boyfriend thinks I'm the one ruining our sex life, when it's him that's bringing the porn dvd's to bed with us!! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Porn Wars :My boyfriend is telling me i am sabbotoging our sex life and our relationship. I feel it is he that is. We just made up over a 4 day battle cuz last week he was busy messin w/his tools, so i got in the bath. When i got out of the tub i ...

Since I moved in and found my girlfriends sex toys, I feel like less of a man! What can I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - Hi i recently moved in with my girlfriend and have discoverd that she masterbates with sex toys, that she haves hidden that i have found. knowing when she does it makes me feel depressed and less of a man that i cant take care of my duty with her ...

How do I help my girlfriend enjoy sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - Me and my Gf of 2 and a half years have just started having sex, we are both 16. And we decied that after 2 years we were ready. But after having sex a hand full of times (safely of course) including alot of foreplay, she doesnt feel anything du...

Was it right for him to give me gifts after what he did to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - i Dont kno what to do. When I was 14 this guy who used to come and fix things around the house when my mom called him .I knew this guy my whole life and he came around alot i was kinda poor and didnt have alot of friends but this guy was always nice ...

Will women be put off by man who's only had one sexual partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (?) - Hi, Im wondering do women think its a turn off if aguy who is in his early 30s has had only one sexual partner in the past. It was a long term relationship that didnt work out and I now wonder if women will be put off by it? Thanks....

Will using a vibrator make it harder for me to orgasm during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - okay so i use a back masager or idk but it just vibrates but anyways i use that to have orgasms i put it right on my clit i dont move it around or anything i jus set it there..im just wondering can that make it harder for me to hav an orgasm during ...

Why do I burn after sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and ii been haveing sex with my boyfriend WITHOUT a condom and we have sex 10 times a day so i was wondering why my pravit part burns after we finish ???...

I'm in a new relationship and worried I may have gotten an STD! I don't want this to ruin things!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - I recently became involved in a relationship with the most incredible woman and things have been going very well. However, lat week I began not feeling so well downstairs and became concerned that I might have contracted and STD. I have held off ...

What are the odds I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Right before my boyfriend came, he pulled out and as he was doing so, the condom popped and he had (i hope all) the pre-cum in his hand. what are the odds that I'm pregnant?...

We broke up, but he still comes to my place for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - so my boyfriend and i broke up about two weeks ago.. but he still comes over my house once in a while and we have sex.. we know we still love each other but i dont think its rite wat we r doing.. wat do you guys think?!...

Sex is just awful for me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - im 16.. iv been to the docter i have no diseases or infections, me and my boyfriend have had sex over maby 30 times.. pretty much every time we have intercourse it hurts its like a irretated feeling an alittle burning sumtimes it hurts really bad an ...