His ex can't let go and its making me insecure

A female age 51-59, *herimarie writes:

Ive been dating a man now for almost 7 months, we both have admitted to falling in love with one another...my problem is he was married before me for 10 yrs. and has been divorced for 3 yrs. already. Im having a hard time with a situation that keeps rearing its ugly head. My bf's ex calls him or text him everyday about something...they do have children together, and he has admitted to me that she still loves him and wants him back. He has told me that the only reason they keep in contact with eachother so much is because of the kids and he doesnt want to get on her bad side because she will screw him and ask for more money...so he feels hes forced to be nice to her. My bf and his ex go to dinner together, and spend time doing things with the kids; which i can understand, since the kids are only 10 and 12... I feel alittle insecure of our relationship only because she gets him so upset and he cant let it go. Is it true that when someone makes you the angriest...that this is the one you truely love and want to be with?

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