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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I have body image issues, how do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - I have massive body image issues. I'm 23 so I think I shouldn't have these childs issues anymore... I just have a plain face and plain body... nothing stands out as beautiful. I'm around 5'7", 140 lbs approximately... so not fat, but also not that ...

How do I tell her what I want to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - I have friend. Very nice friend we both girls I love her so much iam 15 I want to kiss her on lips but I think she will not takee it easy .. How I can tell her that I want to kiss her on lips I do not want to lose her as a friend ,, please tell me ...

I've been a fool and don't know how to right my wrongs

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - I am a widow ,but I date and have friends,so I don't really feel lonely.A yr. ago i met a man online and we began a good friendship.He was still somewhat involved with his high school sweetheart.We talked about the relationship or should i say I did ...

How do I deal with my friends so that my life can be less stressful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - hey everyone, here goes ( sorry its long) So ive been best friends with this girl ( lets call her A ) for about five years, soon we developed our own group, there were four of us. best mates, did everything together and shared it all. However ...

Why say you'll do something and then not do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - I'm just wondering if anyone has an insight into this coz i don't have a clue. I woz talking to this guy online last night, seemed like a nice guy and were having a nice conversation. He messaged me this morning saying he cud chat tonight, if i woz ...

How do I handle our break up when there are still feelings there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - My ex and I dated for four months. It was short but we were very attracted to one another and truly cared for one another. However we were incompatible and fought all the time. It was a very tough choice, but we finally separated today. But it's ...

We're in love but incompatible. How do you break up with someone you love dearly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - My bf and I love and care for one another very much, but we argue all the time. We have very different expectations for relationships, and we work hard to compromise and understand one another. Even still, we disappointed one another all the time ...

Is he cheating with me?...what's with the secrecy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - I have been dating a man for 7 weeks. On paper we look great, same age, both solvent kids grown up, both working, similar interests and lots in common...there is just one problem...he hasn't let me see where he lives but has been to mine a few ...

Am I being too sensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - My husband loves people to love him, he works with many women , but his Manager is a single parent,he's always praising her, giving her gifts and always giving her cd copies, Told him it's not right, but he continues. He works away, goes to co...

How do I get my partner to do his share of work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - Hey guys, thanks in advance for your answers Me and my boyfriend have lived together for a year (with his mum, in her flat). And now we have moved into our own flat just 4 weeks ago. Basically the problem is he is chronically lazy! He refuses...

How can I get past my emotions to feel intimate with my partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - when i was a little girl i was abused by a family member this carried on until i was 17. I have spent such a long time feeling guilty because i never did anything to stop it even tho i knew what was happening was wrong i was so scared that nobody ...

We're a bit rocky right now, I'm not sure where to go with our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4383 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - I'm in love with a guy who's ten years my senior, in my mind I'm a lot older than seventeen however, I know you'll all think I'm just young, but I've been through so much in my life that I've grown up a lot faster than boys my own age. So, I met a ...

She hasn't called, is this a bad sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (M) - my girlfriend told me she will call back me, but from one month she didn't call me what can I do. I want to talk with her...

Should I just leave it or message him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4383 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - Hey everyone! Im 17 years old and was at a party last night! I was chooi¨sing music on an ipod when a guy comes and agrees with my music taste so we start talking and standing close. we talked about where we come from and normal stuff. HE asked me ...

Found out g/f sleeps with men to support herself. She says she'll stop if I can support her. I can't. What to do???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

4 May 2012 (M) - OK folks, I have a real dilemma. I am hoping you can help. There is this girl I know who is from a middle eastern country. She is here on a visa. Very pretty, sweet. We started seeing each other, and then got involved. I thought things were perf...

Could we become a couple? Or does she just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4383 days ago

4 May 2012 (M) - I've never had a girlfriend before. Heres whats been happening so far:- There's this girl that I like, really like as in love, we're friends, we're both the same age, I'm really shy and so is she. First off, we talk loads, and I mean loads (we...

Why am I attached to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - Why...Why?? I cant let this one go...my current boyfriend is an alcoholic,does not keep promises(says he will stop by but doesnt,says he will call but doesnt!),spends more time with his friends than me, dissapears on me from time to time when he ...

Can anyone give me advice about what I'd face in the long term?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - How much is too much anal sex? I have found that now that we have it down and know just how I like it, we are enjoying it at least twice a week for about six months now, either to finish or just anal from beginning to end besides regular ...

Is lack of confidence a sign of just being a failure, at my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - This isn't a romantic relationship question, but I really could use some help because it's affecting me a lot! I've been blessed with the most wonderful friends and parents in the world and the fact that I achieved those bonds is a huge mark of s...

She wants to move her dog in!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

4 May 2012 (M) - my girlfriend moved in with me 5 months ago now she wants to move her dog in i think its a bad ideal dogs need to be kept outdoors or atleast thats how i feel about it help...

Are some people just not meant to have a partner in life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (M) - I'm 23 years old, and I'm still a virgin. The only romantic experience I had was during my first year of university, which was basically just a kiss. I spent a considerable amount of time working out at the gym as a teenager, and managed to get into ...

Are men put off by women who have given birth?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - question for the men on here.. Are men put off by women who have given birth? either because they watched their partner give birth which has put them off sex and can't get the image of their head of seeing partner being stretched and watching som...

I don't think my boyfriend understand that my no means no. I am not ready. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - I think my boyfriend only wants to have sex with me and im a virgin and he is very sexual and all he wants to talk about is sex I told him im not ready but I don't think he understands what should I do?...