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26-29,
*exy.
writes:well am 14 and there is this girl i really like, i have known her for almost 3 years now and nevered really talked to her because am shy well one day i went to my friends place and was like playing with his phone and she sent him pls call me i luv you like 3 times he flashed her and she called him anyway he asked her if she really meant what she said but i didn't hear the rest well, but my friend has a girlfriend anyway. Well i went to school and my friend told his girlfriend he don't like her but he knew i liked the girl so he went to tell her i liked her she said it was a lie but my other friend said its not a lie. Well now am not comfortable that she knows because before she looks at me alot and compliments me anyway am way cute and also tells me she likes my voice but today my friends told her and now she is like i can't be close to her if i go near her she will not be comfortable and want to leave why and also she won't talk to me. But atleast she passes me alot. Does she likes me or whatwell there is this girl sometimes she always say things like your not fine and stuff but sometimes tells me am fine and acts shy why and also she is like and can't like you but sometimes she just keeps quiet and wants to talk to me. alot of girls likes me in my class and when i flirt with one she just comes and wants to talk to me ofcourse she is jealous she is just so complicated one day me and my friends was helping a teacher out with his books eg scheme of work and she just saw me and immediately went there talking to my friend about her dream boy and i said mine and immediately she kept quiet and also i said i can't like someone like and and she felt bad but defended herself. She is just so confusing also she kind of bossed about her brother having 2 abs but when i showned my 8 the class shouted with excitement and she apologized but the next day when i don't talk to her she wants me to feel bad why?Pls tell me thanks
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reader, Sexy. +, writes (25 December 2010):
Sexy. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok the other one was error sorry
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reader, heartbrokenhelper  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 well. first off i can answer proudly YES, she does like you.
saying i myself have been in a situation like your yet i was in her place.
well when your friend told her that you like her. she most likely thought you were embarrassed with her knowing, either that or she would like her to tell her yourself...
nextly she get nervous around you so proving she feels the same that you feel for her.
and to answer your question about why she wants you to feel bad is that when you feel bad you also start to think about her.
but here it seems you have a classic case of playing hard to get. it is usually solved by you moving on (just guessing that she thinks you bit clingy, cause as you said she gets jealous when you flirt with others).
another thing is about her not talking to you is that she problem wants you to start the conversation. and when you do ask her on a date, (preferably romantic picnic in the park or a fancy home-cooked dinner etc. show you really care
not some cliche movie or something.. anyway hope this helped and good luck :)
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reader, bethevans  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 Hiya,
i'm really confused by reading this :P
i think she could possibley be playing hard to get by the sound of it.
i don't really understand what you meant by 'she was making fun of 2 abs or something' but it sounds to me that it's also a possibility that if she was texting your friend then maybe she's just in it for a boyfriend?
it's really sweet that you care about her not being comfertable and everything, nice to hear that for once. but my advice the best thing to do is go up to her and say 'can i talk to you a sec, like in private' and then just say to her i like you (how you would put it) and see what her reply is. :) good luck sweet xx
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