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Leave baggage secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - When I was younger, I didn't take dating so seriously so my subject was never a problem back then. Now that I'm a little older, I've been more interested in finding the right woman to settle down with. I've had a few different relationships with women in the last few year... (454 words

I am not sure what to do now… any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Background: I work full time and take online class part time for my certification. My gf is a full time graduate student. Today: Unfortunately it’s me again. While I was at work, my gf called me to say “hi” after she had gotten off school. It was a very sweet gesture, but her... (718 words

Did he just want to sleep with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about a month and last weekend, we got together. Eveything seemed be going all fine. but since last friday I havent heard from him. I texted him and he txted me like a day later and then when I texted him back...I haven't heard from him for few ... (87 words

Confusing signals - does she like me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - This girl at my school kissed me,slapped, and told me she loved me all in one day. Does she like me or not?... (23 words

All work and no play leaves no time for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - why do men like work too much and have their family to spend time with, im so tried of my boy friend working 5 days a week, going work early in the morning and coming back 1 am in the morning are sometime 2 am and all he do when hes off for the two day is sleep why?... (59 words

Do all bi couples swallow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age - my question is do all bi couples swallow cum or do they spit it out and if you don't swallow it why do you have oral sex to begin with just to get it hard. shame what a wonderful taste... (40 words

How do I find out in a subtle way what my chances are with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone I would like to use this platform to get as many different ideas and suggestions from as many different people on this as possible since I have no clue what to do next. I am a bisexual woman in my mid twenties and I am in love with a woman friend. We have kno... (311 words

Should I phone her and explain myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - PLEASE REPLY SOON! Well I went to a party back in May, and started to talk to this girl that I had briefly met before, and we sort of acted as if we were going out(SHE kissed ME etc), but neither of us asked eachother out, and I left the party and then nothing else happened for ... (274 words

She doesn't know but I overheard my g/f crying about her ex boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (? age 22-25 - I've been dating a really awesome girl for about 6 months. It's all really good and I like her a lot. The thing is, the other day, I went over to her house, and I guess she forgot that I was coming over and I overheard her with her best friend. She was crying and sobbing over ... (101 words

I want my girl back!! I'm shattered

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I am 22 years old and was in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 2 years roughly. we both loved each other like crazy. I would literally spend at least 12-13 hours of the day with her. We are both university students and go to the same universit... (977 words

All 3 pregnancy tests came back positive, how do I tell my best friend he's the father

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Me and my best friend are both 14, and basically a couple of weeks ago we kind of just gave into each other. We have kinda liked each other for years just never done anything about it. He took my virginity and I took his, but the condom broke. I took a test 3 times and it came ... (94 words

Why do I think about a boy who makes me cry? I have a boyfriend already!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm so confused =[ I have the greatest boyfriend in the world! He loves me with all his heart and I love him too. He's very caring, super understand and always ALWAYS there for me. Only problem is he doesn't live here. He recently moved away, we've been together for 14 ... (233 words

Should my Brother-in-law have helped me dress?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 24, and my sister's husband took me to a hospital for a minor procedure that involved anesthesia. When I was done, he came in to see me. The nurse came in and said I could go, but needed to get dressed. She assumed he was my husband, and would help me. He offered to ... (199 words

11 years older married man wants to have sex, is he just going to use me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I'm in a relationship but I have a frienship with an older man 11 yrs my senior anyhow he's married. It all started out as a friendship that developed into a much more intimate one, but the thing is he says he wants to bring it to the next level and wants for us to have ... (86 words

He says he cannot trust me. How can I show him that I am there for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - Some may be familiar with my situation, some may not. Long story short, was with my ex and we broke up said I nagged and complained. He got another girlfriend then he and I came back together. We are communicating again and both still care for each other, he has not given ... (281 words

Think my husband is having gay encounters

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Help! I recently discovered an email account I did nopt know about which led to Craigs lists postings I did not know about. Long story short, my husband of 18 years had communications with other men over a period of 4 months while travelling. He posted himself, "looking for ... (237 words

Ex teacher - does he want a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - well, my ex-teacher is about 20 years older than me... we always had a good relationship, ever since my dad died he has been there for me. he had a reputation of being a 'pervert', but he's not one of those creeps because he's really handsome (he looks something like Ronnie ... (241 words

How can I make people like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (? age 22-25 - Hi everyone...i need your help... Please... I want to be loved by my friends... What should i do? I be on my best behavior... All my best friends come and go...then they become my enemies Im very very depressed... I behave really nicely...all the close friends i had all r... (103 words

I find myself in love with my wife's sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 36-40 - suddenlly i feel that i love my wife's sister who is already married and has 2 pretty girls, i do not know how come, but that feeling really squeezing my heart, i do not want any sexuality cz really i do love her, and if i have sexual feeling i will keep it till meet her in ... (128 words

How to act? Nothing I do is right around my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - My partner is in a lot of debt. Serious debt. He is close to losing his home, his car etc and is in a very bad place now mentally and emotionally. He is distant and is very snappy with me sometimes and he can become withdrawn. We have also had some problems in the relations... (157 words

How do I get to be drop dead sexy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - How does a guy create the underlying feeling that he is sexy/attractive to women? By underlying, I mean the type of feeling that comes before thought. The type of feeling you have automatically whenever you perceive something, but haven't made a thought about it yet. It's just ... (65 words

Sex during a women's period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2753 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have a question, for both male and females, the question for female is when you on your period would u want to please your boyfriend if he wanted sex and for males will you pressure your girlfriend to please you when she on her period ... (46 words

How do I make her stop being distant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am in some sort of a predicament. My ex gf who just found out she is pregnant dumped me 2 days ago and she wont give me a reason. she seems more distant but still calls daily. sometimes she still says she loves me. is it the hormones from the pregnancy? the reason she ... (114 words

So I tried to call my ex last night

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well she block me from calling her so I have not tryed to call her out for like 3 weeks because she has blocked me from calling her. So last night I called her not thinking it would but it did in it was calling her. So I hanged up the phone then called her *67 because I wanted ... (297 words

Is masturbating just like having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - i always press on my virginia tell i orgasm and it's feel cool but the thing is that i want to stay a virgin tell my wedding night and i think that this is like having sex ,i just cant stop it am still a young teen what can i do?? ... (51 words

OMG! I forgot how to date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 36-40 - OMG! I forgot how to date Ok so I lost a good relationship. Now I want to start meeting guys. The thing is I think I forgot how to date. It scares me I a always looking at myself trying to see is this what guys like (hairstyles, certain attire, ect.) I have not been out in ... (136 words

Should you be with someone who doesn't love you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm on/off with my ex at the moment, i won't go into details. We have been together for about a year (although not at the moment), but as I am away at university the relationship is a bit strained as we didnt get a chance to see eachother that often. Recently i told him i loved ... (256 words

He wants to move and doesn't want kids and we can't agree on these things!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - PLEASE help me! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now. He is 36 and I'm almost 28. He has two children from a previous marriage, and I've never been married although I have been in serious relationships before. He and I get along incredibly! We love each other ... (418 words

It hurts when he says he just wants to be with his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age - Dear Cupid, I am a widow and have started a new relationship with this gentalmen that persued me for about a month before I finally gave in. He acts like he really really cares about me. He is generous ,kind, attentive, calls almost everynight, hold my han even in public k... (124 words

My friend lied about how far she went with her boyfriend, should I talk to her about it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi. I found out recently that my friend lied about how far she'd been with her ex-boyfriend. We were at a sleepover and she told all of us that he'd fingered her and she'd given him a blow job. Im friends with her ex-boyfriend and i had a feeling she'd lied about it so I asked ... (101 words

I'm a 16 year old virgin and freaking out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey everyone. So this is a bit of an embaressing question, but hopefully you can give me some advice. I've just turned 16 and im still a virgin, but I'm really worried about having sex for the first time. I'm seeing this really lovely guy at the moment and I really want to have ... (106 words

Does anyone wait till marriage to have sex?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I know that in our culture, sex is made into a large part of life, from what we see in movies, to what hear in music, there's no getting past it! so my question is, does anyone wait until marriage anymore? I firmlybelieve that waiting is the best option. does anyone else?... (52 words

Dad thinks he's a lackluster boyfriend because he dosen't put me on a pedestal. Is he?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello all. I've been with my guy almost 2 years, and things have been pretty smooth. No arguments, though some disagreements. He's my 1st guy, I'm his 4th girl. "Jack" is a nice guy to everyone he meets. Guys or girls, he would give them the shirt off his back if they nee... (454 words

We hooked up and he's told all of our friends about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I started seeing this guy. When we got to the point where we hooked up, it was fun. So afterward, that's when things got complicated. It seems like thats all he wants from me now. I mean, he does make an attempt to be normal, but then he starts wanting sex again. I feel so ... (103 words

I am confused about this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 18-21 - well am 14 and there is this girl i really like, i have known her for almost 3 years now and nevered really talked to her because am shy well one day i went to my friends place and was like playing ... (723 words

I do love him and don't want to leave, but I cant put up with this anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my common law boyfriend for 2.5 yrs, we have a 15 mos old daughter who I stay at home with while he works. I feel lately he has been talking down to me and criticizing me for everything I do. It's like his way is the only way. I have been feeling worthles... (359 words

If we don't work out I'm not sure if I want to be part of our child's life because of how much hurt she has caused me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - Ok here goes!!!!!!!! My fiance and I are expecting a child in June 2011 (its her first). We are now separated and she does not know what she wants with us. She has said she wants space for 2 weeks and we are not over but there's things she can not stand about me and thinks that ... (200 words

My fiance has sexual dreams about other women - is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - my fiance has continuous sexual dreams of other women while he's sleeping and he wakes calling out their names. is this in any way normal?... (27 words

He seeks out young women online to sexually entertain him, compared to them I feel like I am not good enough

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age - My husband is 49 and I am 53. We have been married for 13 years. He watches and masturbates to young women around 21-23 years of age, stripping and masturbating on line. I take good care of myself and have a good figure but now feel like I am not good enough. I know he has ... (149 words

He wont tell his ex I exist but its ok for her to be spending my money....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Im in a relationship of 3 years. My b/f is great in many ways but there is this one big problem. He wont tell his ex that I exist and I dont know what to do anymore. He has two children by this woman, money is very tight at the moment and I know he feels very guilty that he ... (308 words

I want to move on from her but I cant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2753 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - dear cupids, my girlfriend of 7 months dumped me on monday - she claims she cant deal with it at the moment but there has been numerous of mixed feelings from her since like caring, trusting, bitchy and not interested. i would like to move on but i cant:/. she has cried o... (111 words

How should I confess my love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I've gotten over a girl I liked. But that's because I'm now onto this other girl. Now I want to tell her I'm crushing on her, but it's a different situation this time. I met her in a camp. We've been keeping in touch, but just because we were planning an activity for a group, s... (178 words

He only wants sex, but I want to be friends!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Dear all I am a 26 bi male and I haven’t been in any relation with a guy for many reasons. Anyway, lately I met a 33 years old guy online. We didn’t talked too much and he asked me to get naked on cam (I felt strange from his question but I did it after he did it first). ... (180 words

Engaged when I was 14 to a 22 year old guy because that was what my parents wanted, but I know I don't want to marry him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2747 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My family is very traditional and I try to obey my parents as much as possible. When i was 14 years old they took me back to my country and got me engaged to a guy who is 22 years old. Of course i said no but that really upset my parents so I agreed and said yes or else ... (796 words

I feel like I am doomed forever because I am a divorcee, which means in my culture I will never marry again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I love my bf to bits even though he said he is not going to marry me at all. I am an divorcee and elder to him by 3 years. I know that he uses me sometimes. I have tried so hard to leave him, but i couldnt do so. My first marriage was a big disaster, i tried to make the marr... (218 words

My ex is such a player, but for some reason I still feel sorry for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - My ex is a player,just recently he has been in contact with me,i told him i could only be his friend,i went round his house for a coffee,and he didnt respect my wishes and tried it on,im really glad i didnt give in to him,while i was there,a lady phone from some insurance ... (155 words

I don't feel secure in my current relationship and can't stop thinking about my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - I had an amazing long term relationship a few years ago that ended mostly because of money issues... I still think about this ex and miss him terribly. Our breakup shocked our friends and family but I needed to leave because I feel like lost myself as a person relying on my ... (231 words

Is "true love" just a myth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Is true love exist? Is it really stupid to believe that one day we'll find our true love or soul mate? What if we find soul mate but the other person (soul mate) doesnt acknowledge it? Thanks in advance for your answers... (50 words

I think I might have caused my g/f to go to the hospital because I accused her of cheating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Dear cupid I’m with my gf 1year and 4 months. We love each over and leaved this summer together. Now we have a long distance relationship, but yesterday I found out this. She has another Skype account, and I entered it via her e-mail, so then a long conversation appeared with a ... (439 words

I can't find a way to forget about her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - Ok well my girlfriend of about 3 years left me for another guy. Ive been feeling really crappy even after i do other things to keep me busy. What gets to me the most is that i kept talking to her after she left because i was not over her and she said she still had really strong ... (418 words

Her ex and my trust issues are ruining our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am in a relationship and I have posted other questions but things are getting worse. Basically this is the deal: We are engaged...not sure bout that now. We have been living together for 3yrs. She has a 8yr old daughter. I have 3 kids-17,15,9. Our sex life declined after my ... (635 words

I don't want to look at her in just a sexual way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - I really love my friend in the college and I had dreams about her.. she has an angel face I hope to marry her and she actually knows about my feelings and seems to be happy about that but my problem is that she has a big sexy boobs... they make me crazy when I look at them and ... (221 words

LDR, when we do see each other he goes so fast during sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, whenever I meet my boyfriend during the week days and we have sex, I don't enjoy it bcos he comes within just 2mins and I don't even get to climax. Though if we make out on weekends I enjoy it and it lasts longer. The problem here is we are on a long distance relationship ... (163 words

I am not sure if I love him anymore but I honestly don't want us to break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - i am 19 years old and i have been in a relationship with my bf over 2 years now. out of that two years we have been in a long distance relationship for 3 months and still going. Since recently i have been thinking a lot if i truely love my bf and its constantly hurt me because ... (453 words

Why am I so paranoid and controlling when he has never given me any reason not to trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my partner have recently got married but i have never hated myself so much in my life! A week or so before we got married he went out with a friend for some drinks which of course i wasn't happy about because i am so jealous and paranoid! Even though i have no reason to ... (321 words

I really like this guy but feel totally out of my depth with his drug & debt problem, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I just dont know what to do. Iv been seeing this guy for a few weeks and we decided to become a couple two weeks ago. His a really nice guy with a great sense of humor, a good job and generally treats me like a princess. He told me he had a bit of a shaded past when ... (278 words

He lied about his age, and now I have found he is registered on Adult Friend Finder! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 months is perfect in every way, apart from when I read the history on his laptop. He has been going online with Adult Friend Finder. He did a search for women seeking men!! He registered!! This was last week when I was out with my friend - I am so hurt!!! ... (302 words

Is staying in touch after the break up wise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have recently split from my boyfriend of almost four months. Things were going well, but like all relationships, there were flaws. However, since the split, we both miss each other and feel that we ended too soon. At the beginning, we decided to remain friends and stay in ... (75 words

She told me she cant date me because she has a boyfriend but I just cant give up on her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - there is a girl i like and i want to date her for a relationship and she keep telling me she has a boyfriend and i can't let her go pls i need ur help... (35 words

Is this pharmacy trying to rip me off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Its been a year since i have noticed that i have got some fungus growing on my skin. at first i did not take it into consideration thinking that it will go away. A relative told me that he too got this sort of problem and it was due to exposure to sunlight and that with ti... (334 words

Is the only option I have to leave this relationship? I just cant cope with his child, his ex and the disappointment that I wont be the first to give him a family...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2652 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - heya. i am very distraught an confused. i have been with my boyfriend for 14 months. he is the type of boy who had slept around.....A LOT! with me he changed an is totally devoted to me, an has never cheated. but about 7 an a half months ago. he went on a social networki... (562 words

Its the drugs or me!

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 20 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and few months. I feel like my boyfriend is choosing drugs over me. I've asked him to stop but every single morning he wakes up and smokes it. He isn't at work atm either so he's just at home all day. We are supposed to ... (125 words

He took me back but he doesn't believe that I am not going to hurt him again, so his behaviour towards me has completely changed. How can I get him to be like he was before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - hello Im in a relationship for 1 and half years. We were madly in love. but i made some mistakes. i did doubling with him and caught by him. but even after that he took me back as i said i wont repeat the mistakes. im not gonna repeat any of the mistakes for sure. the problem ... (151 words

I love a woman 11 years older than me

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5 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hello. I am 18 years old. For several months, I had a Japanese woman stay at my house when she visited the united states. She is 11 years older than I am. She is very sweet and cute. We enjoy long talks and find that we have many things in common such as taste in movies, ... (250 words

I'm in love with both of them, why cant we just have a 3-way relationship!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am new to this site so please don't laugh at what I am about to say. Almost 8yrs ago I met and got involved with a woman who is 10yrs older than me. Everything was going well until like the fool I am I cheated on her with a woman 8yrs older than me. She caught me and ... (207 words

Is he just being nice or is he interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I started a new job about 2 months ago and I'm starting to think my co-worker may have a crush. The other morning we had to drop something off in the mall and on our way back to the store he wanted to get coffee. He seemed to be standing close to me the whole time and while we ... (158 words

I've lost interest in sex! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2757 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey, i got a little problem, im having trouble with my sex life, it seems as if i lost interest, can you please help me!... (25 words

Is this flirting? And if it is, how should I respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi i am 14yrs old i am NOT new to dating, just new to flirting. saying last time i had many BFs and i wasn't very confident ..now i am but am still kinda shy well theres a boy at school who likes me, he is 15yrs old and is my B.F.F's brother.. well he thinks me and one of my... (203 words

He never allows any foreplay and then falls asleep straight after sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a couple of years and nothing has changed as far as our sex lives go. He has a very high sex drive and is very demanding when he wants it and any time of the day or night will do. That is not the problem. When we engage i... (123 words

I feel bad for receiving oral and never giving it back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

5 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend is always asking for oral... politely, and she respects it when I decline, but I feel bad for receiving and not giving back, its just I'm inexperienced.... can anyone help me out? ... (35 words

How do I choose between the guy that has always been there and the guy that gives me butterflies?

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - how do i choose between the guy who has always be there for me and the guy that give me butterflies? they are both so great in each way and i have dated both of them and they each bring something great to the table and i love them both so much ... what to do i am so scared and ... (71 words

4 days of not eating - what should I try and eat that I will be able to stomach?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been ill for a number of days now, I have been to my doctors twice and also to the hospital. They have all sent me home. They did various tests on me and found nothing at all is wrong, that I just need rest. I had been throwing up quite a lot for the first day. Now s... (239 words

We had a first date set up but then he got injured, when should I ask him out again?

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have this friend i kind of like... hes my friends friend and he likes me too and we had a(first) date set up. Unfortunately, he got his shoulder badly injured and had to have surgery. Should I wait until he's recovered completely and ask him out or just do it sooner?... (52 words

We have agreed to meet up soon, but what is bothering me is I do not know his name nor have his number!

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5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Hope someone can help me out with this one or advise me at least..... For two years I have been talking to this guy online we are both the same age mid twenties and have everything in common. We met through a chatroom and talked to the same people there and we both go... (298 words

He already has a girlfriend - what is your opinion of me if I stay in this relationship?

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - He says I'm all these great things, but I feel like I'm not good enough. Its definitely not a self esteem issue, its because he has a girlfriend, but he's having his cake and eating it too. And I'm allowing it. I think I've fallen in love with this guy. I try to tell him how ... (354 words

Difficult situation with my long distance girl, any suggestions?

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5 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am in a peculiar situation right now. I am a member of an online community and I have been for a few years. It's basically just a nerdy place for humor/discussion, just a couple hundred members, we post our pictures, no big deal. Well anyway I saw this beautiful girl on there ... (1594 words

Do you think he left because he cant handle the pressure of having more children?

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5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello me and my boyfriend have been together since i was 12 it started out as just puppy love but blossomed in to the real thing. all of a sudden he ups and leave me without any warning and yet i still love him. it's been 2 months since he left i still see him because we have 2 ... (97 words

He said to his ex he "needs to get out of this place" referring to living with me! What should I do?

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5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was being nosy on my boyfriends phone and found one between an ex gf he had a very long time ago...she asked if he was still living with that chick (me) his response was "yes unfortunately I gotta get out of this place i ain't get much younger" i confronted him and he said he ... (92 words

I'm losing patience. Should I contact him again and ask him was he serious?

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been seeing this guy Matt for over 6 weeks. He goes to college far away Monday to Friday so he only comes home on the weekends. He used to text me during the week and meet up on the weekends. He has introduced me to all his friends and his sister. I have socialised with ... (180 words

How do I become more than your "nice guy" ?

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5 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - I will be 25 within the next couple months and have never had a girlfriend. I've kissed two girls and by some miracle lost my virginity a few years back, so I've had sex a total of one time in my life. I don't really go around broadcasting this information to everybody, but in ... (645 words

I don't want to choose sides and I don't want to lose anyone as a friend.How do I handle this?

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5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I have a pretty tight group of friends its about eight of us and one of my friends has had this crush on one of our other friends for a while but he doesnt have feelings for her in that way and thinks of her as just a friend. So just this week he confessed to my other friend ... (171 words

He calls me 'babe' and 'doll', do you think he likes me?

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5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay, so theres this guy in my drama club. we'll joke around and stuff and we're good friends. Lately, I've been catching him staring at me, and when we talk, he calls me 'babe' and 'doll' But i dont know if he likes me or not.... ... (46 words

Why did my best female friend stop talking to me?

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5 November 2010 (M age 36-40 - To start off I became really close with a female friend of mine and yes I really liked her but she had a boyfriends so I never told her how I felt because I didn't want to mess her relationship up with him even though he was horrible to her. She would break up with him almost ... (566 words

Why does my girlfriend not trust me?

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5 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I like this girl but I can’t seem to get to really know her. I have been with this girl for 5 months and getting any kind of personal information is like the most impossible thing I have ever done in my whole life. I just feel like I’ve told her everything about me but I know ... (253 words

How do I know that she isn't just using me to get what she wants and then just cut me out once she's done?

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5 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I met this girl in my biology class last year and we really seemed to get along. The only thing is that she always asked if she could copy my hw and, being the nice person that i am, i let her. and now a yr later she's in my chem class and she's doing the same thing. how do i ... (84 words

He's never jealous, does he truly love me?

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My bf and I are a couple for over a year now and everything's just perfect so far. But I hate it when he's hanging out with girls friends or I simply get EXTREMELY jealous when he's paying attention to some hot sexy legs. That are not mine, of course. It's not that I'm ugly or ... (194 words

How can I spice up my sex life?

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5 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - What can I do to get my wife more intrested in sex? we have sex like a scheduled event and would like to spice things up sometimes... (27 words

I care about him so much but I don't understand why he is treating me like this.

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I fighter a lot but in the end it seems we always make up. About a month ago he "kind of" cheated on me. Kind of like cyber cheating with like at least 10 different girls. He came clean and i forgave him. He said he cares about me and won't do it again ... (165 words

My boyfriend of five years kissed another girl. What do I do now?

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, yesterday I learned that my boyfriend of five years kissed another girl. He was at this baseball party(he plays) and the softball team was there and one girl was drunk and kissed him. But the next night it happened again. When he told me I flipped out but he sounded ... (153 words

He dedicated the song "I'm a joker" by the Steve Miller Band to me, what does this mean?

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5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - What does it mean when your ex fiance dedicates "I'm a joker" by Steve Miller Band? It's been 4 months since we broke up. When I asked him if the song was really for me, he said that he was drunk and that I could disregard it if I wanted. Here are the lyrics to the song if y... (372 words

In debt, want to buy a house, I'm 27 and living at home, and feeling like a loser.

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5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I really feel stuck in a financial rut. I want to be able to own a house, be debt free, have a great salary and afford all the things I want...But I am slowly paying off a loan (should be paid off by March 2011), I have just had a career change so am working my way up the ... (86 words

Everyone thinks I am a man when I go out in public

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5 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - For about the past year and a half, when I go out in pulbic people think I am a man. They will say it under their breath as I walk by, "That's a man..." or stare at me for long periods of time, concluding that I am a transvestite. I wear dresses and heels, very feminine... (208 words

I have been having terrible low points , I'll range between venemously angry to bursting into tears for no reason

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5 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - What is up with me?? I am a fairly normal female, great boyfriend, great friends and family, love my job...But my God do I get hormonal these days! I don't know if it's PMT or what, but the past 5 months I have been having terrible low points every month (usually lasts a ... (141 words

Boyfriend's difficult Teenage Daughter

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5 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have a similar situation with my Boyfriends 16 year old daughter! I live with my boyfriend and his daughter....She feels free to come in our bedroom and take something of mine.....Especially if her father purchased it for me. Her comment to him is well U bought that for ... (112 words

Should I Move On?

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5 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - i'm in love with this guy i've know since i was 15, we started dating in September and after a month, he broke up with me because he still had some feelings for his ex who he left 2 months before our relationship because his ex was sleeping with a girl a week after they broke ... (238 words

He's distant, won't look me in the eyes, only gives me one-word answers and doesn't really talk to me.

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Just this weekend I had a text on saturday saying 'down at the pub for a party, miss you loads and love you more than ever xxxxxx' This sort of message isn't uncommon for him, He likes to tell me how much he loves me, we are so close, ... (465 words

Shaving down below, help

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been going to a spa where i get my monthly wax down here but now it ran out of business and i need to know if any of you girls know a tech on shaving down there?... (38 words

Best friends to nothing? What happened!?!

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I can't seem to come to terms with whats happened. The story starts a long way back. me and this guy were friends, we had a rough past but all that is now forgotten. he was such a nice guy, caring, willing to help anyone, never used people etc. I liked him, i was confused by ... (888 words

I'm scared shes only acting close to me because of him. I don't know what to do, but I cant get her out of my mind!

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5 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - I fell in love for the first time with a girl that lived down the street from me, we were together for 3 1/2 years then things fell apart. we didn't talk to each other for almost 6 years, she got a new boy friend, i got a new girl friend, but i never stopped loving her, and ... (263 words

I want to be sexual but I'm scared of sex because I didn't really enjoy it in my last relationship

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5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ugh! I want tu b sexual but I'm scared of sex because I didn really enjoy it in my last relationship..what should I do? What can I do to be sexy? I want to learn how to ride also...any tips?... (40 words

My boyfriend and I are taking a break. But he doesn't stop calling me

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5 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - So... My boyfriend and I are taking a break. But he doesn't stop calling me. HE decided to take a break to think about things. He needs to thinks about what he wants, and get his head sorted out cause he noticed after nine months that this was getting too serious and ... (452 words

Hispanic couple looking for sexy ideas in the bedroom

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5 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi we are a hispanic couple looking for sexy ideas in the bedroom... (13 words

I think her behavior was very disrespectful and self-centered

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5 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Yesterday, I got home from work and drove to go eat dinner with her. During the dinner, she said she had cravings for ice cream afterward. I told her we can go to our usual place and get some. We walked to the car after finishing dinner, and she asked if I really want ice ... (312 words

Would it be weird to ask your boyfriend of a year, to make you have an orgasm?

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5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Would it be weird to ask your boyfriend of a year, to make you have an orgasm?? Or that you would like to have one??... (25 words

I am feeling completely lost. Love, sex, all of it is a maddening mystery to me

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5 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I am feeling completely lost. Love, sex, all of it is a maddening mystery to me. I'm in first year university, I've been here for a little over two months, and, contrary to many of my old hopes and dreams, it feels a lot like high school. I'm still a virgin, I've never had a... (485 words

Now we're married, she won't have sex

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5 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I just got married 3 weeks ago. the woman I married was hypersexual in the past. before we met, she prayed to be delivered from her hypersexual habits. We did not have sex at any time during our engagement. This was a personal choice for both of us. I love her very very much ... (93 words

Smoking making him impotent

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5 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - well ive just got bk with my ex to gave it another try but the only thing that is stopping us having sex is that he cant get hard the doc recons its down to his smoking but he wont gave smoking up any sugestions what we can do please thank u.... (52 words

When it's just us, he's friendly, does he like me?

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5 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - This guy I've liked for a while has been showing signs of liking me back. The other night, for a class field trip, we went downtown to a play. We ended up staying together the entire time, which is atypical. It seems like we always kind of split into our different friend ... (333 words

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