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Lost my virginity to him but I think ...he gave me a STD!!

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Question - (23 October 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2008)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I have been with this guy who I lost my virginity to for 6 months. Before I went to the doctor, I had sex with him about 10 times. I went over the summer and she said everything looked fine and I was negative for ghonnehrea and chlamydia. I also told her that I get a lot of clear discharge and she said that was normal. Last month, I slept with him 2 more times. I know he has been with a lot of girls but we always used condoms. Now, a month later, Im noticing a lot of white and bright yellow discharge. It also gets really itchy like inside, not really on the outside. I havent been with anyone else so did this guy give me an std?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008):

It sounds like Thrush, which you can get simply by wearing too many layers on your lower part, taking antibiotics or having weight problems.

But I would never get intimate with a guy a) without a condom and b) before making sure he's been tested for STDs.

If a guy has history, he needs checking.

Besides, it sounds like he didn't use a condom with you, so what makes you so sure he has with other girls?

Get tested, make sure he does too and wise up, girl, because STDs can ruin your life. Never trust a guy blindly when it comes to your health, because too many people think that love and just being you is a barrier against anything bad: well, that attitude is how it eventually happens to you.

Good luck!

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A female reader, icelordess United States + , writes (23 October 2008):

icelordess agony auntPretty much classic symptoms of a yeast infection. Please see your doctor again. Its pretty easy to clear up.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008):

It could always be an STD but from the symptoms I'm guessing Candida Yeast Infection is also a huge possibility. I hope is the later because as you might know those candida infections are easily curable with over the counter cheap creams in a week. But even if it actually is a candida infection you should go to your doc to get tested for it and to discard any other disease like you did previously. If I were you I would type all my symptoms in Google just to see if any known std name matches them. You should not worry much because the majority of std's are curable and the ones that aren't (Human Papiloma Virus, Herpes, HIV) don't have those symptoms. But you should go get checked ASAP because some of them could affect negatively your fertily if left untreated.

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (23 October 2008):

Tremor agony auntIt sounds like you may have a yeast infection. This can be passed on through sexual contact, but there are also other causes.

See your doctor again to be sure.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008):

"I know he has been with a lot of girls but we always used condoms." You're ignorant, you know that right? You think condoms protect guys 100% from STDs? Go take a sex ed class before you have anymore sex. You're obviously not educated enough for a sex life.

It's quite possible he gave you one. Maybe you should ask him who he's been with and go see the doctor again.

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