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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I be embarrassed my marriage isn't working?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I put on a happy front for other people when they ask about my married life, but I am not really happy. We enjoy movies, dancing, and fun together but for many reasons, I am not happy in our marriage. My husband was spoiled when he was younger and still expects to be spoiled ... (1463 words)

Blind and can't read the signs possibly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is the guy and we both get along. at the start of the year i like him and we talked but we kind of became distant due to studying as we both want the same career and course in collage but lately he keeps bumping into me and trying to get my attention and he keeps bumping ... (69 words)

What to do about my love triangle?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am in a triangle situation. its me, and my ex of 6 months travis, and the other guy i've know for 3 years jarrett. and well jarrett used to date my bestfriend, yet me and him have always liked each other, ever since 6th grade. i just ever really gave him a chance, 1st-because ... (261 words)

Is it okay for my biological mom to date my brother?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was adopted as a baby and about a year ago met my bio Mum for the first time. Got on with her great and really glad I've met her. But a couple of weeks ago she told me she's dating my big brother and I'm really not happy about it. I'm only related to my brother by adoption, ... (116 words)

How can I wait to have a baby?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - all i see every where is pregnant woman oryoung girls and im so jealous. i really wnt a baby, but my boyfriend doesnt yet. i dont know what to do to carry on for a couple years longer. does anyone know what i can do? please help me its horrible :(... (55 words)

Am I doing something wrong in my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been dating 6months in a LDR. It is going wonderful, we have trust, we see each other every 2months for 2 weeks and talk and play games for a few hours every evening. Problem: he is a little shy to take the initiative. I know when something is bothering him or ... (360 words)

Am I reading my ex right?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Months ago my ex asked my daughter to ask me to call him. I didn't at the time, I was very sick. So I wrote him a short letter thanking Him for being there for our daughter. That week I noticed a huge change in him. He actually went to the doctors about an issue we had( it was ... (182 words)

Do the signs point to him liking me?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really having a hard time figuring out if my ex still likes me or not. When we broke up things were really bad because there was alot of screaming, crying etc. so we dont really talk to each other anymore. (I want to talk to him but im nervous too) So whenever i see him he ... (270 words)

Could he like other girls too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Umm basically i have a boyfriend right and he loves me and i love him back...we've been together for about umm 7 or 8 months now and we didnt really have the "gay" way of asking eachother out.. he movved to my school and then we were chatting online then we started sayin bye ... (275 words)

My boyfriend flirts with my cousin!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend went on a small vacation to see my cousin, the weekend was expected to be really nice as i dont see my cousin very often (My cousin is female) When we got there all was pretty normal but after a while my boyfriend began tickling her, playing with her toes, ... (213 words)

How do I learn to appreciate something I hate?

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10 May 2010 (F) age 30-35 - How to enjoy something I hate? I have small breasts and most of the advice I've got from both men and women is to "get over it and enjoy what you have". Great in theory, but how exactly do I do I do it if I really DON'T like my breasts? They're small, and I really wish they... (373 words)

How do I get him to lighten up?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has been getting too serious like he is taking life too seriously. how do i get him to lighten up??? He used to joke more and we would have a good time and laugh. i am worried that maybe we arent rite anymore.. help.... (48 words)

I feel like I'm just useless in bed

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He was a virgin when we met, and for the first few times that we were intimate with each other, he didn't orgasm at all. I thought it may have been because he was nervous, but it still happens a lot now. He told me that it ... (462 words)

Is my boyfriend uncomforable with me?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been together with my boyfriend for nearly a year now; as expected things were perfect in the beginning, we did everything together and spent so much time hanging out and talking and having fun and things were wonderful. After a few months I had to go to school about 6 ... (413 words)

He stutters when he talks to me, he's so shy!

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10 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I really like this guy but he is so shy! He stutters when he talks to me, finds it hard to csrry the conversation etc, but before he started to fancy me he was fine and we talked all the time!! How can I tell him, or should I leave it, can I make myself easier to be aro... (63 words)

How can we come to a decision on where to live?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I met in Costa Rica 4 years ago. I"m from the California and he is from Australia. We have lived in Costa Rica ever since. I go back to California about twice a year to visit. I have always struggled with being so far from my amazing family and the city. My ... (168 words)

Even though we aren't exclusive, why is he dating others?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been exclusive for a few weeks. However, before becoming boyfriend and girlfriend we were friends and then we began dating for about 6 months. I didnt want to get into a relationship right away because when I met him I was just getting out of a 5 year ... (338 words)

What shall I do for my birthday?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do this weekend for my birthday. I dont usually like going out drinking , but i thought as its a special occassion, i'd like to go. I want to go to a town that's close to where i live, as thats the better place to go if you want to go to a bar or pub, which ... (263 words)

How do I control the rumor mill?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been talking to this guy for about a week now and he told me likes me and i like him to. i told 2 of my friends but heres the problem they told someone who told someone and so on. i hate it when my buissness is known by the world and i dont want to hurt peoples ... (81 words)

Caught wife in a car going down on another man, what to do?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was at a party this past weekend with my wife and in the middle of the party I lost my wife. When I tried to find her, she was nowhere to be found. Finally, I went out to chekc our car and she wasn't there. Ont eh way back I noticed a guy sitting in a car with his head ... (148 words)

Pressured to get a boyfriend...

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, Will i ever get a boyfriend? All my friends have boy friends and i feel pressured to get one, other wise i will be left out :( I want a boyfriend but i don't really have any guy friends that i hang out with or see anymore. Most of my friends are girls :/... (58 words)

How do I win my ex back... I broke up with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend and want to get back with him! This is a story of why I broke up with him but now that issue is out of the way for good I want to take it slow with him this time as we were great together. SORRY it's long but any suggestion/help how to win him ... (1450 words)

What do you recommend I do before taking this relationship any further?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - FIVE MONTHS BCK!!! I met this guy on a house party arranged by my best friend and that first meeting with him was quite a thing to remember for the rest of my life! He was extremely courteous and chivalrous to me n my girlfriend till he got drunk... The moment he got dizzy... (510 words)

I love her very much but I know it could never work!

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10 May 2010 (M)

age - I dont know what to do. I am an adult man age 55. My ex girlfriend is 49. We haven't see or talked to each other in 8 months. Last month she started to text me that she still loves and misses me. She just text me a week ago that she wants me to kiss and hug her.But she wont ... (149 words)

Should I start a relationship with this older woman?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am a 19 year old male and I really like this lady. she also likes me but there is a problem. she is 39 with 3 children. she is afraid of what people might think of her and the complications the children bring. we both really want this but don't know what to do. so here is ... (72 words)

Tips on dating after a divorce?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age - Hi,I'm divorced after 20 years and reentering the dating scene and I've forgotten how long people that you meet put on their best performance before you start seeing their flaws. I'd appreciate any help that you could give me.... (39 words)

Why won't she accept my apology?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I like this lady she kinda mad at me over a stupid arguement because i couldnt see her when i wanted to. We been talking for about a month and i like her she liked me but now its bad. I sent her roses to her school and asked her to accept my apology. She didnt reply and its ... (70 words)

I need flirting lessons...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hiyaa. got another problem. I don't really know how to flirt with boys to be direct lol. well I know how to I jst always get nervous an get muddled. anyone got any tips on how to flirt but not look like am desparate? jst subtle things? I'm only 14 but I'd like a little romance ... (60 words)

Boyfriend has on-line girlfriends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age - I met my boyfriend playing bridge on-line. After several months of playing we arranged to meet, fell madly in love, and now, over a year later, we are living together and have a great relationship. He had met his previous girlfriend through on-line bridge as well, bu... (289 words)

How do I avoid this embarrassment?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A week ago i went to a club and ended up going to someone out of my law classes house where we had sex (I am 19 by the way) I havent had law since and im scared to go into the lesson , how do i overcome the embarassment?... (50 words)

He said I mess with his head. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy who i used to be in love with has been okaying me for four years now because he says he likes me but doesnt want to commit to anything too serious as he is too young for any of that and wants to live his life while he can , he is now 20 and whenever we are drunk we end up ... (127 words)

Three questions about my Swedish exchange student boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Three questions about my Swedish exchange student boyfriend! Are all Swedish girls really good looking? I'm seeing a Swedish exchange student and am rather insecure. He goes back to his country soon and I am really insecure because from what you hear they are all goddesses. ... (383 words)

Why can't he see all I've done for him and return my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - this sounds so silly but i need advice. i have a very close friend but he doesnt know im in love with him. he was in a bad way when i first met him and over the last 8 months hes got his confidence back and ive supported him and made sure hes ok. he says hes never had anyone b... (169 words)

My husband is so angry and I don't know what to do!

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10 May 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I have been married to my husband for 2 years now and we never have issues but last night we went to a friends house and she asked me if I wanted a sip of her tequila I said no but she turned to my husband and he said it was okay but he was a little drunk. So after we left he ... (91 words)

This boy at school has a huge ego! Should I say something to him?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - theres this one boy at my school who has a huuge ego!! i jst feel like sayin to him to get over himself! but lots of people like him an i dnt know wat to do. hes so self centred. and makes everyone around him want to please him an to never let him down. he makes remarks about ... (197 words)

Do I want too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I call it quits? I know everyones answer will prob be yes straight away but here goes. I met my now second Husband in a bar May 2008 we had a lot in common he was charming and made me laugh. we both had children of the same age 3 and 5 and he was in the process ... (1117 words)

I'm at breaking point, we were positive I was who he wanted but no one knows what to believe!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sorry for the length of this its going to be an absolute essay! But i need to get it off my chest and i need some serious help. I’m honestly wishing right now i could just curl up and die. And im sorry to say that is no exaggeration. I will try and cut it down but this has ... (1300 words)

Help! I don't know how to move on?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need to pour my heart out.... I was with my ex for almost 3 years. I started law schol, and after a semester, she felt unhappy, unimportant, and uneeded, so she broke up with me. She started dating her best friend (for years) almost a week after, I was crushed. She an... (449 words)

Need advice about my mobile phone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (M)

age - Hi All, I am new here I need to try and access details of numbers that called my mobile or sent an sms to it recently. Does anyone know how I can do this as a matter of urgency please, Orange told me they cant tell me even if I dont want to know the number only if any call... (91 words)

Why am I so crazy about her feet?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I just want to massage and rub my girlfriend's feet all the time. I think it is my favorite thing to do with her. I am trying to get up enough nerve to kiss and lick them. Am I crazy?... (40 words)

My husband does not know how to be affectionate to me

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10 May 2010 (F) age - My biggest problem is that my husband does not know how to be affectionate to me. He tells me, "you don't accept the love I have for you." He thinks that because he feels love for me, that should be enough. He doesn't understand how much I need him to show me his love with ... (139 words)

My bf never has time for me!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend never has time for me....we see ourselves like once in two weeks. when i go see him, he leaves me to hang out with his friends, but he calls me every day to know how am faring. what do I do? I love him and he is my first boyfriend.... (52 words)

My ex bf's friends always stare at me when I'm out at the same clubs..why are they doing this?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Why does my ex boyfriend's friends stare at me when i see them out? We broke up a month and a half ago (he broke up with me). every time i have been out since and seen his group of friends, they stare at me so blatantly the whole time, and i dont know why; like they are ... (252 words)

I'm experiencing a crisis and need motivation to get past it! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - im 19, male and a student, im going through such a difficult phase in my life. i've got my exams coming up now but thats nothing, the thing that im stressed about is the relationship ive been in for 3 years. 2 years of it havn't been easy. ive tried to withstand it and stay ... (418 words)

Should I kiss my lesbian friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i have quite a complicated problem!! my best friend has recently told me that she is a lesbian and has been having a complicated relationship secretly with one of my other friends. it was really amazing that she trusted me with such a big secret and wanted my advice... (207 words)

I am a pregnant, so is another woman, and he has a new baby... What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I ran into an old flame a couple months back. Alot of the old feelings that were once there started to resufurace and we spent all most everyday together. I felt something special and I slept with him a few times. I knew that he had a girlfriend and a young baby at home. I also ... (177 words)

Girlfriend wants a break for the second time, but I don't understand why!

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. our relationship started from meeting at a festival where she already had a boyfriend(a rebound) from her old one.. i felt really bad about this but the guy she was with didn't seem too bothered, as they were more like j... (1117 words)

16 and sleeping with somone twice my age!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i'm 16 and did something very stupid! I slept with someone twice my age. I do regret it. It was just a bit of fun but everytime i see him, it's like my heart skips a beat, i just have a big smile on my face, i'm not in love with him! The thing is, i was sleeping with him ... (238 words)

We broke up, he spent the night, then acted cold in the AM. Is he using me?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my boyfriend like a month and a half ago, i want to know if he is using me or not! he is living with friends right now and he is required to have a visitor pass, last night he calls me and asks me if he can come over for the night because he forgot to get a ... (195 words)

B/f has been distant since I interrogated him about his night out

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last week I interrogated my boyfriend after he went out one night. I didn't hear from him at all that night which is fine, but I usually get a phone call when he gets home regardless what time and didn't get one. The next day he didn't call me until after he got off of work ... (361 words)

Games, dares and 7 minutes of heaven!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i'd like some ideas. theres an anual parade thing where i live which is tons of fun. it's a 4 day weekend thing where theres loads of music and pretty much everyone from the age of 14 who anually takes part is allowed to drink (as long as they don't actually try and go to a ... (294 words)

My friend's fiancee has given bj's to probably 30 or more guys and he can't deal with it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My 'work friend' is engaged getting married next year. He has a problem with his fiancee's past. She is still a virgin and wants to wait until they're married. He is fine with that, however, due to what she calls 'sexual pressure' by guys she has performed oral on a lot of ... (326 words)

I just want someone to cuddle up to and spend time with without it just being about sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i really just want to settle down i know im still young but im fed up of getin hurt. all the boys i go for have what they want and then dont bother with me untill they want it again. iv tryed not givin it to them but then i just get up set and feel alone. i just want ... (83 words)

Shall I stay with my bf when I can not satisfy him with deepthroat?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for two years. We love eachother but last year there has been a sexual issue which has become big mental problem for me. Like 1 year ago he told me that the most exciting thing in the world is deepthroat. Well, ok, I haven´t been quite happy about that ... (475 words)

Since we slept together he has been in touch less

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age - dear all... i have been chatting and phoning a guy for the last 2 weeks....every day...at length.. and we met at the weekend....the date was great... and we both said we wanted to meet again.... we did sleep together and it felt very natural.... but since that date....... (113 words)

Every time I propose she says "I hate you"

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi... I love a girl 4 last many years. She was my old classmate. The only problem she cant accept is that she is 2 months older than me. She takes it as a problem even though i dont because i love her that much.how can i make her understand her. Everytime i proposes, sh... (66 words)

I cant stop getting annoyed with my friend ever since she has started flirting with the guys I like!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend keeps flirting with the guys I like and I can't help but get annoyed with her over the smallest things now, what should I do?... (27 words)

Could she be interested in me despite her male companion on the bus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

10 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a situation for you: I see this young woman, occasionally, when we have managed to catch the same Metrobus on our short ride to work. (Different jobs, same exit.) We've caught each other's eye. She's very attractive; has this mystique. I also see her get on the Metro... (177 words)

Should you pursue the girl you like or let someone else pursue her?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A question for the guys out there (girls are welcome to answer) If you pursue a girl you like, probably a few people will be hurt. If you let someone pursue the girl you like, only you will be hurt. So. To pursue or not to pursue? ... (57 words)

I don't find my partner's fetish very sexy! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here's the question: What do you do when your significant other has a fetish that you don't think is very sexy? His fantasy during masturbation is that he can disassemble my body (not in a gory way, but consensually), and that we both do impossible sex acts with my body ... (252 words)

Blood when I pee. Is there something seriously wrong?

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10 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - This is slightly embarassing but i have researched it and cant get a definate answer. Me and my long term boyfriend broke up about 8 weeks ago and since then i have got a new man in my life. Now i am not a virgin and had sex hundreds of time with my ex boyfriend, howev... (193 words)

The little things make me wonder if we will work long term.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are each other's first serious relationships. We've been together for 9 months now and I'm just thinking about long-term compatibility. He's an amazing person and treats me well but sometimes there are little things that make me wonder if things can work ... (317 words)

Do I hang on or let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7.5 months. We talk about the future and tell each other that we want to spend the rest of our lives together. However, we have a major complication. She is not yet divorced and it will still be many months before she can be. There are ... (154 words)

Do you think he will ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so im confused on whats happening! there is this guy i met him in the begining of the year and he got a gf before i got to know him, and when we were getting close as friends him and his gf broke up and a lot of flirting happening but he's a flirt he flirts with everyone. but i ... (285 words)

The thought of boyfriend fantaising about other people makes me want to be alone for ever

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help with a problem I'm having. I'm had low self esteem since I was 11 (I'm in my 20's now) and I have been in therapy for it and although it helped I think its gone back to being as bad as before. The main problem is I read everywhere how guys fantasize a... (395 words)

I'm not used to these new feelings! Do I care, or am I playing it safe? Where is the passion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all. I have very recently started dating a new man. I am a 41 year old female. For the whole of my adult life I've had 'high octane' dramatic relationships, full of love, pain, and wanting. I have realised I have become addicted to that kind of relationship, an... (354 words)

Is he worth the wait even though he is already in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I was talking to a guy at a party and we were getting along really well and it got to a point where we were both really drunk, we kissed and got a little playful, (nothing dodgey, just play fighting) and someone walked past and we stopped playing around until they lef... (190 words)

Pregnant with my third child but my partner is up to his old tricks again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am two months pregnant with my third child to a man i love so much. he cheated five years ago and i forgave him.i found a spare phone in his van and looked he has been on a text chat and flirt site. he says he is sorry but i dont know anymore my head is everywere at the min. ... (70 words)

Why does my male friend ignore me and spend so much time with our other friends?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hope you know the answer to this because im really confused. I text my mate and said we might be going out this weekend do u wanna come? to see if he wants to come out with me and these other two people who are going out toegther. And he texts me back saying "definately if u ... (226 words)

I want to make this relationship work for the sake of the baby but I'm unsure how I should handle his fetish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help and advice needed. I split with my boyfriend at the beginning of February because I found evidence that he was on dating websites. Since this time, I have found out I am pregnant (20 weeks) - we were trying for a baby. The websites he was on were bdsm sites and since ... (235 words)

How can I get my friend to tone down her behaviour?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known my best friend for around 7 years now. We get on like a house on fire most of the time, she's great and we have a lot in common. However, there is one aspect of her character which I am finding harder and harder to put up with - she is incredibly fiesty and highly ... (1037 words)

Should I say something about his browsing online dating sites?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for around 7 months. I have known from the start that he previously had social dating accounts - but has never met or hooked up with people or paid for subscriptions.. He likes to look at profiles, at what is out there and how people advertise ... (215 words)

How can I get over my fear of my boyfriend cheating on me?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I suffer from severe anxiety and depression and I can't stop thinking my bf is going to cheat on me. He's 27, I'm 26 and I know in my heart he wouldn't. He's very against cheating, but I can't get rid of the sick feeling in my stomach when he goes out and stuff. What can I do ... (69 words)

My new boyfriend wants to research my past! Does he not trust me?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello friends.. am very worried, my one month boyfriend and i are very open to each other but the problem with me is he wants to know my friends and classmates.. he also want to know about my past ,he even told me hes going to make a research about me.. am now worried about ... (88 words)

I want to leave but I'm scared he could take my child away from me

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am stuck. I have been married for 8 yrs. and 2 yrs ago i was cheated on but chose to stay. Biggest mistake because every since then i have not been happy. i put on a happy face and try to be happy, but I am not. He will not go to church with me on Sundays and our marriage is ... (235 words)

Little things in our relationship are starting to bother me.......

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, my boyfriend and I have been together now for almost a year, and before that we were friends for just over a year. We have a really great relationship, lots of trust, honesty, and friendship and have only in our year span gotten into one big fight which was resolved ... (412 words)

Male co-workers g/f doesn't like us girls and gives us the evil eye! should we be worried?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Morning peeps. My male colleagues girlfriend is jealous of his frienships at work. The guy in question joined our team about 7 months ago and we arranged a night out whereby we could bring our partners and he bought his gf. We all tried to make the effort tovralk to he... (309 words)

He's sending explicit photos to me and wants the same back!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy im talking keeps sending me non stop nude photos of him... they are veery explicit and wants the same from me. He sometimes begs for photos. I never have sent a picture but shouldi be worried? I have a feeling this guy is jut using me for my boyd and when we go out ... (65 words)

He dumped me because another girls was cute and had good boobs!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupid My bf broke up with me yesterday, it hurts like hell. I just wanted to die. The reason for break up he said is he moved on and has met an younger girl (im older than him) who is cute and has good boobs. I cant believe the reason he told me for break up. I couldnt do... (86 words)

I'm married, but thinking of having an affair!!! help!!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm a 31 year old married woman. my husband and i have been married for six years, and we have no children. i have been friends with a man for half of my life, and i've known him WAY longer than my husband. this friend and i have been exchanging emails and phone calls l... (230 words)

Irrational thoughts about my girlfriend regarding - relationship, religion, attraction

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i have a girlfriend who i know deep down i love but as of late i have been having irrational thoughts racing around in my head about my feelings about certain aspects of our relationship. To start off she is from a super religious background, her mother and father are super ... (243 words)

Tired of all the drama but something says to hold on just a little longer

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 8 months. I think I think we fell in love instantly. We started having sex about 4 or 5 months after we met and our relationship started getting better and better. I shared things with him that I wouldn't share with anybody ... (180 words)

Should the age difference be a dilemma?

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10 May 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Hello, I would love to have some advice on this. It's strange how one can be so sure of something, but so unsure if it should be revealed. I am 18, and have very much liked and been attracted to a thirty year old man for a few years. It has more recently developed into a very ... (182 words)

I'm terrified that if he leaves for the military he will never come home again and all I will have left is a folded up flag.

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my fiance and I had a mishap and might be having an unexpected child. (we don't know for sure yet... it just happened a few days ago)but we were talking about our possible options, and I told him my plan for continuing school at a school closer to home so I can commute and ... (178 words)

I have been a player all my life but this women brought me to my knees

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I recently moved to Southern California my brother owns a business I started working for him and I met one of his employees...love at first site she was beautiful my kind of people and just really cool...but she had a boyfriend of 4 years...he was dog ugly cheated on her and ... (475 words)

Ex moving back to the states, does she want to get back together?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my Ex gf has broken up for almost 3 months now. We been together for about 4 month. The reason for the break up is because we live 2000miles away from each other and we never really meet each other. The only communication we had was on the phone and letters. After the ... (170 words)

He's pushing me out because of his ill father. Do I wait around?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a friend for months now, things were going great until they took a turn for the absolute worst. He found out a few weeks ago that his dad is sick and has about a year to live. I've seen him upset over it and I've even seen him cry and he says that he hated me ... (205 words)

Dating and inexperienced man--can I show his the basics? I'm still hurt from last relationship

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a little history of my situation. i recently left a physically and mentally abusive man. shortly after that, i started seeing a friend of a friend. we like each other quite a bit, thats not a question. he has never been in a "serious" relationship, just a few ... (223 words)

I'm having dreams about my ex

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I'm 15 and I had this girlfriend back in August 2009. We broke up for a stupid reason, and I still had feelings for her and finally I got over her. Then we stopped talking to one another. We don't even acknowledge one another. Now all of a sudden I've been having dreams ... (73 words)

Lots of fish in the sea but I want this fish!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So...I'm best friends with my ex-boyfriend. We were together for 10 months, he was my first boyfriend, and my first love. We broke up because, although he said he loved me, he said he wanted to be alone. He kept having these days when he wouldn't really want to talk much to ... (249 words)

If we don't have sex now he gets mad at me!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been fighting alot and we love eachother. we're 15 and have been together for just about a year. a couple weekends ago we had sex for the first time and it wasnt his first time but it was mine, and now if we dont do things or have sex he gets mad at me. ... (127 words)

During sex he just stopped and said he'd had enough!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy who seems really nice.He seems interested in everything I say. Hes very complimentary and affectionate. I got the impression that he really likes me but I'm starting to wonder if he does. The first few times we had sex everything was fine but then the... (157 words)

HOw do I get him to trust me when I haven't done anything wrong?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, 10 months to be exact. We are currently in a long distance relationship, not by choice, I haven't finished high school, so I can't leave home yet. Anyways for my question: I feel like we have been drifting apart f... (87 words)

Tips on meeting a pushy, aggressive woman?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Hello, I have a question for the ladies. I, um, have jsut been wanting to meet a girl who is, to use a generic term - dominant. Not like whips and chains and all that, but assertive. Bossy. Demanding. High maintenence. It sounds unusual to say in thi... (311 words)

I like my friend, but she's in a relationship

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bi friend (she's a girl, I'm also a girl), I didn't think I was bi, but I became jealous when she got her first girlfriend and began to question myself. When they broke up, I realized I probably liked her. I think she liked me too, cuz it almost seemed as if she was ... (134 words)

I thought she was just abrasive to others but then I became her target. Do we get back together?

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Let me apologize... This will be long... my ex and I were dating for about 3.5 months, and things were great for the first 2 or so. By this, I mean she was really into me, wanted to do what I liked, always wanted to spend time with me, etc. She was basically an angel to me, ... (356 words)

He's my best friend I love him too and don't know where to go with this

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - help ! im worried ive ruined things. im close friends with a guy i work with and i know hes very fond of me and says i have a special place in his heart. we work together all the time and he says he trusts me implicitly. ive supported him through the last 8 months when he had a... (183 words)

I want to be with him but he likes younger girls!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and my best guy friend is 19 he is a virgin and i cant tell if im in love with him but i know that he likes girls that are younger like 15 and 16 (im bout to turn 15) i cant see my self without him in the future does anyone have any advice?... (57 words)

Boyfriend called me while having sex with another woman!

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help! I got a phone call last week from my boyfriend of 7 years, and he was having sex. I couldnt make myself hang up because i had to know who it was. I found out that it was this slutty girl from our work. Luckily i am in washington visiting family. He wouldnt have ... (267 words)

how can I drive him crazy while I'm in his city???

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up 5 months ago I still love him, for whatever reason he's trying to block me out. I'm going to the city he lives in for a week (not to see him), I know this man still loves me. So how can I drive him crazy while I'm in his city???... (56 words)

For the guys: Would it put you off if girl made you wait for sex?

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is mainly a question for guys (sorry girls) I have only ever had one boyfriend who I was in a long relationship with. I have only ever slept with one guy. I am now recently single. My views on sex are somewhat old fashioned - in that I dont want to sleep around, I would ... (468 words)

She says I'm too good for her

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl I wuz seeing says that she isn't ready for a serious relationship right now. We've 6een texting ever since then and recently she told me that she's sorry for all she put me through goin out and that any girl would be luccy to be with me. She also said that im way 2 ... (112 words)

Changing his passwords on his accounts--says its "his business not mine"

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10 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year, living together for 6 months. Last week he changed his hotmail and facebook passwords out of no where. He says its his business and none of mine. Why the sudden change? Should I be worried something is going on? Please be honest. ... (51 words)

How long ago would you class as "not too long ago"

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is gonna sound pointless but i need to have an opinon for a situation my mates in. If someone told you soemthing happened "not too long ago" what timescale would you put that? weeks? months? im guessin this particualr thing was at a minimum within the weeks range but could ... (58 words)

Foster brother is in love with me

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10 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have a major problem...I was recently adopted into a foster family. I am fourteen years old. The family is made up of a father, mother, 8-year old girl and thirteen-year old boy. Here's the issue I am addressing: That 13-year old boy (let's pretend his name is Josh)is ... (98 words)