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Really want to get together with this colleague, but afraid to mess up the working relationship

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey! Grateful for any honest advice?! I'm 25 and a nurse. A new trainee consultant started working with us a few months ago. I just recently got talking to him and REALLY like him! I admire his work and he's so approachable and gentlemanly, so easy going and not an ounce... (459 words

My girlfriend is ignoring my phone calls and text

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30 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello, My girlfriend left for the weekend with some friends. She told me that she will be staying in contact with me the whole weekend. She kept her promise all the way until yesterday afternoon when she texted me. I replied to her later on but she never replied back. So I tex... (186 words

Cheated..and relized how much I loved my boyfreind

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30 May 2010 (F age - I've had this problem for about a year but i almost went all the way by cheating on my boyfreind .we got into this huge fight and end up leaving last nite had a man freind come get me down the street my mind was to cheat on him because i have waited long enough an no effort ... (184 words

How can I be sure to impress him on our first date?

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30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - there's this guy i like, and he told me he wants to go out with me. how can i be sure to impress him on our first date? thanks for the help, love, Mandy.... (34 words

How do I get to be with my Turkish man?

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30 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - i meet a turkish man on net 7 munths ago,and i realy fall in love with him ,he said he loves me to,so we strared to speak about getting married and that he will come to my country to live with me,i was married before and i have a son of 7 years old and i am not with my husbent ... (346 words

Can this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello aunts and uncles... looking for some feedback here! My current boyfriend and I have known each other since high school and have been together for about four months. We moved really fast once getting together, although neither of us were trying to. Our relationship has ... (319 words

Nitpicking everything and turning it into a fight!

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm nit-picking everything in my relationship and turning it into a fight. Sometimes, I feel like I'm so in love and I couldn't imagine being without my boyfriend, but ever once in a while, I don't want him touching me, holding me, kiss... (136 words

Am I too obsessive? I need something else in my life!

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30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay so my boyfriend and I feel really strong about each other, but the thing is I feel more strong then him.. He says he always loves me more, and I feel that's a lie. I know I love him more but I feel a little obsessive. If he doesn't call me back or text me back within an ... (134 words

I'm really enjoying masturbation? is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have had great sex with my boyfriend in the past, i always reach orgasm with him, but recently i don't feel like having sex with him anymore, and im holding out on him but when i get home i masturbate. im really enjoying masturbation? is this normal? ... (50 words

Why am I still worrying about the past?

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30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - I liked my ex boyfriend very very much, and I let him be my first . But now that we are done I have moved on to other guys, but every time I'm happy, my past comes back, and it makes me feel horrible , and messes up every relationship I have now , why am I still worrying about ... (77 words

My girlfriend is too innocent for her own good

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30 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey there, Been with my girlfriend for just about 3 months... Have known her for about 8 but have always been informed she was "out of the game"... Unfortunately i originally have a bad reputation but have fallen head over heels for her.... The problem i have is she seems ... (275 words

She never wants sex anymore

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30 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - K so here's the thing: I'm 18 and I've been going out with my girlfriend for about two and a half years. We started having sex a couple of weeks after we started dating and had it once every 2 or 3 days for a while, but now she never wants sex anymore and I have no idea why. ... (303 words

17 & I have a foot fetish?

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30 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - is having a foot fetish weird im only 17?... (9 words

How do I live my own life without letting everyone elses opinions getting to me so much.

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have been in an interracial relationship for 3 years. at first it was fun and wonderful when it was just him and i, but as we started getting serious , he wanted me to introduce him to my family and friends, who took our relationship very badly, now everywhere we go i notice ... (231 words

Is it supposed to hurt after you stop and then start masturbating again?

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30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a question: If you masturbate too much then stop. when you start again is it meant to hurt?? (Im 15 by the way)... (31 words

He says he never loved me and just wanted to have sex!

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30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Help! I broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago and I feel like im missing something. Its really strange because it always happens whenever i break-up with a boyfriend. also he keeps on texting me sayin that he never loved me and he just wanted to have sex (I said ... (86 words

How do you best manage being friends after love?

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30 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - How do you best manage being friends after love? My bf and I broke up almost 4 months ago. It was his decision to break up, though things had been rough between us for a while---namely, he was dealing with a lot of stuff and the relationship seemed very one-sided. I tri... (335 words

Are his flirty actions serious or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - There is a married man I know who has been giving me a lot of 'come hither' signals for a few months. He touches me whenever he can, my hand, arm, back, etc. He stares intently and sometimes locks eyes with me and it seems when he does, that he can't break the contact, his e... (178 words

I need to end this relationship with a married woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

30 May 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have being having a relationship with a married woman for 1.5 years who is a work collegue. Everytime I try to end it I always end up going back.She kind of panics and makes me feel guilty to a extent that I will hurt her. She doesnt want me to leave her but at the same time ... (150 words

I wish I had the life that my ex does

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30 May 2010 (F - i feel lonely at times..my ex and i broke up and we had a year of no contact..i still had feelings for him so i contacted him and we have been talking for almost a year now. I make sure if we are on the phone--i sound nice, happy and busy most of the time. He told me to let ... (391 words

I read I still could get pregnant...is this true?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were messing around. He picked me up from dance class so I was wearing stockings, leotard and then my underwear with a pad (expecting my period). So we were making out and all he did was take his pants off (keeping the underwear on). I was on top of him and ... (145 words

Is she interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have a feeling this shy girl I like in high school likes me back but I'm a bit confused. Here are some things she does: 1. I catch her looking at me but she will quickly look away if I look her way. 2. If I say hi to her she will wither ignore me, smile at me or say hi... (309 words

Should I break-up?

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I dont know whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. he is really sweet when i see him in person. he has a good sense of humour , and he told me that he would wait unti l iwas ready for sex. We are both virgins, but he sems to be more confident than me about doing intimate ... (658 words

Hanging by a thread!

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30 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - well me and my girlfriend had a steady long distance relationship for the past 3 years. she was always caring and loved me a lot. we had loadz of good times all along.i would go and meet her up during holidays n stuffs she was a very studious and decent gal on the other han... (218 words

Three days ago everything was good -- what's going on?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello, I need help please: tree days ago, everything was good between me and my boyfriend, he was caring and very romantic even if I didn't have much time to be with him because of my exams but the last time I called him he was not as he used to be, he didn't talk much and he ... (195 words

His changing his pictures upset me, should I mention it to him?

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30 May 2010 (F - i am on a online dating site.. i was getting tired of it.. i met this one person on there from it and we have been talking every day.. we have gone out 4 times.. we haven't gotten too physical yet and i am still deciding if i like him. Seems like boyfriend material though. ... (253 words

Help! Am I just too sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi I don't stay with my lover at the moment, we chat but she is always busy on google and other sites when i want to chat she's always too busy doing other things, does that mean she does not love me? It feels that I am not important to her but everything els is and when I ... (80 words

Help!!! Are these rumours true???

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - On Friday night I was out celebrating with friends as we've just left college. I'm a lightweight compared to them as I don't drink often, and had close to nothing to eat that day. Now I can't remember much from the night, but stories have got back to me. One story has unsettle... (161 words

She was too immature to be in a relationship after 9 months but had the biggest crush on me for 2 years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

30 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey there everyone, I have been going out with a girl for 9 months and we just recently broke up. She was saying that she is too immature to be in a relationship. She just wasnt ready for any commitment. I wasnt asking much of her. She wanted to hang out with a friend that she ... (1303 words

Can't get my boyfriend to cum on my own?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'll give him a blowjob.. handjob and he'll be like making noises and shaking, and he's all wet.. and you can tell it's genuine and he says he loves it + that i'm the best he's ever had but then he goes 'omg i could cum now' so then he takes his you know and finishes himself ... (86 words

My family is draining me dry!

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30 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - I PAY for everything. My whole family are on the take and I’m sick of supporting every loser I’m related to. My parents say that it’s my duty to make sure that everyone is OK and it’s our culture. But when will it end? I’m 20, i go university in london and i work ... (469 words

Lonely married military guy

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30 May 2010 (M age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been married now for 9 years and I'm not happy with the intimacy in my marriage. I feel my wife is being very resistant to improving our relationship. Our relationship was passionate and giving, on both sides. Even after a few years of marriage, thing... (429 words

Is this still phone sex???

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, well i was wondering if some one masturbates on the phone and the other person just listens does that still count as phone sex? Also do you get less nervous the more you do it? Thanks for your time.... (40 words

How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?

This question has 84 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

30 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to understand what was or wasn't going ... (271 words

After his surgery he thinks I'm going to leave him, how can I sort this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for amost 3 years and we have talked about having a baby i already have one child who is 7 but seem to be having trouble getting pregnant so we have gone to the fertility clinic i had to have a operation 2 months ago to see was there anythin wrong ... (396 words

Can anyone out there throw me a life raft???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age - Hi. I'm an Aunt and I need YOUR help, or a little hug at least. My husband and I have separated. We've separated before and its usually for the same reason, or thereabouts. He's a very hard worker, has now got his own business, looks after me financially, loves me and yet ... (508 words

Does it sound like he still has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been in love with a guy for more than half my life. He asked me out when we where younger, but we grew apart. Our mothers are best friends and work together so we go over to their house allot. Im going to be working with him soon. His friend wants me to be his ... (404 words

Do women not in a relationship stay on contraception just incase

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30 May 2010 (? age - How do ladies who not presently in a relationship but who are in the market for one, handle the question of whether to be on contraception just in case? ... (31 words

I need your opinions please. Why do I find it so difficult to trust people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I'll start at the beginning. My father cheated on my mother for almost 2 years when me and my brother where 2. He then left her for the woman he cheated on her with. She was completely heart broken, understandably. We're now 17. He's still with her. (Me and my brother ... (275 words

Is there ever really a good time to have a baby?

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. He has a son from a previous relationship. We have mentioned children in passing on many occasions and both agree we want them, however we have never made any solid plans. We did sort of agree last year to begin trying around this ... (203 words

Doesn't get into a relationship, doesn't let go.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - I like this woman and we have been very good friends for a few years. About six months back I asked her if we could get into a relationship as I was serious about her. She told me that she wanted some time to think about it. We continue to be good friends. I asked her again ... (168 words

He still talks to his ex, and has lied about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - i'm having trust issues with my boyfriend that involve me being jealous of his ex-girlfriend. we've been together for over two years but when we first hooked up i suspected that he wasn't over his last girlfriend. we've had many talks about this and he assures me that his is. ... (304 words

Wife having affairs with my consent, is this wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

30 May 2010 (M age 51-59 - Why do l get turned on by other men sleeping with my wife? It is now a regular thing for her to have 2 or 3 men who she is seeing . She loves me and we have been married 22 yrs , but wants to have her lovers and me . Is that Wrong ?... (64 words

If he sees me without my makeup on I don't think he will like me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok, I'm so insecure. i feel ugly without makeup, because of my freckles. so i really like this guy, but he talks about sleeping over, I'm really worried though, that if he sees me without makeup he'll think differently or think I'm ugly. i really like him, but he's far bett... (62 words

Emotional affair with someone in a loveless marriage... found out he has kids. what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hey everyone! I'm in a bit of a dilemma and was hoping you guys could help... Recently i met a guy (lets call him Joe)on a chatroom where people just go for conversation, anyway he and I hit it off straight away. He lives down south and i live up north but nots not what the... (367 words

Her mother wants us to break up

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30 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - i'm in very hard situation with my GF cause we are obliged to brake up and we both don't want to see the problem it with her mom cause she is too afraid for her daughter she don't want her to go out with me because she heared that i broke up with her freind's daugther.i'm so ... (62 words

Are guys ever attracted to girls with short hair?

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30 May 2010 (? age 30-35 - This is a very vain question, I'd like to know what guys think of girls with short hair... I've had short hair for a while now and I suit it, but just because I can't pull off long hair, but are guys ever attracted to girls with short hair?? I like my hair but do guys ... (114 words

Is he commenting on other women to get a reaction out of me?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - tonight me and my boyfriend were watching a tv show and tara reid the actress was on it, he started commenting about how hot she used to be before her breast implants etc..then later during the show he mumbled, "tara reid is hot" and i said huh? sorry what did you say? and he ... (161 words

He slept with her after we broke up and now she's acting crazy!

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been having problems with a girl who liked my then boyfriend. Basically she's been a real pain towards me and now that we've broken up she's continued. Last night me and my ex were hanging out and I made him tell me what he was covering up because there had to be a reas... (345 words

He sees her as much more than a friend, should I let her know?

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30 May 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay, so being the caring friend that I am, i really feel that I need to step in and help a mate, but first I need you guys to help me. Basically, my mate (I'll call him Bob for the purposes of this) has a female friend, Katie (again not her real name). Anyway, Bob and Katie ar... (237 words

How can I stop feeling so bored with my life?

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I recently finished my degree after 5 years of education. I put a lot of effort into my education rather than the social side and didn't really make a lot of friends, I also continued to work. During my degree I have had a lot go on emotionally, and I have had to support my ... (239 words

Does a married man flrting mean he wants a fling?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I know I'm going to get in trouble for writing this, but do married men that flirt want to have a fling with you? A married man has been flirting with me for a few months, and I wondered if he ever thought about taking it to the next level. I'm not saying I would do anything, I ... (97 words

Family making things difficult for me!

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi guys I have been with my boyfriend for around 6 years now we have split up once or twice in that time, the last time was now about a year ago and only lasted for about 2 months, since then we have been absolutely fine, and are living together and happy, my boyfriend has an 8... (360 words

I really want to leave him... but what about my kids?

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have married for 7 years with a 3 year old kid. My husband is a good father but not a good husband. Since the kid was born, we seldom have sex. The last time we had sex was more than a year ago. I confronted him last week. He said he treated me as the mother of our ki... (135 words

Am I reading too much into his flippant comments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I need to ask a question without sounding paranoid! It's to do with my boyfriend and whether his opinions are to benefit me or him. We have been together 5 years and there is complete trust between us. We aren't a jealous couple and neither 1 of us is possessive. ... (284 words

How do I make the next move...?

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30 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - Please, I need some help here! I like my boss, I like her a lot. I'm 32 and she is 36 both single, you might think that I'm crazy but I don't know, how did this happen to me. The thing is, I can't stop thinking about her. She works 24 hours a day very rich and has a PhD and I’m ... (462 words

I really love him and want him back, what should I do?

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30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok im a 15 year old girl. i really miss my ex boyfriend ( we have been separated nearly a year) and i cant get over him. we had been going out about 4 months when my depression got a lot worse and i ran away a few times. i had previously been depressed but not as bad. my boyfr... (252 words

What did he mean when he said "take care" in his text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Im kinda dating this guy and we got in a little fight and he said "I'm going to sleep k night sweet dreams take care muahh" what does take care mean in the text message ... (35 words

How can I forget about her past and forgive her for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - I,ve got married to a beautiful girl last year, after few month one day she started sharing about her past life, but some how she was not ready to open up, this kept on going for few days. and then the time came when she shared every thing about her past... she had a boyfriend ... (148 words

How can I make his birthday picnic more special?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - So, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and I really love him. Well, his birthday is coming up and since it's going to be June and I don't really have a lot of money to spend, I want to surprise him by taking him to the beach and having a nice romantic picnic. I ... (109 words

I'm worried I might have got my girlfriend pregnant!

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30 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok so one day like two weeks ago me and my gf were playing around and I ended up ejaculating(didn't wash off)..I urinated twice before the next morning when we were messing around again and I was rubbing my penis on her vagina(no penetration) and ejaculated again but nowhere ... (126 words

Any new technique to make masturbating a better experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old female who masturbates frequently. At least 2-3 times a week. I use my finger and own a dildo, but I am wondering if there is anything else I can do, or any new techniques to try to make it a better experience :) Thanks... (53 words

Face or personality? What attracts you, guys?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - For all of you males out there. Which one of these do you think is most important for a girl to have? beautiful face, nice body or good personality? which one is most important?... (34 words

Should I move abroad with him? Even though I am young I am still scared of making such a big move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Recently, I've reached a bit of a crossroads in my life. But in saying that, I have no idea where to go from here. I'm lost, really. Not sure what I want to do, etc. Anyway, you get the picture. Almost say it's a quarter-life crisis. I'm wondering am I getting too old to do ... (309 words

Should I cheat on my sugar daddy with my ex, to satisfy my sexual needs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I broke up wth my boyfriend of 2yrs,who was 3yrs my senior.an orphan,colege graduate and unemployd.i have a grade 11 younga brother that i need to provide for.so i met this guy. 20 yrs my senior!he is rich,very rich.he owns bussineses and drives the newest cars.i was working as ... (230 words

How do I handle the feelings I have for my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I think I'm falling for my friend, or actually I may have already... It's so weird, usually when I have crushes it doesn't last long its just like a couple weeks and then when they get a girlfriend I get over it. But my friend has a girlfriend for a good three months and I ... (457 words

Can oral sex be negociated, or will it drive us apart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well, I'm not sure where to start. I am very in love with my boyfriend and we have the best laughter together. Everything is good except.. He doesn't seem to care at all whether I orgasm or not. He refuses to give oral, and we've talked about it a few times, and his response... (198 words

Should I tell him what I know or just not mention it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - Three months ago, an HR rep from a previous company that I worked for, asked if I would assist them on a case (lawsuit) that was being filed against them. I said yes, and the rep stated that their outside counsel would call me and I would assist him. I was happy to help out. ... (1004 words

I just stopped taking the pill. How long should it take for me to get pregnant?

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi im 23yrs old and have just stopped my pill on the 3rd last day of my period, i want to have a baby... i want to know how long it should take for me to get pregnant.? Also i fell pregnant about a yr and half ago but had it aborted,... i also smoke marajuna daily but will s... (87 words

Is it possible to change how he views children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. We dated for around a year before becoming exclusive. I have two young (grade school aged) children from a previous relationship. I have been aware the entire time that he is not a fan of children ... (449 words

What can I do about his gambling addiction? I've wiped out my savings trying to help him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my bf for 5yrs now and found out that he has a gambling problem 1yr into our relationship. At that time, I didn't know the extent of his gambling but he has since lost his parent's home, his father passed away and he gambles way beyond his means. His whol... (549 words

Why is he no longer attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is 44, I am 25. When we first met, he pursued me, trying reallyyyy hard, and I know he thought I was really hot. He still tells people about how beautiful his girlfriend is, even tells me if he could pick out what his ideal girl ... (306 words

What is his deal? I don't understand, does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have this guy friend who I like, who may like me I'm not sure. There are two things he did that really bug me because i don't know why. One was he and his best friend randomly stopped by my work (I work in a bridal store) to just say hi and talk to me. I didn't know they... (298 words

I cant find a good reason to talk to the boy I like!

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30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay so theres this boy at my school that ive had a crush on for a long while. Ive realised that im completely in love with this guy, and I pretty much think hes amazing. I cant think of anyone else id rather be with! Although the fact im so in love with him is strange because, ... (573 words

Should I get his parents involved?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I dated this guy for two years and we broke up about a year and a half ago. I guess you can say I led him on recently but after a little while, I realized I didn't want him back. I've tried severing ties with him several times but he's resorted to harassing me: Calling me ... (406 words

Suspicious that he's cheating

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30 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - I think my husband is having an affair. Firstly we don't have sex and haven't for a number of years. He does not not seem bothered by this. It all started with calls to his mobile "Text to date, we have found you a love match" he said he must have dialed the number by mistake ... (277 words

Tricky love triangle!

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay well i have this BIG problem Its really complicated and hard to explain but its a tricky love triangle basically. Well i'll start from the beginning... Me and my Best friend work at the same place, and theres this guy at work i REALLY like and most people in work kno... (628 words

She makes me stop before I can get her there

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30 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - My girl and I have been in a long distance relationship for just under a year. We met in the most romantic way, and fell in love intensely. She is 32, and I am 26. I'm not sure how much of the relationship history I need to give here, but I will say that I have had a lot o... (306 words

I think he's been cheating, but he denies it

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - i broke you with my boyfriend whom ive been with for 6 nonths because i felt like he was cheating on me. we had an on again off again realtionship.. he just wasnt doing rite by me i felt therefore i ended things with him while he in training inthe military. i feel wrong but ... (238 words

Lost my virginity to him and now we don't even talk!

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30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Its been almost over a month since I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend, and now we don't even talk. And yet i'm still stuck on him. I can't get him out of my head, I tryed to move on, but every thing reminds me off him. I know i'm not in love, so what is it. What should I ... (76 words

How do I stay in touch without getting between them?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have this guy in my one of my classes.I really like him.BUT He has a girlfriend of 4 years and he's graduating this year and moving to another city. I know, i can't date him, but i'd really like to stay in touch with him beyond high school. How do i ask him for his number ... (74 words

Why would he beg me to remain friends just to ignore me?

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30 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - What does this mean? I tried to tell this married guy that we cannot be friends anymore because I had feelings for him and he for me and I am married 2 so that was the best thing to do.He talked me out of it and told me that we need eachothers friendship and that we will be ok ... (99 words

Could he be losing interest?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, When we first got together he used to not be able to keep his hands off me and we used to kiss all the time but recentlly he just isnt really kissing me i've asked him about this and he just says he doesnt realise. It was ... (184 words

I'm ready for our first kiss, but how do I get him to initiate it?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - i want to kiss my bf but im to scared i dont want to make the first move so how can i get my bf to kiss me?... (28 words

I gave him oral and now I have a bump on my lip, what could it be?

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30 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - so i gave a blow job to this guy i have known for awhile but the day after i gave him one, i noticed a little bump in the corner of my mouth. Im not sure if it is a cold sore or not and i want to know if i caught herpes?... (53 words

Can being in a relationship, ever weigh more than the risk of getting their STD?

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30 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hey! It's me again. I have to see my GP in a few days time to arrange an HIV test. You see, I had it off with a prostitute once and I have to find out if I caught anything. Comprende? But my question is...Is it worth ever being in a relationship with someone if there is a ch... (107 words

I'm afraid he's gone forever..will he come back?

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30 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy 2 months ago, through mutual friends, completely unexpected..and we really hit it off. Totally clicked, and yes things went fast. Neither of us to blame, we just really felt a major connection and decided to just go with it. No pressure, no labels, just be. He ... (387 words

How do I forget this guy when I don't even know why he stopped talking to me..?

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30 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello dear cupid well right now im feeling really sad and depressed because of a boy, so this boy and i met on myspace we hit it off well and i gave him my number we texted for like a month and then he came to visit me oh yeah he lived in LA while i lived in san diego so when ... (149 words

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