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We found a camera recording herself at her dad's house. Should I be concerned?

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Question - (4 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I are staying at his dads on weekends, tonight him and I were flicking through tv channels when we pressed the wrong button and found that AV3 had a camera connected and was facing the floor, where we are sleeping. I realise its his house and he is entitled to protect it but im embarrased and uncomfortable now as we had sex right in front of the camera before we knew it was there. We dont know if it records on to video or anything, plus it has sound which is not good and i feel his dads a perv! Should i let it go and stop letting it bother me or should i have a reason to be as concerned?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009):

his dad deliberately set this up, he is a perv and you b/f should confront him.

this will strip away any dignity you have, becuase you were filed without your knowledge. you did not consent to it.

you also do NOT want to be all over the internet as a movie girl now do you.

act fast and tell the old man that this is just not on. Also this is such an invasion of a sexual act between 2 consenting adults. the dad was an uninvited 3rd part who is now privvy to what turns you on. You do not want this man to know intimate things about you.

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A female reader, babe'z United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2009):

yea you have every right to be concerned but if you feel his dad's a perv then maybe you should try staying at your's sometimes and as for you having sex infront of the cameraa their ain't much you can do about that apart from avoid his dad from now on xx

hope i've helped xoxo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009):

your boyfriend should def. confront his dad…that's sick…why else would there be a camera in there?? i think about if that every happened to me, and it makes me nauseous…that's not right…and it sounds like bs as far as a "protection" measure

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