I think I might have caused my g/f to go to the hospital because I accused her of cheating

A male age 30-35, *arkstorm writes:

Dear cupid I’m with my gf 1year and 4 months. We love each over and leaved this summer together. Now we have a long distance relationship, but yesterday I found out this. She has another Skype account, and I entered it via her e-mail, so then a long conversation appeared with a guy. The problem is that they talked when I wasn’t online.And the other problem is that the details there are such as she did it. One problem appeared, when I tried to talk with the guy, like from first messages:”hello darling” he replies to me: “who are you, do we know each other». I told him I’m your gf X, (let’s say her name is X) .He began asking me question where do I leave and he doesn’t understand what am I saying etc… he sad, ‘’I never heard about you’’. So why the conversation appeared!!! I sad it to my gf, and told her that it’s finished with us too, the Skype account was registered on her e-mail, and there where too many details, then I’ve added the other guy and my gf in conference he didn’t respond my gf began asking also question to him he didn’t respond. And you know what is tragic, that after talking to my gf, she didn’t turn off her phone, and I heard when she was "hysteria" crying to her mother, and saying that her university girls friends did it to her (in fact she is very naïf and likes to tell a lot, and her girl friends are really gelous that she has such a great guy like me), that she loved me and would never cheated on me, and that she even doesn’t go to parties, only university and home, to talk more with me. She told her mother without me she didn’t want to live, and in the future she wants to be mother of my babies. And a lot more …. The ambulance that day came and took her to the hospital b/c she had problem breathing, and my father who is a doctor and works in the hospital that she was in told me she had a crisis shock… she’s now in the hospital, and I don’t know what to do. Is she telling the truth? B/c if she was cheating the other guy would respond when I wrote him and I did write him as I was my gf, but on the other hand how did she have that account that was linked to her e-mail!!!!!! My story is very complicated, and messed up…thank you for responding

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