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How should I confess my love?

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Question - (5 November 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2010)
A male Singapore age 26-29, *kyfirestorm writes:

I've gotten over a girl I liked. But that's because I'm now onto this other girl. Now I want to tell her I'm crushing on her, but it's a different situation this time.

I met her in a camp. We've been keeping in touch, but just because we were planning an activity for a group, so it's more like we were keeping in touch solely for "work" purposes. We haven't exactly talked casually and we'll probably never see each other in person for a long time. We are not in the same school, I don't think she lives near me and it would be almost impossible to find us by ourselves.

How then, should I confess my love? I just looking at letting it off my chest. But that doesn't mean I don't want her though. She's a nice and caring girl, quite smart with a beautiful soul and I find her kind of cute. Is it advisable to make the confession through IM? And can I have some ideas on how to confess to her?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (13 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntJust act polite and friendly towards her as if nothing has changed. Thats the best way next time you see her say hello and ask her how she has been.

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A male reader, skyfirestorm Singapore +, writes (13 November 2010):

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She was most probably letting me down gently.

She just wanted us to be friends.

I know I should just cut off all contact completely from her now, but how should I face her in real life?

There are some occasions where we will have to see each other. How should I react then?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (8 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntWell its hard to tell she might be busy or else she might be letting you down gently its hard to tell i think you should leave the ball in her court now, you have asked her out, so just say to her 'let me no when you are free and i will organise something' and let her come to you when she has free time, this will tell if she is interested or not.

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A male reader, skyfirestorm Singapore +, writes (8 November 2010):

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Okay, I did it through IM.

She said that she already has some trouble balancing between studies and other activities (she's the chairperson of something like a group/organization).

She said I was 'really cool' and maybe next time.

She told me not to feel bad.

Does this mean I stand a chance?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (6 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntAnything will be ok, if you feel to shy to ask her face to face then yes give her a ring on the phone or a text.

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A male reader, skyfirestorm Singapore +, writes (6 November 2010):

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I see. Thanks a lot for the answers.

Also, would it be better if I did it through phone?

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A female reader, sandsming United States +, writes (5 November 2010):

Hmm i was in this situation with my ex. I told him i liked him and turned out he liked me. But unfortunately he live to far away... so we had to break up.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntYeah through IM should be ok, but dont be to intense and dont go telling her you love her as this will probably scare the girl off especially as you dont no each other all that well yet. Just message her and tell her that you really like her as a person and would love to take her on a date sometime to get to no her better, maybe go to the cinema or bowling, however if she doesnt live near you then you might need to accept that this is not going to work due to distance.

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