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writes:I started a new job about 2 months ago and I'm starting to think my co-worker may have a crush. The other morning we had to drop something off in the mall and on our way back to the store he wanted to get coffee. He seemed to be standing close to me the whole time and while we were waiting for the coffee he randomly asked me "what do you think about during the day?". He is always coming over to where i am and saying stupid things that make no sense and every time he walks by me he acts like its the first time he has seen me all day. He is nice to other girls we work with but it seems to be a bit over the top when he is around me. I'm just not sure if he is being nice or if he is possibly interested. So i need a second opinion!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah i dont know how i feel about a relationship at work so im DEFINATELY being cautious! i just thought it was him being nice, but he isnt the same way with other girls. I dont really see him joking around or making fun of other girls, its always towards me. so thank you for all the help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): Well, he may be interested in you or he could just be kind of out there as you say that he often doesn't make sense and seems forgetful. Maybe he's just odd and this is normal behavior for him. Only time will tell. But if you're interested in him, perhaps you should make the first move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): Id say he's interested but its possible he just doesnt know how to express it so he comes across as awkward. Lol my physique is awkward enough cause im rather tall and big so its a must I know how to communicate my thoughts well to a woman. Be carefull miss with mixing up work and play...with co workers. Its always a risk developing workplace relationships because of obvious rumors and co workers asking questions and drama...its like the relationship cant be private and thats not cool. So, just think twice and I wish u the best with ur decision. Good luck doll.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): he's being a sleaze. And sadly for you he's probably done it many times before. Privately men often admire what the man like this can get away with. But woman who behave the same are seen far less favorably. Build your career at work. Not your sexual history. Your sleazy co-worker is attempting to sexually harass you. Where i work that is discipline problem. And staff have been sacked in the past or disciplined for sexual harassment. If he wants a sexual relationship he should look outside his workplace. Keep yourself 'tidy' in that regard at work and that will ensure you dont get a bad reputation as a naive woman easily seduced and duped.
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