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Is love enough? Should I leave, should I ask him to leave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2597 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Is love enough? Should I leave? I have been dating someone for 20 months, but I think I am at the point where I am ready to give up. During this time we have argued at least once a month about the same things (i.e. cleaning, finances, moving forward, responsibility, ... (792 words

Unrequited love, and I need to end contact with her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - Alright well I am now pretty sure that I want to end all contact with the girl I am in love with. I have very strong feelings towards her I love listening to her being around her and thinking about her but unfortunately for me she doesn't feel the same way. she won't really ... (228 words

I read his email, found out he cheated and now he says he doesn't trust me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend was away on course for 2 months in a different city. He was drinking a lot, very stressed and meet an old female friend he know 6 years ago on the course. When he arrived home, he very distance too me. My gut told me something happen .I found out he had an affair ... (205 words

Is there any way to make her prefer me over him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi I have just been through the single most painful rejection of my life. The girl who rejected me has been a good friend since I moved here. She has been the only person that I have been able to open up to and has helped me through some tough times. I have had feelings for her ... (233 words

Does this mean deep down I am not happy in my new relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys, some help would really be appreciated. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years back in October 2007. It was a very traumatic break up as he had moved abroad and started seeing someone else. He broke up with me by email. For a year my life was a blur, I was so depress... (242 words

Should I get mum and dad tattooed onto my inner wrist

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (? age 22-25 - should i get my mum and dads name tattooed onto my inner wrist okay i was thinking mum on my right wrist and dad on my left do you think this will look okay ? or do you think it would look better with mummy and daddy ?... (53 words

What is my next move?

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23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, Have posted another couple questions anonymously but hoping this will be my last. Quick back story- Went out with ex LD for 3 months. Broke up 3 weeks ago, she told me it was because we werent comfortable in person/i didnt try hard enough with her friends/we dont ... (306 words

Should I flirt with him to see if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know if I like this guy. He's one of my closest friends and I used to be completely in love with him. He's the last guy I was with, which was about 7 months ago, when I say with, I don't mean in a relationship, more of an FWB situation and I kind of think he might have ... (205 words

Confused over online friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - (sorry if this is long but I really need to explain everything because I need the help a lot) I'm looking for advice on something that's been the centre of my attention for quite a few months now. I met a female friend through MSN in April/May 2009. We were really ... (636 words

I can decide what gift to get boyfriend for Christmas!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - HELP ME!! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and i have no idea of what to get him for christmas. He loves to read but I dont want to get him a book because i dont know if he's already read it or even if he's heard of it. He like's zombies for some ... (93 words

Hugs and Kisses from Emma, what do they mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 18-21 - About three months ago I moved from Cornwall where I had lived for all my life, to a town where everybody knew each other. My parents worked really hard to get me into the best school in the area and it just so happened a boy was leaving so I started in year 9. On my first day ... (304 words

Weight Gain due to Implanon!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - This is sort of personal, but hey! About 10 months ago I got Implanon fitted in my arm, as I am in a relationship just over 2 years. I have noticed since I got it that I have put on a hell of alot of weight :/ .. I have read up about people not being able to shift the weight ... (171 words

Did my teacher like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I really need advice about this teacher from my old school, it has been a few months but i do not have closure. I went to a boarding school up in massachusetts and teachers had the responsibility of pretty much being a second parental figure in all our lives. One night in my ... (413 words

Was what I did as bad as what she did?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - Ok, So I am struggling with my emotions on this issue. So me and my girlfriend are both Christians and we have been dating in an exclusive committed relationship for 3 years. About about a 1 year ago or so I went to an Asian massage parlor and got a massage which ended ... (521 words

I took time off work to be with her, but she wants to be elsewhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - my girlfriends birthday is coming up and we made plans to hang out on the weekend before it a month ago. Her friend invited her to go to the beach free of charge and they would be leaving the day before thanksgiving and coming back the sunday after. well i had already requested ... (117 words

He just doesn't get it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi there , i'm the ex partner of the guy who posted 'i think i'm wrecking everyones lives ' on november the 18 . He says he has now finished with his girlfriend of the last 7 months who i caught him cheating with when i was 8 months pregnant.Itook him back before the birth th... (329 words

I don't know if I should believe my boyfriend or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello every one well my boy friend and I have been for two years and we have a baby together and I found out that he hAs twitter and facebook and etc... Well he tells me that he doesn't get in it but I don't believe him so what should i do should I leave him or get mad ?... (60 words

Stepfather vs. Daughter with mother caught in the middle!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - My husband continues to nag at my 15 year old daughter. She is a slop and can be moody, but she is 15. When my daugther is not around, my husband and I get a long awesome...we never argue unless it is about her. She is a good kid (honor roll for years, volunteers at church ... (466 words

I don't know how to show him how I feel.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I don't know how to express myself with my boyfriend; I have noticed how much i actually care about him and I want him to know that but I don't kno how to tell him or show him!... (38 words

Best friends with benefits!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Dearcupid readers and admins, I have a guy bestfriend. A bestfriend I have since the year 2005. We both like each other since college. We denied the feelings at first bec. I have a bf and he has a gf. His gf is very insecure with me because of the closeness we hav... (609 words

Is everything completely my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Life has been complete chaos for me in the past month. I am 18 years old and have found my first love. I have been with many guys in my teenage years and have yet to feel as close as I do to my boyfriend. The problems started a few months ago when we found ourselves in constant ... (793 words

If she really wanted it, would she have to think about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm asking this question because I don't know what to do. I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago now, and it was horrible, we had argued for like 2 weeks before hand and had been together for just over 4 months, short, I know. However, when we broke up I wa... (1006 words

Does a girl always fall in love with the guy she loses her virginity to?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1137 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - is it true that when a girl loses her virginity that the boy/man she loses it to she kind of falls in love with him?... (25 words

My wife doesn't want to have a orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - I've been with my wife a total of 4 years, one of which married. We get along great in just about everything but there is something that worries and upsets me. After we got married my wife's attitude towards sex changed. I knew since we started dating that sex wasn't impor... (628 words

She I ask for her back at her housewarming party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I broke up with my ex 4 months ago. We had been together three years and were very close - being each other's first loves. I decided to end it as I was moving town for a year (2 hours away) and was thinking I'm too young to be in somethingthis serious. When we first split n... (352 words

My new guy makes no effort to pleasure me, Opinions please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months (I've known him for years) but we havent had sex. I was with a guy before and we had done everything so it took time to adjust with my new boyfriend. I know this isn't what a relationship should be about but I really want to. I've done ... (147 words

What cologne should I get my boyfriend for christmas?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Not really a relationship question as such but something most people will have an opinion on I hope. I want to get my boyfriend some cologne as part of his xmas present, but I'm completely clueless when it's comes to male fragrance and was hoping for some recommendations. ... (53 words

What can I do to stay occupied while he's in jail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My man went into jail today for 30 days. I have no clue what to do to keep my mind occupied. We did just start dating but we hit it off really well and we are really into each other. I am trying to think of things to do so i wont regret doing anything while he's locked up. I do ... (139 words

He has a girlfriend, yet he sent me a picture of his member!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - So, theres this guy i like. We met two years ago, and three weeks ago we started talking again. He said he was interested in me. He was having problems with this girl he was with for 10 months. They broke up and he wanted me to be his girlfriend, but he got back with her ... (173 words

Problems in my relationship and I'm falling for another woman. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am a lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for little over two years. Most of that time has been very, very happy. However, a few months ago, she cheated on me with my friend, but after some time apart, I decided to take her back. Since then, we have been fine, the trus... (445 words

Would you cheat on a guy you were falling for just to have some "closure sex?"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 36-40 - I'm curious what goes on in a woman's mind when she is dating a guy she claims to love, but still has feelings for a former lover whom she only had sex with and maybe a slight friendship. I've had several relationships where I found out some time later (sometimes after my ... (172 words

Should I be worried he wants me to be his girlfriend after our second date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - I recently met a gentleman @ a local gym where I work. He gave me his email - I replied - we went on our first date saturday night, but the second date (monday) he already wanted for me to be his girlfriend. He's 48 never been married no children. Should I be concerned that he ... (72 words

I think my friend who's in a relationship has feelings for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - We've known each other for about three years and have always been really close friends. In that time, however, I had been in a relationship until recently. Her roommates have hinted at me in the past that she wants more than a friendship, but seeing as I was in a ... (207 words

Why is my period late if I haven't had sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay I need some help, I'm 15 and my period has been 10 days late I am still a Virgin so I haven't had sex. I don't understand why its late my boyfriend fingered me the day my period was supposed to come and now its really late. I don't know why the only reason I could think of ... (120 words

How should I react to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I looked up my boyfriend's surfing history before and found out he did things he promised not to and swore he wasn't doing. After I confronted him about it he simply made sure all the surfing history is never stored and said it was "to avoid the fights". I do not know how to ... (79 words

How do you deal with someone who is scared of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, I have been in an on/ off relationship with a commitment phobe.I have read up all about his symptoms and he matches exactly and his actions are that of a commtiment phobe. Please can you advise on how to deal with such a person, as I am really struggling. Than... (58 words

My girlfriend says I need "more edge". What does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - My gf and i got together its been a month. We got along great and all but something has been bothering her. She hinted that I "need more edge". What exactly does this mean? I guess you can say I'm a nice guy, I treat her super well. So when she told me this I couldn't help but ... (166 words

What did his text message mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hiya. I need some help. Basically, my ex sent me a text yesterday, simply saying my name. This made my heart skip, somersult etc. I should explain, this guy was the first ever guy I loved. I thought I had gotten over him, but I'm started to doubt that now. Anyway, we spoke for ... (152 words

I broke up with my GF who has love addiction and now feel sick

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - Thank you for the wonderful advice from wonderful people like FloridaCatGirl and others for a question I posed a few days ago. I will paste the link to the question at the bottom if you care to read it. I kind of knew what had to be done, I just needed objective sweet people ... (633 words

Can our relationship be successfull even though he lies and cheats?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Do you think its possible for a relationship to be successful when in the first 4 months of the relationship the man has consistently lied and cheated through it? ... (29 words

My ex keeps contacting me and I can't move on, I'm lost.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was seeing a girl for about 2 years and we had just about started getting serious about each other and were planning to take it to the next level. However, she cheated on me while on a business trip, something I learnt about in a rather painful way. But I was still willing to ... (319 words

Been together a year but he doesn't call me his girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Is there any love after a year of knowing each other ?spend time together ? I really confused of my self if something wrong on me why the man i own as my boyfriend .. never claim me as his girlfriend or never say anything about ..our situation is anyone can tell me ?... (54 words

Should I stay a virgin untill marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi people ... im a virgin ... i feel like having sex but dont have any girl friend ... but i also have a secong thought that i should stay virgin till my marriage .... im in a real dilemma .... ls help ... (44 words

He never says he loves me, does this mean he just using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I meet a man last year november 2009 .. and from that on we meet each other as a normal girlfriend and boyfriend .. i love him from months pass by i started loving him till now we still together have sex, cooking food together , hangout do some shopping .. picking me up in my ... (120 words

What now? I am fed up with our relationship the way it is at the moment!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years in January. We have been having a lot of problems since last year started and it become a bit hard to handle. I feel like we're growing apart and that he's becoming more and more comfortable in the relationship. On Friday... (517 words

Should I try to be friends with my ex again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Here's some background on the situation. I'm 18. All last summer, I carried on an Internet relationship with a 40-something-year-old man. At that point, I was 17, so obviously we could not do more than talk online. We met in person years earlier, so it wasn't like we were total ... (625 words

I think I have lost my best friend! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - well here is the story. I had a best friend that i have lost. I met here in the 8th grade,right now i am in 10th grade. in the summer before this year me and her got really close to each other, to the point where i was closer to her then actual people in my family. we used to ... (489 words

How do I break up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello Long but please persevere. I am in an unfamiliar situation and I don't know how to solve it. Unfortunately I was in a serious motorbike crash in January, in which both my legs and my left knee were badly broken, my left foot was crushed, I sustained a lower back i... (595 words

I just wish she'd recognise my efforts without me telling her to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - hi. Im feeling really muddled up and im looking for some help... If someone could please reply, i would be extremely appreciative and grateful... Recently i've been doing a lot for my girlfriend and sacrificing a lot to try to keep her happy. However she doesn't seem to recog... (218 words

How does a guy lose is virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - what are the ways by which a boy loses his virginity?... (11 words

Is it wrong of me to not want to walk into a situation where a man is dependent on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - met a guy this past summer, June. He and I share a mutual friend. My mutual friend told me about him and told me he'd like for me to meet him because he thought we'd be a perfect pair. Before I go on, my friend told me that his friend was from a foreign country, had only been ... (898 words

Is he only staying with me because he feels sorry for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - i'm over 8 months pregnant and been in a relationship with the father for 3 years.. hes been so supportive throughout the pregnancy financially but seems to have totally gone off me physically. i mean i dont want sex all the time or anything its not exactly great at this stage ... (160 words

Do guys prefer women to initiate contact just as much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Like a traditional, i prefer the guys to do the chasing. But do guys prefer women to initiate contact just as much?? I met this guy on a dating website two weeks ago and we hit it off. We've only met up three times but after every date hes text/called to say how much he enjo... (131 words

How can I maintain an erection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hello, I'm a nineteen year old lad who is currently in a relationship with a older woman who has kids. Everything is going well, we are both in love an me an her kids get on really well, there is only one problem. When me an my girlfriend have sex I can't last very long, only ... (253 words

I'm married but have feelings for another guy

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what to do about this. The more I try to gain control over myself the more I am slipping away. I met Mr.A over a year ago during a time of chronic stress. At that time, I had found him very irritating and annoying. Though, I tried to avoid him I had to keep meet... (299 words

How can we grow closer to each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi im in a LDR with my bf for almost one year i cant say that i love him and he loves me normally like the other couples do , our love story is unique and im so happy because im living in it though we love each other strongly, we still have some dark sides or in another... (134 words

Will sex ever feel the way it used to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I was with my boyfriend for two years and we had a pretty good sex life. After about a year of being together, I fell pregnant with his child. We both knew that we was too young to become parents, so we agreed on the decision to abort it. Unfortunatly we was very upset for ... (165 words

What should I do? Should I move in with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for 3 years.recently my boyfriend started behaving wierd he never pick up my calls, stood me up on several dates when i went to see him.we are in a long distance relationship and when i suggested we break up,he told me he loved me and didn't want to ... (92 words

I have a new boyfriend but cant stop thinking about my ex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - so i was with my ex for 8 months before we broke up. we were both in love and i was happy with him except it was long distance and we talked maybe twice a week. we were broken up for about 3 weeks before i got with my current boyfriend(we've been together for about 4 weeks). ... (93 words

Stuck between the guy I like and the guy who likes me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok, I signed up to this site specifically to ask the question, because its doing my head in. Be warned, the following is stupidly long and brain cell-killing. So here goes, there is this guy I'm great friends with, I fell in love with relatively quickly, it didn't ta... (485 words

How do I forget about my past and parents relationship and not push this great guy and great relationship away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - Let me start off my saying that I'm really scared. I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year. But I'm scared to fully commit to him. He is really great and the relationship is great. But, my past and things around has me scared to fully commit. I know you have to ... (147 words

I caught my sister masturbating

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 18-21 - I walked into my younger sisters room to get her downstairs for lunch nd i saw her in her bed nude masturbaiting with a gel bottle and i dont know if i should tell mum and dad?... (37 words

What's the reasoning behind guys being players?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - There's this guy. From the first time girls started paying him attention he's had multiple female "friends" who he's treated as much more than friends. Throughout all this time he also had long-term girlfriends, the first one almost three years and then straight on to the ... (298 words

How can I not be so boring in my relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - well i've been known as the nice guy and whenever Im dating someone it seams like after a week or 2 they just start getting bored of me and the relationship, and i really don't know what to do about it?! ... (41 words

I don't want to appear a slut but I crave a man! How do I meet older men that would appreciate me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am in my early 20's and have had sex twice. I think about having sex almost all the time or at least my thoughts stray to it very often. I used to be overweight but lost 80 lbs. I missed my earlier years for the baby steps in sexual contact. I have a number of issues. Im not ... (740 words

Is it better to deny seeing him if he asks me out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I finally decided to not make any more effort to be with the man i used to date in the past. I haven't called him for some months. I go out with other men instead. Sometimes he calls me, not often. We just talk but he propposes to meet each other some day. I don't deny but i ... (121 words

Still a virgin at 21?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well, I'm 21 years old and I'm still a virgin. I feel more ashamed of this than "happy" because it seems virtually everyone I know at this age has lost their virginity, including my younger sister. I've only had one boyfriend and that was for about two months when I was ... (213 words

How can I finally have the guts to leave my boyfriend for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend of 5 years makes me hurt so much. Everyting will be going great;he shows me he loves me and rather stay in with me then go out but then all of a sudden it changes. We broke up for a few months and he admits he would mess around with many girls but when we got back ... (236 words

How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have known this guy for 8 years. He was my first kiss. We ended up falling in love. As time went by our time talking shortened and shortened. And one drunk lonely night i had sex with his cousin who he hates. He found out and we stopped talking for a couple months. During ... (145 words

How can I stop liking older women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi i am a 16 yo male. i have a strong interest in older woman. Dont get me wrong i still like girls my own age but not as much. Is there anything i can do to change this?... (39 words

What exactly can I do to get her to open up and talk to me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay here's the story. I'm a college student currently in a relationship with a 17 year old girl. I'm 19 and even though I get clowned on for being with this girl because she's "underage"...we've both known each other for a few years now, even before I turned 18. Oddly enough, ... (586 words

Should I be neat? Or go bare?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - So I've been being a little intimate with this guy, he reached "down there" and I made sure I shaved all the way just to be safe. I'm not sure what he prefers though. It's really uncomfortable for me to shave, but I just don't want to ask him about it because I think it's ... (112 words

I am 35 and in love with a girl who is only 18... and I don't know what to do?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2696 days ago

23 November 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi there, Before I start my story please know I appreciate your honest feedback no matter how harsh it might be. I am a 35 years old man who never been in serious relationship before and I finally met this girl online (I know :( Meeting someone online is always iffy sp... (716 words

I look at pornography when I am stressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know why I keep browsing pornography on the internet whenever I feel stress from school work. Is it normal for a girl to do so?... (27 words

Why does my boyfriend ALWAYS have to have someone with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - what is really goin on in my relationship? Ok why does everyday my boyfriend wakes up in the morning when he isnt working and go pick his friend up or his uncle and bring them back to the house we never really be together he always got somebody with him and they stay all day ... (116 words

Is he flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - a guy i work with is very friendly and kind to me. also he constantly is joking with me and making fun of me. one day the fire alarm kept going off and he was saying that it was my fault and that i was setting it off, i joked back and said he was setting it off. also the same ... (235 words

How can I talk to him, and let him know what I feel?

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Does he REALLY care about me? Sometimes I think he does, other times I have no idea. We've been best friends for two years now, and I've had a crush on him since the day we met. He kept pushing me away, knowing how much I liked him. Apparently, he was afraid he'd hurt me. He e... (162 words

It was fun and exciting at first but now its just bland

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23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi! My boyfriend and I do the same thing every time we have sex. It was fun and exciting at first but now it's just boring.What is some ways I can spice up my sexual experience to bring back the excitement we once had? ... (44 words

Online guy sent me his photo and now I just want to disappear

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been talking for four months daily with this man on the Internet. He's really, really nice and understanding. He barely ever showed his picture. Twice and he looked good looking. Today's my birthday and I asked for him to send a photo even if he looked like crap..and he ... (183 words

I thought we were close and now he's ignoring me!

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23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been in a odd situation for the pass 2 months. I finally was able to see a good friend of mine in college. We talked about our lives and what was new. But this got alittle different we both had boyfriends/girlfriends so I didnt act on my attraction for him but since I'm ... (257 words

I've Made Every Possible Mistake

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23 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - As the title states, I'm in deep over my head. I met and got into an intense relationship with a great guy last year, one which he broke off with claims of needing time to heal from the relationship he was in before us. Though we were only involved for about five months (we'd ... (436 words

Why can't my boyfriend keep it up and finish?

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I just started dating and I've now tried to give him head twice but he goes limp halfway through. He says it's not my fault and he finds me really attractive. I've given blowjobs before and my technique has never been an issue before. So if it's not ME, what's ... (63 words

Why am I cheating with a married man?

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23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? My boyfriend does everything and anything for me. I don't have to ask for most things. I always said, I wanted a good guy to come in my life and change me but I'm cheating on this good man and I don't understand why. He works away a great deal so he's not ... (287 words

What do you do when you hang out with a guy?

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - ahhhh what do u do when u n guy hang out? like what things do u talk with him about? please help this is the 1st time im g2 hang out with a guy..n i rly like him :) but i get rly nervous around him n ik he likes..he said he luved me but was like jk n im like thx i think :O plus ... (87 words

How can I try and push myself to not like women?

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have a question that may sound silly, but how can i try and push myself to not liking women?. I am a female that is bisexual and I have a boyfriend that I am very in love with and we are very serious about each other, but the problem is i've been wanting a threesome with a ... (161 words

My "best friend" is in a relationship with my ex

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - So I broke up with my boyfriend because I caught him and my bestfriend making out. My bestfriend knew that me and him were dating and I confronted her about it she apologized and it seemed like she was sorry about it and whatever I broke up with my boyfriend. My friend called ... (213 words

He disrespects me, ignores me, takes me for granted -- and still I can't leave!

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23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Someone please help....My boyfriend is treating me like dirt but i love him so much. I know I don't deserve this, but i can't seem to leave him. I've been living with my boyfriend for about a year now. At first when we were dating he was a complete asshole, it wasnt till i ... (515 words

How do I handle this situation?

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23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy online last year and we started talking a lot because we shared things in common and he was planning on moving to my city for graduate school the next year. He is not my usual type but he is a good person and I tried to give him a chance. When he came to visit it ... (289 words

I miss my teacher

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I miss my teacher. He has been gone for a month and i feel like i lost my best friend. How do i move on from someone who'd been like a father or brother to me? Who had encouraged and almost spent every free available time with me? He almost became my inspiration for... (184 words

She dates the bad boys but I want to show her what a nice guy is like!

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23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - ok i got back with my ex whom i love with all my heart and i could not bare too lose her agien she is the kinda girl who dates guys that treat her like shit im realy nice too her and could not bare too treat her this way i wanna know what i could do to make her more attracted ... (79 words

I tend to get him turned on by accident!

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23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend is a virgin and I tend to get him really turned on by accident. He gets turned on by me even kissing him. Well he has figured out things that I really like and I am afraid that things will go too far too soon. I have talked to him about it and we try to just slow ... (82 words

We were going strong until I got her pregnant!

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23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - My girlfriend and i have being going strong for about 2 years now and i just got her pregnant. her parents know but mine don't and they are kinda strict on the opposite sex topic...and we also kept it a secret from all of our friends. what can i do?... (50 words

My ex husband is back to work it out!

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23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 23 and I'm beginning to realize that life really can suck. My ex-husband and I had been together for two years before we got pregnant. He was uber supportive through the whole thing. But right around when our son was six months old, he got really distant. We were in the... (376 words

Does she really mean what she said?

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23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - She tells me that she likes how I am always there to talk, she said she likes that I like her but not enough to date me so w/e. Im not hear to ask what can I do to get her to like me cause its to late for that. My question is do you think she really means that she likes t... (275 words

I feel dumb

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23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi im erica and i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years we have a little boy whos 2 when we first got together everything was good with us and after like 1 year he started acting wierd he would go out alone and leave me at home i was about 4 months pregnant and when i ... (228 words

One guy, two friends..who gets him?

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23 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - I don't know what to do! like the same guy my best friend likes. I always flirt with him and he flirts back. Also, my friend wants my help to have him ask her out. I don't know what I'm getting myself into? Help?... (45 words

I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!

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23 November 2010 (M age - In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children. i have never wanted, needed or ... (547 words

Husband's not ready to have a baby but I am!

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23 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm 29 years old, soon to be 30. Have a great husband (29), we've been married just over a year and together for 4. I have this burning desire to have a baby, have felt this way for about 6 months now but my husband says he's not ready and we both get uncomfortable and what ... (169 words

How do I approach my girlfriend's parents about sex in our relationship?

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23 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - How do I approach my girlfriends parents about sex and our relationship? Now here's the details, I come from a family that is very clean and say to wait til marriage, and I totally agree with them and I made a vow to wait until married. But today me and my girlfriend were at ... (163 words

Do I come clean about cheating?

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23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - i've been going out with this guy for 2 years now, he's a great guy sweet and carring but our relationship became dull and we lost the spark...so i began talking to other ppl behind his back... it was innocent at first but it went too far...i cheated on him twice...i no longer ... (87 words

I have to do everything for her!

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23 November 2010 (M age 36-40 - i am 28 years old and i am married. i love my fiance but i have to do everything for her. I cook, clean, do all the laundry, pay bills, do all the house work and maintain the cars that we have. when i dont do something for her she starts getting in an ugly mood so i just try ... (150 words

My friend's in a LDR but she had anal sex with a stranger!

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23 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - hello everyone. a friend of mine has a question. she is in a long distance relationship. she didn't want to go out and have vaginal sex with a stranger so instead she had anal sex with a condom. it didn't mean anything so she is wondering if she should just forget about it and ... (71 words

I want to make a sex tape!

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23 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Would my boyfriend think its weird if i bring up us having sex an video tapeing it for us to watch some time? Also is it weird to watch your self have sex or will he think its weird watching it? Thanks.... (42 words

My married long distance friend is ignoring me!

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23 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello Aunts, I need your advice. I have been on and off long distance friends with a now married man for 10 years. We first met in an internet dating chatroom when he split as a bf from his now sife of 5 years. At that time we discussed aspects of our sexuality that he ... (289 words

Lost cause.

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi im just a teenager and all, but unlike most other teens i've never been in a relationship .. serious or not. Those little middle school relationships dont really count to me and i think since i havent been in one ever thats why its holding me back. The label of me having ... (199 words

How can I mix it up a bit?

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I wan to know how I should be sexy. I do the same things like always, candles, roses, etc... I wanna know how I can mix it up a little bit.... (32 words

Why won't he apologize for cheating?

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23 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. Eight months into our relationship he cheated on me and I forgave him. Shortly after that we moved in together and everything was good until 4 months ago.I found out he cheated again. He will not talk to me or tell me he is sorry ... (79 words

Dating mistakes!

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I Made a huge mistake im only 14 but i had this sweet guy treated me like i was a princess and i thought i found young love ive never been like that with a guy before and i made a mistake i broke up with him for my ex but i didnt realize how much i cared about him until he ... (192 words

How do I stay strong for my family and friends?

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23 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I went to the Doctor on Friday to find out about a lump on my back. The doctor told me that i was to have surgery to take it out. He said it could be one of three things, 1. Cancer 2. Tumor 3. Cyst. We are hoping for a Cyst but im scared. I try to put up a brave front for ... (168 words

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