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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

What else can I do to woo her?

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25 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I'm a guy who oves his girl, very much, two people couldnt be more in love and right for each other. Due to recent activity I don't get to see her as often as I would like, she doesn't live too far away but I want to do SOMETHING straight from the heart. We've been together... (108 words

What do his messages mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Right, please bear with me here! About a month ago a guy started talking to me online. The conversation was general and based on a common rugby team we both supported. The conversation got gradually more flirty and it was at this point he decided to reveal he was married and ... (401 words

Does my bf still want me or is he just dragging me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - i am hopeing that i will get an honest answer from what i am going to write, and i hope i can get some help and advice, I recently been going out with my boyfriend hes 23 and im 19 and i would say i feel he could be the man that i would end up with, i usually enjoy his company ... (659 words

Opposites attract but can they stay together?

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25 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay idk what to do. my gf and i have been together 8 months now. Neither of us have ever been in a relationship before and we are both very serious. My problem is i love her very much, but our personalitys are just different. she is a person who likes to sit all day inside h... (132 words

How do I get him to kick the nic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi how can i convince this boy i really like and get along with to quit smoking , i tell him its disgusting but he just looks at me and laughts but he should'nt be smoking how can i convince him to stop help please.x... (48 words

Is there a way to make losing my virginty more comfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, and we both feel ready to have sex. i want to make sure that we are the safest we can be. how can we avoid breaking the condom? also, i heard it hurts the first time. is there any ways or positions to make it better for me?... (60 words

He doesn't believe, I believe him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - i need help with my bf the other day he told me something and i asked if he was lieing but i didnt mean it intentionally,he went made saying why dont you ever believe me this happened yesterday and today he's been sending me horrible messages saying he doesnt care what i think ... (101 words

I like him so much but he's leaving me till last!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - since august ive been talking to a guy online. hes 6 years older than me and hes turkish, lives in turkey. he is so lovely! and i find him so attractive. we would speak online every night and see eachother on webcam, nothing wrong, just faces as hes in a cafe. in september he ... (185 words

Anybody want to share ideas on being freaky?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - So i'm new to this site, anyways... i'm 20 and me and my girlfriend have ben going out for 2.5 years :) and we've done or talked about doing just about everything sexual, and she and i are actually worried that if we last that we will run out of things to do sexually, we are ... (132 words

I slept with another guy out of revenge and now I'm feeling guilty!

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25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend officially for nearly 4 months and unofficially 2 months before we got together for good, I'm 18 and he's 19. I know that doesn't sound like the longest relationship but I seriously love him to pieces, I've never met anyone like him and I can't ... (462 words

Money is missing and all the signs point to my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I recently stayed over at my new boyfriends house. The next day while shopping i discovered my bank card was missing. I had the bank close the card immediately. Later that day I discovered that the bank account was emptied. and also some cash was missing from my purse. the ... (201 words

Is fingering supposed to hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I got fingered for the first time the other day and he went right in and it kinda hurt but in a pleasurable way, is this normal?... (27 words

How do I get her to miss me as much as I miss her! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - Me and my ex girlfriend are going through a time where she wants time to think about getting back together however she is so indecisive and cannot decide and everytime I bring it up she always finds problems with giving it another go even though she says she doesn't want to let ... (223 words

Tips for reaching orgasm

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25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and i am yet to orgasm. We have tried different stimulants but nothing seems to work. Can i just not orgasm? Is there anything wrong with me? How can i orgasm?... (42 words

100 reasons why I love him, 90 down 10 to go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok so im dating right now, its been like 8 months and coming up is Christmas, im totally gonna like write him a book of 100 reasons why i love him but its not working out, i have no clue what to write, im at like reason 90 but cant think of anymore, i wrote about everything i ... (85 words

Is staying friends after dating a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - So me and this guy I was dating for two months broke things off because he was given a job offer back in his hometown in Chicago. Although I knew it was coming, the break up hurt nonetheless. He suggested staying friends. Is this a good idea?... (47 words

I can't move on because I can't make sense of what happened with ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2935 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I need advice on how I can move my life on after a traumatic relationship. I want to forget her. I thought I was over my ex but I can't move on because I can't make sense of what happened. I'm in my 30s and she's in her late 20s and we started dating about a year ago. Thi... (1185 words

Girlfriend doesn't want to go see my family. should I go without her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 36-40 - what do i do if my girlfrend dose not want me to see my famlly for the holidays . she dose not want to go with me and love my familly should i not go ?... (36 words

How can I stop this silly infatuation with a guy who likes to touch me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles, I'm at the end of my tether and need some help please! I know you'll say you must be mad, and I do know I must but I just can't help myself. I have had a guy at work chasing me for ages, I know he likes looking at the attractive women anyway, I have ... (690 words

I'm putting in 150% effort, she puts in about 10%

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, i feel like i am at high school again'. She tells me she doesnt know what she wants and that i am to full on. She wants to start over be friends and go through the dating thing again. That is great! only problem is. She is to busy with friends, daughter, work and... (266 words

Will he leave his girlfriend of 20 years for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have been seeing this guy for about six months. ive known him forever. hes 17 years older than me. hes had a girlfriend for like 20 years or so. they dont live together, they never have. he sees her maybe four times a month, but he comes to see me almost everynight.sometimes ... (189 words

How can I connect with his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2941 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He gets along with my family really well. We always go out to dinner and he comes over all the time. Everything on my side of the family is great. The only problem is I feel like I have no connection with his family. His ... (255 words

Does he just like looking at these other girls because he isn't interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - This is what my stories goes: (sorry that its long) I've been with my bf for more than 5 years. I used to be quite chubby but I've been trying all sorts of way to lose weight like pills and creams. However, there are many occasions where his words and actions are just hurting... (604 words

Confused, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey aunties and uncles :) im having very mixed feelings at the moment. let me explain a little: ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year, i love him more than ive ever loved anyone before ad i know that he loves me with every fibre of himself. everything is gr... (247 words

How do I find out what is going on and get the money he owes me?

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25 November 2010 (F - I will try to keep this short and sweet! My ex, the father of my 7 month old, was giving me £250 a month in child support a month. He was made redundant at the end of October but his last pay packet was yesterday and was a full pay packet. He pays me by standing order a... (226 words

How long do men stay horny?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 17 and i'm currently dating someone. when we're together, he tells me that he's horny and the next day, the feelings stay the same. How long do boys stay horny?... (31 words

She says she doesn't want to get back how to convince her gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2937 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - First of all, sorry for the long text. Jump to the [TL;DR] sections if you're in a hurry. ABOUT US We've been together for the best five years of my life. We considered ourselves soulmates and we had agreed to spend our lifes together. We started as long distance par... (1258 words

Why is he all of a sudden distancing himself after making this official?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - So i've been talking to this for about 5 months now, he goes to college in a different state so it's more of a long distance relationship but he comes up and visits a lot. He's asked me to be his girlfriend plenty of times over text and every time I said no for two reasons, ... (623 words

Why does he still have photos of his ex with such easy access to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. 4 years ago my boyfriend got out serious year and a half relationship. 2 years later he met me but sometimes I just have this feeling that he still as feelings for his ex girlfriend even though it was so long ... (340 words

Are we on a break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Said she needs space, does that mean we are on a break? Do I still text her and say happy thanksgiving?... (24 words

Opinions on ex's spending holidays together "for the kids"?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - What are some opinions ex's spending holidays together "for the kids". Does anyone else think it may send the wrong message to the kids that there is hope of a reconciliation between their parents? Especially when one of them has to leave their new mate home alone to do it? I'm ... (240 words

I'm freaking out about what to get him for Christmas! I really want him to like it....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend, I'm 15 and he's 16, have been going out only for a month, but it will be our 2 month in a few days. And our 3 month is going to be a few days after Christmas. We're already talking about what gifts to get each other. He's just going to take me out shopping ... (293 words

I don't like the taste of condoms! Is there anything else we could use?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - i had an enterprise day today which basically meant doing nothing. i had a sexual health lecture (not just me the whole group) and we were all given condoms. i serioulsy hate them. they tase disgusting and i love giving oral. even the flavoured ones make me want to be sick, is ... (58 words

My teacher is 2 different people around me! When we are alone he is great, but in front of others he makes me the butt of jokes!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey guys. so i'm in a really confusing situation, my teacher is 43 i think hes married because at the begining of last year he wore a wedding ring but now doesn't, and i'm well 16. and the problem is things are tense and i dont know why, and i cant get rid of it everything... (144 words

What can I do to get my mates back without looking weak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - A while ago my life was going great, people trusted me. Now my life has fallen apart, iv lost 4 mates! Close ones. The first 2 i lost because a girl made up some stuff i said about them, which i didnt say! Then one of them was alright with me, but we wernt as close as we used ... (234 words

He wont take his medication and it is ruining our relationship! Should I leave him for good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend has bipolar disorder which makes him have over the top up and down moods. He refuses to take the tablets he should be taking. He loses his temper over the slightest thing. We get into huge arguments in which he throws stuff and blames me for making him crazy. Other ... (135 words

How do I get away from my abusive mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 18 years old and live with both my parents and my sister. For the last, approximately, five years I've been subjected to frequent rages from my mother. In the majority of these she has been very violent towards me, often bruising my face and head and on one occasion ... (415 words

How do you break up with someone you care about?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I feel like now is the time to end my relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years. I have had doubts for quite some time now, I feel unhappy, I feel like I've outgrown him and I'm just not that interested anymore. However, I do really care about him and love him as a person, I'm ... (318 words

We have just started dating, what should I get him for Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - i've just started seeing a boy who i really like. we aren't very serious at the moment but he's been talking to my friends about what to get me for christmas.. i have no idea what to get for him! any ideas? i want it to be something personal but i'm so stumped :(... (54 words

Homelessness.....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, everybody well, I know that my question may not related to this site by any way (a site for social advice would be great). but since you are all active and like answering questions. I'd like to know your views on the issue of homelessness. So why do you think Many ... (92 words

Help me make sense of this girl! Does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - if a girl who is your best friend, flirts and makes physical contact but says she doesn't like you to her friends. This girl is so confusing and none of my friends or hers can make sense of it. Is her flirting just because we are close? Or does she like me, what should I do?... (56 words

I think we can make our marriage work but I could not survive another affair! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - I found out about 10 days ago that my husband had an affair. After the initial hurt and a lot of talking with each other we have decided to give it ago. I took him back a couple of days ago desperate to make things work. I think he feels the same (I don't know what to believe ... (182 words

Jealousy has taken over me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - so here goes... i came to dr to get back surgery and i be staying at my uncle house with his family.The 3 day i was here i meet one on my cousin's friends,that night it was me, my two cousins and her,we was playing a game and for some weird reson i really wanted to kiss her,i ... (203 words

Is it too much to say 'love ya' in a text before we have gone on our first date?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Theres a girl I like. Were suposed to go to a game together in a few days in what I'm assuming is our first date. My question is whether its alright to text her somethin like 'happy thanksgivin ____, love ya'? Is it too much? ... (152 words

Do all men watch porn and hide it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have a very good sex life and have sex at very least once a day. but he always watches porn and then hides it, this really upsets me, am i being silly, do all men do this? ... (41 words

Why does she want space? It is so hard to wait for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - So me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half now, we fell on hard times where i was involved in an accident and people died but she stuck right there. i lost my drivers license and depended on her a lot. so i went to deer camp on a sat but the wed before everything ... (222 words

Can't get out of an intensely committed relationship......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years, and lately things haven't been going well. She tends to control me and I tend to resist by just dropping out which only makes things worse. Out of subconscious spite I'll do things that I know will make matters worse and then ... (783 words

Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to be saying these things? Or is he crazy to want to come and meet me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - no body replied to my question so i have to post it again.plzzzzz reply. Im in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months.i am going to attend one uncle's son wedding to a place where my bf also lives.but i am going with my parents,so its not easy to spend so much ... (254 words

How do I stop hurting the women I sleep with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - The problem is I have a rather large penis over 9 inch and I hurt most women when having sex. Is there anything I can do to stop hurting the women I sleep with? ... (34 words

I have a crush on the new kid but he is only 15!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Theres this kid at our school his been here for a few weeks. I kinda see em stares at me when Im walking down the hallways. He started sitting with me and my friends at lunch. He eats all fast to come outside into the courtyard with me.. And waits when i stop to have a convo.. ... (128 words

My husband has not spoken to anyone after his mother's funeral, what can I do to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Fifteen years ago, my husband stopped speaking to his family save for his cousin (who was a groomsman at our wedding) and his now deceased grandparents. We had already been dating by then and he was SERIOUS about getting away from them all. I knew the whole story about what ... (441 words

Why do so many girls text my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Why do so many girls text my boyfriend and want to meet up with him? I hate it. ... (18 words

My husband tries to discipline me when I make a mistake!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been married for about 4 months now and I'm having a strange problem with my husband: he wants to walk all over me. he's into spanking in the bedroom which I like but he also tries to "discipline" me when I make a mistake. I tried to play along because he likes it, but he ... (293 words

I hate myself and the way I look....and I'm only 13!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - Heyy, Well basically I'm 13 years old, quite intelligent, got wa few good mates ect but there are a few things that bother me... 1. Well at the moment I have braces (I can't wait to get them taken off) and I, as a typical teenager, sometimes get spot outbreaks ect. ... (265 words

Is it normal to still feel scared of your parents when you've been on your own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, my bf and I really want a baby - his family are thrilled whereas mine think I'll be throwing my life away if I get pregnant. I'm 20, my partners 21. I'm too scared to start trying because of my parents reaction. My mum said she wouldn't be happy but would deal with it ... (110 words

Does he love me as much as he does his child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Please help me understand. I'm 20 years old and i'm wondering about things in general to do with parent-child relationships. I read on here yesterday that its a diff kind of love and you often see on here parents write that their children are their whole world etc,,,well I was... (156 words

I broke up with him because he keeps talking to an older woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday because he constantly talks to an older woman and doesn't consider my feelings about it even thou I have told him a lot how much it bothers me. ... its his friends wife an usually wouldn't bother me but her husband just got arrested ... (173 words

How do I know if he's my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - so here goes... i had the hugest crush on a guy eight years older than me. we met four years ago(i was much younger then)and started out as friends. we have been good friends ever since. he has visited my home, met my parents and i have met his family on many occassions. th... (129 words

Husband waking me up at 3:30 am wanting to talk! I need my sleep!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - My life feels like it's falling apart over something that should be so simple! My husband only needs 5 hours of sleep but I need 8 in order to function. He normally wakes me up at 5:00 AM which is bad enough because I like to sleep until 6:30 on the week-days and 8:00 AM on the ... (299 words

Under his friend's influence my b/f has gotten back into his wild old days behavior again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - My bf in his younger days used to be involved in drugs and heavy drinking, smoking and major parties!! He basically lived by the motto, sex, drugs and rock n roll and eventually he got out of it and stopped as he got older. When I met him he didnt do drugs, he drank sociall... (271 words

I ignore her because I don't want to look like an idiot

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I already accepted the fact that I was in love with the same gender. We got really close and I fell in love with her. I talked to her everyday on the phone, she'd hug me most of the time. with some things happening, I changed my ways because of her. It was my first time falling ... (187 words

He wanted to have sex but said he didn't love me, now things are awkward with my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone.I wrote before and got some really good advice so I thought I'd try again. This concerns a guy who used to be my best friend. For over a year things started to change between us and I felt he was developing feelings. He would call and text all the time, drop ... (360 words

My brother says I'm hot! Is he the brother I used to know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - So my brother has returned home after getting his degree from college. He's sticking around, so he can get his life in order. It's been a long time since I've last seen him. We've been pretty much on neutral grounds as we grew up. We weren't really close, but we still loved ... (218 words

2 great guys want to marry me! I don't know which to chose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey All , i am a 24 years old i have my perfect CALM life .. i never felt i needed love in my life .. many guys wanted to be with me but till now no one of any captured my heart. in those past couple of days, a guy came to our house asking for marriage.. he's a very polite g... (185 words

Is denial of conjugal relations a form of cruelty?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2941 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age - After 11 years of marriage, which included conjugal relations, my wife said she no longer wanted to have sex with me. She said I could mssturbate to meet my sexual needs. My choices were to find a eexual partner outside of the marriage or remain in a sexless marriage. I chose ... (110 words

How to deal with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Here's my long story, about a year ago I met the most wonderful person through an online game. We connected immediately and our relationship soon developed quickly into a romantic one. We lived 5 hours by flight away from each other but in the beginning we were committed to ... (1013 words

Why does my sister in law hate me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - My sister in law hates me. I got pregnant with my now fiances baby after 4 months of being together, it was unplanned, but we decided to keep her and we're still happy together over 2 years later, our Daughter is now 15 months. When I got pregnant my sister in law starte... (484 words

Reconciliation stories

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25 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Can anyone please tell me stories of how they got back together with their exes? I recently broke up with mine and was wondering if anyone has ever actually gotten back together with that special someone that left their life and in the end universe managed to bring them back ... (51 words

I begged him to comeback but I'm not into him now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - 11 months ago my boyfriend left me for a girl he was cheating with and the entire time I begged him to give us another shot. So now he's back ready to be serious and I agreed to have sex with him today and now I feel guilty. Because when we was doing it I felt sorry for this ... (106 words

He dsn't like me, but our past won't let me move on. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - *Note: Names are false!* Well i think everything started since i broke up with my 2 year relationship boyfriend so I'll start from there. I was going out with a guy called Chris i think i was really in love with him. We used to be the perfect couple. He is the type of guy who ... (1403 words

Should I stay where my parents are or go where I will be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am in my late 30's my child has recently moved to her dads in a diffrent city, my dad is in stage 5 alzheimers still being taking care by my mom. I have a great job only in the summers but the winters I am bored and on U.I. My long time freind wants me to move to a big city ... (146 words

I just want to talk to her and apologize!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (? age 26-29 - Hey. I really messed things up with my girlfriend and she hasn't talked to me in 4 days. Basically, we got into this big fight about her ex and I started yelling at her and she was just crying and for some reason that just got me angrier. And I wanted to leave but she blocked ... (209 words

I just don't love you anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

25 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been married for 18 years. I love my wife more than life itself. We have always had a 'rocky' marriage from the outside however we always made it work and deeply loved each other. this past year everything was great, better than it ever has been, she has been more ... (290 words

If a guy cheats once will he repeat it again?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

25 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Guys.... If you are once a cheater, will you always be a cheater? ... (13 words

Getting an Ex Back--Extreme Cases

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25 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - Has anyone ever gotten back together with their ex though the odds were significantly against the reunion? Have you ever made terrible, catastrophic, or fatal mistakes in a relationship and still managed to find your way back to each other? How about exes that have retur... (124 words

Is my boyfriend just crazy to meet me?

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25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - m in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months.i am going to attend one uncle's son wedding to a place where my bf also lives.but i am going with my parents,so its not easy to spend so much time with my bf.when i told this to my bf,he said that he will come to ... (239 words

I don't know what to do about boyfriends cheapness

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25 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating a wonderful man for 10 months now and I can't imagine my life without him. My only issue is that due to the economy I am unemployed and struggling to support my son. My boyfriend flaunts his money around and buys himself extravagant presents. He will spend ... (216 words

Please help me understand this man

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25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Simple. I like a certain guy even when I have a bf. Forget my bf for a while, pls. This guy looks like also likes me but I am not sure how much. We text at times where I start it and re responds always. He is working,busy. And is v sweet to me, all smily and is williing to ... (179 words

Do I want to marry my current boyfriend or do I just want to get married?

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25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I apologize for how long this is but I need to give you all the details so you can give me educated advice. Let me start from the beginning: I've known my boyfriend since sophomore year of high school. Clearly, he was more into me than I was into him back then. (We had "d... (966 words

I Shut The Door and Now I Want to Re open It

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25 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - About two years ago, I was talking to this girl and we would talk everyday for about 6 months. One day I received a text from her telling me she wanted more out of us and intitially I agreed, however after five days I thought it was wrong and told her that I just wasn't ready. ... (115 words

I want my wife to sleep with another man

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25 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I want my wife to have sexual pleasure with other man before me watching in the mean time i will join them to some extent she has agreed but not with other man but both of us enjoying wife swapping in same room.so i have in miend about her freiend and her husband to join this ... (66 words

1st date advice?

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25 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am going on a date with someone from my school, any advice for the first date (holding hands etc). We are going to see a movie fyi.... (28 words

What can I do about boyfriend not calling me or contacting me?

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25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I wrote here a few days ago about my boyfriend not calling or showing up when he said he would (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-been-24-hours-and-he-hasnt-called.html). So it's been a few days now and I still haven't heard from him. I don't think he's been on Facebook... (306 words

Caught boyfriend making out with best friend!

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25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I caught my bf making out with my best friend last week. He swears she made the 1st move and wants me to forgive him. He was my 1st bf and my 1st kiss and so on... Wat should I do?... (41 words

Was I wrong to let him know how I feel?

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25 November 2010 (? age 36-40 - a guy im close to i couldnt stay around him as much as i use to because im inlove with him and he knows it. he says alot to keep me at reach like when i told him if he dont want to be with me just tell me, he says thats not it he just approachs people different..he flirts with ... (432 words

Boyfriend and his father's relationship. Should I say anything or stay out of it?

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25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend's father is in town for a visit and this is the first time I have met him. They have a complicated and unhappy history, which I admit I can't possibly know all of. My boyfriend is super-stressed, because his dad is fairly high maintenance and incredibly ... (206 words

My girlfriend is amazing! Should I just accept her kindness and stop complaining?

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25 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I do not know how I got so lucky as to snatch up my amazing and beautiful girlfriend; I would be lost in so many ways without her. I've had a thing for her for a while now but all throughout high school, she would be my friend and nothing more. Then she went on to community ... (817 words

LDR-I feel like he's more of a friend than a boyfriend

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25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - i've been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months now...n the begining we had a long distance relationship...i wud do my best to go out to new york nd see him when ever he asked. he never came to pennsylvania to spin time with me tho...and wen i moved out to newyork ... (116 words

B/f only wants me for sex now!

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25 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - my live in boyfriend of 5 years has moved me out and only wants me for sex for the last year. any way i can get him back... (28 words

Boyfriend looks at porn all the time! He won't stop or understand my feelings

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25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend looks at porn and we have sex all the time and i mean more than once so i dont understand y he has to look at porn...and when i ask him about it he gets mad and doesnt talk to me i dont know what to do please help me... (52 words

I'm 17, he's 30, is the age difference too much?

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25 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - My family owns some hotels on the beach and i have always been very involved with them.. i plan on taking over when i'm in college. Over the years, i have become pretty close with one of our bartenders. We've always had a ton of fun together and had a little flirty ... (194 words

Has anyone experienced a date canceling twice, should I forget him??

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25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I went out on a first date with a guy I met a party and we hit it off. We exchanged numbers and talked and texted every night for weeks before going out on a date. The date went well...as well as first dates can go. And he asked me out again that very night, I agreed and was ... (410 words

Moved to Ireland t/b/w long-term, long distance bf, home sick, no job, no friends, what do I do?

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25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Soo... I've got myself in a bit of a pickle here. I've had a long distance boyfriend for a long time (about 2-3 years), and don't get me wrong, this isn't about him, he's wonderful. The problem is that I moved over to, of all countries Ireland to be with him. I was under th... (690 words

I asked her out, she refused, I accepted it, now I feel bad, what to do??

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25 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I just asked this girl out that I really think is the one. The problem is that she sadly said no. When she first said it I really did take it well. But now... It's starting to hurt more and more. She was really nice about it and we're still good friends but, I just cant stop ... (64 words

Why does my male gay friend want to touch me now, closeness or what??

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25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello! I am female, with a male friend who I've only known for about a year and a half. We've grown very quickly in a year because we were both interns at the same company and had to move to a new city. We both happen to come from the same hometown. Now that the interns... (288 words

I love him but he is not treating me like I want to be treated, what do I do??

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25 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am the mother to a beautiful 9 month old son who is my world. His father and I are together and we all live in the same house. I am currently pregnant again and have spotted the entire pregnancy so am on light bed rest and was told not to get upset or stressed out. My ... (205 words

My ex wanted to remain friends but am I being used??

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25 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I miss my ex, and its been over a year and I have been with a few girls. She has a boy friend which she has been with for 8 months now and well we have tired to remain friends. And well its been alright I guess, we still do somethings together. She was the one who broke up with ... (472 words

I am feeling insecure about him, should I be??

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25 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - ive been seeing this guy for a month, we met on match.com. We hit it off right away, i was surprised.Well he told me after a few days that he really liked me and that he wanted to see were we could go.So we both agreed that we both only wanted to date eachother.Now, we live ... (211 words

My gf wants me to have a bigger penis, how do I handle this??

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25 November 2010 (? age 22-25 - I've got a question recently me and my gf had a talk about my penis and she says that she wants it thicker I asked her why and she said why not. I know that all those pills are scams aswell as mentioned exercises but is there any way to make it thicker or should I just tell my ... (71 words

I need help with trusting and insecurity, please help me??

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25 November 2010 (? age 22-25 - Hello again my gf has many male friends I do feel uncomfortable with it but I usually don't let it get to me but she always meets a new guy and sometimes she tells me how they act and I feel like they start liking her now I know you all will tell me to trust my gf and I do ... (148 words

I am having a problem accepting her sexual past, please help me??

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25 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I got divorced ten years ago and thought my world had come to an end,however,after a year of trying to find a new life partner i met a fantastic woman who had also been divorced around the same time as me.To cut a long story short we have been living together for the past eight ... (443 words

Would this put me in jeopardy of getting pregnant?

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25 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been on ovranette for 3 years. I take my pill at the same time every day however last weekend I took my pill at 10am and got sick at 11am... I did not take any extra pill and am now worried that i am not covered, please help to ease my mind. I took my pill as normal t... (88 words

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