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He's very experienced but I'm bored of the same position during sex!

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Question - (13 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right, this is really embarrassing but i really need to ask!! My boyfriend has always gone on top when we have sex, he was my first and is very experienced so he knows what he is doing, its all good and everything, but to be honest i get a tad bored with him always being in control, but im worried that if i go on top i just wont know what to do, and that he wont like it as he has had many partners and i dont want to seem bad! Ahh! So could anyone give me any pointers or tips haha? this is really embaressing but i need some help!! Thankyou :)

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A male reader, urbanking99 United Kingdom +, writes (13 August 2009):

The easiest thing would be to talk to him. Explain that you want to feel him inside you from a different perspective. It will be fun for him as well to see you from different angles and he will feel different sensations.

Life is about variety as is lovemaking.

Enjoy.

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A male reader, graham103 United Kingdom +, writes (13 August 2009):

First thing is sex can be a learning curve for anyone and you should be comfortable to try anything and he should let you. Try buying a DVD like lovers guide and watch it alone or together, have a cosy night in and have some wine and massage each other and see what happens.

Good luck

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