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Archived questions from: 2 July, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

He's very shy, how do I get his attention or make him like me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - ok so i like this guy im not much of a player or too much of a flurt, but anywayz i like this guy hez a sorta shy guy and idk if he even likes me anymore and i wanna ask him out later later or him ask me out he alwayz looks at me at church so tht ...

He has completely changed, what should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

2 July 2011 (M) - My story is huge but please, please read it I need help so much!! Im a gay male 19. I met my ex at the most unlikely time, I wasn't looking for anything and didn't really want it. I didn't have a physical attraction to begin with. Im...

My fiancee left me, no contact since, do I try to reach out to her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (M) - My fiancé of 2.5 years broke up with me two months ago. I haven't spoken to her since. She's told me to forget her number and to move on but I really love her and we were just about to move in together. I think her responsevwas out of anger so I ...

I still love him, but should I move on??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - Hi there, I was with my boyfriend for 5 months, he was my first proper love and the guy i lost my virginity too and we were head over heels in love however, towards the end we argued all the time and due to his confusion on whether he'd want a f...

His ex-girlfriend sends me messages, should I ignore her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - i havent been with my boyfriend for long but i received messages from his ex saying they were still together, he told me shes obsessive and he would never do that to me. i totally trust him but its still in my mind. what do i do? i dont want to push ...

Does playing hard to get work and how can you do it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - hi all can someone please answer this question does a woman playing hard to get with a man she really likes work and how should i go about it? thanks ...

Why do people smoke and drink?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - Why do people smoke and drink and enjoy it? I know this sounds stuck up, but I honestly cannot understand how people can not only enjoy but also become addicted to this nasty-smelling, nasty-tasting, just plain foul stuff... I have been sh**-faced ...

How can I make my life better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - My problem is that i have had so many bad experiences with people, especially men, that i am finding it hard to trust people, and i don't want to socialise that much. I also suffer from depression and get panic attacks sometimes, and don't have much ...

Is it ok to carry on liking somebody even if they are taken?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - If someone (A) likes someone else (B), on an extreme level and for a long amount of time, but B does not openly return their affections and shortly enters into a relationship with another person, C, is morally and/or socially "wrong" for A to ...

Why do people judge other people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - I'm so mad. Why does the human race have to judge everyone and everything? Who cares if someone is gay or straight? Who cares if someone has a few extra pounds? Who cares if they're poor or rich? If their house got foreclosed? Who cares if the like ...

Not knowing if she likes me or not is breaking me up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (M) - About 3-4 months ago my college started to employ these teaching assistants who were to help with our studies and coursework that students were finding difficult and I was allocated to one myself about 2 months ago. When I first saw her I didnt pa...

Now I have met with the ex what should be my next steps?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - The meeting we had planned last sunday happened last night... he came round to my house and i made us something to eat. I was pretty nervous about the meeting but as soon as he arrived i realised i had no reason to be nervous. We had a really nice ...

How would we know that we are sexually compatible with our partner???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - How would we know that we are sexually compatible with our partner??? ...

How can I let the anger I feel towards my cheating ex go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - I'm trying to get over my anger towards my (now) ex, but i can't seem to. i'm so infuriated at what she did to me. The other day we had plans. She cancelled saying she had to go to bed early because she had to get up early. Something felt wrong, s...

Should I lose my virginity if I am ready and if it is starting to make me insecure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

2 July 2011 (M) - I am not asking this question about losing my virginity for the sake of being ''cool'' and ''popular'' becuase I am honestly an older guy who is far beyond that mindset. I am only considering losing my virginity for my own sanity and not for ...

Why can't my husband handle his money? what could be causing these problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - Hi people, my husband and I have been married for 4 years now and I can't seem to understand him financially. I go to work and so does he. We have split house responsibilities and I always take care of my part. Thing is he asks me for money which ...

Is my girlfriend crossing the line with her guy friends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

2 July 2011 (M) - I realize many people have this similar problem with a girlfriend having several guy friends, and I believe each answer is based on circumstance so that is why I'm asking about my personal situation. For the record, I've dated people in the pa...