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Archived questions from: 27 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Penetration, Pill, Orgasm and Virginity questions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - [Moderator note: four questions from the same poster were combined here for space considerations. I think he will be grateful if you can comment on any one or more of them. Thank you!] Hey, I need some advise on having sex with my partner! Q1...

Does he not care if I have sex with someone, or is he hiding his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My guy friend told me that he likes me, and he knows I like him. I also told him I'm a virgin and we plan on having sex sometime. Recently this one guy wont leave me alone about wanting to get together, I told my guy friend about it, and I asked him ...

I'm straight but hooked on gay porn! How can I stop watching it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Im 15 and I have a porn problem. Im straight I believe I am, but I looked at gay porn once just to see how it goes and I got hooked to it. I belive thats why I have gay fantasies and stuff because I like girls but when I first hit puberty and star...

How can I be more assertive to get a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - [MOD NOTE: Multiple questions from same poster so I have combined them] Q1. Im a 15 year old boy and im kinda nerdy and quiet and don't get out much because I get so nervous thinking of the people im going be around and if someone is going to pick...

I'm pregnant, but I'm not sure which guy is the father!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Im 26 and just found out Im pregnant. The thing is, I have slept with 2 men - one 4 weeks ago, just a day after I finished my period and someone else 2 weeks ago. Im unsure who the father is but I think it is more likely to be the guy I slept wi...

He thinks I don't like him! Should I make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hey I need some quick advice because I want to know what i'm going to do! Please help I know it's long!! Okay so here's the deal I really like this guy that i've known all my life and he likes me back. A few weeks ago we kissed for the firs...

My fiance said he would leave me if I got pregnant and now I am - how do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for awhile we just recently got engaged a few months ago. We have talked about our future a lot. I have 3 kids and he has accepted them. He loves them very much and they love him. We have talked about having k...

I'm having problems with our sex life...what can I do?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - [Mod note - both were from the same poster, so have combined both] Q1: I have been in this relationship for a few months now, and our life inside the bedroom is so drab. I am not even aroused any more. She will start to initiate and I quickly lo...

Is squirting possible or just faked?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I guess this question is more pertaining to any personal encounters... But never the less, I was wondering is squirting real, is it staged, or faked in some fashion? If it is in fact real, how is it achieved thanks...

I'm a virgin but I told him I'm not

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - ok im turmoil here :( Im seeing my bf, we both in love, making future plans together ect... thing is im lying to him. Im still a virgin! even tho i've told him im not. Infact im lying to everyone about this, im like the 40 yr old virgin. i hate it, ...

I hooked up with former porn star and now my ex wants me back, and I can't tell him what I did

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, we were high school sweethearts, and after our first year of college decided to give it a break. After 2 weeks of being sad and lonely my friend and I decided to go out and party a bit and let ...

Looking for something extremely dirty and adventuresome for the bedroom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hey, me and my fella are rather adventurous in the bedroom, and i live by the rule, ill try anything once. hes told me he wants me to do something so dirty and filthy he is stupendously turned on and will come in seconds. this is great, and id ...

I have been fooling around with a guy and now I cant seem to get an erection when I'm with a girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Im a 23 year old guy, and i have a couple of problems that i think are interlinked. I lost my virginity pretty late, i was 18, with my girlfriend at the time. We had sex a few times and then broke up after a month or two. After that i started ...

How do I get rid of these feelings that I want to be with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I am not cheating, nor do I plan on cheating on my boyfriend, but I have been with women before and he knows it. I've been feeling lately that I want to be with a woman, and I really want to tell my boyfriend without him wanting to join in (again). ...

Really think my ex may be the one: how should I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I dated a man for five months and things were going great. He had a physical problem that got in the way of having sex and we broke up due to that. He told me it was due to chemistry, but I tend to differ. We have been broken up for three months ...

Does he want me back, or was he just horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I broke up with my ex month ago We still living together in our place , I tried to get back to him twice, but he rejected me, and I felt my self so cheap, and I forgot about him totally and started focusing on my life and try to enjoy it ...

Male Vs Female; A Debate On The Male Obsession With A Woman’s Past

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - After recently seeing a large number of posts on this site from men asking how to deal with a woman’s sexual past, I wondered why men were so concerned with something that at the end of the day, cannot be changed. So I entered into a conversation ...

Is this man playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Ok, here it is, I will just shoot from the hip here and maybe get a bit more insight into my wondering mind. I met a guy about 6 weeks ago. had coffee and talked. nice man and he asked to meet again. during the time before we met there was te...

Girls: How do you feel when you have aroused a man and can tell he has an erection but he is trying to hide it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Pls ladies, how do you feel when you see that you have arouse a guy and the dick is standing but the guy is trying to hide it....

Is the feeling of being ignored common in threesomes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Recently my wife and I carried out a threesome with my best friend that she had been fantisising about for some time now.She had this night all planned out with a dinner and drinks to follow.She was dressed in a transparent white spandex dress that ...

My fiance wont have sex with my anymore, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - my man and I have been together for almost 3 years now. we have a 7 month old daughter as well. he never wants sex anymore! in the last month we've had it like 2 times. I try to initiate by changing up my look or playing but the second vaginal ...

How do you know if a guy just wants you for sex or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Are there any signs that suggest whether a guy wants you for sex or something more? It's a month before I can see him to talk about it face to face (I'd rather not ask by email or on the phone) but I need an idea of where we could be heading before ...

Do you think I could be bisexual because of my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - recently when i watched the trya banks show[lesbians it was about on this episode] i have been wondering to myself are you a lesbian!but to me i aint cuz i have a boy friend and stuff! so now im wondering if im a bisexual becuz when i was small...

Do you think I could be sexually frustrated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - i got a question. am i sexually frustrated? im going to tell the truth. when i was 16 i went out with a girl she took my virginity. woopty-doo right. well i broke up with her. and now i miss her. im 18 now and still miss her and havent had a ...

I don't like the fact that he has slept with about 40 women. But I'm falling for him. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - So i have been talking to this guy for three weeks. He tells me he really likes me and wants us to be together but we are taking things slow. We get along great and he has shared things about his childhood and life with me that he has never shared ...

Friend doesn't talk to me since we were intimate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - ok so I have this bestfriend.. Or atleast he was.. Anyway..we were crazy close and talked everyday!! He started messing with me like grabbing my ass and stuff and I started liking him.. I knew he was a huge player but I still liked him.. One night I ...

I feel really ashamed of myself.. how can I get over this event?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Last weekend was the worst weekend of my life. I went to a concernt Friday and Saturday night (same band). I have been in contact with one of the crew guys and we were going to get together after the shows. Friday he ditched me, no biggy because ...