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writes:I am a middle aged woman with a married girlfriend (I have known her before she got married) we like to party and her hubby don’t mind at first it was only her and I satisfying each other, her hubby has known about us before they got married and he loved watching us. The last year or so he has been joining in the action, she seem to be enjoying it more and more seeing her hubby and I having sex, it turns her on and when we get stuck into each other she has multiple orgasms. I don’t enjoy the sex with her hubby I haven’t had an orgasm with him at all, how do I tell her without hurting her feelings as she thinks he is the greatest lover out and in actual fact he is not a very good lover. Can I suggest bringing in another partner?
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reader, starismine1  +, writes (9 September 2008):
 It doesn't seem like you are getting any sexual fulfillment from this threesome, and yet you feel guilty about saying so. Perhaps you need to start believing you deserve more out of life than making other people feel good and start speaking up for yourself about what your true needs are, in and out of the bedroom.
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reader, claireleatherdale  +, writes (9 September 2008):
 tell her out right just because he pleases her doesn't mean he pleases u every one is different i mean if she hits all ur right spots just think it might be fun getting her 2 teach him how 2 please u i know telling people that they don't do it right isn't easy but if u dont u'll end up misrable and life's far too short 2 waste it on regrets
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