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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How could I tell if he knows I have a crush on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I know people on this website ask this question alot... but yeah, it's on my mind. Well, my science teacher is a total cutie! I like him alot and I think I'm actually falling for him. No, I'm not naive enough to think that anything could happen! I'm just scared th... (84 words)

How long does it take for a man to decide if he can fall in love with someone he has met recently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How long does it take for a man to decide if he can fall in love with someone he has met recently?... (22 words)

Is my ex looking for reconciliation or am I just getting my hopes up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for 2 months now. She broke up with me 3 weeks ago she initiated contact and we talked back and forth through text for that entire week. She explained how she missed me incredibly and wanted to know if I've been thinking of her. I kept cool and ... (231 words)

Alone and depressed, cheated on my boyfriend and can't get over the guilt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need your help, I cheated on my boyfriend and I can't get over the guilt. I love him soo much I just can't tell him anything because he will leave me forever. The guy I was with told me he will never say what happen to no one and he never did things so I can think otherwise ... (196 words)

Could there be too much sex in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im madly in love with my boyfriend, and we have an amazing sex life. Actually, thats pretty much all we do...When we're together we usually don't even go anywhere, we just stay at home and make love all day and all night. Sometimes it seems like we have sex more than we ... (96 words)

We've been together 6 months and he refuses to tell his ex about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a man who has 2 children with a ex girlfriend (1 isn't his but he raised him as his own). We have been together for 6 months now and he refuses to tell his ex about me. They broke up over a year ago. He says its because she won't let him see the kids. ... (170 words)

He got cold feet and broke up with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I am 24 and my ex-bf is 22. We dated for about 3 months and everything was going great, until one day he broke up with me. We didn't speak for about a month after we broke up and recently we talked as friends. He opened up and told me that he decided to tell his... (182 words)

How can a man become totally nonsexual toward his wife in one day?

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5 May 2010 (F) age - How can a man can totally become nonsexual toward his wife from one day to the next? My husband once lost his erection in the middle of intercourse,and since than he is like a different guy.It was like a spell.. I really think it is weird,because it was so sudden,and since he... (156 words)

Do I tell his fiance what we did?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - A week ago, I went for a walk with an engaged guy, and somehow we ended up kissing and feeling each other up. The day after, we met up and things went further (but we didn't sleep together or anything.) The thing is, I am 15 and have never had much experience with guys...I know ... (135 words)

Is he expecting me to make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I think I am in love with a guy thats 10 years older then me. I am 18 and he is 28. (Oh and before you jump to any conclusions, you should know that I am very mature for my age. I already got my BS in biology and currently I am applying to medical school)We were hanging ... (363 words)

Friend likes my ex, but now I'm interested in him again too. Do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've just started to fall for my ex again. I never did really love my ex, it was mroe fo a lust. It only lasted a couple of weeks anyway. But i see him every now and then, but i met him agein the other night. One of my best friends has just gone through a phase with him, they ... (293 words)

Mother/daughter relationship is horrible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my relationship with my mother is terrible. We cant stay in the same room without having a arguement. The thing is i dont like her attitude...she screams and shouts a lot over tiny things which makes me mad n i say stuff i shouldnt and it turns into a fight. And also she does... (124 words)

Best friend wants sexual help but I am in a relationship!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am in a steady relationship and very happy with my boyfriend. I have a male friend who is very close to me as in...we are open and we used to flirt a bit before I fell in love with my boyfriend. I am still in constant touch with this friend of mine. We met online b... (565 words)

Liking my teacher has turned into an unhealty obsession

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I have a serious problem. I am seriously in love with one of my teachers and it has all gotten so out of hand. I am 16 and he is 35 - I know it's a huge age range but I am really in love with him. It's not just a crush, it's real love. I know that sounds really soppy ... (395 words)

Am I damaging our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone I am a 24 year old female and my bf is 39. We sometimes engage in mutual masturbation and when we do this, we view videos of women stripping on webcam. I find this very erotic and so does he. When he is watching the woman strip I give him oral sex and th... (149 words)

Is the love still there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, So I've been going out with this guy for just over 2 months now, The 1st month was really new and exciting, we acted like we were best friends and still had so much to share and talk about, It was really fun and amazing and we both put 100% into our relationship because ... (232 words)

She's falling for me even thought she knows I'm gay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4908 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Soo... My best friends Lucy is falling for me even though she knows I'm Gay! After my 15th birthday I accepted myself as Gay and when I cane back to school she knew something was up so she asked me what was wrong I told her she told me that she was suprised by me telling he... (170 words)

Is it too much to expect a phone call from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my guy friend is on vacation, he left on sunday. i told him to have a great time, have fun, he said, we will be in touch. well before he left, he and i were discussing the possibility of taking the next step into our relationship. before he left, he called me everyday!!! text, ... (181 words)

This discharge problem has been going on for a week. What is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have a bit of a problem i have this kinda clear bogey like discharge coming from my vagina its not itchy or smelly but there is quite alot of it its been going on for about a week now its kinda getting to me so what should i do?... (51 words)

B/f swears he's not cheating but I think he is!

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so sure that my boyfriend is cheating on me but he swears he's not. i want to believe him, but i feel like i shouldnt. what should i do? here's my story: i have "the perfect boyfriend", the type that is too good to be true. he treats me like a queen and its seems like i... (1153 words)

I feel depressed all the time! HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey,i dont know whats wrong with me! i feel depressed all the time and dont want to go out anywere. i just feel alone and that theres no one i can turn to, i have tried talking to my friend and all she does is say "its just a rough patch you'll get though it" i dont know what ... (65 words)

I want a break! How can I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I told my boyfriend of six months that my therapist thinks it would be a good idea to take a break. He flipped out, which I could see. I started to see a therapist about trust issues about five months into our relationship, because I was getting physically sick when I realized ... (326 words)

My best friend likes me, This keeps happening and I end up losing friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - A few days ago my best guy friend told me he liked me as more than a friend. It completely shocked me. I have a boyfriend I've been dating for over a year and I talk to my best guy friend about my boyfriend all the time. For him to like me even though he knows how crazy I am ... (344 words)

Infatuation isn't suppose to last 2 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im going to be honest ... Just realised I have been infatuating over this guy for about 2 and half years. I though it was love but after researching this up to reassure myself; turns out its just a deep attraction. I'm feeling disappointed because I thought my feelings we... (445 words)

Tips on making her feel not so lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I need some good advice. My wife has told me she is lonely when she is home alone. She doesnt have much family here. Just one sister. I make good money, we have a nice home, two good cars, big screen tv, the works. But my job is always changing my schedule. Right now ... (154 words)

Haven't heard from him, should I break it off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I havent been together that long and up until a few weeks ago, he seemed head over heels for me. All of a sudden he said that he’s so busy with his job and school right now, he's not sure if he can handle it all. He failed classes before because of girls and ... (238 words)

If I get pregnant, will he get into trouble?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I am 16 years and my boyfriend is 25.We have been dating for almost 2 years. If he makes me pregnant and i then go stay with him and his family, will he get into any kind of trouble?? ... (41 words)

I'm 21, he's 37, is this something I should try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im twenty one and attracted to a thirty seven year old man. we have known eachother for seven months and the atrraction has grown stronger since then. at first i wasnt really in to him mainly because of the age but now we seem to talk about everything and the age doesnt matter ... (111 words)

Should I Say Yes, or stay best mates?

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like one of my best guy mates and he just asked me out. I really want to say yes but we have been best mates for ages and i really dont want to ruin our friendship. Should I say yes or should we just stay best mates?... (49 words)

Having strange dreams, what do they mean?

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5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been having these strange dreams I've had dreams about people I don't even talk to or think of like a girl I know she stopped talking to me and her bf accused me of stalking right? months pass by I don't think about it then a couple more months then I have a dream of ... (162 words)

Girlfriend changed her style, and says to accept it, am I wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for a while now but recently I don't find her attractive anymore. When I met her she use to dress up nice and I was a very lucky girl to be with her, but things have changed because she started to dress like a man and I don't l... (231 words)

I'm worried that he doesn't want me as much as the porn stars!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, ok so im 17 and my boyfriends 21, we have been together for about 8 months now and since pretty much day 1 we have sex everytime we see each other. we have a great relationship so dont worry about askin me anythin about that and we are very much in love. but i do hav... (241 words)

Oral sex faux pas, and I'm totally embarrassed. How can I get over it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well one day i was giving my boyfriend head, and when i was doing it he was putting off more body heat then usual. So i started sweating, Alot...:( and Also when he came he stopped for a second i thought he was done and so i put my head up, But he wasnt. so he came on my nose.. ... (162 words)

What goes around, comes around. How can I get back at her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a nice guy, caring and all that, i dont act like a d*ck, i have respect for people i'm modest, you get my point anyway, i recently found out that my girlfriend has kissed some other boy anyway, you know that song, "what goes around comes around" yeah well basically, she ... (97 words)

He said he doesn't mind if I sleep with other boys ..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i need ur help guys, Im sort of seeing this guy, and we do get on really well but the problam is he says hes seeing other girls aswell as me but i dont really belive him, well untill now I picked him up from the pub the other nite and as i went out saturday nite, he sai... (254 words)

I am engaged to a man I don't respect but in love with another

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am engaged to a man who is very good to me, I'll call him Dan. When I say jump, he says how high and he will do it right away. Part of the reason I feel like I am growing away from him is because of a few things: 1) I will always make more money than him 2) his family just ... (400 words)

I'm gay, but I'm too girlish when it comes to love..any advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

5 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - *OP`s own title* I am a 18 years old gay and I want to have a relationship. The problem is that I got turn off to a guy when i found out he's gay, specially i can easily detect a guy who is gay...the thing is that, I have so girlish attitude, but the weird thing is, I want b... (335 words)

Mid-Life crisis?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have opted for anti-depressants ... (123 words)

What have I done to be totally ostracised and ignored so blatantly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Decision Junction - with zero signposts. Dear Cupid, I very rarely ask for help which I suppose is a terrible weakness really, but here I am, willing to share my problem with some genuine and caring people because, frankly, I'm totally baffled by my male best friend's behav... (1337 words)

Can it be possible to be pregnant even though I am on the pill?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22, I need help. I am on pills and me and my Bf make love almost everyday. My periods finished on sunday. Since then i have been sick. I can smell food at all. I throw out evrything i eat. I am scared i might be pregnant. can that be possible. ... (53 words)

How can I get over the fact that my husband lied to me about being a virgin all those years ago?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age - When I met my husband over 30 years ago he told me that he was a virgin (as was I). However, recently, and during a difficult patch in our marriage he confessed that this was a lie. This has upset me terribly, and to make it worse he says that it was perfectly ok to lie to me ... (94 words)

I don't think I love my boyfriend anymore and I'm only staying with him for his sake!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i dont love my bf any more.but im in the relationship only for him.he really loves me.but i feel frustrating staying without any feeling.now what should i do?... (30 words)

Why did he cheat on his wife and take our affair to an emotional level?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm trying to understand the situation better. I'm married and I cheat for about a year with another man, who was also married (even though I didn't know at the time). I understand my reasons for cheating (abusive relationship), but I don't understand why my ex-lover cheated on ... (285 words)

It seems she would be happy to never have sex again! How do I talk to her about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I am obviously an idiot. First off my wife and I have a good marriage, she just isn't interested in sex (when we talk about it she says she can't explain other than she just isn't interested)it has been since Jan '09. For reference we have been married for ten years and ... (180 words)

How is it possible for us to have the same dream when we have never even met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend had the same dream: I was at the airport waiting for her plane to arrive. About 3 mins later a voice came on saying her plane arrived. I ran to the gate and looked around trying to find her. The gate closed and she was nowhere to be seen. So i sat back dow... (144 words)

I love my boyfriend, but we are very different and I doubt it will work out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I genuinely love my boyfriend, we have been together for over a year and before that we were friends for 5 years. I can't imagine being without him, but we are complete opposites when it comes to fundamental political, social, and religious topics that I feel s... (148 words)

How do I stop believing that everyone in the world is against me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - For years, I have wondered if everyone is part of a conspiracy to give me a bad life. Now, I don't think that way very often. But occasioanlly, I wonder if I am being persecuted by the female race. I have thought in the past that the world owed me something. How do I ... (145 words)

Help with LOVE that is being pushed away please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello all, hope someone can help answer what happened with my girlfriend and I, we have been dating for several months a long distance relationship, we have been either flying or taking the train and having a great time together making love and telling each other we love ea... (385 words)

Why did he say he was going home when he wasn't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i think i have put muyself back into a situation that i had an opportunity of getting out of. I have been in a relationship with a guy for about eight years now. when it started off we were in the same country and he wasnt treating me too well. So we started of on a rocky ... (459 words)

Am I asexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This might be a weird question, but I have never had an orgasm. I don't even enjoy sex. I'm 20 and I have been with four men; I have never even enjoy having sex and it is making me frustrated. is there some thing wrong with me? What can I do to make my sex life better? I fe... (106 words)

Am I grasping at a decomposing relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for just over ten months (April 27th was the 10th). Recently, her mood towards our relationship has completely polarized. Initially, we've been very close and we even admitted to loving one another after about 4 months. In early ... (608 words)

I need help with my Sex addiction!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm addicted to sex: how do I get over sex?... (10 words)

He told me never to call him again and to get tested for HIV! Why would he do this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive a psoarisis, till my boyfriend found out when we try to fist made up. he felt sorry for me and yet we still have it in protected way. (COndom) the worst part is, he left me hanging dont know why he ask me not to call him anymore and ask me to check myself for HIV!! he ... (88 words)

NO sex talk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf doesn't want to talk about sex and if I do talk about sex with her she will break up with me. What do I do?... (27 words)

My gf dosnt what to talk about sex

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5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf dosnt want to talk about sex and if i do talk about sex with her she will break up with me what do i do... (27 words)

Am I with with b/f just because he was only guy interested in me?

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused now I don't know what to do so I am turning to you guys for some advice. I am not looking to date causally, I want something more serious. I am not talking marriage but I am looking to the future. I have had a boyfriend for 3 years now. He is my first and ... (458 words)

I cheated! Can't get over the guilt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my boyfriend and I regret it soo much I feel soo guilty I can't tell him he will leave me and never be with me. I just though it wasn't that bad after all, since I dnt wanna cheat when we get married. But now its killing inside I dnt know what to do I feel he's ... (127 words)

B/f thinks he's bisexual! What does this mean for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and boyfriend recently broke-up because of the fact that he thinks he might be bi-sexual. We dated for a year and he was my high school sweetheart, he says that he's been physically and emotionally sick since the breakup but reassures me that the breakup is for the best. ... (108 words)

Its like I am invisible to my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend but i don't think he loves me? he doesn't notice me and its like am invisible.i buy all the gifts,he demands a lot and he makes a scene when am unable to provide for him but yet i get noting in return.when i complain on how i feel is like am clown to ... (93 words)

I really like my boyfriend and want to stay but he's making it difficult

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in this relationship for about 9 months now. both me and my boyfriend are 20 years old. Ive been in long-term relationships before, but his on the other hand have never lasted over 3 months...maybe even less. In the past we have had a lot a good times and bad, ... (390 words)

I want my ex boyfriend back...soooo bad

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i just can't get over my ex. we went out for about a year. he broke up with me right before Christmas, which really sucked. anyways its been 4 months since the breakup and i think about him every day. instead of cutting off all contacts i made sure to answer the phone... (243 words)

Porn, anger, mistake.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well a little while ago I got on Facebook. I wanted to see what my boyfriend was up to so looked at his Facebook page. (I didn't go onto his account just wanted to see if he had updated). I saw that he had befriended some girl. Curious I clicked on the link and found a page for ... (215 words)

Men: what do you think? What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really am at the point of I don't know what to do. I am 25. I just got out of school about a year ago and now have a really good job and everything I could ever want financially. The problem is I really would like a boyfriend. I was home schooled in high school so I ... (328 words)

How a gay can move when he is madly in love to a straight guy?

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5 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I was in love to a straight guy, who just being nice to me, and treats me a friend only, but he is sweet and caring to me. I wan't to move on, how can i forget him?... (45 words)

Will my helmet be a sex magnet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I bought a Honda Shadow Aero today and from what I hear, if you strap a helmet to the back of your motorcycle, no matter what kind it is, the ladies will come from miles - is this true?... (39 words)

Do I have to do all of the work?

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone!! Ok so there's this guy who is really attractive and in the beginning of the school year i was like so desperate to be with him and then i got a boyfriend and turns out that he was gonna ask me out until he saw me one day with my boyfriend. Then he went after my ... (214 words)

What the hell!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What to think? ...been together 4 yrs, having a crazy day and I was just getting ready for bed and he knows I have had a pinched nerve for a couple of days - I just asked him kindly could you please rub my neck for a few minutes and he says sorry and goes in the other room ... ... (85 words)

Is he or isn't he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here it goes...I like this guy (he is 7 yrs younger than me, I have always dated younger) Anyways. We have been talking for 5 years online and I went to visit him to his state, we met and had a good time. We went out to eat at this japanese restaurant (he paid) and some ... (275 words)

Teenage angst.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm 14 and I'm dating this 16 year old. We've been dating for about 2 and a half months. We were in love and I had no clue he was talking to this other girl who also had a boyfriend. I just found out a few days ago that he cheated on me with her, apparently his excuse ... (314 words)

Will she like me eventually?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and have recently ended a 5 year relationship. I have a really close circle of friends from middle school now on into college. Since I have been single I have been having some weekend nights with one of my friend's ex girlfriend and my ex girlfriend's friend. They aren... (185 words)

Does his blushing mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this boy that I like and I've liked him for 3 years now. This year, we have become REALLY CLOSE. He's in every one one of my classes, he sits next to me and is there when I don't even know. He is always smiling, laughing, and is close to me all the time in class. Whe... (196 words)

A women that is always right?

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This situation irritates me and I don't know what you're going to say about it. My sister and her bf went out before and broke up, and are back together. She tells me that when they fight, shes always the "right one". And that when they make up, he says it was all his faul... (94 words)

He's thinking of leaving his g/f for me

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex from about 4 -5 years ago and i have been texting quite a bit - even though his gf doesn't allow him to have any communication with any girls that arent family, on friday we met up just to say hi. We've both realised we still have feelings for each other we both have ... (123 words)

Used the morning after pill twice in a month ...

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i have a question, first of all i have irregular periods, well i got my period beginning of march then end of april, but i had sex a week before i got my period of the month of april and i used next choice because i didnt want to get pregnant, i got my period the fallowing ... (120 words)

Feeling bad because I've never had a boyfriend

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Almost every girl in my school has a boyfriend except for me and im starting 2 feel kinda sad and ulgy and fat and i want some addvice like what boys look for in a girl and stuff im just kinda feeling lonely i mean im like 13 and i have never ever had a boy friend plzzz help... (59 words)

I changed my mind about moving home; am I a horrible person?

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I moved 3000 miles away from my family to be with him. We live with his parents, and that has always been a little hard for me. Anyway, the living with his parents, my school starting to suck because of budget cuts, and not being able to ... (290 words)

I can't look at him when I'm talking to him

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.... I have this problem through. Well its better to tell the story first. Okay anyway it been like this for days and well months. There is this boy I liked, he is also my friend. We talked happly about a month until some hormonal emotions ran through me. Now whe... (100 words)

When I needed him to be there for me he was talking to another woman

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - really need advice.....my husband and i have been together for 8 and half yrs married foe 4..we have really been distant for the last year.I lost my job dealth with lots of family issues..in march i found out he had been talking to another woman on the phone at work and txt her ... (175 words)

Am I being foolish for hoping he'll make a committment?

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5 May 2010 (?) age 51-59 - A couple of months ago, I told my bf of a little over a year that I wanted to move forward in our relationship. He said this was something he wanted too but is the type of person to go slowly in any decision. We talked about moving in together, and then decided we would ... (402 words)

Is it normal to get lucky during the first date?

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5 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for a guy to get lucky with a woman the first time meeting them? I mean i am on dating sites and when i decide to go meet a girl and wether we go for drinks or play pool, or just hang out it seems like they always make the first move. I mean i am not the best ... (130 words)

Penis with a mind of its own!

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5 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old male that likes to have sex, i have had a few different partners over the years, some i can keep it hard for extended periods, other times it gets almost hard but still able to satisfy, other times he just don't work at all... It's like he has a literal mind ... (71 words)

I'm wondering if I'm too timid!

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5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been questioning my actions and reactions to females, and I'm wondering if I'm a bit too timid. I am a quiet and reserved guy, but I'm more open and comfortable to those I get to know well. It's tough to explain, but I'm usually timid in touching girls. I kind of have t... (245 words)

Does it hurt? A handjob through fabric?

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so handjobs- I HATE them. My boyfriend is constantly wearing basketball shorts, and the elastic is to tight for me to be able to move my arm around enough, so lately, I've been starting out by rubbing him through the shorts. My question is, guys, does that hurt? ... (104 words)

Broke up for a year and now I'm pregnant, he wants me to have an abortion!

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well last year the love of my life of 14 yrs left me and our son saying he"had to get himself together". Well it was a huge adjustment for me as well as our 10 year old son. He was always around, still active in my sons life. We remaine civil. I knew he was seeing someone at ... (266 words)

One night stand after only 6 months of marriage

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me. I only got married 6 months ago and we have been going out for 9 years and have never once cheated on him. I done something really stupid last night and already I am torturing myself with guilt and fear of him finding out. I was happily married until a couple of ... (491 words)

Never had a boyfriend and suddenly I have 2 men interested!

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel completly lost and confused. I've never had a boyfriend and suddenly two guys are really interested in me. They're both really nice, beautiful and smart. I can't decide, it's impossible and I don't wanna lose them. I can't stop thinking about this and I feel really sad ... (69 words)

I gagged while giving her oral sex and now she won't let me try again!

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5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My girlfriend and I are sexually active. We've never had intercourse but we have oral quite a bit. The first time I gave her oral, it was great and she said she had never had a guy do it so enthusiastically and so good. I'm very aware of how to make a girl feel good a... (170 words)

He says its over but he's still in my bed!

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5 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hiya going through a rough time with my bf been with him for 4yrs ive been chatting on line and hes seen my emails there wasent anything in it just boredom really he works away he says its over between us he still lving with me and out daughter hes been going through a rough ... (160 words)

Where do you find nice teenage girls?

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5 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Where do you find nice teenage girls?... (7 words)