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writes:I think my boyfriend only wants to have sex with me and im a virgin and he is very sexual and all he wants to talk about is sex I told him im not ready but I don't think he understands what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (5 May 2012):
Any guy that makes you feel uncomforable is the wrong guy even if he says he loves you. Tell him this and say goodbye. You will botj benefit.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 May 2012):
 Have you said to him “what part of NO don’t you understand?”?
Have you asked him what he does not understand???
Do you tease him with SOME sexual activity but draw the line at intercourse?
If he refuses to respect your wishes you need to end the relationship. NOT what you want to hear but why do you want to be with a boy that does not respect you?
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (4 May 2012):
 sounds like he is out for one thing, and after he gets it from you he may " more than likely will dump you " and be off to the next girl.
you can do better than him. don't give in to him, and don't give yourself any regrets to look back on.
a guy like this will tell you what you want to hear, but he is only interested in his self.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): My granddaughter was in that situation, she kept meeting guys that didn't want to understand she wasn't ready for sex so she broke off the relationships. When she got married at 26 yrs old two years ago she was a virgin and her fiance was a virgin too and they still love each other, dump him and find yourself a virgin boyfriend, they're out there. He just want to have sex with you because he knows you're a virgin, once he get your cookie he might leave, if sex is all he has to talk about then he's not the one for you.
I admire you very much and I know your parents are very proud of you so do not let any boyfriend push you into something you're not read for. You're headed in the right direction.
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): He's not interested in you he just wants someone to give him sex. Dump him already
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 May 2012):
 Alas, change boyfriend, I think. If you already told him you are not ready and he does not respect that, and if he can't talk to you about anything else than sex, and if you feel he's with you just in the hope to use you sexually... well, don't let him use you, that's all.
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