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How do I make her stop being distant?

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Question - (5 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am in some sort of a predicament. My ex gf who just found out she is pregnant dumped me 2 days ago and she wont give me a reason. she seems more distant but still calls daily. sometimes she still says she loves me. is it the hormones from the pregnancy? the reason she broke up with me is because we got in a fight cause i called her a liar. she still wants me to walk her to her car after school and everything but says she doesn't know if she wants to be together. what do i do to make her stop being distant

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):

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called her a liar cause she broke up with me and then put on her facebook that she is smitten and obviously wasnt with me. and she has acted shady for a few days now. the i love you's stopped and i think she has someone else

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010):

you called her a liar at what is one of the most vulnerable periods in her life? Sad. At least she is allowing some contact. From now on you will have to seriously be a well mannered courteous gentleman in all your dealings with her. Make NO moves on her. Allow her to call the shots. Remain respectful, let her know you are happy to be there for her. You showed a nasty side to you that destroyed her trust in you. Now you have to rebuild that trust. Let her know you care about her by your tone of voice, demeanor and your actions.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (5 November 2010):

petina1 agony auntShe must be in shock to find out she is pregnant. Did you call her a liar because you didnt believe her? You must apologise to her and let her know you will be there for her to support her what ever decisions come along that you both want for your future of the child. Good Luck

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