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Archived questions from: 3 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Ever since sex I've been bleeding!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - ever since i've had sex with my boyfriend, i've been bleeding. does this mean i have a disease or anything? we used protection but not a condom, could he have anything too?...

What should you do if you've missed some pills and have unprotected sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - hey i just wanted to ask, if u have been on the pill but missed a few pills and had unprotected sex, what should you do? I am goin on hols next week and i gota take my pill back to back so i dnt have my period wen im on holiday. but ive put on a lil...

Every time we have sex I think about her with others from her past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Well im not going to write a book, but this is really putting a burden on my sex life with my girlfriend. Ive been dating my girlfriend for a year now. She is awsome, she really is a great girl. Last summer was kinda a roller coaster, it was grea...

Should I go ahead and see what happens with this relationship, or forget it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Hello, i wonder if u can help me!! i have been speeking to this Turkish man for about 1 year now, we have got really close , talked everyday spooken on phone, msn, etc!. hes a really nice man with a wonderful personality, and also he lives no wher...

Why don't I make noises during phone sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - So I'm 14,pretty much horny whenever I talk to my boyfriend at night and he wants my to have phone sex..I just have one question, why don't I make noises?...

Suggestions for 'freaky' things to do with my BF

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - this sounds kinda gross but my boyfriend and I wanna start getting "freaky." like I swallow and he loves it and he wants me to like snowball him. like spit the cum into his mouth and make out with him. do you guys know any other like freaky ...

How do you finish when your partner gives you a handjob?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - How do you finish when your partner gives you a handjob? Whenever I'm giving my current partner a handjob he will always grab his penis as he's about to cum I suppose out of some kind of courtesy so he doesn't get all over my hand or the sheets or ...

Is my partner just not interested in me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years and the last time we made love was 1 year ago while on holidays in Spain! Now I must agree that sex is not my favourite thing I do enjoy it now and again. I am in counselling for work related str...

My girlfriend's a virgin and we're ready to have sex, how can I make sure I don't hurt her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Ive been going out with this girl for 4 months now and we have got really close. shes still a virgin but that doesnt bother me as I love her so much. She is saying that she is ready to have sex and so am I but she is worried about the pain, im ...

I started my next pack of birth control pills right after the last one so I wouldn't get my period...but I got it anyway. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I recently had sex with my boyfriend, and i started my period while we were doing it, im on the pill and i knew we were going to be having sex so i started to take another packet straight after i finished the last one so i wouldnt get a period. so ...

Having sex outside - is this legal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Hi The thought of sex outdoors really turns me on and i really want it. However is it legal to have sex outdoors what would happen if we got caught? Thanks...

When we're alone, she's one way, but otherwise, she's different. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Hey, I am really very confused at the moment. The girl who I really like was in a relationship, however when in that relationship she would make out with me, and always be saying how great it would be if she was with me, and if she were to become ...

We had sex and he ignored me. Now he trys contacting me. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Theres a guy that i meet in janaury, we wasnt seeing each toher but we always spoke on facebook and text and we went cinema a few times and meet up. (Although i always felt like i was making the effort) But we got on so well. six months down the ...

How do I even out the workload during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend says that he does most of the work during sex. although i try to even out the work im still apparently not doing nearly enough. what can i do to change this?...

I'm scared about having sex in case I do it wrong and he compares me to his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Ive always been a 'good girl' so to say when it comes to relationships. But now I have got an amazing boyfriend who I love so much. The only problem is that ive never done anything sexual before with a guy, as it has never felt right until now. ...

I want to get rid of my sex drive!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

3 August 2009 (?) - Here's the thing - I don't want a sex drive. I don't want to get involved in a relationship because they always make me miserable. No way am I doing the casual sex thing. I really do not want a sex drive. how, how, how do I kill it? I'm a ...

I think I am in love, so why do I fantasise about other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - So my dilemma is this: I have been living with a girl for just over one year, and to get to the punch line, I fantasise about having sex with other girls, random people on the street, colleagues at work, fellow students at college, whatever. While I ...

Why is it ok for guys to pleasure themselves but women are considered dirty?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I was wondering why it is so publicly excepted for guys to pleasure themselves and nobody will think anything of it except that they're just being a guy, but when a girl does she is considered dirty, or a slut. What is the difference between ...

He wont have phone sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - So, this may be a silly question but it has been bugging me for a while now. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for a while now. My boyfriend is my best friend and he's never been anything short of amazing to me. It hurts that he is ...

Does he need to know everything about my sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - A past boyfriend introduced me to phone sex, and when we broke up, I realized it was still a pretty good sexual outlet for me. It seemed problem-free, because I could easily find a guy on the internet, call him from a blocked number, and have an ...

Spooning sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Alright, so my friend and I are thinking about having sex. She loves it when I hold her tight around the waist and hug her. I've come to the conclusion that we should try spooning. We're both first timers. I heard that this is a very comfortable and ...

I'm 19, and I am experiencing low sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Alright everyone first off I'm 19, and this should not be happening. I do not know what's going on? I took a pro horomone (testosterone booster) to gain muscle and I took a cycle of it 1 1/2 months ago. It's an extreme testosterone booster, blocks ...

He didn't go 'all the way in' and we used a condom, but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i almost had sex, meaning he didn't "go all the way in" but it was there, he had a condom on, but i heard sometimes you can get pregnant cause of that? i didn't believe in that, but I've missed my period, I've missed it before, but ...

Divorced and wondering if I'm a lesbian. Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - ok, I am confused. I am a female, divorced and wondering about my sexuality. So let me start from the beginning. When I was ten years old i kissed a girl because I was curious and she accepted, I mean it was a gum exchange from mouth to mouth. I ...

How can I help her to relax?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - ive tried having sex with my girlfriend twice now and it wont go in. she says she is too tense and that she needs to relax more. how can i help her relax more?...