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I am really keen on him but am I pushing too fast?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have this guy in one of my classes he always looks at me whenever i walk by..two days ago i talked to him the first time and it wasnt a conversation it was just talking about how much the teacher was being a bitch yesterday i saw him at lunch walk out of the cafetiria and ... (351 words

In love with a same-sex teacher

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - im in love my teacher she doesn't teach me but i saw her in the hall at school assembly and i thought 'woah she is beautiful' and she looked at me and smiled i started to love her, a few weeks later she spoke to me and asked if i was ok and everything i said i was fine thank ... (261 words

Meeting online companion, AND his whole family?!

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I badly need advise before I materialize my plans. I met this guy exactly 5 months ago online as a way of coping up with a break-up. Anyway, he is younger than me by 7 years and at first we were just chatting out of boredom, I didn't even care how long our online friendshi... (432 words

He has issues with my past

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7 May 2010 (? age 30-35 - I've read a good number of posts on the subject, but I want to see if anyone can give me a little insight on what I can do. A few days ago my boyfriend questioned my past. We had a long talk about it, not going into any specifics, and things seemed to be alright. The nex... (529 words

The first girl I've ever been jealous of...

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and we decided after a month of dating to make it exclusive. In the beginning, my boyfriend had a friend that is a girl, that lives ten hours away and she texted him on New Year's Eve with Happy New Year's Eve baby. He ... (706 words

Wait by the phone, or call him myself?

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7 May 2010 (F age - I am now in my 50s and recently was in contact with my first boyfriend back in my teens. He says he prefers not to look back/attend reunions and took 3 weeks to make contact. He asked me to marry him when we were both just under 18, I felt too young. I am divorced with an... (109 words

Struggling to get close to guys

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am in my early 20s, and I am a working professional. I went from one of the most social situations (college) to one of the least social ones. When I go out, I see interesting guys that I want to meet but I don't know how to make the icebreaker. I don't know how to inte... (129 words

Could there be a deeper reasoning to all this?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend (now ex) finished with me about a month ago, telling me he needed space and wasnt ready for a serious relationship. It's not that I don't believe him, but I feel there was deeper reasoning. He has a demanding job and from what i've witnessed, doesn't get a gr... (434 words

I'm underage but so horny!

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7 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi Im 13 and im not sure if im a virgin but i really want to have sex with a boy or girl i dont mind. but the thought has been goin through my head for ages and i cant stop these sexually feelings im having. i usually use my toothbrush to help me out but i just want to have ... (74 words

What was he trying to say in this text?

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7 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - hello, i recently went on a date (first time) with a man who i met online, on the date he treated me very well, we got along great and he checked that i got home ok and also text the next day to say that he had a great time and would like to go out another time. we spoke ... (259 words

Will he leave if I keep the baby?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - im 19 years old, hav been with my boyfriend for 4 years, about two years ago he told me that he wanted to have a baby with me, i love kids so i said yes, i have a problem with my period i get it every 3 to 4 months apart, so it was hard for me to get pregnet. we tryed for a ... (195 words

How do I know if I've climaxed?

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7 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys I'm 13 and i masturbate a lot but I'm not sure if i have had a orgasm yet. i cant ask my mum because she doesn't know that i masturbate anyways. can someone help me?... (37 words

Why is this girl such a bully to me?

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - basically this girl who is also my friend keeps debating with me on every single issue i say and will always take the opposite side. she keeps hitting and poking me even when i tell her to stop. and takes my stuff and puts it in her jeans pocket when i try to get it back so i ... (108 words

She's so elusive! I want to communicate

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - well I have been dating this girl for a year now. and i really do love her but we lost our communication skills with each other among other things too. my main issue is that she goes away for school and is so happy out there with her friends, and just has such more and be... (229 words

Our date's tomorrow and I don't know what's happening!

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Alright, so I asked this girl out about a week ago and our date is coming up. We've been talking all week at school and through texting a lot. She really seemed like she liked me. Then, two days ago I texted her saying "hey". She didn't respond. She's responded to eve... (242 words

Should I just leave my boyfriend and be alone and stop the emotional affair I'm having?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay here it goes. I have been in a relationship for about 2 years now. We live together and sometimes I think we moved 2 fast. I meet this other guy through some friends and we have been talking a lot. I have been having an emotional affair. I don't even like this guy that ... (133 words

I broke up with her and now feel I might have made a big mistake!

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7 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello everyone - i guess we are all here with our own problems and dilemmas. I wish that everyone will overcome their hard feelings but we all know that it is impossible for all to do so. Anyhow we are here to help each other - and writing is a great way to heal. Well I am... (548 words

Stressing that I can't get pregnant?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are dying to have kids although we'd like to wait until we're married first. Although if we were to have a child now we'd be over the moon. We haven't been using condoms and he came inside me 6 times last month over my "high fertility" time however my period ... (112 words

Flirting for 6 months but he likes someone else?

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7 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - the guy i like has flirted with me for about 6 months but recently i heard that he likes another girl but he still flirts with me, does he like me or not?... (33 words

Confused about him playing with my hair and snogging

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello a quick question about a guy ive been sort of seeing OK yeah ive been sleeping with him, yeah in kindof falling for him But the one big question-- when i pick him up 2 give him lift home,we always end up snogging, with him playing with my hair but not full on se... (111 words

Am I over reacting or is it normal for guys to just text you back when ever they feel like it?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Am i over reacting? or is this just generally how men/guys/lads are? i jsut dont understand i have a friend who appears to have feelings for me and i do him, i wont go into deatil but hes very shy and so am i, we havent had the best past and its got to the point that when ... (255 words

Friend says the girl is just not worth my time

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey y'all. I've got an important question. When I suspect the female I talk 2 now may have strong feelings for me and she tells me she doesn't knw if she wnts a relationship now. Well I'm fine with that 6ut when I have strong feelings as well n our mutual friend tells me I ... (72 words

Husband accused me of cheating but I haven't

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Well I have a problem and need some advice. My husband and I have been together 5 years And have 2 kids. Well he accused me of cheating on him yesterday while I was at work and I have never honestly even had thoughts about it it took a comment out of anothers guys mouth and ... (133 words

Is my co-working seeing me only because I'm convenient?

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7 May 2010 (F age - A male co-worker of mine (a good looking, fun loving, church going, very nice guy) was having major issues with his marriage. His wife had become a hypochondriac, never wanted to do much of anything, and was basically boring. He had brought his mother to live with them (his ... (687 words

My husband will not have sex with me

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7 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is difficult for me to accept because I have always consider myself a hot person, very confident, and very comfortable with my physique, but in the past year my confidence level has gone done a notch. I'm married and I am sexual and I want sex a lot, but my husband n... (282 words

Why do people in happy relationships cheat?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - A close friend of mine recently confessed in secret he is cheating on his fiancee. However, he's been in a loving, committed relationship with her for 7 years...so I want to know why it is that people in happy relationships cheat?... (41 words

How do I stop my feelings for this off-limits guy?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've known this guy for years and we never used to talk. About 3 months ago, we started getting on really well and are now friends. Recently I've started to develop feelings for him. However, he's in his twenties and engaged - I know his fiancee and she's so nice, and I've been ... (85 words

I want to pledge the Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, but my teacher is talking it down!

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7 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm High School and I have really big dreams about college. I want to be an English teacher, and I want to pledge and become a member of the Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority. I have very strong feelings about becoming an AKA, but I have a teacher that is a Delta and she talks down on ... (156 words

What is the legal age to move out in Manitoba?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I would like to know what the legal age is to move out in Manitoba? I've looked online and found a couple different answers. ... (24 words

Is there hope for this relationship? If so, what can I do?

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7 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I apologize for this long message, but I am looking for some insight and would appreciate your help. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We lived in he same city for 5 months and then I had to move away for school. We are both in out early to mid-thi... (851 words

After six months there is no passion in my marriage

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - We are married for 6months. I no more find my husband passionate to me. These days he hardly speaks. Its happening from a month. Once I saw him watching some gals pics who were showing up their body. I felt disgusted. As life should move on I soothed my self that its common but ... (139 words

I'm sooo in love with him and want to seduce him but he ignores me!

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7 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey ^^ i've got more then one question actually: 1-there is this boy who asked for my msn and i gave it to him and then we kept talking and he wanted me to be his girlfriend but i refused but it was ok we were still friends and everything was good between us, and then he... (183 words

We've admitted we like each other. Now what?

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7 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - me and this lad have known eachother for years but recently we have been talking and we clicked imediantly. we get on really well and we both have told eachother that we like eachother but the thing is him and my sister are like best friends. also im 13 and hes 15 and i don... (79 words

Do you think these dreams mean I want to introduce my girlfriend as my girlfriend?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well Im bisexual and Im in a relationship with a wonderfull girl. Lately Ive been having dreams of male characters from my favourite shows and movies. In each dream Im with part of my family, and in one case I was to afraid to ask this character to sleep with me, but the othe... (102 words

I can't stop masturbating!

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - i carnt stop masturbating! i do it all the time every day. i dont know what to do to get my mind off sex and masturbation... (27 words

Do I forget about my fantasy of my wife having sex with another man?

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7 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - i have been married 3years, and from past 2years i m having a strange fantasy of watching my wife having sex with other man. my wife has sometimes flirted with other man in-front of me to support this idea.... but this growing with time. i love her, but still i m always having ... (79 words

Should I ask out the guy I flirt with at work?

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7 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - There's a guy at my part-time job that I flirt with a lot. He flirts back (a tickle here or joke there). We swapped numbers after I asked him if he wanted to grab a bite to eat after work (we didn't get a chance to go out but he said yes). We text sometimes and had a nice ... (220 words

What can I write in my boyfriend's sister's card for her 5th birthday?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I have bought my boyfriends sister a birthday card for her 5th birthdaii and i'm not sure what to write in it. Obviously her parents are going to see it so it needs to sound nice, friendly and wishfull.. Any ideas on what to write? Her name is Sidonie btw... (63 words

It took me about a year to see how really lazy my husband is! Is it worth saving?

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I don't know what to do anymore. I have tried several times and several ways to get my husband to understand that he needs to do more than just exist. I started by having a talk with him about how unhappy I was with how things were with us. He never wants to talk to me unles... (750 words

I look into my family life and it just gives me misery

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7 May 2010 (F age - Hello,I feel really sad about my marriage.My husband is not intimate with me,and my grown kids have very messed life's. They are the result of an absent father. Who dedicated his whole life for his work. He is never making me feel pretty . And I do take care of myself. He is ... (202 words

He says he needs to be with his friends but then texts me saying he's bored!

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - every few weekends my boyfriend will go out clubbing/hang out with his friends and he will text me halfway through the night asking to see me and that he wants to hang with me. he tells me he needs to see his friends but why does he text me asking to see me telling how boring ... (58 words

2 days late for my period

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am 2 days late for my period, I have taken 3 pregncey test and they have all come out negative, I'm worried and wounding what I should do plz help me... (32 words

He's lying, playing games and I don't want to play!

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7 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - i was seeing someone i really liked for about three weeks, i felt something was not right in relationship, i started to feel insecure, and he told me he had no job, rubbish car and said he was not ready for a relationship, we sorted this out and he finally got a job. anyw... (447 words

How do I get my girlfriend to start taking care of herself and looking better?

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7 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - How do I get my girlfriend to start dressing better w/o me spending all my own money shopping for her? Also, she for some reason thinks it's ok to not paint her finger/toe nails or properly fix her hair anymore(she used to). How do I tell her these things? I'm finding her less ... (58 words

How can I stop arguing with my boyfriend????

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a year now, and we are always arguing all the time and i don't know what to do. he feels like i get mad at him for everything he does but i'm not doing it on purpose. he says me getting mad at him all the time makes him ... (218 words

A marriage counselor wouldn't Fix this...

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7 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm 28 Years old and I've been Married since Jan 09. I have been with my husband on and off for about 5 Years. We have a 2 year old little girl together. My problem is My husband doesn't seem to Care anymore about my feelings, I have to beg him for Sex and he just tells me... (305 words

I feel embaressed of my new date..

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7 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone!! I have a question. I am a young looking 41 yrd old female who met a guy off an dating site last week. He was shorter than he stated in his profile, his teeth were more 'sticky outty' than in the photos, and he had this kind of 'swagger' and wide boy,' man about ... (351 words

Can ex's really be friends?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I cut all contact when my ex boyfriend broke up with me for reasons only known to him, but he asked me when I was ready to contact him because above all our friendship was the most important thing to him. I feel ready to talk to him again, I miss the friendship. So I... (219 words

Six months ago she said she would wait for me, so how come she hung up?

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey everyone..I know this is a bit long..but plz read the WHOLE THING and help me out with this mess tht im in..:( Its been almost 6 months since i broke up with my gf!(she was my first and i wanted her to be my last too)we were together for 2 years and 2 months to be exact!i ... (594 words

I am confused by my friend

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7 May 2010 (M age - I am separated from my wife of 20 years, my marriage is over. My wife is seeing other men now. I have this female friend who has been my friend since grammar school. We meet for coffee dates once in a while. She still maintains an old friendship with another classmate of ours ... (279 words

How can I find out if he wants to commit?

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7 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am in a relationship...he says he loves me...he says he wants me...but i dont see he wants to commit him self...how can i find out if he really wants me ?... (32 words

I need to deal with my girlfriend's baggage

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7 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I am in my mid twenties and am in a relationship for about 4 months so far. Some history on my girl. My girlfriend is really pretty and treats me alright. However, she has many emotional issues, which affect our relationship. Firstly, she was adopted and thus feels u... (879 words

We moved too fast, but I want us to get back together again

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7 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - A few months ago I started seeing a guy who I have since really fallen for and would go as far as saying Im in love with him. Right at the start when we started going out he did say to me that he wasnt really looking for anything serious at that time and I said thats cool ... (243 words

I just want it to end with me having a little self respect

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I cant live with what I keep doing with this guy. I know he isn't interested in dating me and just sees me a cheap thrill but everytime he hits on me I give in and we end up kissing and doing oral sex (never sex)and a day or 2 after it I feel bad, he says it's good and there ... (256 words

I have never heard this about the pill before

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7 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - Question about my new girlfriend. We have just started seeing each other and I really like her, we have started getting intimate but she pulled away the other night and said we need to be careful because she has just come off the pill, when I asked why, she said the doctor ... (118 words

Can Love exist without trust?

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7 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - Is it possible to love without trust,because my gf doesnt trust me but she says she love me,i dnt believe what she tells me.The reason she doesnt trust me is that am a naturally born social person of all class,if i may ask again could love exist without trust ?... (50 words

I am not sure if he is testing me or trying to control

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7 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi would be grateful for any advice. I met a guy a few weeks ago and he told me straight away that he really likes me and i feel the same. he sees to be testing me non stop in various and perculiar ways and i think he could have been hurt in the past but so have i. when i was ... (287 words

My boyfriend is being distant

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Moderator's Note: Two questions from the same person have been combined. One minute my boyfriend was acting loving, affectionate and being really kind towards me as he has been for ages, now suddenly he is now distant? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years... (302 words

I felt his birthday present to me was a bit tacky

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7 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - Iv been seeing my boyfriend for over a year and im questioning on how he really feels about me? When we email he does say he loves me but finds it a bit awkward to say !i love you" when we are together and i usually have to say it 1st.Thats not the real problem though.On ... (172 words

My LDR girlfriend has changed her tune

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - This might be long..Hi guys. I started dating my online girlfriend last year in November. We live quite far from each other so meeting has not been possible and we had agreed to do it when it's affordable for one of us. Our relationship was awesome for the first four months, we ... (419 words

He says he doesn't want a relationship but still wants to kiss and all that

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well I sorta have a problem.... I really like this guy. And he says he is attracted to Me just does not want a relation ship right now. But he wants to act the same way he has been. Like kissin and all that with Me.... Idk what I should do.? Keep waitin for somethin that might ... (85 words

How do I shake this feeling of being dirty?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months and we are absolutely besotted with each other. When we first met, he only worked weekends, and soon after we were together, he lost his job. Despite having a very hard time, we had regular sex. He often initiated ... (262 words

Why won't he let me finish him off?

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - During sex everythings great and right before he cums he pulls out and jerks off! Why? Has anyone ever had this happen? ... (22 words

How would I take this relationship further?

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - FIVE MONTHS BCK!!! I met this guy on a house party arranged by my best friend and that first meeting with him was quite a thing to remember for the rest of my life! He was extremely courteous and chivalrous to me n my girlfriend till he got drunk... The moment he got dizzy,... (484 words

What are the 'signs"?

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi Readers. This may seem like a stupid question, but I'm really interested in getting other peoples views on it. My story: I'm attracted to a really wonderful woman, and I'm finding it very hard to read the possible signs that she is giving me. Since I met her, we... (165 words

He told me he loved me, then later that day dumped me by text.

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - so yesterday was my bf and i's one month I know it's not that big of a deal but he broke up with me on that day to. I'm his first g first kiss first everything and he told me earlier that day he loved me and want gonna leave me till a long time and he loved the idea of us being ... (119 words

Should I tell my boyfriend I cheated on him?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend applied for a job across sea's before he met me and left for it 3 months into our relationship, since then we have seen each other as much as possible (as money, university and other commitments allow). We have been coping well and dealing with it as best as we ... (149 words

Last week he did not care, ...this week his is lovey dovey! Why?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - been with my partner for over a year, we are happy together and have alot to look forward to with a baby on the way. for a few weeks he has been snappy, moody and i felt like he didn't care anymore. and now he has found out alot of boys fancy me, and it has made him go all ... (134 words

I'm not enjoying sex but I really want to!

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am new to having sex but am in a relationship and we've been sleeping together often. I can't orgasm and it bothers me. I've never orgasmed with a partner, only by my own hand. My sex drive is high. I want him all the time and we can have sex several times in a day. But I ... (315 words

Left me to go back to his baby mama, will he come back?

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have just been seeing someone and he has just left me to go back to his ex girlfreind who has just giving birth to his child he said he loves me know i feel like my whole life is runined and i just want to know if he will ever come back to me he said that he want to be apart ... (67 words

Into him and want him to know!

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was a shy girl in highschool; i had my small group of friends and never dated (I always used to, and still do, assume I'm not most guys "type"). Up until i was 17, i'd never even kissed a guy! Needless to say, I'm no good at reading the "signs" guys put off when they like ... (374 words

Mother accusing me of having sex! Should I just have it since she thinks I am anyways?

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7 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well I'm 15 years old and my mother continues to accuse me of having sex. She is really paranoid because she had me at such a young age. The more she accuses me, the more I feel like I should just do it because she thinks I'm doing it. I really just wish that she would trust ... (130 words

How to Kiss A Taller Guy

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7 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm still in high school and i have a new boyfriend. The problem is that he is 6feet tall and I'm 5'3. He hasn't had his first kiss yet and I can't reach him so I'm not sure how to get him to kiss me. :(... (46 words

I married for the wrong reasons and now feel I am missing out on life.

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid I am very depressed with my life. I am young, married for almost 2 years and I have a child with my husband. I feel like I am missing out on my life and finding my true love. I am no longer attracted to my husband. I realize I married him for the wrong reasons. ... (150 words

Why is my ex ignoring me?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - When my ex and i broke up we kinda remained friends (just occasionally talking not hanging out). one day we decided to see each other and we hooked up. he said he still has feelings for me always has always will and i said i have feelings too. since when we were sorta seeing ... (191 words

Bisexual feelings interferring with committed relationship!

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7 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - ive been w/ my gf for 6 months. i really love her and seriously think she could be the one im w/ for life but about a week ago i realized im bi or at least bicuriuos. i told her and shes totally ok w/ it but since im in a commited relatioship i cant really do anything about my ... (114 words

My fiance wants me to send him dirty pictures.

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm engaged, and I've never been in such a serious relationship. He wants me to be creative and send him dirty pictures. What should i send him?... (27 words

I hate living at home with my alcoholic mother and harsh father!

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey there, i have so many problems right now i dont know how to handdle them all im about to expload!, ok well first off, im 17 and hate living at home, yea im sure every 17 year old says that but im not even kidding i dont think i need to live at home anymore i mean when i am ... (226 words

Does not taking the pill at the right time increase risk of pregnancy?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am on the pill but stuffed up taking it at the right time last week, i am in a relationship and we have recently had unprotected sex. can not taking my pill correctly for those days risk a chance at me getting pregnant... (44 words

Is it possible to have periods whilst pregnant?

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7 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - if i get my period, is it possible to still be pregnant?... (12 words

Do you think he has met someone else and that is why he has not called?

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Met a guy online about a month ago and we hit it off immediately. Had our first two dates in the same week and then went hiking on our third. During the hike he mentioned that he was going to his parents house after it for dinner so we couldn't do anything fun afterward but he ... (259 words

Why is my girlfriend distancing herself from me? Is she up to something behind my back?

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend is constantly distancing herself from me.... it never used to be this way. she used to text or calls me all the time then all the sudden its like four texts or one call a day.... we used to be pretty close then all this stuff happened. other stuff that she does is ... (337 words

I need advice for a first date.

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Got a question I got a question I'm going on my first date on may 29th basicly I'm going to take my date to a japenese steakhouse and see a movie possibly also to a amusment park and I get my contacts next week and will buy a hollister outfit My plan will take her... (108 words

He treats me like a princess, ...so why do I still feel like I am not that important to him?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy online about 4 weeks ago, we talked for about a few days before finally meeting up, the first date was a blast and after that, we set up for a second date but were both too busy so we just got together and study. And for the next few days, we pretty much meet up ... (586 words

Should I be worried about her history of casual sex?

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7 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months now. I met her at my previous office. She is drop dead gorgeous and were both 23. She started flirting with me about 3 years ago and invited me to her birthday party. I went around being the only odd one out as she is ... (1019 words

Two sides to this guy. Who should I believe?

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - *OP's own title* I actually asked a question about the same guy about a week ago. But now, I'm singling out my main concern. Is he a womanizer? Yeah, yeah. I know, we've been through this. But not in great detail. I want/need to know before I fall hard for him. I don't want to... (441 words

Are these signs that she wants to go further?

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - When I kiss my girls friend and suck are her neck she has a kinda moans. Also she says stuff like "how am I so lucky to have you" and "that feels so good" kinda like a porn video. Does this means she wants to go further and do more or no. I'm kinda shy on asking things so I ... (67 words

Advice for my friend: She's being abused!

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - *OP's own title* Ok, I've asked for help before for my one friend's situation... but this is 10x more serious! She and I both need your help with some good advice! Y'see my friend is growing up with HORRIBLE parents. Ever seen the movie Matilda? Yeah, imagine my friend as th... (400 words

Five years, a baby on the way, and he still wont marry me.

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I am in a very tough situation. I love my boyfriend with all my heart. We are both 19 and have been together since we were 15 (almost 5 years). We recently went away to seperate colleges, he has a full ride football scholarship, but i moved back home due to ... (256 words

I feel so ugly.

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with the guy I love a couple of weeks ago, well technically he broke up with me, but I was the one that didn't take him back when he asked me to (he didn't respect a boundary: we had agreed that if we broke up once again, it'd be over for good, no more ... (441 words

My family forced me to have an abortion, ...and now I think I am pregnant again!

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - On March 27, 2010 I was forced to have an abortion by my mom and grandmom.They knew i didnt want an abortion, so they cut had made me stop going to school,cut off my phone, and took my laptop so that I could have any contact with any one who was supporting me through my ... (171 words

Girl I liked just got dumped. What should I say to her?

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - *OP's own title* Ok, theres this girl i liked for almost 2 years. I didnt know who she was frshman year but now i do from this year since she was in one of my clsses. What i didnt know that during the summer she got a boyfriend. So they been going out for a year somewhat a long... (162 words

Oral Sex Questions

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7 May 2010 (M age 51-59 - Did you give oral sex to your first girlfriend/boyfriend? Were you their first girlfriend/boyfriend? Did they return the favor? How old were the both of you?... (26 words

The ex, missing him, and him wanting to borrow money

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7 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - 2 posts combined.... I broke up with my boyfriend because i felt he was not affectionate enough but he was trying the best he knew how...... But i pushed him away and always accused him of cheating he was so distant with me after we broke up so i gave him a month without ... (201 words

I'm having very strong urges to have an affair..would like to hear from others who have been there..done that

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7 May 2010 (M age 51-59 - I am a 44 year old male. Married for 15 years. I'll get right to the point: my marriage is having big problems right now and I am at a crossroads. I have never cheated before. But I have never felt the way I do now. I am visiting depths of emotion I did not know I had, and ... (214 words

Why does he shut me out when things arent working out for him?

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - The guy im dating shuts me out when things arent going well for him.Last fri we had a great night and he seemed so happy(normally we hang at his place but this time we hung out at mine and he had never been).He hates living w/ his bro, they have a bad relationship.(Our ... (385 words

Worry over the guy I am seeing spending the weekend with his ex.

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7 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have been friends with this guy for about a year now,at first when i met him he had a girlfriend he lives in ohio in she lives in ga they had been dating for 4 yrs through college. through there time of dating they usually argue allot becasue she is this rich successful girl ... (270 words

My father makes creepy jokes and I would like them to stop!

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7 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Sometimes my dad talks about having anal intercourse with the family dog. This creeps me out and my mother never says anything about it. I'm pretty sure he's joking, but still... How can I make him stop? Thanks, Marty Z.... (47 words

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