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Archived questions from: 31 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Embarrassed that I have to be tested for an STD again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I need to go for an STI check-up as I stupidly participated in drunken fore play with someone who I don't know that well. I have been disagnosed with an STI before (my ex-boyfriend cheated on me) and I'm just worried about the reaction of the people ...

After a threesome, my gf is pregnant. What do we do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 25. Normally she has a very regualar menstrual cycle, the pill make her sick so we avoid sex on the days she ovulates. Her last period was period was July 1, which means she should have ovualted from June 12-15, we had ...

I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and ...

I want sex all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I first off I know that this is not a medical site but I am too self conscience to ask my doctor about this. I have a bf and we have a great relationship (been daing for 18 months) our sex life is beyond wonderful, but during the last 5 months or ...

Is he trying to make me feel guilty for turning down sex? His use of words were inappropriate and put me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out on Saturday and I wanted us to sit down and have a grown-up conversation. I have to admit (I'm a chatterbox). Anyways, it was good because we brought a lot of things out in the open. In between that we were ...

My husband looks at she-male porn. Do straight men do this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - My husband looks at shemale porn, but says he is not gay. The shemale's are cleary men with breast.what do you think? Are there any straight men that like to look at shemale porn? ...

How often does it happen where a man can't get it up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Can I get the opinions of guys out there - how often do you have problems with not being able to "get it up"? The other night a guy I have just started dating and I tried to have sex for the first time. He's about 27. We were both very comfortable...

This will be the first time I have sex, and I'm worried he'll compare me to other girls!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - ok before i ask this i want to make it clear tht i dont want ppl to tell me not to do this coz i already made up my mind, id just realy appreciate the advice :) basically me and my best guy friend have agreed to have sex, hes had sex befre but i ...

How to keep the fire going in a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I recently got transferred to another country and find myself now in a long distance relationship. This is the 3rd month. We get to see each other twice a month. He does come at least once a month to see me. We cant do better than that cos its ...

I sometimes give him head - will it affect our friendship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so ill give a lil bit of our history to this day so you can see whats going on.... We met in high school year 9.. and i had a lil bit of a crush on him when we became friends.. used to talk all the time.. He left at the end of year 10 and had a ...

Her past has been eating me inside as my mind can't accept it, please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I am a 45 years old and married for 8 years. My wife told me about her past affair when we were dating. She also told me that she is not a virgin. When I met her she was not that interested in me and after my persistence she started to get involve ...

Virginity and how can I make my body more ready for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - ok so i am in need of advice.i'm a virgin and last night i tryed having sex for the first time.i've been wearing tampons for two months now, so obviously it's broken.but when we started to have sex, my hymen was stretching and i could feel it, but ...

Do you think he only wants me around for sex, without a comitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have an unusual relationship with this guy, which is why I need help with it. Normally my relationships follow the same pattern - Guy likes me, I want to get to know more about guy, we get to know each other for about 6 months, he asks me to be ...

Advice on sex please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - hi. ok i need some sex advice. my and my boyfriend are going to have sex soon, we both know its right and we love and trust each other very much. we have been together for about 5 months, but we havent done anything sexually yet! its because i ...

Should I have sex with him or just keep it at oral?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - im thinking about having sex with this guy who is older than me. he is like 26 and im almost 16. we have been planning on getting together soon. should i really go for it or jus keep our relationship at oral?...

We have a sexual relationship only, should he at least have sent me a birthday card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have a sexual relationship with this man. We have been seeing eachother for a while, mind you mainly just for sex. It was my birthday the other day and he did not call to say Happy Birthday. I did not expect a gift but I was expecting a phone ...

Could I be pregnant, if we had unprotected sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so if been on birth control pills for about a year now. Like two weeks ago I stop taking them because of risks and stuff. Four days later after I stoped taking the pills me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he ejaculated inside of me. ...

What are the best ways to last longer and get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year... and we want to have kids but it doesn't feel like we r even tryin anythin we stick to the same ways that we usually do in bed and we never last for very long anymore is there somethin that we can ...

My gf wants sex, but I don't feel I'm ready ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - Okay, I'm gonna be 15... and my girlfriend wants to have sex... I'm a guy of course I want to... I have been dating her since 7th grade (I'm a freshman now) and I don't know what to do... She means the world to me... and in the past I'...

First-time sex help needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok im 17 and I've started using tampons like about two months ago.So obviously my hymen IS broken.But deffinatley not stretched out enough for sex.Last week i attempted sex with my boy friend and when he tryed to go in, it just hurt WAY too much. I ...