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Can someone please translate this guy-speak?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, can any guys or girls reading this please translate some guy speak for me? I've been with my bf for 2 months. He showed me a text he sent to his female friend who he has known for years about a party they're going to next week. He'd texted that he would be bringing... (135 words

Psycho Ex Girlfriend who won't stop messing with me, even tho the breakup was her idea.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1429 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I first met my girlfriend in high school at a party and then we didn't talk until this year when she wished me a happy birthday via Facebook. We started hanging out more often after I got her a job at my work, which made work so much fun! We got to know each other really well ... (286 words

Husband doesn't like being with me in Public

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm 38 and married to a younger man. He and I have great chemistry at home (awesome, in fact) but he completely withdraws and doesn't want to be with me in public. I love to dance and he will not dance with me in public although he will dance with others if he is out without ... (162 words

Need some advice on how to overcome trust issues

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28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey, I'd appreciate your advice on how to stop myself becoming the kind of gf I don't want to be, and hope this doesn't sound stupid. I've been with my bf for a few months, both exclusive. He's a great guy-kind, caring, handsome, sexy and clever. We see each other 3-4 time... (313 words

Not ready to let loose sexually with him, but I want to keep him interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1431 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I'd appreciate some advice. I've been exclusively dating my bf for 3 months. He is an amazing kisser and great in bed. He has lots of stamina, though, and sometimes seems to kinda hold himself back from orgasming. So the other night, he was a little tipsy, and was ... (218 words

Its been 3 months and I'm still not over him

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28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend broke up with me and its been 3 months. We go to the same school and we do the same activity at school so i see him everyday. I went to dances and parties and talked to plently of guys and made new guy friends. But i dont know why but somthing inside me wont let me ... (71 words

How do I know I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for over 3 years, he was my 1st boyfriend, intially i thought i loved him, i just loved being with him and spending all my time but in the last year i don't find him attractive but he is the most sweetest and he would do anything for me. i ... (218 words

Should I see if chemistry develops? Or break it off now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - On Saturday, this guy and I went on a very short date - an hour long. We're both 16, juniors. I said let's not kiss, because he had a coldsore. So for half an hour we went round town in the cold with his arm round me - this guy is in a class with me, and I don't really know ... (203 words

My b/f wants to have a threesome with me and my best friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1429 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - Oh gosh im in love with my boyfriend were both 16 and im bisexual. He wants too try a threesome and im not sure if I should cause it might mess up our relationship. Hes cheated on me before and I know he dont desrve me. Im not sure if I should leave him because he wants ... (202 words

Married man wants me to move into his house with his wife and kids and his wife is ok with it??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - i am 17 and i and this marrierd man are in love i mean he loved me and was regretig why he had married but i definitely know that this love won't lead to anywhere. he also understands that it won't lead to anywhere but he swear to take me as his sister and will really care for ... (232 words

Do guys say cute stuff that they don't mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - So you know how everyone says, guys always say stuff they don't mean. Well I was wondering is that really true, cause now I'm starting to think sometimes when my boyfriend says cute stuff that maybe he doesn't mean it. I know this kinda sounds stupid but I've actually been ... (60 words

How to get over a boyfriend cheating on me with my sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - For November of 2009 to January 2010 I was seeing a guy that was two years younger than me. (I was 18, he was 16). I would this a bit strange to begin with but seemed to be working well. Towards the end he started acting weird towards me, he kept saying we should invite my... (337 words

Is she using me to make her boyfriend upset?

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28 November 2010 (M age 16-17 - So im at playing in this tennis match when this girl comes up to me and asks me if im gonna play and I say yeah and ask her if she is. Then I lose my first match and she comes up to me and asks me if I won when I told her I lost she said oh well you looked fit anyway. Then she ... (213 words

Everytime something goes wrong boyfriend puts all the blame on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - So today my boyfriend and I were suppose to hang out, but his parents told him he couldn't hang out with me until he was done with his homework. He told me it was going to take forever to complete his work, so I told him that we didn't need to hang out today because I also had ... (186 words

Why do cheaters feel entitled to lie, sneak and hurt others?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, when I read through questions and answers I read about people cheating on others (my ex did it to me) It literally tore me apart. But my question is; If you are a cheater, Why do you do this? Why can't you get out of a relationship honestly and with integrity? And if ... (103 words

I am used to being treated like a lady, not expected to pay for everything because his ex wife hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - I ask him for some time, he is 44 and since we started he asked me to buy him, coffee, lunch,etc. We spoke about it and after two months he told me about an airfare reimbursement situation he had with his ex wife. The airline reimbursed both tickets into her account and he ... (484 words

She cares for me but wants to be in other relationships. I don't get it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend (both in our 20s)of 9 months have recently split up. We had an amazing relationship, we never argued we are very close and we always got along really well, you could see that we were best friends aswell as boyfriend and girlfriend. Then out of the blue she ... (174 words

Why do people always put relationships down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - Why is it that people always put down relationships? My boyfriend and I have been together for 14 months and everything is going great but all everybody wants is for us to fall apart. My boyfrined and I both don't understand it. Why would people want that? There is nothing ... (76 words

How do you get over a woman who you cant decide is hurt or just plain malicious and stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - how do you get over a woman who you cant decide is hurt or just plain malicious and stupid? met this woman on facebook...of all places, and we decided to meet up. She was perfect. couldnt ask for a prettier or more polite lady. from the off I knew she was married but when your ... (172 words

What is the appropriate reaction when others flirt with your partner?

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28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I want to know what people think is the approproate reaction to other people flirting with your partner (whether or not your partner flirts back) I'm lucky enough, for the past year, to have been going out with a very good looking and generally lovely man. He also has a l... (374 words

A girl gave me prolonged eye contact. What does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I caught this girl staring at me. She did not look away, and I got uncomfortable and I looked away. Her face was blank. It was for 5-6 seconds. She did not want to look away. Why would she do this?... (45 words

Can stress make OCD worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (? age 26-29 - When i was younger i suffered from OCD quite badly. I used to have to do things a certain number of times e.g. switch a light on and off a certain amount of times because i was sure that if i didn't something bad would happen to other people. I know i probably sound like a ... (105 words

Why doesn't the hot young guy ever say anything to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am incredibly shy and I am not a cougar. I had a crush on a Hot guy who rides my bus occasionally. I am way past the age when I should have a crush. Plus he is young, way younger than me. Yes, I know, I am clueless about men for a woman my age. Just shoot me! He sat across ... (213 words

Same old, Same old. Can't stop thinking about my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Okay, I feel so lame writing this but I need some sort of advice. I have known this girl for 2 years and we hit it off straight away. She is my best friend. She is smart, witty, funny, intelligent and absolutely stunning. We do everything together. We go out for meals. W... (552 words

If she really wants to be with me then why does she have to hide things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I were broken up over the weekend so we went 2 IHOP to talk about it. Everything was good but she kept txtn on her phone, I asked to see it and she said it was her ex-boyfriend. She said I could read the messages but she had to delete some "personal" parts of ... (100 words

Ex teacher is behaving inappropriately! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - To cut to the chase: my now ex-teacher is taking his newfound 'freedom' a little too seriously. Last week me and a classmate of mine got an 'innocent' e-mail from him asking how our finals went. I was late in answering because I was busy with an assignment. She answered imm... (232 words

She cheated and now I am always comparing myself to the other guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - hi. i dated a girl for 4 years and she left for her studies to USA and then we were in touch online. she never wanted to leave me. but she left. in tow years we never met after that. she came back and we married. she went back to continue her studies and then now when i came to ... (228 words

I want to help others but don't know how to go about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi there.. I am 19..and from last few days a thought preoccupied my mind. I may sound silly or this may not be the right platform to ask for but any suggestions would be appreciated. Actually..i want to do some nice deeds like charity or helping poors..anything to serve... (209 words

Is he just lying to me to make me feel better about my skills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - So here it is, sorry if it comes across as a bit graphic but it seems better to be clear about what I'm asking. I've been with my boyfriend for about 3months and in general the sex is great. He's only my second sexual partner and there was over a year between him and my first... (357 words

I don't want someone who pulls away and destroys my confidence!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi - I posted here many times about this guy so I wanted to give the update on the situation. I am confused and kind of sad so I would like to have your opinions. Quick background: We started this like ten months ago. It is a long distance thing. He was chasing me, all ... (694 words

Shouldn't I be getting over him by now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I was going out with my ex for two and a half years and for the last year it was nothing but terrible arguments that we just couldnt resolve no matter what we tried, so we decided to break up. Its been two and a half months since the break up and although all we did was argue i ... (173 words

Does nothing turn him on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I've been with my bf for around 9 month and everything is good with us. I was lay in bed with him the other day and we was talking about what turns us on and gets us going. So I told him everything he already knows like kissing my neck, nibbling my ear, touching my boobs an... (115 words

I can't match his efforts when it comes to money!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 23 yr old female and my partner and I have been friends 2 years, together 5 months and living together 6 weeks. It may seem fast but it feels right for both of us and we're buying a house together in a few months. Lately we keep arguing and eventualy we talk th... (381 words

Was it wrong of me to enjoy this sexual experience with my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1430 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Here is the story: I went out of town to visit my aunt for Thanksgiving. I haven't seen my cousins for over five years. My aunt, who is my mother's half sister (BTW), had 10 kids--So I have a lot of cousins. This cousin in particular is the one that I am closest to-we en... (369 words

What does it mean when my girlfriend said "she came"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - What does it mean when a girl says she "comes". My gf said it during sex and I was wondering whether it just meant she had orgasmed? Also, how can I make her orgasm more during sex? It rarely happens. ... (44 words

Is he trying to show me he's not spooked?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - So here I am..on a website asking kind strangers for advice :) I apologize for the length. Even if no one responds, I'll at least be able to see my thoughts in writing. We were smitten with each other right away. After about 3 weeks of constant texting and dates and cuddli... (820 words

Can someone please tell me I'm not alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am just looking for someone to reassure me that there is nothing wrong with me. A little about myself... I am a 26 year old male, attractive (at least I have been told so every now and then) healthy both physically and mentally, very active athletically speaking, college ... (252 words

Boyfriend proposed a day after my 16th birthday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (? age 18-21 - please help i am a 16 year old school girl in the uk so i am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years who is 4 years older that i am. any ways my parents have known about us since the start but for my 16 th birthday he told me he wanted to do something special .... (220 words

He says he's not emotionally there but when it comes to the sexual part of a relationship then it's fine!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I have known this guy now since i was 7 and now were both 17, we have always been really good friends but things started changing 2 years ago when he fell for me. i didnt feel the same towards him but just wanted a little fun so we kissed etc, he asked me out after a couple of ... (300 words

He picks his friends and fishing over time spent with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Right now, I get to see J. once or twice a week because of work. I'm leaving Tuesday for a wedding and won't be back for two weeks. Yesterday, he told me nothing. Calls me up out of nowhere to go fishing at 8pm and I find out he sees me because his friends changed THEIR plans ... (197 words

I always fall into the friend zone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I have a lot of close female friends. The problem is that I meet them, like them, and then we become really close friends and nothing more. It rarely fails. Although I'd like something more than friends in the beginning, I wouldn't change my relationships with these (female) ... (267 words

My periods have never been regular!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - ive been having periods for around 5 years now and im still not in a regular pattern. sometimes im on at around the 28day stage however other times its about 50days. is this normal?... (34 words

Was she too loose from the booze?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - I'm recently divorced. I was at a party in which a former woman friend of my x wife and I was there. This woman became drunk. I drove her home and helped her to the front door of her house. She started kissing and groping me. I told her she was too drunk and to stop. She said ... (159 words

31 and NEVER had a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - While I have gone on 2 dates when I was 23, I still have no idea really what dating is like. Here is my love bio so to speak: I am a single, straight, successful and educated, 31 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend, nor have I ever experienced my first kiss or even a ... (151 words

She knows I adore him but yet she says he's good looking!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1431 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - ive been out with this boy about 15 times and im in love with him so much. Were best mates and we flirt alot but recently my over best friend whos a girl has started saying hes good looking and the boy is putting her first for everything do you think they like eachother ? if ... (87 words

Am I or we (me and my ex) still in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I never dated after my divorce until 2 years later I met this woman who was out of her divorce for a bout a year. We clicked instantaneously. The chemistry between us was unlike anything either of us had encountered in the past. The main stumbling block between us was our ... (531 words

My friends didn't like me before when I was fat, why should I give them a chance now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am not comfortable with my body at all. Any time I am intimate with some one I do my damnedest to keep my clothes on. I feel gross. They always seem fine with it but I am not. I have recently started dieting and exercising and I lost 22 pounds but still have a little bit to ... (176 words

Is this the stress from exams the reason why he cannot ejaculate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1429 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been together with my bf for about 10 months for now. We have done everything except for sex. Which means we have go all out for oral and stuff... But yesterday, it is the first time he did not manage to cum from the hand jobs and blow jobs i gave him. I gave him blo... (179 words

How many texts/calls a day is considered too needy or clingy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - What is considered too needy or clingy? How many phone calls/texts a day? And how much can we expect phone calls/texts/communication back from a person without expecting too much?... (31 words

Have you cheated on your partner and been able to have a good relationship / marriage afterwards? Share the story!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1428 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Does anyone have any stories about cheating on their partner and being able to have a good relationship after? Has anyone here cheated on their partner, NEVER told them, and been able to have a healthy long-term relationship with the person they cheated on? Do guilt issues get ... (69 words

Who do I go to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1431 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Should i go back and be with my son father or be with this other guy? now i been with my son father for 3yrs and the reason for our beak up is that he was not being the man i needed him to be for me,,and he always told me i dnt give him a chance to show me.but i do love him ... (156 words

Is he secretly bisexual? Perhaps in denial?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - A guy I started dating revealed that he had a sexual encounter with another guy when he was younger (in his teens). He says that he was just really sexual and wanted to have sex, didn't care with whom, and so he slept with that guy but that he's not into guys. Is he sec... (85 words

Is this always the case, one partner loves the other more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year, and I love him more than I ever thought was possible, he makes me extremely happy. However, for most of our relationship I've felt like I love him more than he loves me. I told him this and he said that I was worrying over nothing. I know ... (196 words

If he wants to spend holidays with them, don't expect me to tag along!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1423 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating "josh" for a year now. We get along really well, have a loving relationship, and it is very obvious that we both care about each other very much. There is one problem, he is friends with a group of people that i don't get along with. Most people in the gr... (340 words

In love with this martial arts babe!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1429 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 18-21 - Okay this my story. 11 months ago i started martial arts nearby where i live, in my first lesson my eye was immediantly drawn to this beautiful girl. Over the next few months we start talking and we exchange numbers, add each other on facebook, etc, the usual. As time passes we ... (441 words

Got a crush on my manager!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1423 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - First of all, sorry for my bad english. I'm not so good in grammar and vocab. :S Secondly, I need opinion on this. :) I'm 23 and he is 29. He is my manager at work, and I have a crush on him for almost 1 year. He like to tease me, and call me by several name. And I als... (629 words

We both hang out with other people, and I'm tempted to cheat, can our relationship be saved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - can our relationship be saved? my boyfriend begun to allow his female friends in our relationship. i will explain. he is allowing girls that are interested in him to hang out with us, when i told him how unhappy that makes me, now he hangs out with them without me. he says he ... (141 words

He knows I have a boyfriend, so why does he want to meet up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi guys, so this isn't a very serious question, but I'm just a bit confused about what this guy is doing. I'm happily in a relationship for almost 2 years now, we're doing pretty good, but recently this other guy is hitting on me, maybe? Met him on a train. I noticed him ... (229 words

Wife has cheated on me twice, I'm struggling to take her back

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I met my wife when we were both 19 which was 16 years ago. We were together happily for about 6 years and then one night my wife got drunk and kissed my best friend in front of me. I think I battled with that for a while but we worked through it. A year or so later she had... (267 words

I like him a lot but his addictive personality is worrying me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we've been together for a few months and everything is pretty good. theres an issue tho.. im afraid he has a very addictive personalitly and i worry for him. he enjoys smoking weed and other substances like that (no hard drugs) and will drink ... (294 words

I can't make him cum by hand stimulation, I feel guilty, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - Been with my boyfriend for about 5 months. Completely happy with him and like things how they are. But there is just one thing, when I am giving him a handjob I can't make him cum. He takes ages and my arm ends up aching before he does so he gets frustrated so I stop. I real... (84 words

My ex boyfriend disappeared on me, and I can't get over it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1384 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm still heart broken, after 4 months. I was seeing my ex boyfriend for 1 year, even though it was a long distance relationship , he lived an hour and half away by train. I was very much in love with him. He last came to visit me for a week in late july, everything seemed ... (308 words

What should I do next to contact him? Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am seeing a guy since 1 month. Though we were not committed to each other...I mean I was ready to get committed, but he was little bit confused. However he told me on our 1st date that he liked me and also asked me to have our 2nd date.He kissed me on my 2nd date and after ... (220 words

Separated from wife, ill mom, and I don't know where to turn

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - My situation is complicated. My wife and I have separated now for about a month. For the last year I have been staying and taking care of my 86 year old Mother at her house at night. We would travel between both houses so we could see my 2 children and have a little family time ... (305 words

Meeting older boyfriend's parents and I'm very nervous

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28 November 2010 (? age 18-21 - so i am a school girl age 16 in uk .. i need help well ...i am seeing this man of 20 and my paretns know about us and everything and so do my friends but his mum and dd doesn't know about us so we are going to go around next saturday and he is going to introduce me to ... (119 words

Do I have to cut him off completely and just accept it?

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28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - We didn't mean to fall in love, but it happened. He was my first love, too. The problem is, I'm 20, he's 36, and he was my teacher at my former prep school. We obviously cannot be together, and when we realized that the feelings had progressed way beyond friendship, we mutually ... (562 words

I just want to know if I’m a fool or should I just move on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - So basically I’ve been seeing this guy for almost a month now, he's 22 and I’m 18. Were on the same course in uni but in different years, I’m in my first he’s in his last: S We met when we were drunk and swapped numbers, he’s such a lovely guy tall sexy as hell and actuall... (471 words

Next step in this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm seeing a gal since more than a month.. we've been out for dinners, pubs, day-long trips on my motor bike, late night ice-creams n other friendly chats.. I've been liking her a lot lately and getting attracted to her physically/sexually. I think she likes me too and... (174 words

Did she use me for my money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - my gF of 6 years recently move out. said that she did not love me anymore and wanted to be on her own. a little back ground when we met she was my tenant and it grew it to a relatinship she came from an abusive relatinship and had 3 kids. she live in one of my properti... (452 words

Should I ask him why he takes so long to reply me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 16-17 - My bf used to send me more than 1 or 2 messages a day, and usually he is the one who says "hi" first when I'm online and reply me very quick. But these days, he only sent me 1 message a day and I became the one who says "hi" first ( I know this doesn't matter ) but he took 5 ... (112 words

Do I have to dump my married man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Im inlove with married man,we have been together for some mnths now,judging by his actions i think he loves me,god im so much inlove with him,he dont want to talk much about his marriage,is he using me for sex?do i have to dump him b4 it 2 late?... (48 words

Sister vs. sister

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28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - okay i have a bad situation. my sis and this guy were together. they brroke up cuz he was flirting with me, well now im with him and he talks on the phone and txts my sis alot wat do i do??... (42 words

I'm not ready for most things but I'm afraid he'll leave me

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28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - hello i have a boyfriend and weve been going out for 3 weeks. weve already hugged and kissed goodbye. but he txts me saying we should hold hands and make out and have oral sex. im not ready, when im with him i feel akward even thoough i love him.i dont wanna hold hands yet but ... (158 words

I can't trust him again!

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28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - We broke up with my boyfriend for 8months bt he kept calling me until i gave up en agreed for meeting , we broke up because he cheated on me bt i still love him very much my problem is now i cant trust him again now im confused wht should i do... (54 words

How can I seduce a married lady

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28 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - i m a 26 yrs old guy..........i m havng affair with a 34 yr old married lady.....she has thre kids.....her husband is 50 yrs of age..how can i convince her for sex ......or seduce her.........as she doesnt like her husband.just with her for sake of children ...any advice... (48 words

Any computer whizzs out there who can help?

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28 November 2010 (F age 16-17 - I know this has nothing to do with relationships but im really desperate. I emailed my coursework home to myself and so i opened it and started doing work on it. I spent all yesterday working at it saving it but not by save as. Today there has been no record of me ever opening ... (102 words

Am I gay? or os it just a phase in my life?

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28 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - Am i gay? or os it just a phase in my life? I have not had a girlfriend, But i had no interest in boys untill i had gay sex with my friend. When i see a girl naked now i dont get turned on but when i see a guy naked i get a full on erection. I have a bit of a gay relationship ... (77 words

I have feelings for my manager, does he like me too?

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28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I work in a bookshop, and I've developed a real crush on the assistant manager there. He's 35, so 10 years older than me (although I'm mature for my age and tend to like older people) and also my immediate superior so I don't know if it would be a good idea to act on it. ... (369 words

It bothers me that she lost her virginity to her ex boyfriend

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28 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - hiii....iam in a relationship from past 1 year....my girlfriend told me a few months back that she has lost her verginity to his ex-boyfriend..they had a realtionship of 4 years..i love her a lott n cant think of my life without her.but at the same time this truth bothers me a ... (119 words

Is my cousin interested in me?

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28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - hello cupid. i have a question :- Is my cousin interested in me? so here is my story :- for the past few days, whenever am online on fb he is always chatting with me and he usually sometimes call me names like :- beautiful and sweetheart. i spent the last weeke... (313 words

I know we're going to break up... I can feel it!

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28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I know were going to break up i can feel it. I don't know what to do, my heart feels like it's in tiny pieces. I feel hopless once again. I love her and this thing with her ex... I dont think she understands why it hurts me so much. I don't know what to do... ... (56 words

I feel like this girl is going to take him away from me!

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28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - so this boy likes me and i like him. we both know that we like each other, but this girl that he dated before, keeps on bugging our "starting relationship" periods, and when she is around, i feel like she will take him away from me, what should i do? ... (50 words

He cheated with his ex, and now we're both pregnant by him!

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28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - ok im 18 and ive been seeing this boy named ronnie for 7 months may11th to november 11th and i thought he was the one and him and his siter and her 4 kids live with his ex and i trust him so it wasent a big deal it woulod have been way better then them staying in a shelter ... (255 words

My comments on other girls are gonna make us break up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I need help with my girlfriend. Me and my girlfriend have been going out now for 10 months, i know she loves me dearly as do i. Now the problem is that around 2 weeks into our relationship ( yes 2 weeks its been going on that long) i made comments about certain girls th... (307 words

Am I just missing my ex or could something be going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1423 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - Long story short, a few months back my BF left me for no reason (his reasons I guess) after that I refused to be his friend or even have comunication. Lately Ive been completly busy, I barely have time to think but yesterday was a good day. Last night I went to the mall an met ... (329 words

Should I tell my best guy friend how I feel? He has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Should I tell one of my best guy friends how I feel about him, even if he has a girlfriend? See this guy and I are co workers. We became best friends pretty much as soon he started working with me eight months ago. The thing is we never hung out outside of work functions. We ... (231 words

Unable to reject my ex but I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1431 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hey Ok I have this Boyfriend that i really like, I think about him constantly, i always dream about him and talk about him to all my friends, but the problem is I still have feelings for my ex and he still likes me even though he broke up with me, My mum and his mum are real... (178 words

What is a hmong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - Okay well this isn't relating to relationships or nothing. I was just wondering how many people actually know what a Hmong is? Again I was just wondering how many people actually know.... (34 words

I've got 24 hours to decide whether to move or not and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles. I need advice badly, I'm not sure what to do. I'm 30, female and currently living miles away from home as decided to go back to university to become a teacher secondary school. I was working in pr previous to this, but in a bad company and on a very lo... (792 words

He doesn't like me yet we came close to having sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I need some advice on how to get ovr this guy I really like. He says he doesn't like me, yet we have made out before and was very close to sex. I am tired of feeling hurt around him. I see him at school everday, but next semester he is moving. Should I stop seeing him now? Or ... (107 words

Boyfriend sneaking around talking to gay guys when I was pregnant. Is he gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - So my relationship is very complicated! I dated this guy for a year and a half and we even had a baby together. The problem is, while I was pregnant and even before he lied a lot. Although he claims he didn't cheat on me I still found messages he sent people over myspace when ... (502 words

How do I open up to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I need advice. I'm 17-years-old. I've known this guy since I was in grade 7, and we kind of grew up together. We went out for awhile when I was younger, but we both had a lot of problems (family issues, etc). I love him, I would do anything for him, absolutely anything. We ... (179 words

How can I be with her when she's carrying another man's child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My ex and I were really close, together for 2 yrsa. Lived together...even have a beautiful baby together (1yr old). About 9 months ago we got into a huge fight and I never went back home....she said sorry (as usual) but this time I didn't want to go back because I know her and ... (262 words

How do I get over my babies' father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1421 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I was in a relationship with this man for 2 years. I was miserable practically the entire 2 years and tried everything I could to make it work. He lied too much, he would never discuss our problems with me, and he cheated on me (which he will never admit). During that 2 years ... (323 words

How can I meet my online guy safely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - The guy im dating lives overseas and im dating him online, we talk for hours everyday and he finally wants me to come see him in england. Im 19 and hes 21 i Know this could potentially be dangerous but i also know that it might not be. so how do i go about meeting him safely?... (57 words

No trust, controlling or lying by ommission

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I work away from home for long periods of time. Somebody recently told me that my wife cheated, she denies it, but it is plausable. I love my wife and she hasn't really lied to me, the other person has, but i still have doubts. For some reason, we have been finding flowers ... (370 words

I'm scared my guy will leave me because of some perfect bimbo!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Why do I get so jealous over the stupidest things, although i know they prob wont amount to anything i still get nervous that my guy will leave me just like that because of some perfect bimbo. is this normal or am I just a freak? ... (46 words

I'm 18 and never done it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - What is masterbating i'm 18 and i have never done it before and all my friends talk about it.... (19 words

Didn't know it at the time, but I had sex with my future teacher

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Sorry, guys, this is kinda long. STORY TIME When I was 17, my boss held a huge Christmas party at a hotel. There, a friend of mine introduced me to his single friend who was very charming and sexy. Long story short, we ended up having a one night stand. Never called him ... (310 words

Not sure if my husband truly loves me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey guys, how are you all? I'm good! I'm 18 years old and I'm married. My husband just turned 20. We've been together for almost a year but here lately I feel so alone, like I'm by myself. I feel like I can't seem to do anything right or good enough. He tells me he loves ... (107 words

Tiny bit of a tummy and I hate it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm 15 years old, 5'5 and 108 pounds. I know I'm not technically obese, but I have a tiny bit of a tummy, and I used to not have any, and I absolutely loathe it. When I sit down i feel self conscious about it b/c i can feel it and its nasty. It's not about the weight... (171 words

She says she needs time to think. what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend says she needs space/ time to think. What should I do. What does it mean? ... (19 words

What is wrong with me? Am I uninterested... please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over three years. There are a lot of amazing moments and sometimes there are those "stupid arguments for no reason" like recently, which led me to this website. Well after i graduated high school, last spring, we thought everythi... (260 words

He's a player but I really like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I realized the other day...I have fallen in love with one of my guy friends. I'm not sure how because he's a player and I see how he uses girls all the time...but when I'm with him I feel amazing. Unstoppable. Beautiful. When I'm sitting in the passenger seat of his car and I ... (190 words

Is it just a walk down memory lane ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - About a year ago I divorced and reconnected with a man I have know all my life. We had dated our senior year of high school until he moved and then again when we met up about ten years later until he moved for his job. He kept in contact with me when he came to the area until I ... (137 words

He has created an online fake to talk to me instead of talking to me himself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - ive been talking to a guy in his mid thirties on the internet on msn. he wasnt very talkative, and now i know 100% that he has made up a contact and is trying to talk with me as though he is someone else. why is he doing this? i havent told him that i know its him but i have ... (89 words

Teacher Tension

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ill start of by giving a little bit of background information. I am a 17 year old girl who is currently in grade 12. I have been going to the same high school for 4 years and recently (grade 11) a new teacher arrived at our school. I was assigned to his class in grade 1... (460 words

My boyfriend keeps referring to the issues in my life as "baggage"1

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm going through a tough time right now and need some advice. I am In love with a man who constantly refers to the things going on in my life as baggage. To break it down these are the things he has issues with and how I'm dealing with them. First I have been separated f... (285 words

My girlfriend wants my baby to remember me by

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 18-21 - ok im going out with this girl in new york but im moving to florida and were in love and she wants to have a baby that she can keep so it like a piece of me i cant even tell my parents anything how would i tell them how would i tell her mom i dont evern kno what the reaction ... (64 words

He says he has bigger problems to deal with than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Me and my ex where together for about 3years During those 3years we lied to each other I was a very jealous person who did not let him do anything. We had breakups and eventually got back together. During that time we ended living together I was in really in love. But things ... (485 words

It just seems too good to be true!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I don't know what exactly to think about my relationship. I'm absolutly in love with my boyfriend we have been together for 14 months happily. We both plan on getting married as soon as possiable. Then we plan to go college together to be psycologist and then have two kids. ... (133 words

Every dream is about me going out with a different guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, hi I have a question about a few of my dreams that really have me going. I just can't figure them out. I am currently not dating anyone. Well this last past week I have had a dream everynight. Each dream is about me going out with a different guy. But the guys are ... (168 words

We only got back together because he promised not to lie, but he is telling lies again already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for about 5yrs, he was married for 19 yrs and I for 21 years. During the time we have been together he has cheated on me (he says only 1 time but I'm not sure) and have gotten busted lying to me soooooooo many times. We have broken ... (481 words

It feels like we are broken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey I'm 22 year old and I'm daten a younger guy he's 19 years old and since the begging our relationship has Been a lot of lies on both our parts really. Now I'm madly inlove and I change for him I gave a lit away for him cuz I wanted to i did it for love. Now he's been acting ... (161 words

Cant stop thinking about her its driving me crazy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1419 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I find myself feeling very lonely when im not talking with my gf. I think about her constantly and lately cuz of the bad weather, I haven't been able to see her. It's driving me crazy. Idk what to do. I have been getting headaches from thinking about her too much. I don't talk ... (123 words

I know this is a waste of my time but why can't I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - alright so i dated this guy last year for about 6 months. it got really serious. i loved him. he was my first love. and he was the first guy i went far with. we didnt have sex but it was close. the day i realized i loved him, i realized how stupid i was. i mean seriously, im 15 ... (167 words

I feel unattractive to my boyfriend!

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28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I feel that my boyfriend of 7 months no longer finds me attractive. In the begining things were great but just the other day he asked me "Who's the other guy?" I said there was none and asked him the same. He answered in the same manner. I joked with him and asked what she ... (149 words

Why do men start these outside relationships and think that it's okay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1431 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband of 16+ years is a very loving man not only to me but to his girlfriend as well. I found out 2 years ago that he had been seeing her. Evidently he's been telling her that he is single and raising his 2 daughters alone. He's been flying every other month to see her. It ... (443 words

What can I get her for Christmas that doesn't cost a dime?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok I have a problem i have been in love with this girl for three years. I have followed her around i guess you can say i worship her. I love her more than life itself. She has been wonderful to me. She is one of the most beautiful people in the world inside and out. I dont ... (83 words

Don't want to lose my high school sweetheart!

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28 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - hello I'm 47yr. male met my highschool sweetheart at a 30 year reunion she's 46yr. were both still married but were both seperated her for 20 yrs. me for 2yrs. we hit it off great as if we were still dating. back than i was normally a talkative person. but now after three ... (132 words

Please, I need advice. I am completely Torn.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1431 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I apologize for how long this is, I just feel like the details are important, and I could really use the advice! Over the summer I met this guy while on a group vacation, he's related to some very close family friends; we have several connections, but this was our first ti... (1159 words

Does this sound like pre-proposal behavior?

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28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, so next week is my boyfriend and I's 1yr. anniversary. We get along so great and I've never been happier. We are going away for the weekend to a hotel. I'm just curious if any of his behaviours,words etc. could be indicative of him proposing? He has said my ... (266 words

I think it's time to divorce my high school sweetheart!

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28 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I married my high school sweet heart. We have 3 young children. It wasn't easy for us to be together and I risked a lot to stay with him. He was an incredible young man, so loving, so naive and yet I felt so taken care of in his company. I adored him, I put him on a pedestal. ... (243 words

Usually my crushes last 2 days, she surpassed the two day mark!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 18-21 - Ok I have known this girl for a little while and we have been best friends for six months(took a lont time to get bff #1). Everyone makes jokes about how where a couple or were siblings because we’re with each other so much. I never considered the fact that I might like her ... (268 words

Is our online relationship an actual relationship?

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28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I just need some advice about online dating. I've talking to this guy how's 15 and he lives a state over.We talk on facebook and the phone.He says he really likes and i like him too.So he asked me if i would be his girl friend and i said yes.But now i'm starting to wonder if i ... (88 words

Is this just him realizing he still loves his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - okay im here jus for advice. im 27 and my ex who broke up with me like 3 weeks ago is 28, he has a ex 31 yrs old whom he has 2 kids with and lives with her mom and has no job or education. but neways we just had a baby 7 weeks ago and living together for teh past two years. ... (399 words

Jekyll when sober, Hyde when drunk. Which is his true side?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been dating my boyfriend for around 8 months now and I really like him, ALOT. But when he gets drunk he is soooo mean to me for no reason and when sober he is the nicest person I have ever met.. so I guess I am wondering what side of him is the real side, or the side that ... (66 words

Could this be a STD rash?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 18-21 - I have a small purple bruise lookin rash on my penis I'm worried it's an STD me and my gf r each others first should I be worried or is it nothing?... (32 words

Could his social-status keep us apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - Is it wrong to think he's too good for me? Theres a guy i like, a lot, and i havent known him for very long, he's quite shy but is friends with a lot of 'popular' people from our old schools and seems to be the general joker of the group. He seems like a really nice guy, good ... (151 words

What do I get him for Christmas, without coming across too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - hello~~ I'm 15 years old and I like this boy, and I know he likes me back. We aren't dating or anything, but we talk a lot and I've invited him to my birthday party. I'm not too sure what to get him, I don't know him that well yet. He's already gave me fingerless gloves/mit... (130 words

Should I keep fighting, even though he's with another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - After almost a year of dating my ex broke up with me. His reasons were he did not love me anymore...keep in mind i want to marry this person so of course i was crushed. 3 weeks later he jumps in a realtionship with a little immature girl who is all wrong for him...so i stopped ... (284 words

He likes me, he likes me not...how can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1433 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - This is sort of a string of questions so here goes...How do i know if he likes me?? I dont want to ask/tell him bluntly coz i dont want to get myself hurt again. He smiles at me, sits next to me in class, and i caught him looking at me so he flicked his hair and looked the ... (253 words

I want him so, will this madness ever end!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am addicted to giving blowjobs. My boyfriend and I recently started to engage in oral sex. He pleases me greatly. No complaints. But when I go at him he usually has to give me a hand to help finish him off. He is WONDERFUL and I would love nothing more then to finish him off. ... (159 words

Am I being too clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - My girlfriend and I have beeen going out for two months now. The first month was so good, she'd always come over or she'd invite me to hers. Now things have turned the other way and we only see each other maybe twice a week. I text her every day. Am I being too clingy...? ... (60 words

She had an affair... I am thinking about joining them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 6 years had an affair with her friend. I found out from facebook logs and found text messages. When I confronted her she said it was only a kiss. Then I find sexy texts and confront her and she admitted it went further but didnt tell me not to hurt me more.... (307 words

How can I get guys to see me in the way I want to be seen without losing my personality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi this is going to sound quite complicated but I'd love to get as many answers as possible as it would be really helpful to hear all your opinions, thank you! some context: I live in London, finished college last summer and am almost 19 and I'm a virgin out of choice, ... (503 words

How long until he is ready to commit?

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28 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Just wondering how long it takes before a guy actually wants to commit...not just as in be an official couple, but when they "know" that this is the girl I want to marry. Background: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years. Since the very beginning he has... (312 words

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