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He expects me to be Miss Perfect but I want to be me!

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10 November 2010 (F age 18-21 - OK, so me and my boyfriend got together like 3 weeks after him and his former fiance broke up cuz I guess she was cheating on him. He insists that he loves me, but lately he has been a bit.... Rude, I guess you can say. He told me I needed to lose 30lbs. Now I'm not big, I ... (225 words

Tough love or mean parent?

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10 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - Ok guys this is a question that is not about love or sex this is a very hard tough love question. My son and his wife split up and i let him move in with me. I am single and have new house and car and bills. He knows i make good money. He has no job he lost it on the oil pipe ... (250 words

I like this co-worker who just got out of a bad marriage, but I don't want to be his rebound girl!

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid I really like this guy I work with, but there's lots of reasons I shouldn't.First of all he's just come out of a really bad marriage, she turned all psycho and clingy on him and then cheated on him, and I don't want to be his rebound girl. secondly he is 9 years ol... (172 words

Would this be considered "cheating", should I tell her?

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10 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Background: Earlier this year in May, a childhood female friend of mine got back in touch with me after 10 years of being apart. We both grew up in Virginia. I found out that she lives in South Carolina now, but was visiting VA in a couple of weeks in late May for a weekend. ... (277 words

I want it to be my best friend and me, minus her girlfriend!

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am 21 years old and a lesbian and I am in love wit h my best friend. She is gay too, so that is not the problem, but she has a girlfriend. Last year, I told her liked her and although she said she liked me too she said she didn't want a relatonship (v bad break up before). I ... (318 words

What can I do, say, or wear to get guys to want me ?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - what is something you can do to get a guy to want you? i mean like really want you lol. should i wear different clothes or change how i look? what are somethings i can say to get him to know i want him?... (44 words

He thinks I'm into him when I'm really not!

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10 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I met this guy over the summer while I was on vacation in California (I live in Idaho, he lives in CA). I only saw him once, and all we did was talk. He seemed nice and we exchanged numbers. We texted each other occasionally over the summer, but now he will not stop texting me. ... (215 words

Is this grounds for breaking up with her for the 6th time?

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10 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Am I a bad person? I do have a bad temper to the point where I raise my voice. I sometimes scream when I am angry. I have a girlfriend of two years, I have broken up with her five times in that past, I don't know why exactly. I don't know if it was because I am unhappy with her ... (306 words

"I haven't explored the sea enough" thoughts.

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10 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am making this post to pretty much get "free therapy". I know I am having some emotions, but I don't fully know how to interpret them. Here is the situation at its basic level. I recently lost my virginity to my girlfriend. She has been in a serious relationship bef... (304 words

He doesn't shower after he gets home from work!

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10 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm just wondering if most men seem to have their daily shower in the morning? The problem I have is that my husband walks to work for 1/2 hr (and it is quite hot where we are) works for the day (a desk job), then at bedtime he takes his work clothes off and goes straight ... (192 words

He told me he misses my boring company, how does that make sense?

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10 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok... I was out with my best male friend of many years tonight, we went to a place with nice music as we usually do and he had two glasses of wine. I felt I was not in the mood and told him I feel I am boring tonight. He answered me saying that he'd rather be here now with me ... (257 words

Was it just that a one time during the summer or does he still like me?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Does he like me? So there is this one guy and i was just wondering what is up with him. He throwing around some mixed signals and im not sure what to do. It all started summer where we attended the same parties and that an seen eachother at the bar. We had a pretty flirty r... (289 words

Who says "Fo Sho" these days?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year. I have known him all my life, we grew up down the road from each other when we were younger. We never really kept in contact too much over the years, would chat for a bit if we ran into each other. We started talking over a year ago and ... (289 words

I wish we could go our separate ways!

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10 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Why can't my ex and I stay away from each other? We were together for 7 years and split up 3 years ago. I had suffered undiagnosed post natal depression for nearly 3 years and was awful. He gave up and ended up having an affair. I kicked him out. We keep trying to only ha... (211 words

I hate that his friend is also his ex!

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, but he has remained friends with his ex-girlfriend, who doesn't like me, throughout our relationship. I have never met her, but can tell she still has feelings for him as he is the one that broke up with her. They ... (232 words

Brit in love with an American!

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10 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 23 year old gay guy living in London. I have really strong values and want to meet someone decent who is kind, genuine and caring. I find it really difficult because most people my age just want to get drunk and sleep around and that really isnt me. Dur... (895 words

How can I make him explode again, without the aid of porn?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend 5 months. We are both virgins but engage in oral sex. My problem is the blowjob. FYI I love to please him. I've given him 6 complete ones so far. (there were others in between but dont count because we were distracted interrupted etc.) The first two were ... (209 words

Going from an abusive relationship to a man I deserve.

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - So about four to five months ago i got out of a physical/mental abusive relationship, after about three months of being single ( short period of time i know) i met a new man i'll call him J. I really held off on going on dates or texting/calling him but after seeing how nice ... (187 words

Ladies, is therea way to shave down there that isn't equivalent to self-torture?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I prefer the look and feel of having no hair down there. Multiple times in the past I’ve attempted to shave, but I’ve never been able to keep it up for more than three days. It’s just so uncomfortable. For the first day it feels fine, but within 24 hours it gets stubbly and ... (210 words

I'm afraid he'll sleep with the girl next door!

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I need to work on myself big time im very insecure and just being insecure is driving me crazy. And my boyfriend.. I love him so much and we just had a baby girl 2 months ago. Having the baby led us to move back home because we want to save up enough money and get our own place ... (218 words

Me, my boyfriend, and his ex!

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - My bf and i are together since 1 year and a half. We are spontaneous, laugh and talk about anything and we both consider this relationship as steady and with a future. BUT (there s always a but of course) his ex gf is always in the picture. They are too regularly in con... (640 words

Why does my foreskin hurt when I have an erection?

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10 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - It doesn't hurt when I pull my foreskin back but it hurts when I get and erection, I've done it twice hoping it won't hurt the more I do it,why does it hurt?... (33 words

His ex wife is doing everything in her power to get him back!

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10 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, my partner and I have been going out for 2 1/2 years we have a wee baby together. He has a 9 year old son with his ex wife, she has been causing un-necessary trouble since we started dating. When I came on the scene the ex wife was seeing someone as they had been ... (276 words

Husband failed to mention he was eating lunch with his female co-worker!

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10 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I just found out that my husband has been lying to me for the past six months (the same time he had just started work at a new location - same company, but in a different area of the state). When he comes home from work, I'll ask how his day was, did he have a good lunch, etc. ... (230 words

My supervisor complains about me to my co-workers!

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10 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - There's this supervisor at work that is telling people that I don't attend to her requests as soon as I supposed to. I believe I'm doing my job as I supposed to, I don't think I take too long to go help her dept. I am a computer support at this job and I get requests from ev... (274 words

Is this standard I've set going to land me alone?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I had this crush on guy and decided it'd been a while since our second date so I wanted to ask him to do something for a change. He always text to contact me. I wanted to talk but decided to first text him see if he was busy. He was on his way to an evening exercise class he ... (401 words

Should I try to solve it with my parents or just live my life and stand on my principles. This would mean cutting contact with them.

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10 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello. I know my parents did everything in the best meaning for me as an only child. They've been protective, and asked me what I want to do in my life as profession etc. On the other hand they have their characters and the thing I dont like is that they put me in middle of ... (649 words

I'm at a fork in the road.

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago. we'd been together 10 months and it had been quite a rocky relationship, very intense, moved very fast and although the good times were amazing, the bad times were too difficult. he suffered from retrograde jelousy and it t... (661 words

For the guys, does it have to be smooth as a baby's butt or is a little stubble ok?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey this is for all the guys on here! do guys really care if there is some stubble on a vagina if the girl is unable to get all of it off when shaving? or does it need to be perfectly smooth and hairless?... (44 words

Is there a slim chance I can get her back?

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10 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I'm still madly in love with my ex-girlfriend. We had an amazing relationship, with a few problems, but nothing that time couldn't fix (we're only 21) However, I screwed up way too many times. The first offense was in may 2009 I e-mailed a person on craigslist under ... (836 words

She's 29 and lives across the Atlantic, should we get married?

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10 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, there cupid...,i am a guy 20 years old from Nigeria. I have a lady who lives in the U.S.A. She said that she loves me with all her heart but the problem is that she i older than me because she is 29 years old and am 20years old. If our relationship grow more stronger,is it ... (70 words

We have financial issues, I'm thinking about finding a sugardaddy!

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am married and have a soon-to-be 6 month old baby. We are starting to have a hard time with finances (just like everyone else in the country). I work full time at home on the farm and part time outside of the home (as needed) and my husband has 2 full time jobs. I have ... (154 words

Why do I feel like this still?

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10 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am 17 years old and recently got dumped by my boyfriend of 15 months, who's 24 (yes, I know, you’re probably thinking ewww, but that’s not the problem here) The problem is that when I say recently I actually mean about 3/4 weeks ago :( and I'm still feeling so naff ... (417 words

We're both shy, who makes the move?

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10 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm sixteen years old and have never had a girlfreind, but a few weeks ago (well, 7) I met a girl who is just about perfect, it's just that I have the age-old problem of not knowing if she likes me or not. She seems to be the shy type which makes her rather difficult to read. ... (254 words

I'm a ghost to him!

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10 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi. so its been a year now and theres this guy i just want to talk to but i try to make conversation but i dont no what to say its really hard to make conversation with him!! i want to more than just invisble to him. on thursays were in the same class first thing just u... (148 words

I took off my ring after he admitted to cheating!

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10 November 2010 (F - I really need some advice here..i have been with my boyfriend from february 2007. we both met in college and had an instant bond. we graduated from college in 2008 and took jobs overseas. so we both lived in different countries from november 2008. the plan was that by ... (356 words

More like a business arrangement than a marriage!

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10 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - Where to begin... I am in an unhappy marriage. Well, I am unhappy. My husband is completely detached. He is a good provider and father, but we are basically roommates. My therapist says "you two are not a couple- it is a business arrangement. You raise the kids and take ... (321 words

All I got from him was a "Happy Birthday!" on MSN!

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I understand its not a big deal and that I may sound spoiled. But my BF got me NOTHING for my bf, nothing nothing... Around 6 of my friends, called/texted at 12:00 exactly and seemed happy for me. He did not even call, he said Happy Birthday on msn, not even a call... Last ... (354 words

Why did my ex say cruel things to hurt me, or was it to get me to leave him alone?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I will try to not make this too long...my boyfriend told me two months ago that he needed a break after only 4 months it was long distance but not impossible to give it a chance! We had just spent a month together he came with me to another contry to meet my family and by the ... (402 words

Want to be more than friends, but how as a 41 year old virgin?

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10 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am a 41 year old women who is still a virgin. I have always had a weight problem so am very uncomfortable about my body. I also have problems with trusting people not to hurt me or use me. I would love some advice on how to find someone and how to go about telling them that I ... (104 words

Friend's boyfriend consuming my thoughts!

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I cant stop thinking about one of my friends boyfriend! i think of him all the time.. going to bed waking up he is always on my mind! I know i could never act upon this and never would but its so hard trying to get him out my head! We talk all the time and are just friends... (113 words

He traded in his ex's good looks for my personality!

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - My partner said that he preferred his ex looks wise (she's real pretty) but prefers my personality ( he said she was a bitch and high maintenance). So I asked why he was with me and not her and He replied saying that She cheated on him and used him for money and although he ... (200 words

To Stay or Not To Stay?

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10 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 4 years. We don't live together (he just finished school, so that would be the next step for us very soon). I don't know if he is the one for me. My past has been the same thing with almost all of my ex's. They all (except 1) cheat... (671 words

How do I talk to her and ask her out? She is very pretty and I am the guy that gets bullied!

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10 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - I really like this girl in my class (me and her are 14) i like everything about her but i dont know have to talk to her. She is much taller than me :/ and some people dont like me (just for no reason) and sometimes bully me. She is not part of that crowd but i dont know how to ... (82 words

Why am I feeling sick to my stomach at the thought of him with another woman?

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10 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - I broke up with my b/f one month ago due his really bad temper. He has never hit me, but will break and throw things when he gets mad. Sometimes over trivial things. I knew it was best for me to leave him, which of course he threw a fit when I did. My question is this..se... (172 words

After 14 years, what should I do?

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10 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 14 years in a common law relationship. He is honest and trustworthy, and we have a lot of fun together when the times are good. Over the years, I've always worked full time and consider myself to be quite successful. He has worked approx. 5 ... (267 words

Sex - what do women prefer? And why do some women like to swallow when others dont?

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10 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Here is a question that I always wanted answered by someone other than my wife.....Why do some girls like to swallow seamen and some don't? What do most woman prefer, oral sex, anal sex, or sexual intercour... (63 words

Ideas for conversations to get a better idea of who he is?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - so im looking for some ideas for conversations with this guy im seeing to kind of gain a better idea of the kind of guy he is- im not talking like general interest kind of things... but stuff with more substance that can truly get to the core of who he is... i know asking a... (124 words

She is in an abusive relationship and she has changed so much, but I overheard her saying she still likes me! What should I do?

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10 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi there, im not to sure where to start with this so i'll let you know how life got to be like this. nI was friends with a girl since primary school, madly in love with her, little did i know at the time that she was madly in love with me. This was when we were 16. I had alot ... (668 words

Why do some women wish they were taller?

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10 November 2010 (? age 36-40 - The question is easy: why do some women wish they were taller? This is the reason most women wear high heels for example. I'm just wondering why, is it to scare off predators or do they just think taller women are more attractive? Is it the same as the "thin" thing, ju... (168 words

We cant do the "no contact" thing as he is in my classes, so how do I forget my ex?

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10 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am so messed up, and I really don't know what to do. I tried so hard to forget my ex, but seriously the no-contact thing doesn't work since he's in most of my classes. We are still friends. Part of me doesn't want to move on, yet part of me wants too. I know getting bac... (171 words

I feel more like roomates with my wife, I desperately want to feel wanted but she is so cold and it has led to me starting an affair....

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10 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have been married for 21 years. My wife is a wonderful person. Kind. Caring. Hardworking. A great mother. She is a well paid nurse. I do well running my own business. We have two teenage children that are doing great in every measure. Everything should be great…... (682 words

What can I do to make him more comfortable in the relationship and confident?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi. Ok so I've been seeing this guy for a couple weeks now and I like him. So far he's been a really great guy. The only problem that we're having is he's extremely self conscious and has low self-esteem so he constantly doubts my motives. He says he really likes me and wants ... (106 words

Does my dream relate to my relationship?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so I know this is about my dreams clearly but does it relate to my relationship? and how? I woke up this morning and I just felt real mad and sad because of my dream. I dreamt that I was with my bf (who just so u know is this guy I am in love with but he lives in a differ... (552 words

Will sex hurt because I am circumsized?

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10 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - Im a circumsized male (was circumsized since birth for medical reasons) and am wondering will sex hurt with/without a condom (I dont intend on having kids any time soon though, so mainly with a condom), I know unless lube is used I wont be able to get a handjob (based on that I ... (98 words

How do I confront him? How do I tell him I snooped on his cellphone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 27 and i'm in love with this tall handsome, fun guy. He is charming, gentle and really respectful. All the qualities you can think of the 'ideal man'. We spent this past easter holidays with my family paragliding and partying. My whole family accepted him as one of us and ... (346 words

I think I love him but I doubt we will ever be able to meet! What should I do?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I knew a guy on a dating site. He's from Denmark and obviously, I think we won't ever meet. I like him. We've been chatting for three months now. We don't chat everyday, but we do exchange messages almost everyday. He has become a part of my everyday and to be honest, I think ... (210 words

Am I shallow for my worries due to his hair colour?

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10 November 2010 (F age 41-50 - i have a problem, a man reaaly likes me and would do anything for me but because he is ginger im scared what people will say! what do i do?... (30 words

Best time to have sex without a condom so she doesn't get pregnant?

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10 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - What is the best time I can have sexual intercourse without using condom with my g.f without her being pregnant?? I need answers from experienced people..... (26 words

How much sperm is needed to get a girl pregnant?

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10 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - How much sperm is needed to make woman to be pregnant? Is there a minimum amount of sperm required to make a woman to be pregnant? ... (28 words

Need advice on being upfront to online boyfriend I lied to.

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy on a dating site 4 1/2 months ago. At the time I was trying out the site and didn't feel comfortable posting my real photo and other personal information on a dating site. In the past I had an issue with a online stalker so i was nervous about posting anything real ... (502 words

Dreams about my crush!

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10 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Been having dreams lately about my crush. It's usually about us being close. We could be sitting with each other, walking, and whatever. It will usually end up with her getting close to hold me, resting her head against my shoulder, or something relative. Hard to explai... (186 words

She humiliated me!

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10 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to a girl I really liked the other week but then I found out she only slept with me on a bet. I'm 18 and have never been that good with girls. There was this one girl at my college who I really liked but never had the guts to speak to. She was so gorgeous ... (411 words

My husband cheated and now I don't trust him

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10 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - I had a wonderful marraige for the past 16years. On the 14th year I discovered that my husband is cheating on me, we tried to resolve it, when I was gaining trust on him, he did it again and again almost four times and that crippled me emotionally and I dont trust him anymore, ... (116 words

Can you love two women? how do I choose?

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10 November 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have been in a long term relationship with my girlfriend (lets call her E) now for 7 years and things have been very good, I recenetly met a girl (called K) and one thing led to another and we started a relationship and have been together for over 6 months. the problem i ... (274 words

Indecision about future of marriage

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10 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi all New to this, but here goes. I've been married 14 years, and have a 16 year old daughter with my wife. (We were together about six years before we married). Over many years despite functioning very well as parents our couple relationship deteriorated. My wife gave up ... (742 words

How can I make my boyfriend realize he has made a mistake?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. For the first three months after the break we still saw a lot of each other, as friends, but we were still very close. I've just found out that he has been sleeping with someone since we broke up and I've had to end our ... (371 words

My wife has never cared about me in our 20 years of marriage, and now I think she is in love with someone else....

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10 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - i am married for nearly about 20 yrs. but i have never found my wife caring about me. now she is in love with someone else i guess. help me.... (30 words

How can I get our sex life back after we lost our child?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - 6 Months ago my husband and I lost our 1st child while I was giving birth to her. Ever since our sex life has not been the same. Any suggestions on what to do? Thanks ... (35 words

How should I make him understand that I don't like this swap idea?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 28 years old and my husband is asking me for swapping with another couple. He is angry to me that i denied for it and we are having arguments on this...he said nasty things to me and whenever we argue at end of it he makes love to me and he is rough when he does that. last ... (89 words

Will swallowing sperm help me to conceive?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Is it true if a girl swallows sperm can it help her conceive? I was told it helps you get pregnant. Now don't think I'm asking will it get me pregnant I'm asking will it help?... (36 words

Does anyone understand this kind of love?

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10 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - ~I KNOW I'LL NEVER LOVE THIS WAY AGAIN~ Tonight I am very emotional..the most emotional I have ever been. My ex contacted after dumping me nearly 4 months ago. Our breakup was sinful. We both said things to one another that contradicted love. I have grown much fr... (255 words

What can I do to boost my confidence and my ability to talk to her?

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10 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - So I have been struggling with this and again I ask for help. Ok I am a 16 year old male and shes a 15 year old female. We have been friends for 3 years. She is a wonderful person, exels in school, everyone knows her, tellented and of course caring. She is the most caring ... (254 words

My boyfriend is struggling and I don't know how to help him?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok. I've known my boyfriend for almost four years, we have been dating almost 2 of those years and we are very close. I had my first son six months before we started dating and I no longer am as slim as I would like to be or used to be. He has packed on 100 pounds. He is very ... (117 words

My Friend won't hang out with me now that she has a boyfriend!

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - So one of my closest friends who I am now roommates with is dating this new guy. Before he came along, we would always hang out and spend time talking, and I have always been there to support her on her career and she's done the same for me. Now she has a bf and she's always ... (303 words

Why are younger women attracted to older men?

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10 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am posting this to ask for opinions more so than answers. It is my hope that the opinions expressed by people in reply to this can help me to answer my question - myself. What I would like to get your opinions on is this Why do you think that younger women (relatively y... (321 words

Even though he has never given me a reason not to, I am finding it really hard to trust him!

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been with this guy for two years now and idk if i can trust him or not...hes never given me a reason not to trust him but yet i always wonder about it! we "broke up" a year ago but we are still "together" but without a title! i used to trust him SOO much but now i dont ... (166 words

I don't think I can ask her out yet because I am younger than her!

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10 November 2010 (M age 22-25 - Not the best title but... Today i just found out she's a vegetarian I guess that helps with why she so B.e.a.u.tiful like she just thinks meat is disgusting. So Im a freshman in hIghschool and I'm like in love w/ someone 2 years older (Junior) I'm shy with the talking thing and ... (169 words

How can I get him to fall in love with me again?

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10 November 2010 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My husband and I have been married for 3 years. I had a complete hysterectomy 2 1/2 years ago and since then I lost some of my sex drive. In the past year I feel as he has fallen out of love with me. I know he has cheated at least twice and I forgave him and took... (247 words

Why are my brother's friends coming on to me all of a sudden?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - all of a sudden i feel all my brother's friend are trying to hang out with me, date me, or etc. i dont know whats going on. what should i do?... (31 words

How should I confront my fiancee about her flirting with this other guy?

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10 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - ok im engaged to this girl who i realy love but she has been talking to this other guy where she goes to school. she says they are just friends but my litle sister goes to school with her and she said they were all over each other! how should i confront her and how can i make ... (78 words

My ex abandoned me during my pregnancy, started taking drugs and now wants to come back

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am pregnant and due in less than a week with my first child. The father and i broke up around my third month of pregnancy because he decided he did not want a baby..in fact he said it was solely my fault i got pregnant.. and refused to help support us by quitting his job. H... (219 words

My husband says he doesn't know if he loves me because of my weight

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - My husband has told me three times on three seperate ocassions in our 6 year relationship that he doesn't know if he loves me, and that because of my weight he is no longer atracted to me. He has a lot of issues and has started councilling and was diagnosed with a mental i... (96 words

My ex and I still have sex even though he has other women. Why can't I leave him?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi every body i need help. well first my son's father and i was together for about 2 years and a few months. yea it was my first relationship, first time in love, and my firsy baby. well we have been broken up for about a year now but we still have sexual contact. well i am... (97 words

Should I talk to my best friend about her brother's friend flirting with me?

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10 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - So, my bestfriends brother has been flirting with me. I mean... He's with a new girl all the time. And today I started texting him; cuz, hey, hes cute ;) but anyways, He asked who I was going out with. I said 'nobody' and told him I was fixin to go to dance and that I couldnt ... (180 words

We were born on the same day and year, tell me we're not meant to be together!

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10 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok here it is exactly 4 months after me and my girlfriend started going she calls me one morning and say i can't do this anymore....we had a great time together....we were born on the same day and same year. she made me feel like we were a dynasty. she was the first one to say ... (203 words

Can I ask out the teacher's aid?

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10 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am taking a Psychology course, along with 400+ students, and when I met my TA (we'll call her Clarice), and I was just shocked at how beautiful she was. She's about 5'8, very kind, is from Brazil, and is 2-3 years older than I am. Although I like Psychology, I can't even tell ... (459 words

Is it normal to love an ex after 5 years?

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Is it normal to still love an ex after over 5 years of seperartion? I am the one who always broke off the relationship with this man for simple and un-explainable reasons. When he comes back to me then I remember why wew didn't look and I'm less interested but when were no... (162 words

I'm crushing on the student teacher, is it possible to ask him out?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, so I am a college student and am currently taking a class. for some reasons we have two teachers in my class, one is female and the other is currently a grad student(male). BTW he is 27 and i am 20. Although he doesn't look very much charming and he is very ... (364 words

I keep finding his ex's stuff around the house!

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10 November 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating G for almost 3 years. We are engaged to get married in January. While cleaning his house because I'm moving in, I found many personal items of his former live-in girlfriend. We discussed and I felt since they were her childhood things (bibles, yearboo... (139 words

Lost: Emotions for my ex fiance.

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm in a fairly difficult situation and i would appreciate some thoughts. I was with my ex for almost two years,we were engaged and about to move into our first place together. However there has always been some intimacy issues - he's a lot more attracted to me ... (213 words

I get a panic attack every time I go to lose my virginity!

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 22 years old and I'm a virgin. I started dating when I was 15. My first boyfriend (he was a virgin too)and I lasted 3 years and the furthest we got was oral sex. We both orgasm and I thought real sex would come with the time because I was scared of the pain. When we broke ... (341 words

He throws paper at me, does that me he's interested?

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10 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - lost password to account before , now i remembered. so reposting this under here :) thanks if you reply. Hi i am 14yrs old i am NOT new to dating, just new to flirting. saying last time i had many BFs and i wasn't very confident ..now i am but am still kinda shy well ... (258 words

Do I wait for the one I really want, or should I move on?

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10 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello, im 15 years old and i'm having some boy issues. please help me? There is this boy 'C' i have liked since march of this year. We went on a school trip and he told me he liked me, problem was is that he had a girlfriend at the time. He kissed me once when we were there, i... (314 words

How do you know when he's the right guy?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - how do you know when he the right guy?... (9 words

I can't get past him having unprotected sex with his ex.

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I would like to thank you in advance for reading this and thinking of any type of advice for me. Here goes ... our history: derek and i dated in high school for 2 years, we were each other's first love and first time. i was absolutely infatuated with him and loved every ... (599 words

Holidays bring the family together, right?

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10 November 2010 (F age - Well.... I hope that this mess is communicated clearly enough..... In the past four years, I've lost a Brother to cancer and my Dad to multiple strokes. I've also gotten a hip replacement, bought and sold three homes and moved countries once; and now my husband is commutin... (1402 words

Why say you are gutted now?

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10 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - I saw a girl for two years at work found out she was seeing some one else at work, so I wished her well, but I was very very upset. Time went on she was very odd to me even though I was perfectly nice and kept my distance, it didn’t work out with the other man. The ex I found ... (265 words

We're currently "on a break" but I think she might be considering another guy.

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10 November 2010 (M age 26-29 - Recently, my girlfriend of two years told me we needed to go on a break. Currently we have a LDR; we go to different colleges, but live in the same hometown so we get to spend our summers/holidays together. I suppose its not that long of a distance since our colleges are ... (490 words

He makes me me out to be this bad girlfriend.

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - I do not feel my boyfriend is proud of me. He is lovely to me when it is just us, or in front of MY friends. He DOES hold my hand and cuddle me in public. But it's around HIS friends that i feel this. I know facebook isn't that important, but he refuses to have me on it and ... (169 words

What exactly is my wife getting jealous over?

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10 November 2010 (M age 51-59 - I'm trying to put my finger on my wife's jealousy issues so I'd like to know, primarily from women, what images could make her feel this way. As a man, I feel sick when I think of who/how she went down on other guys...but what about women? What images or thoughts of me in bed ... (79 words

He kisses me only when no one is looking.

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10 November 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid, there is a guy i like and i know he likes me too, we have gone on a few dates and shared a few kisses but they are always when no one is looking and he doesn't want us to be in a relationship but he says we are definitely more than friends he calls me everyday but ... (82 words

How can I get a girl to stay?

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10 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - Okay so i am 23 year old guy. I have kissed like just 3 girls in my life and they hang out with me for like few days to few weeks and leave me. I have recently dated like a french girl who was beautiful and lovely. She broke with me in 1 week telling that she dont have time ... (83 words

We have chemistry but he's confused?

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10 November 2010 (F age 22-25 - So I've known this guy since the very beggining of September and we really clicked then about a month ago I started to like him as more than a friend and then just a couple weeks ago he started showing signs of liking me back so one day after school I asked him if he wanted to ... (303 words

I'm average so why talk about it?

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10 November 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have an average size penis ok, I used to be realy confident in myself UNTIL my girlfriend kind of let me know how large her ex was. I was like oh no and look at me. Iv turned so insecure now. Only yesterday her friend slept with a lad and I asked my lass if she seen her ... (129 words

Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?

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10 November 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis and that he's some weird ... (122 words

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