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How can I become more active during sex?

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Question - (9 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hey everybody i was just hoping for some advice for a really embarrassing situation im in so here goes...

ive been together with my partner for about 8 months and he was the first one that i gave my virginity to and it was a really big thing for me to give up though i did for the right reasons... so now the problem... he obv wasnt a virgin and is alot more sexual experienced then me... i feel kinda abit out of it... he indirectly kinda tells me it will be better once im more on it rather then him having to do all the work... i wnna please him tobut dont know how to go about it... im not even sure what im doing half the time...

any tips to make me more active during sex??

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A male reader, lowgeorge Nigeria +, writes (22 April 2011):

you start reading erotic and romantic novels

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A female reader, Bubblegum-Pink United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2008):

Bubblegum-Pink agony auntTry asking him what he wants you to do for him. This will help you with ideas, but don't do anything that you're not comfortable with. If you're on top, move however it feels good for you because then it'll feel good for him too. Suggest trying different positions such as doggy style, with your legs back etc. If possible (and legal!) you could do it somewhere other than the bedroom - the car, somewhere else in the house, camping.

Hope this helps!

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A female reader, -NothingLasts4ever- United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2008):

-NothingLasts4ever- agony auntI used to have this problem when I started having sex but I don't anymore.

If you wanna go on top, you could do what I did. I asked my boyfriend to do part of the moving until I got into the rhythm of it and then I took over and then as time went on, I was able to do it myself.

If you don't wanna do that, you could just do random things that you think will please him and you'll soon find out what he likes you to do.

Good luck xXx

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