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I want to be sexual but I'm scared of sex because I didn't really enjoy it in my last relationship

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Question - (5 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ugh! I want tu b sexual but I'm scared of sex because I didn really enjoy it in my last relationship..what should I do? What can I do to be sexy? I want to learn how to ride also...any tips?

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (5 November 2010):

mizz.butterflies agony auntwatch porn ? This is how many women learn how to do specific things in the bedroom.

Not every guy is the same.dont be scared.relax and enjoy :)

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A female reader, charliesdevil73 United States +, writes (5 November 2010):

charliesdevil73 agony auntFirst of all, you will not always enjoy sex. Sometimes, you get with someone who can be too pushy, or not pushy enough, or you just don't feel that "click" with them. I like it best when I have really strong feelings for the guy. Don't think that your last experience will ruin the new one. If you're a bit nervous, start out slow. Do a bunch of foreplay until you are for sure in the mood.

For sex positions and learning how to ride, go here: http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml. Their positions are 3D and you can see how you are supposed to move. Or, look at porn. There are a lot of free sites out there and you can learn a lot from them.

My favorite on top position is when my man is sitting up with his back leaning against the bed frame. Then, put a pillow under his butt (if you like him deaper) straddle and do what feels good. If you use the bed frame as leverage, you can get some better angles. Good luck!

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