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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Her mom died and now she wont make love

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - My wife's mom died a month ago and she didn't want to anything sexual, she wouldn't even let me see her naked. Anyway one night I was really horny.and my wife was washing dishes. Well I went behind her and grabbed her breasts (she usually hates me ...

I feel so lonely, I want to have more confidence and friends, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - hi i need help. i feel so lonely all the time ive just come out of a very bad relationship and my self esteem is zilch-to be honest ive never had much im always so hard on myself , negative critical. i have only 1 good friend-that sounds terrib...

Does everyone read their SO's emails?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - I wonder what everyone's opinion is regarding their signifigant other's email? Reading the questions here, too often I see questions asked prefaced by the person saying they read their SO's emails (or messages on myspace or facebook). Am I...

Need ideas for a night in that don't involve cooking or the bathtub!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - having problems with my partener and want to have a romantic nite in she does not like eating so cooking a meal is out and dont have bath in washroom any idea's would be great...

I feel trapped in this relationship - it's becoming abusive but I'm stuck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We have just recently moved out of town and are living together for the first time. About a year and a half ago i was raped by someone who was a coworker and someone who i thought was a friend. ...

I like guys who look more feminine. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Is it normal for a girl like me to be attracted to androgynous guys? (Like Johnny Depp or David Bowie) I'm 100% straight, but I just have this fetish for guys that are kind of feminine. Is that normal for a woman?...

Do you know what love is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hi this isn't really a help question more i want peoples opinions on what they think the definition of love is? my definition is someone you love and care for is always there for no matter the circumstances someone you can never stop thinking ab...

Teaching is my greatest love but I'm scared Ill screw up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hi I realize this is not the time to be complaining about having a job. I'm extremely grateful that I was just offered a position for September. I am just out of college and the job is as a teacher, what I trained to do. The problem is almost every ...

Is changing your appearance a good way to get over someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i spilt up a few days ago, we havent really dicussed it, i just said it was over and that was that, i dont really want to go into details about it, but i had good reasons for it though. i don't want to ever go back, but i have long ...

Ex boyfriend is charging me with vandalism!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Long story short, my bf cheated on me. i didnt know how to deal with this, ive been upset for the last two weeks so in a drunken rage i took red spray paint to his door (he has a door that leads outside) and painted CHEATER on it really big it felt ...