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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do I have to do for my girlfriend to forgive me?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - It was my girlfriends birthday a little over a week ago and I had some stuff come up that got in the way of getting her a gift. I told her about it and at first she was fine with it, then a few days later she brought it up and i felt terrible. I ended up ordering her somethin... (294 words)

I had a sexual dream about my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently became closer to a guy who I have known for a while, We are just friends though, but last night I had a dream I was making out with him, and in the dream I liked it. Everytime I think about it I get all embarrassed and start to feel weird, like everyone can see into ... (105 words)

I tell my husband these unnecessary lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 14 years, 3 of those married. The problem is that I have a huge problem with telling lies about stupid things that don't need to be lied about. Every time I begin to redeem myself, I lie about something stupid, like working out when I really ... (128 words)

I've never been with anyone else, but I'm curious!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok me and my husband we been togeather since senior year in highschool and we are now 22 yrs old with 2 kids. i was his first girlfriend and he was my first boyfriend we never dated anyone else and now i have thoughts of what it would be like with someone else just sexually ... (148 words)

My friend's boyfriend is going to dump her, he may ask me out next!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Guys! Okay so my friend has been going out with this guy for a little more than 4moths. Me and my friend aren't really that close we have 1 class together. We talk but where not that close so yesterday there was a sub for my social studies class and her boyfriend in that ... (162 words)

A bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it a bad thing or does it look needy for me to tell him that he inspires me by being in my life. I think this is thoughtful and giving of me. What would he think?... (37 words)

I'm unemployed and lonely. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I seriously hate my life at the moment. I am currently taking a gap year from university due to the fact my parents refused to fund it as I apparently don't deserve it and I had very little savings at the time. I started working full time from August until the end of October ... (512 words)

We're an odd looking couple but I love him so is it possible to get over this or minimize it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much and have been with him for about a year now. The issue is, I think we look weird together. I'm 5'8.5" and he is 5'3"-5'4". He's not really skinny though and I wear a size 3. The thing is, I LOVE high heels so I look like a giant when we are ... (256 words)

I love him, but my relationship is SO BORING (the sex too)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, my boyfriend is 19, and we've been together for a year. I truly do love him, don't want to leave him, and really can't picture myself with another guy. I've even tried talking to other guys (when we were on a two week break), really cute ones too lol but I just can't ... (563 words)

Why does my boyfriend prefer porn over his hot girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years now and been living together for about a year. At first we had a really good sexual relationship and had sex often. Now we have sex like once a month, but all other aspects of the relationship are great. The problem is ... (159 words)

Is what I'm doing masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a embarrising question about female masturbation. When im in the shower i turn the cold water on and move my leg in and out of the cold water it makes me feel reallly good, a tingling sensation down there. is it masturbation... (44 words)

I want to move away, should I break up with my boyfriend first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my situation is ..blah. i have a best friend. me and her have been bestfriends since we were both 6. we have done everything together, and have not the least bit grew apart from eachother, even though we dont always keep in touch, we have and always will be best friends. she ... (555 words)

What happened to my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What happened with my best friend? I met this lady while we were both mature students at college. We had so much fun together (I was 23 when I met her) and were best friends for 13 years. She had just been through a bad divorce with a very rich man when she met me, I comfor... (300 words)

Why can't I end it when I know I should?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend on 3rd july 2004 on my 18th birthday, he was my first big relationship and my first love. We have been together for over 6 years and it has been very up and down with one or two break ups. when ever we split i am convinced that it is for good reason at the t... (258 words)

I've tried dumping him twice but he doesn't get the memo!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i need to break up with my boyfriend, because he is controling and overbearing. the proplem is i dont know how i tried too twice already and it went knowhere we got back together. so how should i put it to him, he always would just get mad and said he loved me and that it ... (165 words)

Why do guys behave this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I went out with a man on four dates. I knew him vaguely through a mutual friend and had bumped into him in our village a few times and chatted with him before he invited me out. I had a great time each time we went out. He initiated the dates, paid for dinner, cooked for me and ... (378 words)

She's hot and she's cold. She's yes and she's no..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - theres women i work with who i have grown to like alot we hang around together at dinner seen her a few times out of work. loads of people tell me they can she likes me and i think she does too thing is she has bf and never made a move, i told her i really like her and a... (187 words)

How can I help him get through our breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex were together for a year and 8 months. I really cared for him but was slowly starting to realize that I didn't care for him as a solemate type. Then, I was with a guy who i was very infactuated with before me and my ex started dating and I cheated with him. I felt ... (209 words)

How do I lightly confront him over this text?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so how do I confront my boyfriend about a text that I found on his phone...well he has a password on it...The thing is I feel bad for going through his phone but I don't like what I saw. How do I talk to him? and how do I even start it...HELP PLEASE... (54 words)

Why do people do this texting, facebook crap when they are in good relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - As my username says, I am truly looking for answers. I have just finished having all of my girlfriend's belongings moved out of my house and I am sitting here wondering how she could have been so stupid and unthinking to ruin such a wonderful relationship like she did. ... (519 words)

Do red-headed men dig dark skinned women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i like this red-headed guy but i don't know if he would like me because i am dark complected.so my question is do red headed guys like dark complected girls?... (30 words)

Why do guys just stop talking to you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I met this guy about two weeks ago and we had so much in common. We had both just gotten out of a long relationship with similar issues and I opened up to him really fast although I usually take a long time to do so. We were talking everyday for two weeks then all of the ... (183 words)

I just don't find her sexually desirable!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So after being horribly abused and used by two different women (I won't go into details, but the end result was me having a complete mental breakdown), I had finally rebuilt myself from the ground up, and I was feeling confident in who I was. After the ordeal, I had zero ... (521 words)

I actually prefer masturbating than having sex with my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I actually prefer masturbating than having sex with my girlfriend. Why? Because she's never in the mood, and when she is she always gets tired fast, breathless and pain in her stomach. (She's not overweight and my penis is only 7" long and 6" girth so I don't know why she get... (243 words)

He likes to be around his guy friends all the time, I'm wondering if he's gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why is it my boyfriend likes to be around his guy friends all the time im beginning to wonder if he gay.When i ask him lets go somewhere together or walk together he saids he dont feel like it but if one of his guy friends ask him to go he jumps up and go with no words said. i ... (105 words)

Why does his ex have his new phone number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend got a new phone why does his ex girlfriend have the number she texts him and call like they still together she called one day and i answered he got mad i know they still messing around and when we watching television together she texts or calls he want answer her ... (87 words)

I'm only asking for a happy medium!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Have you ever been in love for the first time, and it is with your very first girlfriend too, and you love her so much that you would never let any harm come to her, but she never seems to appreciate anything you do for her and that is tearing you apart, like almost literarily ... (1008 words)

I thought I wanted to move on from my ex but now I'm not so sure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im seein this guy and have been for only a couple of months and hes already said he loves me because i am the first girl to treat him with respect. I have told him i am not in love with him and hes noticed ive been feeling down so i ended up unloading everything on him and told ... (212 words)

It's like he has the best of both worlds!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've recently become involved with a man who never seems to get really hard when we're making love. It does limit the positions we can try and he steers me towards the easier ones. It doesn't have any effect on his climax, and sometimes he is very quick. It's like he has the ... (105 words)

Not sure where to start on de-virginizing her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating steadily for over 5 months now. She's already told me she wants to lose her virginity to me, but I'm not sure how to start... I want to make her first time as amazing as possible, but I've heard that a girl's first time usually hurts...... (93 words)

Did I mess up so badly that I lost my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I did a stupid thing and lied to my best friend. First I lied about getting free clothes from a store for him, when I really bought them for him as gifts. He eventually found out, about 6 months later. He got very upset at me and refused to talk to me. After about 3 weeks, ... (137 words)

How do you know when love is not enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know when love is not enough any more? When you see that love alone can not hold your relationship together?... (26 words)

Just how detrimental is friends with benefits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling really confused. I've been friends with this guy for many many years now, and it's really special what we have together. He was my first crush, and I believe at different points in our friendship we both got confused feelings for eachother, but didn't act on them.... (321 words)

I don't really love him, but my kids want us together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if this marriage is worth saving. I've been married for ten years. We have three children (8, 4, and 1). My husband and I haven't had sex in two years because he is impotent. I still give him hand jobs and oral sex, but I have never gotten anything in return, even ... (330 words)

I quit my job to move near him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Quit my job today. I didn't turn up for work in the morning but I did e-mail my supervisor to say I was not coming back. Obviously it was a shock for him as he thought things were going ok. However, I was unhappy and the job was stressing me out. They accepted my ... (304 words)

Do exes come back a second, even third time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was wondering if you could help me at all. My ex boyfriend of 5 years split with me in 2008 before i completely lost my sanity i left for a new life in London. I was doing ok and seemed to be moving on until my ex wanted me back. He moved to London to make a new go of... (1538 words)

My husband is old school!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age - My husband is from "the old scjhool", who beleives giving a male (a kid)co-worker a ride home (because his car broke down), is a breech of trust and that, I, as a married woman, should not be "driving around town with men in my car". First "offense". Second, I should not have ... (118 words)

Who is this other girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I met my current boyfriend, 2 years ago, he was kind of a ladies man, and i accepted it. He was always honest with me, while we were still just friends. He started to develop feelings, as did i. SO we finally gave it the title. My best friend was always causing ... (721 words)

The tables have turned.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have written before about some problems I have been having, I just wish I could get my head and heart to agree!! One aunt said that I am grasping at straws to save my relationship, and deep down I know I am as I dont want to let go, and it is really hard. I really thought I ... (341 words)

Proper etiquette!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, need advice badly. Basically am in a 3 year relationship love my boyfriend very much but cant stand his family. They have no manners. Went to family meal recently his brother made really crude jokes and had a chat about it with his mam. My parents would never act like this ... (87 words)

I'm way more pleased with myself than guilty!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This morning i cheated on my fiance with someone I met online. I have been with my fiance for 8 years...my question is why don't i feel guilty? I try to make excuses like i did it for an ego boost because i have low self esteem or that it was nice to be bad because i'm always ... (92 words)

Why on earth is he still with his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, here i am again...still as confused as ever. My ex and I split up 5 months ago after being in a 3.5 year relationship. within a few days he was seeing someone else, as she had been sniffing round for a long time. It hurt me alot when they got together and he knew this, and ... (578 words)

Boyfriend has had 3 disposable marriages!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This question is about marriage. I have been married one time for almost 26 years until it was actually until death due you part. I am aware that alot of society has a "disposable marriage" policy. You know, if this don't work I will just divorce you and marry someone e... (322 words)

He's browsing women's sexy clothing websites!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm the girl that had the boyfriend who wanted a break. Well things haven't gone as far as that but I have found that he has been checking out girls wearing sexy clothes online. He is no way looking at pornography, just girls wearing skirts and pantyhose. Shoul... (71 words)

In love and hurting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age - I have recently met a man who is kind, loving, considerate and honestly for the first time in my life, I feel truly in love. I understand the idea of infatuation and know the difference between infatuation and love. We are from different states, however, I will be moving t... (369 words)

Wanting a happy ending!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) age 26-29 - I don't want to be a lesbian. i want to have a life with a MAN that i love and have normal children! I read about being bisexual, but it still scares me! I am probably bisexual, but can I just be with a guy if im bi? I'm in my lower teens!... (53 words)

How long does a sperm live???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all, my question is... how much time does a sperm live in dry atmosphere/outside human body?....... for ex: if i touched my bfs penis by hand, and after 30 mins i had to pee is there a possibility that sperm lived for 30 mins outside the body and got in contact with my v... (58 words)

How can I make her my very close friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I joined an academy this Summer... Recently I started liking a girl, who is one year younger than me. Gradually I started thinking about her all the time. I tried many times to talk to her, but I couldn't get a nice chance. Sadly, the summer session came to an end. On the very ... (135 words)

How hard is it to get over your first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How hard is it to get over your first and true love of 3.5 years. We are heading down the road to a breakup and i keep getting scared that i will never love the same again. I then keep thinking of all the good memories which is so painful. How long does it take? Will the pain ... (72 words)

Help!!! He wants to be with me but doesn't want to put a label on it. What does this mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and we are planning on moving in together (his idea). but last night we were talking and the labelling subject came up and he said He doesn't like labelling relationships. basically it is what it is and lets just see where it ... (84 words)

Heeeelp! Is my boyfriend cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on what to do... I've been with my boy 3.5 years now, he was my first love, first everything. I am 21. A few months into our relationship he got drunk at a party and spooned a girl he used to be intimate with...he promised nothing happened and i accepted that an... (787 words)

What to do when the lover gets married to another???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Two years back I fell in love with a girl (though I was married to another). She too was madly in love with me despite knowing my status. We felt we were born only for each other. Due to my circumstances we were not able to get married. We took a painful decision to split. ... (260 words)

I put my big foot in it... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi there, i knew my best friend saw her ex a few times at the beginning of her relationship with her boyfriend, its been 5 months now and she stops me speaking to her boyfriend because shes overprotective and doesnt like it, but im really good mates with her boyfriend and ive ... (109 words)

She was very standoffish and made me feel like shit. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together just over 5 months. We started out fighting and when things are good, there great. We found out she is pregnant, and at first things were okay. We found out after we had a blow out and said it was done for good. She used to cry at all ... (807 words)

He's texting other women and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there... I am so confused I don't know what to do! My boyfriend is very up tight about his phone and so he has a password on it and doesn't even want me to touch his phone. And so I went through his texts and I saw 3 texts that stood out to me. He wrote for one of the ... (95 words)

I have made some mistakes within the relationship that she doesn't know about. Do I tell her before I ask her to settle down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm ready to make a life-long committment to my girlfriend and plan on proposing to her. Let's just say that I have struggled through committment "issues" for a while, but now I feel that I am ready and love her deeply. Can't imagine a better woman. My dilemma is that I have ... (139 words)

Regretting marrying my wife as she isnt the woman I thought she was

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is my situation... I am married and have a newborn child (4 months) but I can't stand the fact that my wife was what some might consider a "slut". She slept with 16 guys, slept with a married man regardless of her knowing that was his situation. After she told me all this ... (356 words)

Should I accept her back in my life or just be done with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - 11 days ago my fiancee broke up with me, she wanted to be with another guy. After all the break-up arguments were over she has been texting me and hinting about getting back together. I do love her but I don't enjoy the way she has treated me lately. I don't know whether I ... (67 words)

He's done nothing wrong, yet I don't trust him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, So, I've been with my partner for over two years now and am still not able to completely trust him. We have a great relationship and love each other very much, and he's never done anything to make me suspect infidelity on his part. We recently got married, and even... (308 words)

How should a single guy's bedroom look?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Women, if you were at the house of a guy you liked and peeked in his bedroom, what would make a better impression on you: if it looked as though he entertained females there occasionally (candles, incense sticks, queen-size bed, tiny bottle of massage oil nearby, etc.) OR if it ... (80 words)

Feeling down & empty after our wedding, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to feel a little sad and unsure about one's marriage after only a few months of marriage? I was with my husband for 5 years before I married him. We had the normal ups and downs during the courship period, but I was certain that he was the one I wanted to marry. ... (186 words)

Should I talk to him about taking the physical side of our relationship slowly? Or should it just be left unsaid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 21, this is my first "relationship" (although we're not exclusive)-- been going out with this guy for a bit over a month (6 dates).. i am a virgin waiting for love, but i havent discussed my history with him yet... i want to take the physical side of things slow.. he ... (134 words)

We keep breaking up and getting back together all because of his flirting with other girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have broken up and gotten together 2 times and i really do love him! We broke up the first time because he just use to flirt too much to an extent that he didnt even notice himself! 2nd time was because i went overseas for about 3 months and we always use to ... (113 words)

How can I make things go back to the way they where when we first dated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm dating a girl who has a bad history, she did tell me everything about her past she also told me that she has changed and that she wants to be with me forever but i'm struggling to trust her and i end up hurting myself and her too. Whenever she's not with me i always ask ... (178 words)

Can we come out of this more loving and happier people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for 3 years and with him for 11 years. Before we were engaged we both cheated on each other and dealt with it and Afterwards we got engaged. 4 years later we married and 2 1/2 years after our marriage he cheated with a girl he works with. Through a ... (216 words)

How can I show her I am truly sorry after my affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age - I have had an affair I owned up and was for given but stayed in contact with other person (not fisical)I wanted to be at home with my wife who love dearly but didnt want the othere person to hate me. I was questioned about phone calls and again told my wife I had been texting ... (149 words)

I want to find the right way to tell him about being unfaithful to him....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend recommended with site to me, so here I am, I hope you can provide me with some advice. I cheated on my boyfriend and don't know how to tell him so he'll listen to me. Please read through the back story before making any ideas of how to answer. My boyfrie... (731 words)

Does "I like you a lot" mean he is bordering on saying "I love you" but he is too scared?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age - Just out of curiousity i would like to know if a man that you've been involved with(say a year or more)tells you he "likes you a lot' would you think that there was more to what he was saying than what he was letting on to? I have had people tell me that guys who make this ty... (101 words)

How can I become a good kisser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how can I become a good kisser ? easy steps , hard steps , any steps ? what do guys want in kissing ? how do I tell him I want to kiss him ? what do guys look for in a kisser ? etc . please help ! thanks ... (52 words)

Trying for a baby is destroying our sex life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

16 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ive been with my girlfriend now for 2.5 years and 9 months ago we started trying for a baby. Since then the sexual side of the relationship has gone downhill for me totally. Once she has ovulated, i can forget sex, as she is worried about 'unsticking a baby' even though ther... (300 words)

Why cant I seem to hold onto a man? I'm not picking the wrong men, they are picking me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I seem to be caught in a cycle of rejection and I need help to break out of it! My long-term relationship ended nearly three years ago and this year I decided to try dating. In the last few months I have been rejected by four men and I can't figure out why. All four men pursued ... (232 words)

Is this just my trust issues or is he doing something wrong?

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16 November 2010 (F) age 41-50 - ive been with my bf for nearly a year now. i met him on facebook and we met and spent few hours together when i was there in his country.i only treated him as friends at that time but things developed after that.we chat for hours every night,webcam and text each other ... (703 words)

My wife has gone back to her home country and I have met someone else! What should I do?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i just recently got married, my wife is from england. she had to go back to england soon after we married, i am currently in the process of getting my visa, durring this time i have fallen head over heels with this incredible girl. should i just forget about this girl a keep ... (78 words)

How to persuade a family member to leave an emotionally abusive relationship?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I believe my brother's wife is emotionally abusive to him. He and I share and run a business together and we were always close growing up (we're twins) so I know him very well. They dated for 8 years and I always thought she was bad for him right from the start. She is ve... (696 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want sex anymore!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend hardly ever wants sex, I really do think it's wierd. Usually you hear that they are pests but my boyfriend isn't at all. It's not a case of I need to tell him, I've told him and his response is usually 'your a slag and I'm tired' even tired I would! He has got a ... (428 words)

I don't know if her dad would be ok with us dating, and then there is the distance issue.....any suggestions?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, There is this girl in my life. She is 6 yrs my younger. I met her through her dad. We used to work together. We still remain friends the father and I. We have known each other for 4 yrs. now. I used to go to her dad's house and have beers after work. she was there. They ... (203 words)

If he says he doesn't care, then why is he reading my blogs?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I got out of a relationship 4 months ago. Basically, I was dumped, and lets say my ex and I have been through a lot. We used to be attached like twins, and we went through a few arguments that escalated. He broke up with me because he thought I was too controlling. But, ... (312 words)

How do I tell him I'm so in love with him?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so in love with my boyfriend at this point. We love each other and what not. But we haven't told each other that we're "in love" with one another. Because well... we aren't. Or wasn't at the time. We think "i love you" and "I'm in love with you" are two different things. We ... (192 words)

Where is this relationship heading?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well ill try and make this as short as possible. About 3 months ago I was really into this girl(girl A) for a little bit then I got introduced to her friend(girl B) through friends of mine and I ended up devoloping feelings for both of them, so I talk to girl A about my confu... (256 words)

Ex wife is hanging onto my family!

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - The facts: we were divorced a year ago after 3 years of separation and lots of good reasons to split. We have 2 boys, 23 and 19 years old, now out of the house (university and "exploring the world.) I met the love of my life 2 years ago, and am newly remarried. My ex-wife and ... (361 words)

Did I lose feelings for her during our separation?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girl were separated for two months. We talked everyday and texted each other. The thing is, over the two months I did not miss her at all. Even though we talked everyday every time I saw a text from her or see her calling me I would cringe thinking "my god she wants ... (189 words)

I gave my husband everything and now there is nothing left of me....

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I'm 25yr I'm a housewife and mother of 3 (3yrs, 2yrs and a 6m)have been married for 3yrs but been together for 6yrs with my husband...our relationship has been going through rough roads for the pass years mainly coz I feel neglected most of the time. I work my ... (397 words)

I'm an emotional wreck!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently ive been really emotional. I cry about the littlest things for example I cry everytime I think of me and my boyfriend (Of 2 Years) breaking up, If he talks about some other girl or even jokes around about being mean to me. Its long distance and I dont know if i can ... (179 words)

DNA test to check if I'm daddy......

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend and I met on 28th March and spent most nights together until 11th April - she then returned to her hometown - I met her on the 15th - she said she was menstuating though on the 16th/17th we made love - I can't quite remember but I think its possible that I did see ... (341 words)

How can I let her know how I feel about her?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have recently gotten out of a relationship. In which time I've met an absolutely incredible girl, she has a boyfriend but always talks to me about how she is only with him because she feels like she owes it to him. She has come over to my house multiple times, and every ... (132 words)

Why does an ex (first love) make things so complicated?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am still in love with my ex. We were dating for a couple of years and he was MY first Ever Love. He got my name tattooed on his arm and always told me loved me. Then one day my friend tells me he no longer wants to go out with me. I was devasted I asked him how could he go ... (717 words)

Prank calls late at night..........could it be my ex?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my ex partner has been gone for 3 weeks now, i get prank calls late at night can this be her or just a coincidence. i really love this person i honestly dont know why it ended. do i move on or just see what happens if she gets in touch..... she always said i was the kindest ... (86 words)

How can I stop myself from falling out of love with my ex? I still want her to be my wife!

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex gf whipped me. She treated me like shit cheated lied you name it then threw me to the canibals. I went way down had to go on antidepressants. I used to breathe her 24 7 for months and months thinking maybe she would return. I want her to be my wife but I'm finding it ... (115 words)

How do I make my son my priority over my romantic relationship?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This isn't your typical relationship question. I am currently involved with a man who treats my heart like a revolving door due to his own depression. I am madly in love with him and that won't change. My problem is my lack of self esteem that develops due to this - I have had ... (230 words)

Cheating: are some actions more unethical than others?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's unethical to get involved in an affair but many people do and then some typical outcomes may happen from there. Some questions on these outcomes and which of them are considered more or less ethical/moral: (note: I'm referring to long-term affairs with one other person... (346 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about my dream or just let it slip?

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16 November 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hello i have a dream question. First off, Im a very caring loving person dispite how vocal and rude i can be. So yknow, when somethings wrong with some one i'll tell them 'i love you' because i care about them and no matter what, i'll be there. Now, saying 'I love you' ... (227 words)

He's so hot and cold with me! What does this mean?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this guy I've liked for a while now. we were such good friends until he started being a jerk. he knew I liked him but probably thinks I don't anymore because of how he hurt my feelings. I forgave him and he was nice to me again. I think it was just because he felt ... (213 words)

Is he still in love with me or am I just his sex partner?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a problem with the father of my son, we've been together for 6 Years now everything is fine except he doesnt take care of me I mean ,he didnt pay for my son and he never proposed to me , he doesnt help me with anything like buying something for his son , phoning him ... (99 words)

He flirts with her all the time and I feel like second best here! What should I do?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, my boyfriend has this female friend hes always flirting with. ever since the beginning of our relationship it has been causing serious problems..ive even broke up with him over leaving flirtatious picture comments on her profile.he admitted to flirting with her and ... (266 words)

Is it possible that my wife could've cheated on me and the baby is not mine?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am suspicious that my wife might have been pregant before as she acts wierd in front of the doctor when he asks - also is it possible that she could have bled after conceiving and as such is it possible that she could have cheated on me, and the baby is not mine?... (54 words)

I can't trust him because he let me down! Am I being irrational here?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently engaged to a man seven years older than I, and we've been together for three years. About a year and a half ago, my father passed away from a long-term illness. My fiancée knew my father, and of his illness, and that time was quickly slipping through our fing... (443 words)

Why do I want this guy if hes a manwhore?! Help!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do i want this guy if hes a manwhore?! i cant get him out of my head and its driving me, and my bf insane! i cant stop thinking about him hes one of my best friends and its becoming more and more difficult to hang out with him because i know my bf doesnt approve. idk wha... (65 words)

Who should I choose...my bf or this other guy?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have sort of a problem. I've been dating this guy, we'll call him John, for almost a year. I love him so much and for the most part we seem to mesh well the only problem is is that its sort of a long distance relationship. He lives about 2 hours away and we're both in ... (232 words)

He doesn't like my flat bustline...help!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I have been together 3 yrs and I thought our relationship was ok. Out of the blue he said that when he made love to me it was like doing it with a little boy. He wont explain what he means, I've had 4 kids and havent got much of a bust anymore. I'm not sure if ... (67 words)

This toxic relationship with him is exhausting..but I love him! What can I do?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for almost two years. When I first met him, we were perfect together. I am usually friends with a guy first before I go out with them, but this guy we just jumped right into out relationship as soon as we met. By one month, we were living together. Then ... (299 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care! What should I do?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesnt want to change as in i asked him to be nicer, to pay more attention to me and to be more loving, and he just tells me he dont know if he can? so now i told him i will not go to his house or see him but he really doesnt seem 2 care? he gets mad when i cry?... (64 words)

Women are like bug zappers and men are flies.

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, just got out of a year long relationship a couple of months and I'm suddenly remembering how annoying trying to date. I approach the steps as well as can be. I meet new women all the time and it always ends up the same. We laugh together and have a good conversation, I get ... (214 words)

Steps on letting go?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and will be together for 1 year at the end of nov. We were having trust issues I kept feeling something was wrong and come to find out I was right he was cheating on me for about a month until he got caught.I said I forgive him and still love him and want it to ... (146 words)

Why won't he add me on Facebook??

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey there's this senior at school, i kinda like him and i added him on facebook but it's been like a month and he still hasn't added me or even rejected the request i added him again and still nothing...i know i sound pretty pathetic, he adds people i know and but he wont add ... (77 words)

He called me the "W" word!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im in a bit of a pickle and ive gotten myself caught in a deep depression and im super paranoid...so back story...i dated myy ex boyfriend for 2 months and ultimately broke up because i was naive and stupid and would kiss him. (pathetic I kn ow) and it was weighing on me for ... (404 words)

Why do I want what I can't have?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, ummm well basically my question is, why do i always want someone i cant have mainly happening when she already has a boyfriend, i think about it all the time and this problem is occuring now and quite honestly its killing me because im one of those kind of people who enjoy ... (78 words)

Male pattern baldness!

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people, I can't help but feel that I'll be single for the rest of my life. Here's my situation: I'm in my early twenties and started balding a couple of years back. Instead of opting for hair transplants and whatnot, I chose to shave my head and embrace baldness. Sure,... (364 words)

My brother and I have a complicated past.

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, but I do not know the best way to ask it without giving the big picture first. Please, I ask that you be patient as you read this recount of my past before offering your advice. When I was 12, my oldest brother (then 18) and I became quite close. We had always ha... (874 words)

At what age do guys hit puberty?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - whatage do guys usually start puberty ? use your own story if you have to . butt my boyfriend is a year younger than me . and I'm pretty sure he hasn't hit puberty . about what age will he , and will he want more sexually activity from me ? please help ! and is it normal to ... (114 words)

I believe my hymen is broken!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a virgin.i've fooled around a little but never done penetration.i thought my hymen was still intact,until a talk with a friend last night lead to some research,and all this time i had mistakenly thought my cervix was my hymen.then,realizing from what i'd seen in mirrors,i ... (219 words)

Did the trauma of heartbreak, cause my hair to change?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age - ~Did Heart Break Revert Me to Being Strawberry Shortcake" I was born with a head full of deep bright red hair which remained this color up until I turned 14 years old at which time it all gradually turned to a very dark brown color which if most times mistaken for bla... (181 words)

I can't stand that she's not a virgin!

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so im fairly certain that i want to break up with my girlfriend. We've been together for almost 9 months now and in her eyes everything is going great. But a few months ago I found out she s not a virgin(I am a virgin). Ive tried to let time pass and to just work it out ... (272 words)

Feeling rather lonely.

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know if I'm always going to be single/lonely? Meaning will I ever find a boyfriend? I'm 19 and everybody tells me I'm pretty but if I was pretty wouldn't I have a boyfriend?? I had my first boyfriend when I was 17 and I regret the whole thing! We were not good ... (202 words)

How do I tell my ex I'm engaged without breaking his heart?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My first boyfriend took my virginity and the next day I caught him having sex with another girl in his basement. He didn't even care and had the nerve to twist it like it was my fault. I ended up having to get counseling for a year and now that I am happy with my 2nd boyfriend ... (140 words)

Never thought I would cheat.

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I always thought that people who cheated on their boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband were evil and disgusting.But now I know the truth they are not because I have cheated on my boyfriend more than once nothing happened just kissing/hugging.Of course I haven't told my boyfriend ... (74 words)

My boyfriend is unrealistic!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to start with an explanation first. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year now. Him and I love each other. He is as sweet as can be and we've never had any huge arguments-- only bickering that lasted 5 minutes and we got over it. We get along great ... (554 words)

I want him back! What can I do?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys:) so I like this boy..Cody. We r ALWAYS off and on. Long story short: we dated when I was in 8th grade. He was in 9th. I was not over my ex one bit so I dumped him. it was your Typical middle school relationship. Then we tried again that next year.. We didn't date ... (192 words)

Why bring another girl to MY party when you're supposed to be there for me?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why has my boyfriend invited this girl to MY party if he never takes me to any of the parties he goes to? My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years and during this period he’s taken me to one party, and one wedding. Nowadays (As he never use to be a party goer ... (473 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend, now he never wants to see me again!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I need to start that me and my boyfriend were together for almost 2 years. Btw I am 18 and he is almost 21. After the first year of our relationship he felt like he wasn't happy anymore and he wanted me to change. He wanted me to be more independent, positive and ... (832 words)

She said yes!

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well I got a yes finally from the girl I could easily spend the rest of my life just listening to her. She makes me think and couldn't be any prettier in my eyes. well the yes isn't to a date unless you would label it as that. I asked if she would run with me in my tr... (575 words)

Shaving is such a pain!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey this is kinda embarrassing but i shaved my vaginia a couple days ago and now i have redish/pinkish bumps there and a couple of them hurt when touched. What should i do? and will this happen every time i shave down there? Thanks.... (44 words)

Lighting struck twice!

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some grounding comments on my situation. I was long term married to a decent guy and had 2 kids but a few years ago I met another guy and felt real chemistry. He was 8 years younger, had a partner who was expecting his first child and he lived and worked locally. We ... (311 words)

"You really got a hold on me."

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello all, Well there is this girl I like and she knows that I like/liked her but she drives me to do things I wouldn't normally do. Im not talking about stupid things like that I might get in trouble for but I would/will do what ever she wants me to do. I don't know w... (560 words)

Is my future ruined because I got a girl pregnant?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I just turned 18 in september. My life is baseball, i've played it all my life and have potential scholarship opportunities. Anyway, this girl from my old school calls me up after her and her bf break up and wants to come over. Being the teenage kid that I am, I let ... (241 words)

Third time is a charm?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so there is this boy and I've liked him since last year.And I've never had a boy friend before. I finally got his number this year and we started texting eachother. I asked him out the first time and he said yes so we started dating turns out the first time we dated he ... (471 words)

When's the next time aunt flow will be in town?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im so confusing my last period came on the 27th cycle length but the other times it comes on the 28 cycle length. can any one tell me when my next period is oct 10 cycle length 27/28... (38 words)

Is this as big as it gets?

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Aye people out there I' m 13 I have a 2.5 -3 inch dick n i wanna know how to grow it and isnt it mortifying to have a small penis like mine? second my cousin spent the nite and I went in the bathroom and he had a huge, long penis like 6 or 7 inch penis i just want help to grow ... (118 words)

He just got out of a long term relationship and says he wants to be single, but he treats me like a girlfriend?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have been getting with this guy recently, and from the beginning he told me he doesn't want a girlfriend as; a) he had just got out of a long term relationship b)he wants to be single however as we've spent more time together im really starting to fall for ... (91 words)

Phone sex, what do I do?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Can you guys give me insight of what happens or what your supposed to do/say during phone sex? I have a general idea but im curious and want to no more.... (31 words)

I want to get to know this woman better but she is my TA!

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16 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I currently attend the University of Kansas where I met my TA for one of my classes, I noticed how beautiful she was. She's Brazilian and I'm Latino (no difference I suppose), so we know a fair amount of Spanish. We got along great, I was the first name she memorized, would ... (343 words)

Is my mom interested in my Boyfriend?

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16 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I first started dating my current boyfriend (for a year and a half) my mom had originally said that she was glad that she was not attracted to him because there have been 'bad situations' when mom's find their daughter's boyfriend attractive. My boyfriend has gained 30 ... (115 words)