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writes: I'm in my first year at uni, and at one of the societies I got talking to a guy who's three years older than me. Since there are so many people I don't always get to talk to him, and when I do it's very very rarely just the two of us, but when I do we get on well. Over the past few months I've been thinking about him as more than just a friend, but I don't know if he sees me in that way, and I'm scared to say something in case he doesn't. In any case, I wouldn't know what to say, or how to say it. I'm too embarrassed about it to tell any of our mutual friends, plus again I don't know how to bring it up. Could someone please advise me as to what I should do? I don't want to spend the summer break away from him without telling him how I feel, but I've not the foggiest as to how. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2010): When you next get a chance to chat to him, tell him that you would love to have a cup of coffee with him - and be able to chat without interruptions!
Give him your mobile number and then wait and see....
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (25 May 2010):
 One thing you could do is to catch him on a day just before the summer and tell him that you're going to be really busy over the summer but would he like to meet up for a coffee if you can grab 10 minutes over that time?
Just ask him casually, no pressure. You don't have to drop the bombshell on him and make it into something huge.
If he is interested in you, he will accept your coffee date - give him your number or facebook and play it cool.
If he doesn't respond to your offer to meet up over summer, try not to take it to heart but be assured that you still have a friend to come back to after the break.
Good luck!
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