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writes:helloIm in a relationship for 1 and half years. We were madly in love. but i made some mistakes. i did doubling with him and caught by him. but even after that he took me back as i said i wont repeat the mistakes. im not gonna repeat any of the mistakes for sure. the problem is he doesnt believe me that i wont repeat the mistakes and i wont hurt him again. he loves me but doesnt give me time and care like before. he doesnt express his love as he thinks im gonna insult his love again. the silent killing behaviours he's giving me i cant take them anymore. but the fact is i cant live without him and i love him a lot. i was want him to be like before. What should i do to make him attracted towards me like beforeplzzzzz help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): If u betray trust then its unlikely things will ever be the same. If in a situation where you would never be found out,could you trust yourself. If u cheated then what do u expect off him? a medal?
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reader, Dizme  +, writes (5 November 2010):
Ok not sure what doubling is. But gonna take a guess that you cheated? Regardless there was a trust issue that was violated. This is very difficult to overcome in a relationship. The best thing to do is try and do a forgive and forget excercise. Talk to him about it and tell him that in order for this relationsihp to be anything like it was you both need to learn to forgive and forget. Most people can forgive but forgetting is more difficult. Search the internet there are alot of excercises and advice on this. Try some of them with him. Do not hold back anything. In all honesty it may never be like it was but it can be pretty darn close. He also may need alot of time to get over it in order to truly forgive and forget. I hope this helps you and if you need more shoot me an e-mail on here and I will try to help. It does sound like you really want this to work and that is good. But it will require work and honesty. Good luck and I hope it comes out well.
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