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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you really love those you once hated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have two questions. Are men attracted to women who have similiar personalities as they do? The other questions is I like this guy that I intially hated. Now I have a huge crush on him. Not sure how that happened but what I want to know is does this same thing happen t... (72 words)

Am I wrong to date a reformed player?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy Steve for a few years, he is a friend of a friend. He was a total player,dating more girls then I can count and totally disrespecting them. A few months ago we were talking on facebook and we ended up staying up all night talking, after doing this for... (314 words)

Should I end this relationship if she doesn't want to settle into to our new place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I`m 32,my gf is 20.we have a 3 month old girl together.We have been living together for the past year mostly at her mothers until she kicked us out.So for the past month I have been trying to get my trailer situated.She has been staying with me all this time but she keeps ... (396 words)

I feel like I lost my family. Should I tell my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I got totally down, I didnt have anything to eat (1 tuna can for day, no bread) was depressed, lost work, with artistic school couldnt find any employment - all this because of what my mum put me into (I slept with her boyfriend, as a revenge to that she wanted to leave me and ... (670 words)

Do men like a woman with a British sounding accent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does a good as in posh ish British accent sound good on a woman? Are guys attracted to such women? not the stuffy posh accent but generally the accent of people educated at a private school.... (38 words)

Have not had sex yet, invited to his house alone, what should I expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yeah we are both in our early twenties and we only just made out (passionate) and some light touching. We've been seeing each other for a while and only just got physical. Now he's inviting me to his house no one there. Does he think we are to have sex? I'm totally ok w... (82 words)

My new boyfriend seriously ignores me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past few days, my new boyfriend has been ignoring me, and not talking to me. Hes always with my friends and seems so much happier with them then me.... My friend who dated him said he was just shy, but this doesn't seem like shyness to me... I asked my friends what and... (70 words)

Any good advice on winning back my ex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i get my exback?... (6 words)

We broke up because of a misunderstanding. How can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - We dated for a week and at the end of the week there was a school dance. I had expected it to be the night of my dreams i was hoping to get my first kiss. Instead my friends wouldnt let me get within a foot of him the entire dance(ny friends did not aprove). When there was only... (301 words)

Experiencing a lot of irregularity with my period, what are your thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so im really worried i got my last period on April but this month i got my period in the beginning of the month and it wasn't heavy or nothing barley stained the pad but it ; lasted 3 days and then around the 18 i got it again for like 3 hours and then today i got it again ... (69 words)

We had sex, noticed a strange white substance, any ideas what it was??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - today my girlfriend and i did it and when i came, i came on her stomach and when we looked there was other white stuff under her vag but it was close to it and it looked like semen but not light white as my semen and it looked thicker than my semen but we dont know who its from ... (83 words)

How do I tell my soon to be ex-boss to call me if he wants to, without being rejected?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a huge crush on my boss dispite the fact that we have gotten in to some heated discussions on the way the company is running. Some so heated that I really don't know why he didn't fire me. Lately we have been getting along, but he has no idea that I like him like ... (140 words)

I would like to know how I get over this girl I feel I love, what is a good remedy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need some help. I am in love with a girl, who doesn't love me back or even like me and she never will. I have gone into a deep depression and life has been hell for the past while. I have tried to get over her but I can't, regardless of what I try I just can't get over ... (158 words)

I am almost 15 and may be pregnant, what advice can you give me, totally confused??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello im 14 years old about to be 15 next week, and i think im pregnant i havent told anyone but my boyfriend and if i tell my parents they'd kill me,im just so scared and dont know what to do, i havent took a test yet but when i do and it comes out positive should i get an ... (95 words)

My two best girl friends hit on the first guy I really liked, how do I get through this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i really liked this guy, tim. he liked me back. we had been talking and seeing eachother a lot. so we hung out and it was really sweet. we held hands and he had his arm around me and it was really nice. i was thinking that hed ask me out and everything would be great ... (487 words)

His wife does not want to give him the divorce, other problems, need a lot of advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is the back-ground: I had an affair with someone several years ago. He (I'll call him Scott) was a very close friend and confided in me that his marriage was over and he was leaving her. We began the relationship then. Well, "scott" asked me to have his child and I ... (588 words)

I'm disappointed that my boyfriend doesn't masterbate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this probably gets asked all the time but hre goes. I found out earlier that my boyfriend, (we're both only 16 and have never had sex), doesn't masterbate. I'm sure LOTS of guys don't but it really bothered me that he doesn't. With my last serious boyfriend we use... (189 words)

Should we be together longer before we move in together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months, and in a months time hes looking for his own place and wants me to live with him, i stay at his at the weekend, and sometimes stay at his for 3-5 days at a time, and we get along fine, we've never argued or shouted at each ... (90 words)

What can I do to win my ex back, I really want to be with her, all advice appreciated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just want to be with my ex, she's slowly starting to talk to me again, but very slowly, she just seems to hate me right now. By the way she is pregnant and it is mine. I just cant stand being without her, it's physically hurting now, everyday just keeps getting worse, ... (74 words)

My ex was abusive, I still have feelings for him, and guilt, how do I get over all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I'll try to make this short. Six years ago, I had a really close male friend ("Johnny"). I liked Johnny, he was a few years older than me, I was 15 at the time. He didn't like me as more than a friend, but we were friends with benefits. I remained a virgin, but we did a bit ... (530 words)

How do I tell if he is just being friendly or is really interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell if a guy likes you and it's not just you reading too much into anything because you're hoping that he likes you back? There's a guy that I like but it's hard to tell because sometimes he seems to be flirting and then I think that maybe he's just being frien... (64 words)

My boyfriend won't let me near his cellphone, is he cheating on me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boy friend always locks his cell phone and always textin he dont let me answer his phone but i let him get my phone. i want to know is he cheatin on me.... (34 words)

He's cocky, confident and teases me, but I don't know how he feels about me, what can I do to find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i really need to know how this guy feels about me. its not easy to say how do you feel. i feel hes fond of me but i know im in love with him but i dont know if he feels the same way. hes very cocky and confident. hes always teasing me at work. he says nice things and makes me ... (190 words)

We are back together, but it's really not feeling right, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK,so it's been two weeks since my ex and I started talking again, and wanting to work things out. He was the dumper, I the dumpee. I know it will take awhile for things to get back to how they once were, and I still have this uneasy feeling deep inside, and i know he does too. ... (144 words)

I am not totally happy with him, but it's comfortable, should this be enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 21 years young and I dont have a clue what profession I am going to college for. Meanwhile, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and have we had our ups and downs. He is 24 and already having awful problems being in debt. His family and mine have no connection ... (295 words)

How can I build my confidence and self-esteem and meet more people that I can trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont feel part of a group anymore. Every friend of mine and even the closest ones I could say something about which makes me doubt them. I have lost trust in loads of my friends and can only trust one person fully. The rest i just don;t know. I don't have much confidence in ... (116 words)

Do I give up my dream for my girlfriend or my girlfriend for my dream?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Since a young age I have wanted to move abroad. My rule of life is that the world is a large place and England is almost nothing on the globe, so go and explore!! I am 19 now and I know it will be years until I have the funds, experience and immigrati... (209 words)

Can I get a restraining order on my mother-in-law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To get a restraining order against a grandparent do you have to get both parents to agree to it or can I still get one without my partners consent? Cause his mother is to over bearing. She comes over without permission and takes our son without us saying she can then she kept ... (144 words)

Am I deluding myself? Will he really leave his abusive relationship for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please don't judge me on this, I just need advise and have no one to talk to who will understand me. I've known my MM for over 2 yrs. My husband and I both worked with him at our current job. We became quick friends with him and his wife. My husband eventually lost his ... (755 words)

I'm newly bisexual. I'm sure he likes me back, but he's already with someone...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 21 year old male, I've been heterosexual all my life, but just recently I've become bisexual, almost purely because of one of my closest friends, who I've completely fallen in love with. I'm absolutely sure he likes me too (he's also bi) and he's flirted quite a ... (153 words)

I'm afraid of getting close in case I get hurt again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im a 17 year old girl and at my age i shouldnt be getting stressed out over boys but i am soo i need as much help as possible.... i finshed with my ex and we both moved on ....i seen him last week and he was drunk and he came up to my crying putting his arms around me.? ... (228 words)

What does "exclusive" mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've been seeing this guy for a minute now and i really like him. we act like a couple, he only dates me and me likewise with him. its all good! but when first asked about a month ago, he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. time has gone by since then and we've ... (94 words)

Warn the Cheating Ex's New Girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex was cheating on me. For more details you can go here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-checking-a-partners-internet-activities-a-violation.html I have since the break-up been breaking my own rule and checking his Facebook. I already know I shouldn't have, but I have... (158 words)

I want to stop being her friend without interfereing with our social circle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

- I need advice on how to deal with my so called best friend. We have been friends for 5 years and were at one point so close we knew what each other were thinking and even had our own coded language. Over the past year though we have not been getting on and although we still ... (379 words)

Wanting revenge on my b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok see yea,i've been through soo much pains and anger since i've falln inlove with my bf, and i feel like its time to pay back, i know dey saii dnt fight fire with fire,buh i need 2 show dis boy dat he will suffer after wat ez put me through. so I am loking for a simple and ... (134 words)

Should I start talking to the handsome stranger at the bus stop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, a bit of a strange question. Every morning i get a bus to college, and i see the same guy there every morning at my busstop. He's unbeleivably handsome and very well dressed. Lately i see him looking at me and when i look back he smiles, blushes and mouthes 'hi'. He... (126 words)

Will the guilt ever go away?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i of 5 years have been going through some rough times but were really trying to get through them. I have trust issues even though i know he would never do anything. Well i just became the worst hippocrite because i recently fooled around with his best friend. ... (210 words)

Should I continue my friendship with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure whether to continue my friendship with this person or not. The thing is, she only seems to want to do what she wants lately. She usually just wants to go out drinking in my hometown ( she lives in another area ) but i sometimes get sick of going as i live here. I ... (296 words)

Could it be possible that he will hide things from me now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together almost 2 years. we see each other almost everyday and we always say goodbye at the end of the day with a big hug and kiss and an "i love you" We still even hold hands everywhere we go. But recently he has been called a flirt at work by the ... (187 words)

Is it normal for a 27 year old guy to get upset when he doesn't get sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Dear cupid... Me and my boyfriend has got a few problems that we can't seem to overcome. This makes us both very frustrated. He obviously think that we not having enough sex. I don't always have that urge to have sex for some reason I don't even know. I just don't feel in th... (190 words)

I am ginger with glasses, how do I make myself more attractive?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am ginger with glasses and people give me a har time over it. How do I make mysel more attractive without dyeing my hair (I love my hair as it is) or getting contacts.... (35 words)

Is cryotherapy worth the cost?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went in for my regular female exam and ended up having to get a cervical biopsy. I got the results back from that, and all my doctor told me was "the abnormal cells we seen are caused by hpv." She didn't tell me if I had warts or if it was just abnormal cells, however she is ... (289 words)

I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged. We've been married over 10 years and before me she had this boyfriend named Jim. Right after we got married we moved about 3 hours away to another part of the state for my job. Well, just a few months ago... (257 words)

Should I be content to be the mistress?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having an affair with a married man for 5 months now. He is older than me and has 3 children. I work with him for about an hour twice a day. We knew each other for over a year before anything happened. It started out as a bit of fun but somewhere along the way it got ... (172 words)

I can't stop worrying about being pregnant, please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Soooo, yesterday night, my bf and i were fooling around...i gave him a blow job and he finished by himself, then a little while later he fingered me. I read today that you can get pregnant this way, so i called a sexual health hotline and talked to them - they said it's ... (145 words)

I think he doesn't want me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been dating my bf for 6 months (not a long time I know but it's my longest relationship). When we first got together he was really sweet, fun and couldn't do more for me. Now it seems as though he doesn't want to be near me sometimes. He's always been arogant and ... (244 words)

Caught between an ex and a rebound - help! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a bit of a situation, i was with my ex for 2 and a half years, we split up near the beginning of April, we had split up a couple of times before but this time i couldn't be dealing with it anymore so decided not to plead with him to come back, i moved on with my life, ... (339 words)

How can I build up my self-esteem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I build up my self-esteem? I don't normally hear black men - or men in general for that matter - talking about this, but I've never had much confidence in my looks or my personality. I've always felt inadequate for relationships with women: mostly through school life ... (189 words)

How do I go about dumping him in the nicest possible way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help! Please! I've been with this guy for almost a year now, and things are not good. Mainly not good for me, but for him, he still thinks we are perfect and there's nothing wrong with 'us'. But i just feel like i can't be with him anymore, however much i... (150 words)

Can't let go of the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for 9 months now. He has been divorced for 2 years now but I feel he still has some feelings towards his ex. We have started arguing a lot lately and they all seem to be about the past! He blames me for still loving my ex (the father of my son, which ... (505 words)

Do older men have different expectations in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24, this man is 31. I've never dated someone older than 4 years and I am a little freaked out. I am used to being in control of the situation by dating guys around my age or younger. This new guy is good looking, has a job and seems like he is well off. He also has ... (206 words)

Is my fiance cheating, or am I paranoid? Please Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know how I can tell if my fiance is flirting and possibly seeing my best friend. He seems to be constantly tugging her hair or tickling her or something. When I talked to my best friend about him flirting with her she said she didn't think it was flirting and when I ... (183 words)

We broke up, but she is still contacting me! How do I take these moves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I, or ex-girlfriend rather, broke up a week and a half ago. Actually she broke up with me due to unknown reasons. She just said she's not ready for a relationship this serious and needed time and distance to think. Well... not even a week after the split ... (197 words)

How do I deal with a boyfriend who has a problem with my weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, thank you in advance for any answers. I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we were best friends for around a year before this. I've always wanted to be a bit slimmer and have been up and down with my weight and he knows this. I've been the same weight since we ... (310 words)

How do I fix this disaster with his ex and their kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. When we started hanging out last year he was living at home with his kids and wife whom he immediately left to be with me. I never asked him to, in fact I urged him not to. But he was convinced he couldn't stay with ... (716 words)

How can I make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have met a great girl who I care about she is 31 and I'm 29 she has 4 kids from another relationship I don't have any kids I would like to have a child but she doesn't want anymore children. I want this relationship to work but I don't know how it can work ... (55 words)

Is she just playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've strarted talking to this girl. We have been on a few dates ad at the end of the second she seemed to kiss me( I was going to make a move, but I kinda feel like ahe beat me to it). We talked about future hangout plans, she wants to drive or pay next time to return the ... (165 words)

I hope my period is going to start but symtoms are a little different

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, this is more of a medical question, i am worried i am pregnant. i had sex last week protected but right now im getting my period real soon, and ive been feeling weird. I feel heavy, and feel fat as this is normal , but my breasts have stopped hurting as much as befor... (166 words)

If you're called a broad, does that mean you're fat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this has nothing to do with relationships but What does it mean when a someone calls you a 'Broad' does it mean you're fat? because one of my bf's classmate called me a broad.. ... (36 words)

Should I move out to be with my boyfriend and go against my parents wishes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I turn 18 in a few months, and I am in love with my boyfriend, i would do anything for him. My parents don't want me to see him so for about the past year we have been secretly seeing each other, but its getting harder and harder as my parents don't let me leave the house or ... (137 words)

Phone sex and feeling self conscious about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well i just turned 18, also iv never had sex and the most iv done was making out. My boyfriend is alot more experience though becuase he has had sex and messed around before. We do sext though (not pictures but stories) and im ok at it but not that good. Could that be ... (119 words)

Her mother doesn't want us to be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i am ravi I need your help i get marry with my girlfried. we were togather last eight year now she want divorce. because her mother she dosn't want this relation. what should i do ?... (44 words)

Do men like it when you play with their hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was wondering do (most) guys with longish hair like it when girls play with it or do they think it weird? I know its kinda a silly question but i don't just wanna be like "hey can i play with your hair" out of no where. Thanks.... (49 words)

Could I just be wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My neighbor and I dated awhile back, at a terrible time for both of us. We remained really close after we broke up, and even the people closest to us mistake us for a couple, and he never corrects them. I still care about him, and at times it feels like he still cares about ... (152 words)

How do I deal with my attention-seeking friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend is always the centre of attention, and when she isn't she acts like someone has just knifed her. I can't ever get a word in edgeways, so i need tips on being more assertive. However, i was asked by the guy i like to prom and to my face she was like wow and behind m... (137 words)

He betrayed me then blamed ME for refusing a second connection with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i've done everything for him like giving cookies,made pillow for his birthday,listen to his childish talk so that he'll feel better. instead of appreciation,he thinks of me as toy which he can play then abandon when he gets bored of it. later he betrayed me.few months la... (164 words)

I can't trust any of my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, this is a question about relationships between friends, I really can't trust any of my friends, it's not them, well it is sometimes! But it's just me, I just can't tell people my feelings, it's getting bad, everything is so bottled up inside, I can act normal around p... (386 words)

His ex can't let go and its making me insecure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been dating a man now for almost 7 months, we both have admitted to falling in love with one another...my problem is he was married before me for 10 yrs. and has been divorced for 3 yrs. already. Im having a hard time with a situation that keeps rearing its ugly head. My ... (204 words)

"He dosen't know what I look like and he wants to meet"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been chatting to a really nice guy on a dating site for a couple of months now. I have seen a picture of him but he doesn't know what I look like at all he wants us to meet up tomorrow night.I don't know what to do. What if he doesn't like what I look like and I don't ... (69 words)

He dropped me like a bad habit, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We were together for 4 months. The time we spent together was fun and very passionate. He would tell me he cared about me and was scared of being in a relationship because he still had things in his life to figure out. I fell for him. We took a week apart and he called me ... (191 words)

"I really like this boy and time is running out"

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here's the problem. I really like this guy. Same old, same old. I'm very, very shy around guy's and have had a few bad experiences. My friend says that he's no good for me. also he likes another girl. this is a well known fact. I personally don't like her and find very ... (99 words)

"Ghosts"

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - "OPs own title" since I was a kid I could see dead ghost or spirits and I could see the future at random as long as I can remember I m now 15 and I have seen thousands of docters and they all say nothing is wrong with me but why do I still see these things?? what are these th... (67 words)

I did everything for her, now we don't get on. Has she used me?

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25 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey, I have been with a girl for coming up two years now. She started to work in the office where I work- I am 34 and she is now 23. I tried to give this relationship my all. We moved in together after a short while of dating. I paid the deposit for her house and bought... (219 words)

How long should you wait if you want to keep a man?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How long should you wait to have sex with a man you are seeing if you want to keep him?... (20 words)

Wrongfully confessed?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this friend who i have known for 10 years,he wanted to date me when we were younger but I kindly declined because he was involved with someone and did not break it off before pursuing me.We remained friends.Now so many years later I feel as if I have fallen for him and ... (139 words)

Making A Fool Of Myself perhaps?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age - I have just returned from a lovely cruise ( third this year) and already booked this ship again for two month time many of the apssengers have been on this ship loads of times as its small and gfriendly I am worried thaqt I might have made a fool of myself on thyere was a... (379 words)

How can I tell him that the sex hurt me without hurting him?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Usually when my boyfriend and I have sex, I have an orgasm quite a long time before him. He lasts for quite a long time. The problem is that after I've come, I start to get sore if he carries on, so by the time he finishes, I'm in quite a bit of pain. I know he'd feel awful ... (148 words)

He keeps saying love me but I do already!

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months now, and love each other deeply. The only thing that he confuses me with is this random saying he says."Love me..." I tell him i love him, but what is he expecting when he ask?... (46 words)

My step- children don't respect me what should I do?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have 6 kids. Three are his and three are mine. I am at home with the kids the most so I deal with their behaviour issues and just day to day stuff making sure they get their responsibilities (which are very minimal) taken care of. Well Whenever I tell my ... (183 words)

It's not you it's me? Should I leave before he does?

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25 May 2010 (F)

- I'm 22 and have 2 kids 3 and 1 years old. I've been with my boyfriend who's 19 for 1 year and 4 months and they think of him as their dad. He told me last night that he doesn't love me as much as he used to and he's only staying to try and make things work and he doesn't know ... (141 words)

Is his 'size' effecting us not getting pregnant?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im with a guy that is above normal in size. he goes in all the way but i can't get pregnant. can him going in real deep affect me from having a child?... (33 words)

Why does he ask who I'm with/tell me who hes with? Why did he tell me he posted an ad? Why is he this way? Is he too comfy?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - a cpl of weeks ago i met this guy from online, he had responded to an ad i had.Seems we hit it off after meeting cos we hung out again and he made me dinner/watched a movie.He still sends txts seein what I'm upto etc.Recently I got a movie that he had wanted to see (was ... (363 words)

Is it possible to pass on thrush to your Boyfriend?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have some symptoms that are quite like thrush. However my boyfriend and I had sex sunday night and now he appears to have the same symptoms. Red gentils, itchiness, White clumps, odour etc. Is it possible that I could have thrush and passed it onto him? It is not an STI... (69 words)

Unknown Infection. Please help!

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past few days I have had itching around my vagina. I noticed that my discharge is alot more white than usually as well as having white clumps in it. These white clumps have been contineous. I noticed my boyfriend also has the same problem but his has only started in ... (154 words)

She said "He dreams about me" and its true but I can't tell her that!

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25 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a guy, 19 years, in the last six months have been in a class for adult education to improve my maths. In my class is a girl (21 years) who I think is really cute, nice and intelligent. Today when we were at the school to fetch some papers for our Danish exam (essay),... (237 words)

Everyone hates me, Please help me.

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Everyone hates me. I hate my school because everyone really hates me. I only have 2 friends that i can be with. But I'm bullied, teased at and I'm always being hurt emotionally and physically. No one really cares about me and I my parents said i can't go to another scho... (156 words)

What should I do... I'm not the same person I used to be..

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay im 16 for the record. So I met this guy Chris online in july. after meeting him, we totally fell for each other :) i'd do anything for him. so for the first time, he got me to send him underwear pics. and then eventually i also sent him a topless pic of me.. my ex, ja... (789 words)

How do I tell this man that I love him and would leave my life in a second for him?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im a widow at 38 met a amazing man a year later,moved in together we never had that oh my god im in love feeling,and I feel like we both just settled,my friend died last year and Im very close to her husband and now as of 8 months ago we have been having the most amazing sex ... (148 words)

I'm so lost! My own father and wife have been having a secret relationship!

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25 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just learnt that my Father age @65 and my Wife age @31 Years have been having a sexual relationship for the last one year. Both are doing regularly and chatting with us.We are live in joint Gujarati hindu family with my mother and two childrens. I have seen proof throu... (133 words)

What does he want by contacting me again?! He cheated on me and used me!

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When we first met my instinct told me loud and clear that he was trouble but he was also very attractive and after hanging out a couple of times the sexual tension grew so strong that I couldn't help but giving in to the temptation. We started dating. Shortly after hell bro... (746 words)

Does this nice guy want me as a girlfriend or as 'friends with benefits'?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well about a year ago my best friend introduced me to this guy. We have gone out quite a few times nothing serious nor did anything ever happen. He is shy and an all around good guy, good job, doesn't drink or smoke. It is obvious that we are attracted to each other about 3 ... (247 words)

Could the "friends with benefits" concept work here?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 11 years ago, I was a waitress in a lounge. I got to flirt with drunken men for a living - and I was good at it. I was in a completely new and dysfunctional relationship, and unknowingly pregnant at the time. One night, an absolutely beautiful man came in with a group of ... (1365 words)

Please advise! Just found out I'm pregnant, my fiance wants to adopt it out...

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and just found out I am pregnant... I think I am about 3 or 4 weeks. I was never told that antibiotics would cause my birth control to not work properly, and the condom broke. My fiance and I are both very scared right now. I refuse to get an abortion so we have 2 ... (166 words)

Please help! My new sexual partner is keen but is having problems keeping it up!

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have been seeing this guy and we both talked about wanting to have sex. We discussed getting tested, past experiences, what we like etc. I told him that it seems like he is more experienced than I am and that he'll have to take charge because my past sexual e... (231 words)

How can I pursue my online girlfriend in real life, without scaring her off?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 40 yrs old and found a woman 35 yrs old online that is absolutely gorgeous and a wonderful personality to boot. We have shared pictures and personal information about ourselves and communicate really well. We have made out on IM and it was intimate. I am crazy for her and ... (213 words)

Will my body adjust to his large penis size to ensure a long and happy sexual life for us?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I are getting ready to make love after being together for awhile. My question is his penis is 10 1/2 inches long and 3 inches wide, how can i adjust to this size to enjoy the intercourse? I know lubricants will help, but will my body adjust to his size after ... (76 words)

I want my boyfriend off his online dating site, am I over-reacting here??

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 6 months, my boyfriend lives with me and he tells me he loves me everyday. i thought our relationship was going great until, i got on the computer after him and saw he was on a dating sight connected to facebook. i ask him about it and he said ... (146 words)

Is he shy or do you think he is gay?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, Ok so my bf (20) and I (22) have been seeing each other for about three months now. But I can't help but question if he really is gay and not bisexual like he says he is. With in these three months he hasn't tried to make a move sexually at all, he hasn't tried to ... (160 words)

I want to marry this guy, but his anger is hurting me

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hii people!!im in a relationship with a guy for a couple years and we are planning to get married...he is very sweet ,caring and loving when he is normal..!!!he is the best partner one could get when he is normal...!!but when he becomes angry he is the worst person ... (168 words)

My very first date and kiss

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there's this guy...we have both liked each other on and off since we were about six years old...But obviously it has gotten more serious now that were in high school. it has always seemed though that when he likes me he kinda gets shy so then I start tot hunk that he ... (178 words)

How do I regain his trust and interest in "us"?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have a problem, my ex broke up w/ me a few weeks ago he has a really bad perspective of me, he cant stand me. Until today he thought we might still have a future but now he doesn't believe that anymore. He tells me he wont ever change the bad things he thinks about me, ... (128 words)

How do I tell him how I feel?

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25 May 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I'm in my first year at uni, and at one of the societies I got talking to a guy who's three years older than me. Since there are so many people I don't always get to talk to him, and when I do it's very very rarely just the two of us, but when I do we get on well. Over the past ... (169 words)

Did I mis-read the signals?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Its silly, I've been married but I've never really been on a normal "date". I met my ex on the internet - our relationship was somewhat abusive and I was socially isolated for most our relationship so I tend to be socially behind my peers, and even people younger than me. O... (388 words)

Does he still have feelings for me?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my ex and I broke up about 2 years ago, it was difficult at first, but we managed to maintain a pretty close friendship... But now things are a little different. The last few months, we have been hanging out alone a couple times a month, and talking for sometimes 40 min... (380 words)

I want that first kiss -- should I just go for it?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my bf have been dating for a little over 3 months. He had been in a bad relationship before that and it really affected him. He tells me I'm not like her but you can see he was really hurt by her. We go to the same school (but we don't have any classes together) and the ... (147 words)

Should I call him on his birthday?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 25th of may is his birthday but I cant get the courage to call and i don't know If I should. We broke up on the 9th of may, he said he didn't love me anymore from one day to another (literally, cause the day before he grabbed my hands and looked me in the eyes and said he... (143 words)

Attracted to my cousin, what do we do?

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25 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 20 years old and i have a cousin who is 21 and she's very attractive which i guess was the first thing i noticed about her and we weren't close at all, before all of this happened we had seen each other about 5 times in our whole life and we met at a family party and got ... (192 words)

I'm trapped as long as my sister refuses to pull her weight

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is more of a family question, hope you guys can help. I'm 27, and both my parents and I are immigrants. I have two college degrees and have been working for the past 3 years. I live with my parents and younger sister. I bought the house together with my parents...I want... (361 words)

Nervous about 'the next step' because of past expereince

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25 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. This is a bit of a weird one... I'll start from the beginning. I think things with my girlfriend are getting close to moving to the 'next stage' ie sex lol. BUT I don't think I can just yet, and probably not for a long time because I'm scared of it to be honest. I'm scar... (151 words)

He wants me in his life even though he has a g/f

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this guy for over 2 years, we hangout everyday he introduced me to his friends i met his mom he met my mom and my sister. he tries hard to make me part of his life. he even told me he likes me but when it comes to actually being together he says that hes too young to ... (346 words)

I'm afraid that my father and his side of the family won't approve of the relationship

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - some time ago i went to cuba to meet my family. there i meet a guy (his aunt is married to my uncle). we hit it off the second we meet. after that i went back to cuba a few times to see him and we have kept in touch. i have falling in love with him (this is funny because i have ... (181 words)

My mother-in-law is a horrible example

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my husband including dating for nearly five years, and within those five years we have had the biggest arguments, all because of one person, my mother in law. although hate is a strong word, but i will use it only because of the things she has put him through. ... (461 words)

The guy who is leaving for college, or the guy in my grade?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i like a guy who is leaving for college when i am only a sophomore...he is my neighbor so i will pry still c him alot...and i also like a guy who is in my grade who i have previously dated...the senior likes me he has told me and i can tell he does..my fellow classmate claims ... (117 words)

Is having a few days of no contact helpful for the relationship?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this isnt really a problem its just a curiosity that needs a little advice. a little back ground first... me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year and a half now and have been living together for the last seven months. over the next few days im going to be s... (291 words)

Our affair was discovered and now he won't talk to me

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25 May 2010 (F)

age - I have had an affair for nearly four years and his wife found out when i called him at his place she answered the phone. He told me never to call him again and it was over i ruined his marriage. I am also married. This man and i were caught once already and i really miss ... (188 words)

I am gay, he is straight, should I tell him how I feel?

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25 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old guy and I'm gay. I've always known that so that isn't the issue. I've been having REALLY strong feelings for another guy, but he's straight. I don't know if it's love (I doubt it) but they're strong enough feelings to make me really want to be part of his ... (112 words)

Our values differ and I feel like a "test". Have I compromised and settled here?

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25 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my BF for 6 months now. Our concept of sex differ quite greatly, I'm coming to realize. I've never had sex and have always thought that i'd give myself to someone whom i really love to. He, on the other hand, has been with 3 girls before, the first two being ... (235 words)

I miss my ex, but there is a new guy in my life, should I give him a chance or clear things up with my ex first?

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story short, my ex-bf broke up with me almost 2 months ago. I miss him terribly. He wants to remain friends with me on skype and whenever he logs on and I am online tries to talk to me, but there are no other signs of him wanting me back (one of my gfs thinks that he wants ... (181 words)

Is my relationship fading, or am I overthinking the situation? Please help!

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm so desperate, I really need help. I have been dating my bf off and on for about 2 years. Last year we decided to make it into a relationship. But this is my problem, I'm not sure if he still wants to be with me. When I ask him, he never gives me a direct answer. ... (413 words)

She texts the guys I meet and it is getting me down, please help!

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25 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i have my friend and she always go for boys i like. I don't see why she is doing this. she flirts with everybody she sees, i get its a bit of fun but once i tell her I'm texting a boy shes like 'when am i going to meet him' and once she does she adds them on facebook and ... (156 words)