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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I've had mensrual cramps in my thighs, is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I have sort of a strange question I guess. Ever since I've had my period (I'm 21 years old, so I've had it for about 8 years) I've had the mensrual cramps in my thighs instead of my abdomen. Is that normal? Does anyone else have...

What sort of confidence do women like in men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 741 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I heard somewhere that one of or the main thing women like about men is confidence. What sort of confidence? And i know I'm not talking about believing in yourself....

I just can't believe how stupid I have been

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 741 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I am very unhappy with my partner. Quick rundown: We got together when I was 15, he was 18. We had a baby a year later and now live together. He has no job and I know he cheating on me with numerous people. I know I've been stupid and I want to get ...

He told me that he was going to kill himself, should I tell his mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I am feeling very helpless at the moment.My boyfriend of one year finished the relationship, saying that things werent working and he wasnt happy with the relationship, but at this moment i am not concerened about that.The night he finished it, we ...

I've fallen for a women who I work with, problem is she's already in a relationship and only sees me as a friend. Where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I've fallen for a women who I work with, problem is she's already in a realtionship and only sees me as a friend. In the last couple of days she ended her relationship and I was planning in the next week or 2 once she'd got over it, to tell her ...

Can someone really change the way they view sex ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Do people change? My boyfriend has lead a promiscuous past and I can't seem to get over it. He says he loves me and wants to marry me, and I believe him, but isn't it just a change of circumstances? In other words, if he weren't in love, wouldn't he ...

I would like to improve my self esteem, any help please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - dear cupid i am a 16 year old boy and i need help i would like to know if its possible to build my self-esteem as i am not confident in life and especially when talking to the girls i alwayz turn red and have had some critisim from girlz abo...

My bf is off to Oz, for 2 montsh he wants to break up, as doesnt feel we will last, I dont and want to try!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 733 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is goin to Australia for 2 months on friday week and thinks it would be better if we broke up as it would be too hard on us to try and continue our relationship with the distance between us. I don't want do that and would be willig to ...

My boyfriend is away, how can I keep our relationship alive whilst hes away ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - hi everyone Im feeling a bit sad and emotional at the moment as my boyfriend is away for a month with work To keep in contact we mainly text and I need some advice/tips on how to keep going on this. It seems like I send the same texts daily...

My recent thoughts of other guys are confusing me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - i am happily married with two young kids. i love my wife but recently i have been dreaming of masturbating another man? i know im not gay im very confused by this can you help please!!!...

What sort of questions should I be asking him if we are to plan our future together ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I have met a wonderful man and I think he is going to ask me to marry him soon. I want to be sure I have asked him all the best questions so I know him as well as possible since I may be spending the rest of my life with him. What questions should I ...

It was a no strings sex encounter, the fact I slept with someone doesnt make me a cheat right ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Before my boyfriend and I actually got together,we basically started with screwing each other.We both barely knew each other and so forth. From what i had assumed we were just messing. I slept with him and slept over his place 2 nights in a row ...

I went off sex after having children, did it to keep him happy! 13 years later we dont have sex how can I stay with him when it appears he hates me because of this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - basically i have been with my partner for 20 yrs we have 2 children. our relationship had always been difficult but after having my 1st baby i went off sex and after about 6 weeks he started to demand it and he would get so very cross and grumpy for ...

How can I become less sensitive ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - Is being a sensitive man a bad thing? I am sensitive to other peoples feelings and to my own, it's not over the top, and not very obvious until you get to know me well, but how can I become less sensitive? Thank you....

Shes my friend but her ex now wants to go out with me, this would upset her so what should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 736 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - My friend has recently finished with her boyfriend and he now wants to go out with me. I feel this would upset my girlfriend. What should I do?...

Are these other symptoms still signs of thrush or something else ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I've had reoccuring thrush since i became sexually active about 3 months ago. I knew it was thrush at first because all the symptoms were there and it smelt yeasty, but sometimes i get it and it doesn't smell and it's lumpier and there's more of it. ...

My bf says I just lie there during sex, what can I do to improve this ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 740 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - My bf claims i don't 'do much' during sex except lie there and make approving noises. Neither of us particularly enjoy having me on top. What exactly can i do when he's on top. Am i actually meant to be doing some of the 'thrusting' and if so do i ...

He said before we moved in together that I would despise his smoking, I said I would be okay with it.. Thing is im not and I want to bring it up but dont know how to!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I was led to believe by my boyfriend that he didn't smoke. It turned out that he was a very heavy smoker, was trying to quit because he knew I wouldn't like it, and was avoiding or hiding it when I was around. By the time I found out his attempts...

I would like to offer some help with his cocaine addiction, but he wont answer my calls, why doesnt he want to know me now ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I have a strange tale and a question that I wish could be answered. I met a young man at work who first pursued me with friendship and flirting. Within the two months that we saw each other about every day we developed a strong attachment, and ...

My bf recently became possesive to the point of following me around everywhere, is this normal ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - i've been going out with this guy for 3 years,he has recently become possessive and is following me almost everywhere,he even knows my passwords!!!is this normal??...

Im waiting for he current relationship not to work, so I can get back with her!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I'm trying to work my way back in with my ex, will it work? Please read my last post first: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-and-want-to-marry-this-woman.html Well, as I mentioned, we have been talking a lot lately, mostly me contac...

Why do I feel that white women are more beautiful than black women like me? Do I need professional help?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - i am a single black woman and i have issues with beautiful women. my self image was destroyed a while back and now when i see that black women are not as beautiful as white women so basically what im saying is what could be wrong with me or do i ...

No matter what I do, my mum is never proud of me, would it be a good idea to move out and be totally independent ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 743 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - is it possible for an 18 year old who is not planning to go to college for a year or so to just bartend and move out of their parent's house and be TOTALLY independent??? My house is hell for me and I really want to move out ASAP. I am planning to ...

Is it a good sign or a bad sign that my ex finally answered the phone and spoke to me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 741 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I posted a note on here a week ago about my bf/ex bf being so distant. He has been ignoring all my texts/phone calls for about a month now besides 2 texts he sent that were basically telling me he'd call me when he wanted to get back w/me and that I ...

He asked me my ring size, does this mean he wants to marry me ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I'm just wondering..if your boyfriend asks you what your ring size is..does it mean he's going to propose? We've been together for 5 months now but we are very serious about eachother, and yesterday he asked me my ring size. I'm just wondering if ...