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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am attracted to two men, what am I supposed to do?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old female in an open relationship with a man ten years older than me. We've been together for nearly 6 years, but I recently took a chance and met one of my male friends from the past for the first time. This has led to some new complications/feelings. The ... (335 words)

Cheating - general consensus, variety of questions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a few general questions on cheating that I'd like to get feedback on... If your spouse cheated on you, would you stay with them? Would you leave? If you had children with them and they cheated, would you stay with them? Would you forgive a one-night stand vs a ... (141 words)

How do I deal with the distance in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for nearly 10 months now. I live in the UK and she lives on an island south of the UK. I went over there last summer and we met at a party. Since then we have seen each other on a number of occasions and it's so great! We hav... (139 words)

Is my ex boyfriend in a rebound relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and i broke up. a month later he was dating a girl. 2 months into their relationship he cheated on her with me said he wanted to get back with me that type of stuff. then a couple days later he said he was "happy" and "knows" he wants to be with her. Then 4 months ... (419 words)

Why stinky toes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. I know this isn't about sex or relationship but it's generally about my body. When I cut the nails of my big toes, I cut them as far as I can and when i do that, this horrible smell comes out and I think it's because in an already sirless shue, absolutely no ai... (134 words)

Feel so lonely and broken hearted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just wondered if anyone has any advice for feeling lonely. I'm a 32 single female and it does not help that I am new to the city, and also very shy. I don't know anyone here and am an introvert so I find it really hard just to go up to people and make friends. I'm so lonely ... (535 words)

Confused and torn between 2 different guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - this guy(lets call him bob) have been dating for a about 3 and a half months, and everything was pretty good until a couple weeks ago when he started getting really emotional. we had problems in the begining where he would get to clingy and id get mad and tell him to back off(i ... (602 words)

Is she in denial about why a guy might have been divorced three times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age - I discovered that my girlfriend is dating a man whom she says is very nice but now I find out from her that he's been married three times and thinks that he must be a nice enough guy if three women want to marry him. Am I wrong , or is she in denial of why he has also been ... (63 words)

Developing feelings for my male best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a guy, and I have a male best friend. He had nowhere to stay and we've been sleeping in the same bed for about a year and a half. Recently he moved out as he found a place but at some point before that, something weird happened between us in a drunken moment. We didn't ... (329 words)

Am I making a fool of myself, or is my friend just making trouble?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so here's the thing I really need another point of view cos this problem is starting to drive me crazy. I work with this guy he is younger than me by 3 years, we get on really well and are very close and I will admit that I am attracted to him, and I think he likes m... (251 words)

Husband cheated with his ex, insecurity and trust issues causing me problems, any good advice appreciated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband cheated on me with his ex of 6 years when we were only married two months i forgave him we are now going on three years and i just found out from these girls that he slept with someone else about a year ago but im not sure what to believe these girls are not know to ... (160 words)

Divorced, started dating a younger woman, expecting first child; she is treated horribly without cause, what can be done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Last year I ended my 8 year marriage to my wife for MANY reason. We were total opposite, and in different places of our lives. My family understood my reasons and were very supportive. Until I started dating again. Shortly after my divorce I started dating Jenn, younger girl ... (437 words)

Husband said there were rumors at work about affair, boss knows nothing, was this for cover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband told me that rumors have been spread around his job about him having sex with a co-worker at work. He told me that his supervisor knew about the rumors.I later asked his supervisor about the rumors and he had no Idea what I was talking about. What am I to think. Is ... (61 words)

I am losing a lot of blood from problems maybe related to an implant, what advice can you provide?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello there. i have the impant (implanon) and i have done since September 2009. my periods have been really messed up from it, then i went on the mini pill to stop my ireggular bleeding from the implant. this messed them up even more. about 4 weeks ago, i came on my perio... (110 words)

I am confused, he has a girlfriend, but flirts with me, how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i posted about this guy some time ago but now truth has been revealed and i am even more confused than ever. First of all it is honest to say that i like him. Very much. He makes me smile and laugh everyday and it was long time ago last time i felt something like that. ... (316 words)

Need help on how to win him back, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Mod note to poster: TURN OFF YOUR CAPS LOCK. All caps is considered to be shouting and is difficult to read] Hi everyone. I love psychology and i want answers based upon men psychology. I used to have a ex bf who was obsessed with me and thought he was in love. I treated him ... (468 words)

Long distance relationship creating insecurities with boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i discovered that my bf was cheating on me then we talked about it and we seemed okay but i'm still feeling insecure about it because i live far away from him and his so called ex girlfriend lives close to him.How do i get over it and trust my bf being close to this girl? I ... (71 words)

Strange health condition, can you please give me advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I woke up this morning and went to the bathroom to urinate and it was going two ways. Then I noticed that there was some kind of scab on the tip of my penis. It was not crusty or anything it was like rubbery. All comments are appreciated. ... (60 words)

My father is disgusting

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently I accidentally came across my dad's pervert folder. No, this is not normal, this isn't just a few X-rated videos. Let me put this in perspective for you. My dad is the nice guy of the family. He's everyone's favorite relative. I found in this folder, a clip of h... (133 words)

I need to get away from my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (Since October) is becoming increasingly controlling and passive agressive. I am scared of things getting wrose and as i have already started to have anxiety attacks I think it's best to end it. Problem, I don;t think i have the strength, I'm often on my own and ... (294 words)

"you don't look like a virgin" when you are is that a insult?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was wondering when some one says "you dont look like a virgin" when you are is that a insult? Guys and girls both ask me this and most of the time say i dont look like one or seem like one. Does that mean i look or act like a slut some how to them? I dont make a big deal ... (102 words)

Is this normal after FIVE years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Current situation; I'm 23 and living with my fiancee in London. We've been together since September 2007. I have an alright job, but not many friends here yet and no real activities to do (as the fiancee works nights and I work days). I am happy a good deal of the time, even ... (251 words)

Major trust issues on both sides, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for two years with my boyfriend. He wants to move in together, and get married. I'm not sure if I want the same. He's very expressive, affectionate, but also, demanding, jealous. He always texts me and asks "where are you", what are you doi... (267 words)

Where would be a good place to go on a special first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My new boyfriend and I are going on our first date next weekend...I know him very well, he is my best friend...:) I'm looking for something romantic, cheap, and fun. I don't own a car, neither does he. I live near a lake, and a park, so those are 2 options...but I'... (73 words)

What are my chances of meeting someone after university, and not in work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What are my chances of meeting someone after university, and not in work? I'm about to graduate this year from uni with a masters in engineering. Looking back, despite loads of good memories, I never had a proper girlfriend and now I'm starting to worry that I'll never get the ... (142 words)

My husband doesn't like it because I say what is on my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age - My husband say's I'm mental because I say what's on my mind and if something is bothering me in our relationship. How can a person change there ways for the good of there relationship? Let the past go and live for what they have now, forget the pain, hurt? ... (49 words)

Lost love needs to be found

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - me an my dude got into a fight i put my hands on him cause i was drinking he left im in cleveland he went back to memphis he wont call me he left everything he owned up here even his i.d. i need to get ahold of him an let him know how much i love him i have stoped drinking ... (90 words)

Is it always black and white that he doesn't want to be with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - if you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again---is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? We were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..noone cheated..i think ... (310 words)

I just want to be together with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im with my bf from 5 yrs. he is doing a tough job, n cudnt find time to spend with me. we meet once a week and that lead to sex. he also calls me once a day, but he says he loves me, im gettin really frustrated and feel ignored al the time. he never seems to eager to plan our ... (104 words)

My b/f is always looking for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! What should i do about my forever-horny boyfriend?? Its kinda awkward because hes always asking me to have phone sex with him and real sex but im not sure if im ready, can anyone help please??... (40 words)

Why does he want to meet in person for something that could be handled by email?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does he still care? Why is he doing this? me and my ex split up 3 month ago a lot was said and done to the point of we couldn't talk with out arguing. at the time of us splitting we worked together and for 2 weeks he had to b in the same room as me and had to leave then... (398 words)

Back home, clueless and confused after meeting my online love. I'm 20, she's 40+ married with kids!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. So I met a woman online 2 years ago when I was 17 and we started typing to each other really often. It wasn't on a site like facebook or myspace so it was basically anonymous to a degree, with no real orientation around dating or anything like that. However I ... (499 words)

My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age - I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. Everything was going fine, and ... (312 words)

Should I douse my burning flames of desire for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy at work. I am 38 he is 28. We flirted a lot the first two months, and I confessed to him that I liked him and would not rule outthe possibility of friends with benefits. He seemed to like the idea at the time because we were both fairly new to the job and I had ... (271 words)

How to break up with my fiance who is much older than me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi well i just joined and i am seriously stuck, i have been with my fiance for 2 yrs in june and engaged for 9 months. i am 24 this year and my fiance has just turned 43, it is a huge age difference and when we first got together i had no problems with it but now all i can ... (156 words)

Colleague found out I was pregnant& everyone in my workplace& now denies it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 7 weeks pregnant and a colleague of mine found out. I gave up smoking and was off with bad sickness so she put 2 and 2 together and figured it out. She asked me I told her I was and she promised to not say anything. I really wish I had denined it now as she has ... (259 words)

How can I stop finding fault in other people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have a unique problem and I want to do something about it, but it's not easy. I manage to find fault in people all the time. Not a day goes by where I don't think about something someone did that has upset me. Just a few minutes ago, I had an argument with my mum ... (132 words)

I lost him for no reason, I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, ... So in march I had a boyfriend, called John. We lasted for two weeks, because of rumours going round saying I was cheating on him when I wasn't, the rumours took him away from me and sent him to my bestfriend, they finished two days ago and I really want him back, bu... (60 words)

Managers do not think I am doing a good job but now are ignoring me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2263 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I started a new job just a month ago into what i thought would be a good job. A few days ago i was called into a meeting with 2 of my female managers to check my progress, and the first thing they told me was ive been doing poor in my work!! They said this was be... (291 words)

Is cheating a genetical thing also?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just read one article over the net: Cheating is in the genes. Somehow, I agree to this but not entirely. Coz I remember it now, the ex who cheated on me, together we used to talk about his brother before who was a player and a serial cheater. My sister's ex fiance c... (149 words)

I went to a prostitute and couldn't get an erection,,,

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm a 23 year old guy, reasonably attractive and I never have much of a problem picking up women. I've been wondering about an escort for ages and decided that while I'm here I may as well go nuts. She was gorgeous, nice and understanding. We spoke for abou... (149 words)

My husband does not contribute to the weekly shopping bill. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age - My husband is refusing to give me an allotted amount of housekeeping money per week. I earn a small amount of money which does not cover the weekly food bill and other household items required. He says that I spend too much money on food etc., which I feel is unfair, I asked ... (151 words)

Is it right for me to forgive him and take it to myself that I become his mistress forever for the sake of our son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have 3yrs. live-in partner but he is married in his first wife. he make me believe that they are no longer connected to each other. We have 1 son now and for 3yrs. i believe in all his dreams and promises for us. but now i found out that he fooled me. he still in relationship ... (271 words)

Ot ready to hang up the towel just yet...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age - I need to hear from men in their 50's and early 60's. My husband says he's just not as interested in sex as he used to be. I don't view mid-50's as old, so I'm having a hard time accepting this, especially since we had been sexual at least 5 times a week through our entire m... (373 words)

Wife cheating in chat room? need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well me and my wife have been together for 8yrs this june.Well she has exchanged pics of herself online b4 and i know that and we patched that up i thought.Me and her talked and we both got the point that she is a stay at home mom we really cant go out with friends as we have ... (226 words)

Why is my ex doing these things to me when he was cheating and has already slept with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a really long story. I feel very upset and confused. I don’t understand why I was treated this way. I feel worthless. I am 28 and my ex is 30. I always thought we will get married. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. 2 months ago, we had a tiff ov... (1034 words)

Should I confess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've fallen for a guy at work. We talk a lot in the office and are quite close. He teases me a lot and has all sorts of nicknames for me. He always says that I am weird and always takes pictures of me while laughing at me. He would criticize/comment on the way I dress or my ... (193 words)

Should I send my ex pictures for his upcoming birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..noone cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what i would do differently and ... (343 words)

Why does he keep saying all I want is sex and he has to concentrate on keeping his erection so he doesnot disappoint me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age - I have a friend who i have a relationship with and who i also have sex with on occasions.while i am very fond of sex he is always making a joke about it to me saying things like,all i want him for is sex,and all i want is sex. well none of this is true as i have explained to ... (319 words)

Do you think he's cheating on me while away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We've been together for almost 4 years but the last 2 years were spent away from each other since he's now residing in England. He came home for vacation just last January and stayed for a month. A few weeks after he left I found out I was pregnant. So now I'm in my 4th month. ... (318 words)

Pregnancy paranoia

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have paranoia. I had a pregnancy scare this year in January but it was jsut a scare. I blame that for this paranoia. I had sex 4 wks ago. He didnt cum in me at all. Wasnt even close. I am on BC as well. I dont expect my period for 4 days. But I am scared. Why am I so ... (91 words)

Am I being too jelous and insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im 31 years old i have been in love with my partner since i was 16 ( he was my first love but we only went out for a year then our lives went on different paths ) so after we broke up i was truly devastated and pined after him for many years ..... 13 years later after not ... (605 words)

Dating: what to do and how to do it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, there is this guy I like, or I guess you could say I wanna get to know. He's on the popular side and im kinda the normal side. Im not ugly, people tell me im pretty a lot. Since schools ending and summer is comming up, I kinda wanna ask him to the movies with a friend and ... (123 words)

Did any get on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well today me and my boyfriend had sex. We used a condom and all, but before he was getting ready to come he pulled out. But when he pulled out the condom broke. And then about five seconds after he pulled out he started to come. This is a stupid question to ask cause you ... (102 words)

Guys utterly confuse me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys utter confuse me. Lately I've had a bunch that have suddenly started liking me. Only one really caught my interest cause he is so funny and random, like me! Anyway, I recently made this new guy friend (I will call him Cay). Cay normally listens in on my conversations wi... (423 words)

How do I ask my friend out when she's already dating a guy I know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl at uni a few months ago (on whom I previously had a crush) and I really like her. I'm usually kind of superficial in that I'm generally only attracted to girls who are 'visually' attractive regardless of their personality (not to say that I dislike unattractive ... (325 words)

I like my cousin but...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to start out by saying I have no problem with this situation. I know that scientific data and religion both say this is okay, but Im worried about what my parents and family will say. I dont think my cousin cares, but then again, he's a teenage boy... But anyways,... (146 words)

Why would she spend time and effort flirting with me if she has difficulty accepting "the whole gay thing"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm a girl, and I've fallen for a girl who happens to be my best friend. Now,she's told me twice before that she's straight,she reads gay and lesbian romance stories, and has been flirting with me for the last few months, and telling me that she thinks I'm beautifu... (342 words)

I don't think I cheated buy my b/f is making it out like I did

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So let me get straight to the point. I went to a bar last night and got totally wasted and hugged on and held a guys hand that is friends with my brothers wife. Well i have a boyfriend and we have been together for 7 months and he got really mad when i told him, and told me i ... (134 words)

Should we slow things down physically?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, yesterday I allowed by boyfriend to finger me. I didn't expect much even if he's not a virgin, just because he probably wouldn't know what I like. Before he did anything he asked if it was okay and I told him it was. It was actually a nice feeling. When he got alittle rough ... (253 words)

I still love him, but we are now both involved, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 years ago, this guy told me that he was in love with me. And before I knew it, I was slowly falling for him. We had the most amazing, loving relationship and we made each other unbelievably happy. Our friends thought we were great together - everything was perfect. In lat... (265 words)

Sometimes I feel if we just yelled at each other it would clear things up quicker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been reading a million articles about communication. Not just romantic communication. I feel like this has affected my new realationship negatively. I have been practicing the non-blaming, understanding the other person's point of view, validation of my partner's feeling ... (215 words)

We both want to keep our sexual relationship a secret but his sister saw us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old male. My friend, Danny, and I are Bi-curious and we both want to keep our sexual relationship a secret. When we were at his house, we both undress each other and started making love. Next thing we notice, his door opens up and his 14 years old sister, Lise... (146 words)

I'm worried about getting close to him because of my past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5087 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know if anyone can help me but i need a bit of help plz so if there any one out there that can help then geat :) I have jsut started seeing that guy we are not going out but we are seeing how thing go Is 22 and i am 19 he a really nice guy he got me flowers and wi... (241 words)

I lied to the man I love about the college I went to...is there anyway I can get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can i get my amazing man back after lying? i am in desperate need of some help. I fell in love with the most amazing man in the world. He is 27 years old but i am only 22 years old. last spring i failed out of the university we both attended. When we first started dating l... (445 words)

I need some advice on flirting, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd appreciate any advice, especially from any guys, about how to be a good flirt. I'm back in the game after getting over a break up with my ex (we were together for 9 years, broke up Nov '09 after I found out he cheated AGAIN, cried my tears, had some time to myself, ... (354 words)

I just found he's married and has a newborn baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy at work for three years... Judy found out that he is married and has a newborn baby. Our boss wanted to congratulate him on the baby in a meeting. He has two houses... He's technically my boss. I've fallen for him bad and definitely love him.. How can ... (63 words)

Am I being naive or is this just a fantasy possible reality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

22 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - (OP's own title) These situations always start with...there is this guy. I dated this guy two years ago, and well fell for each other really fast...to fast even, which is 180 from my norm in relationships. dating only lasted several months as he admitted he was still d... (554 words)