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writes:I have a psychological problem, but i cant come out of it. I'm 33 yrs old unmarried. I've a sister who is 25. From last year I developed a strong sexual desire for her. It started accidentally. One day I saw her doing kitchen work, wearing a mini-skirt that revealed her panty. Then on I couldnt hold myself. I dreamt about her. After lot of words with her, finally I succeeded to make love and that was in last june. Till now I slept with her nearly 10-12 times. Now she becomes fully frank and active. I often take her out of home for sex. But,these days a guilt comes upon me that I have spoilt her life. She now insists to sleep with me, but not I. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): A bit late to be having regrets, don't you think? You can't just dump her, that *would* ruin her life - and being your sister, that *would* ruin yours as well; family get togethers are unbearably awkward, etc.
So, you need to sit her down, and talk about how you're feeling. Don't just stop talking to her, or otherwise reject her out of hand or you'll have a problem. You got what you wanted, and involved someone else doing so - now you've an obligation to see that her feelings are respected if you need to shut this down. She's GOING to have lots of "What the HELL?!? How can you feel so bad NOW, instead of when we started?!? :-((" type questions, you'll need to have honest, respectful answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): im not here to judge i am sure you are all too aware of the implications of sleeping with a sibling, it is illegal but it also has far reaching effects on the entire family, this is just sex there is no talk of love so go and find someone who you can love and be openly happy with, in the meantime please please please use birth control
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