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Archived questions from: 23 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Can having sex bring on a period 11 days early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - Hi Cupids, Just wondering whether anyone knows if having sex can bring a period on 11 days early? I have a 30 day cycle and after having sex got my period super early. I had no cramps( which I usually get really bad) and none of my other pre-peri...

Am I allowed to buy condoms at 15?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I think that you can buy condoms under the age of 18, and I'm 15, and I'm going to buy condoms. But there are lots of condoms..thin, thick, textured, pouchy, coloured, latex, polyurethane etc. Will the shop sell ANY pack of condoms to me or am I ...

Am I post natal? Not in love? Or living in the past??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (?) - I'm all out of love? please help....I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and half years.we have 2 sons aged 2 and 9 months.so as you can see I fell pregnant soon after we met.my problem is I don't know if were just not right for each other or I'm ...

Wife has no sex drive, but I want her all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I have a 47 year old beautiful wife of 4 years and she seems to have no sex drive but yet I want her all the time. How can I convince her to have more? I love here very much but I need a wife not a roomate....

Please don't let me be the next 40 year old virgin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I am 16 and a virgin.. my girlfriend is the same age however she has had sex with one person. She said it was a mistake. We have been dating for a little over 2 months. Every thing is perfect except for every time we try to have sex I go limp. We ...

I've tried being 'just friends', then detaching myself from her completely, but I still love her! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - Well, this is a long one, so I'll post a quick summary below but if you have the time to read it all I hope you do. There's a girl that I met three years ago in college. She was a beautiful girl that was down to earth and I loved her personality....

How can I increase sensitivity on my circumcised penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - How can I increase sensitivity on my circumcised penis? I have never been able to achieve an orgasm from oral sex with any of the many partners I've had, and am only able to achieve orgasm in vaginal intercourse with extreme difficulty. Many times ...

I don't want a relationship with him, but I don't wanna be a one night stand either! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I've been single for a year now, and enjoy clubbing regularly, At the spot theres a DJ who really has made an impression on me. Hes not even mega anything, Not too cute just handsome enough - Dresses rather nicely though. We'd been making eyes, he'...

Is there a third date rule?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - If girl slept with a guy on the 3rd date does that make her easy....?...

I couldn't have sex with my boyfriend, I feel I've let him down

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (?) - I tried to have sex with my boyfriend of 6 months last night and i couldn't. His penis felt like it was too big for my vagina. It was so painful that I felt sick and shakey. This has put me off ever having sex again yet I know that my boyfriend will ...

Will they sell lube to a 15 year old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - i want to buy this...DUREX PLAY CHERRY PUMP LUBE.. http://www.superdrug.com/DUREX-PLAY-CHERRY-PUMP-LUBE-50ML/invt/512109 and bklist= im 15, will probally get it from Superdrug or something, will they sell it, and things like this, to me?? thanx...

Women aged 20-29 - please answer this!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I've been seeing my gf for about 4 mos (I'm 39- shes 25) I know big gap. Anyway, about a month in -- we had "the talk" ---and I found out about her not so innocent past. It made me sick to find out she had slept with 15 other guys before me. ...

Married but sexually incompatible

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I am a 32 yr old woman married to a 38 yr old man. We have been married for almost a year and everything else about our marriage is good except that we are completely sexually incompatible. When we were dating he was very slow moving in the sexual ...

I want to have sex but don't want to get pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - well im in love with my boyfriend verry much and he lives in texas he is comming down to see me next summer and we planed on making love but im afraid i have done it b4 but now i can get pregnant and i realy want to with him but i dont know what to ...

What to do when medical condition makes sex impossible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I am a healthy man in my mid-thirties and in a relationship with a wonderful woman for many years (not married). Years back she developed a health condition that got worse and worse, which is unfortunately not well understood and doctors don't kn...

How far should a boyfriend be allowed to go with the other woman in a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - If you are bisexual and want a threesome with another woman, how far would you let boyfriend (long-term boyfriend) go with her?...

Masturbating to pictures of friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - Is masturbation to pictures of your friends okay? I have printed out pictures of a few of my friends that our females and I have masturbates to them. I printed the pictures from myspace and facebook. Is this behavior normal?...

I didn't enjoy the sex with my date and I can't figure out why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I broke up with my one month ago , and I feel better because we broke up Because he wasn’t nice to me , he didn’t appreciated me and he wasn’t the ideal partner Unluckily, I still see my ex, we work in the same place, and we have to talk I...

I could not climax this weekend.. what is wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - OK, well the basic idea is that I can't cum during a blowjob or handjob from my girlfriend recently. This weekend I haven't been able to do it. I did it once when my girlfriend gave me a handjob, she gave me my first blowjob(s) this weekend plus ...

She has a horrible past.. do I look passed it, try to fix it.. tell her parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - There's a girl. She was abused as a small child and after a while being fostered was put up for adoption at the age of 4. This needs to be taken into account I think when you consider that she says she... Lost her virginity (willingly) wh...

At 33, could this be just a mid-life crisis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 9 years and majority of the time it was good till recently. Lately it seems he doesn't care if I'm here or not. I feel he is looking for things to do to deliberately make me mad. Lately I do nothing right in his ...