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Big Questions: Help and advice

Why am I so upset my ex got married to someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - i probably sound really silly writing this but im really upset that my ex fiance has got married to somebody else. im upset because i dont understand why im upset after all when we were together we had a house which i left to him after our bad sp...

Is reading this book responsible for the good changes in my life? Or is it coincidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, i just have a question today. No problems thank God :) Basically i have been reading this book called the secret (by rhonda byrne) for the past year. I read relevant chapters when im feeling a bit down. It helps me to have a positive ...

Why is life such a cruel thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - i know this isnt my relationsip or anything! but i just cant help but worry, im only 17, i found out about 6 weeks ago that i was pregnant, and im now just 9 weeks gone, we was stupid, we made a mitake, not the best thing at this age, but me and my ...

I need a date for the wedding fast!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - Hi! Need a bit of advice please guys and galls, Been invited to a mates wedding at work but the invite is for mke plus partner im single have been for 2 months. I really wanna go to the wedding but cant let my mate down I need to find a date ...

Stages of getting over a break-up, can you tell what stage I am now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - I am still not completely over my ex. I know it will take time but when will that be? I can't wait for the day that he becomes a name I would just remember and the feelings like it was a part of a dream I had before. Right now, I can say I am don...

Is there something wrong with only wanting to have one sexual partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says that I have "twisted view" whatver that means. He and I been together for almost 2 years now and he took my virginity. According to him he wants to have sex with other people now because he is too used to me. He is 19 years old. He ...

How do you get through to someone that would rather yell than discuss

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I know that most people have a tumultuous relationship with their mothers while going through their teen years - I did, and I still do. I haven't had a bad life by any means and for the most part my family is pretty functional and normal (certain...

Is sending jokes with sexual innuendo to other females a sign of something more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Do you think that sending jokes with sexual innuendo by email or text to another woman is a sign that my husband is having an affair? One of the text jokes he had already sent to me and I said how funny it was then caught him out forwarding it to ...

Who has more to deal with? The cheater or the cheated on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts, I know this is a very broad question but through your experiences do you think it's the person who's been cheated on or the one who's done the cheating that has more to come to terms with? My husband had a flirtation (which I believe...

Can it work to have a relationship with a professional escort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - Since February 2009, I have been dating an escort from a Western European country. She and I have seen each other 9 times for up to one week at a time and sometimes for as little as 2 days at a time. She has been very open in telling me she loves ...

Would getting away from everything be a good move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I was with someone for over 5 yrs. Almost 2 weeks ago we split as per usual. Think our record has been 2 weeks without breaking up. Always the same thing cropping up again and again. Lets just say some would call it cheating. Last week i realised i ...

Would it be proper to ask a guy to hang out at your house on a first get together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - i am thinking of asking the guy i like out and i think he will say yes as i know he likes me as well. i was thinking that we could hang out at my house as i know neither of us has a lot of money. is this okay to do for a first date or would it be ...

Do some guys prefer drugs over girls, as in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for several months and he still wouldnt say we were in a relationship and kept asking for sex. I didnt do him any "favors" and one day, I got really fed up with all of it and left. The thing that I dont understand is that he has so ...

He seemed interested after I initiated the moves, now he has backed off, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So, i started seeing thia guy i work with. we went on a couple dates, all three of which i had to ask for, but he was more than willing to comply. then there were a few nights of just hanging out (again, i initiated, but there really wasnt any ...

How do I get to know him without being too obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - There's a guy I'd be very interested in getting to know more. He's a friend of a friend of mine and seems a lot more mature than most guys my age (normally I have to go for guys at least 10 years older than me to get this kind of maturity). The ...

This guy likes me, I have not dated, how will I know if I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - i know this guy who likes me, but i'm not sure if i like him the same way or not yet, as i have never had any experience with dating as i have always focused on school and spending time with my family. how will i know if i feel the same way about ...

Why do people judge other people because of their size?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - i know this isnt relationship... but what exactly is wrong with 'fat' people? people slag them off, call them names, pick on them, bully them, talk about them! i dont get what the difference between a fat person and a thin person is? is it not the ...