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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Hubby’s neglect driving me towards another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am in some confussion..... i had a fight with my husband ..NO ...lets say it... he again talked with me very rudely and when i stopped talking and ignored it... he got angry that i am upset...yes i was upset ... i cant smile if someone talk to me badly....when i am tr... (1092 words)

How much should one sacrfice for a pet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm at my wits end and would greatly appreciate some input and opinions. My partner and I have been living together for 3 years, he is an absolutely wonderful boyfriend. Problem is he has a 12yr old epileptic dog, who has grand-mal seizures approximately every 6 ... (721 words)

I'm worried that my boy friend is having the same relationship over again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm worried that my boy friend is having the same relationship over again. by boyfriend is a few years older than me, and a little more experienced in the dating world. I know I'm the youngest person he's dated, too. he's my first out of high school relationship, and ha... (228 words)

She asked him if he would be hers when he came home! MY boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a college student and i put away all my fears and decided to trust my boyfriend, but recently while he was on face-book he began talking to this girl from his neighborhood,i was in his arms while he was talking to her, she started telling him how much she wants him when he ... (128 words)

I thought a party would make me feel better about not having a boyfriend. And I'm not getting on with my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, when my grans was on holidays i had a prty and nw i regret it mega. she came home today and found lots of this wrong and im just waiting for it to kick off. anyways i had i have been feeling depressed and and just want a boyfriend i though this party would help me realise ... (227 words)

Men and women can be just friends, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married, have been for 15 years, and have a great male friend. My best friend and her husband have been married 10 years. In the beginning I was solely her friend, but over the years her husband and I have grown very close. We talk/ text almost daily, go to lunch ... (306 words)

I am bi and have a homophobic family! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, iam 14 yes old and am bi and I have a really homophobic family and I have not told them. How should I tell them? ... (26 words)

My girlfriend's best friend is driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - OK so my gf's best friend is driving me absolutely insane... she is extremely rude to me and insulting even after im always really nice to her. I tell my gf that her friend does this, she even does it in front of her, and she just tells her to stop... and her friend doesnt. She ... (351 words)

She's mad -- what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Heres a convo Me : heyyy :P how did the testing go? Her : It was easier than the first partt Me : Ohh that's goo to hearr lol. Think you failed or passed? :O Her : Hopefullyy passed! Me : Failureee :P Her : Gee thankss Me : I'm only kidding. Oh y... (563 words)

Recently she seems confused and conflicted and her love is not entirely toward me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for seven years and everything has been fine, we have been talking about getting engaged and getting married within the next few years. Recently she has been acting totally different, she seems confused, conflicted and her love does not seem to be ... (333 words)

Girlfriend cheated now I'm wanting her back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - "OPs own title" So i have been with my girlfriend for 1 yr 6 months. I honestly thought she was the one, she took me for who i was and put up with my weirdness most the time. We could tell each other anything without judgment. We where very sexually compatible and it seemed ... (641 words)

Could a relationship like this work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 4 yrs broke up with me and left me pregnant with our 2 kids and me being pregnant again. He is now seein a girl that is known from being in the same gang. But she is also a girl that gets with everyone(even having sex) in the hood.Could two people that gang bang ... (106 words)

"I feel second best to my boyfriend's female friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend started going out he was texting a girl everyday which i didnt know about. He used to text her everyday before he got with me anyway because they were good friends but he used to really like her and even asked her out before and she said no. big group ... (201 words)

"I'm terrified of dying and leaving my wife"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I'm not sure if anybody can really help me but I need it. I broke up from a bad relationship around 4 years ago. It was so bad that I spent the next four months on a downward spiral. I drank every night but what's worse is that I started using cocaine. I used ... (376 words)

Complicated situation would love find its way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering Does everyone accept that the "if you love something set it free" principle is a universal one? Are there any examples of love finding its way through a complicated situation beyond the partie's control? Is one supposed to fight and change things or shoul... (96 words)

I'm confused by my new boyfriend's penis because I think it's not hard enough!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Am confused about my new boyfriend's penis coz I think it's not hard enough. We haven't had any penetration sex yet but have had oral sex and what worries me is that the hardest he's been is far lower than my ex boyfriends. I know that with the two men I dated before, th... (201 words)

What should I do for date number 2?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I've posted here alot about my ex gf, our breakup, and me coping. Well.... its amazing how things can change so quickly. I finally told myself to move on, and leave the ex alone, and surprise! I met someone. We went to a wine bar, had a few glasses, and then back to my ... (181 words)

Why is my ex going out of his way to be mean to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had been with my ex for about a year. We broke up once but he came crawling back after two weeks. Well he just broke up with me again about three weeks ago. We live together and he said that we can both still live there just have separate rooms. At first he said that we ... (153 words)

I don't think he is sexually satisfied by me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age - I am a 50 year old woman. I have been divorced for a few years and have recently moved in with a man. He is in his late 50's. The relationship is one of the most sane, peaceful ones I've ever had. My problem is this, I am becoming more aware that perhaps he is not sexually ... (141 words)

Is masturbating dangerous at 14?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 14 years old.i'm extremely excited about sex and i do masterbating by watching porn videos through the web. what i'm worried is that is masterbating good for health?.will it effect me in anyways?... (36 words)

I love her too much to let her go!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - As suggested by a previous reader, i told the girl i have a crush on about my feelings for her. But she said that she does not feel the same about me. Now i am in a real dilemma. I love her too much to let her go. Please tell me what i can do to win her heart?... (59 words)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our realtionship..but after it ended... (725 words)

I'm confused...could this have been a miscarriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship for just over 7 months now. Me and my boyfriend started haveing a sexual relationship after around 2 months and i have recently been put on the pill. while haveing been on the pill for a week One day after haveing sex my boyfriend took of the ... (166 words)

Are we doing the right thing by temporarily being apart? Or should I call it quits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry if this ends up being long. So, I've been in an ongoing issue for the past month or so. My boyfriend cheated on me(more info on past post). We did discuss it over and over and over again. He felt like a complete dill hole(which he should have). He was crying and telling ... (311 words)

Whenever we have sex, it ends up hurting her physically. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i have been having quite a problem. I've been having quite a problem with my penis. I've been with alot of Girls but i never have properly had sex with them because my penis is too big and every time i have tried with a girl, i mean some are very experianced if you know what ... (190 words)

Will he break up with me if we don't have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi aunties and uncles. my bf wants to have sex with me. we have been going out for a year now. i don't want to because I am too young - plus there is a chance I could get pregnant, so I said no to him. BUT, he keeps touching me and kissing me and makes me want to but I really ... (134 words)

Are we wrong to want to be together?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i fell in love with my boyfriends best friend a year ago and we've had a secret relationship ever since i ended up getting pregnant and i know hes the father not my boyfriend i feel massively guilty but i don't think i should! I moved a 1000 miles from my family for him he ... (130 words)

What was he thinking? I feel as though I was swept up in a whirlwind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 34 and I met a guy who is 25, he pursued me from the beginning. We dated a little bit but nothing serious, he would call and text everyday but I just got out of a relationship and I don't really call or text guys that's just how I am. So with having the baggage of my pr... (324 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that I kissed another guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, I'm in this relationship with this guy, and there was rumours he kissed this girl at a party etc, this was about a month ago, he assured me it was just a peck, although another person said different but majority said the same story. i like him a lot, and new i could get ... (198 words)

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am freaking out I got my period twice this month, I'm soppouse to be taking birth control but I'm not I only took one pill and that's it. So my first period started on may the 3rd ended on the 7th then again on may the 16th and ended last night (19th). From day 8th to the ... (135 words)

Does he really want to move on, or is there more to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dated this guy for about 8 months.. we did everything together BUT our relationship was a little complicated cos we are from different races. My family knew him but his didn't know me. He suddenly broke up with me 2 months ago but he still calls me as much as he did wen we w... (133 words)

This has made me question my sexual preferences!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm in a bit of a dilemma, i'm 17 years old and female and i can't stop obsessing over this thing that happened. Well one day i went over to my friends house like just to see how she was cus she had been ill the past couple of days. As i went in her mum told me she was ... (252 words)

Does she actually love me, and only dumped me because of what she was going through?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - okay. this might take a while. soooo. i been with this girl for a year. we have been on and off not down to me. the first time she dumped me she gave me no real answers as to why, it took a while to get back together and then we did and everything was perfect. she sudd... (303 words)

Why do a lot of older people think that teenagers don't know what true love is?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i was wondering why do not all, but alot of older people think that teenagers dont know what true love is? and that it wont work out in the end? Because my boyfriend asked me to marry him, I said yes. I am 17 and my boyfriend is about 7 months older then me. Im in my last ... (206 words)

Am I over reacting to my friends sms message?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I over reacting by being annoyed and upset that my "friend" sent me this sms? "i think of you and your daughter every single day. More than once a day. I guess I can't wait for a baby of my own. I would be honored to be something more in your life like your child's god... (177 words)

Love triangle, no, a love rectangle. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i just not to recently got dumped, then after the guy asked me to get back together an i said no, but then i started to miss him so i asked to get back together an he had already started to move on, i didnt want him i just didnt want to be alone coz thats all i ever feel, ... (151 words)

He stopped before he came but the condom still had some white stuff in it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well im really worried.. Me and my noyfriend had sex for the second time ever a day ago. and i told him to stop before he came. we did but when we look at the condom it already had white stuff in it. and it was all near the shaft inside the condom. Is that normal? has that ... (133 words)

Is she still having sex with her separated husband too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 8 months. She has been in a marriage separation for 4 months. Yes, we were dating before she separtated. She was in an abusive relationship. There are children involved and that makes it complicated. She says that she wants ... (173 words)

He wants me to do sexual things and I don't want to.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend found out that i have had sexual activities in the past, and he wants me to do sexual things with him. I don't want to, but I feel bad not doing anything because I know he reallyy wants it! I feel horny at times, but when it actually comes to the time of us doing ... (79 words)

He broke up with me because I went crazy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - To whom it may concern One month ago, my boyfriend broke up with me, the reason why for him was: I went too crazy. He wouldn't listen to me. Before the break-up, He was very busy lately, no time for me, He tried making time for me but when we were together he was on the phone... (1605 words)

Always fighting, how can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4yrs we have 2 kids r relationship started badly we've always fighted hes constantly lying to me or he'll get mad and leave n I wont know where hes at n he usually comes home drunk.n than about 2 weeks after I had my daughter I found a ... (254 words)

Do you think she is testing me to see how far will I go to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Question of the day !!! Ok my ex girlfriend and i were together for 5 years and we broke up 6 months back. WE have a 1 years old son together. I want to make things work and get her back. I have cheated on her before because of my own insecurities which led to us drifting ... (179 words)

Will this change his mind after a huge argument...?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time. He's in the Army and currently training out of the state (AIT). The past two weeks have been extremely hard on him due to the fact that the training just got tougher. So, I'm not surprised if most of our text ... (582 words)

Do I have a right to ask my boyfriend to remove certain girls off his facebook friends list?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do I have a right to ask my boyfriend to remove certain girls off his facebook friends list? A long time ago I broke up with him and he ended up sleeping with someone shortly after. He says it meant nothing and we've worked through this. I trust him completely and I... (143 words)

Is my girlfriend just using me for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my gf and i have been together 2yrs. im the lst female she has ever dated. she says she is in love with me but when we have sex she wont pleasure me and i always pleasure her. she wont even use a toy on me. is she just using me for sex or does she really love me?... (59 words)

If my boyfriend likes anal does this mean he might be gay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my bf for about 8 months and he is super sweet. A few nights ago while we were just cuddling watching a movie out of new where he ask me if I would try anal sex , he has done it before with his ex gf and said he really liked it. I am not sure if I want to try ... (112 words)

I'm not feeling very secure in my relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupid Me and my bf are dating for the past 4 months and we were close friends for nearly an year. Few weeks before he dumped me out of blue, when i asked him for the reason he said he moved on and never attended any of the calls or replied for any of the texts. After a w... (220 words)

How can I help him through his family problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 20. He grew up with his mother, a heroin addict, until he was 9, in very unstable conditions. His father would visit him (although they moved around a lot so it was hard for them to keep in touch - his mum and dad were never a couple). Then he went ... (381 words)

Why does my male friend claim we are "good friends" but wont ever treat me like our other friends? I'm sure there is an underlying reason behind his behaviour.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i hope you can help me here. A friend of mine...hes a guy we;ve known each other a few years. He says to people he wants to be good friends with me, hes said to me before we're great friends, he'll never fall out with me and he loves me as a friend etc. I ask....why... (250 words)

My husband's family are putting me in a cage!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is in afganistan doing a dangerous job ! and ever since he has gone he and his family have put me on lock down, I cant go out for a drink with my neighbor, im not alowed to go and see my old best mate because shes a bad influence, i cant post what im thinking... (281 words)

How can I tell if he loves me when at times he can be sharing secrets with me and the next he is angry with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am doing job where my sir is very clsoed to me. he talking with me and share his persaonal serct. i am feel he is very closed to me but some time he is very angry to me. i dont know he is love me or not pls help me soon.... (52 words)

I love him but he doesn't know it! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am love someone but he did not know if i love him pls help me and answer soon. ... (23 words)

What can I do for my boyfriend on a tight budget to celebrate getting through a tough 6 months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to do something really awesome for my boyfriend but can't think what. We've had a rough 6 months or so and I feel like celebrating the fact that we're finally getting back to the couple we used to be (if not better!). I'm on a tight budget and work on week days, as do... (74 words)

Ache in my head and I can't move my body after finding out he's been cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have just discoverd that my hubby hav been cheating with a widow who is far more older than me i am 25.he never sleeps outside,but i started to worry two weeks ago, when he told me he was going to work on a saterday, he went the whole day and came home late. we fought and the ... (263 words)

I can't stand my boyfriend any more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... I live with my boyfriend. and i just cant stand him anymore. He smokes pot and he trys to force me to smoke and i hate that. Also he got mad because i didnt wanna smoke, i was watching t.v and he turned it off because he i didnt want to smoke. I also think he is an ... (127 words)

Am I right to be paranoid about my boyfriend staying over at his ex's house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend made out with a girl last summer and he is going to stay round her house this summer with a few friends. i am also going on a camp with him where i am going to meet her. thing is im kind of worried about both? how do i stop being paranoid, we've been together for ... (92 words)

Has he changed his mind about taking things further with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and we haven't really gone that far. he says he doesnt want to go to second base yet (fingering/handjob) yet for a while because he's not ready. when we made out a few days ago, he put his hands down the back of my pants whilst ... (67 words)

What should I do, move to the farm with him and be unhappy, or split up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, please help me! I've been living with my bf for over a year now, and we're very happy and very much in love. so far so good. We've been thinking of moving back to a city near his family and I wouldn't mind that, since I've lived in the city before and loved it. But my... (604 words)

Should a girl always breathe in a rythmic way or scream when she orgasms?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when a girl cums does she breathe in a rythimic way or screams?and is it a must for every girl to behave this way?and if she doesnt what should she do?... (31 words)

Are teen mom's really that common? And why do people always assume the worst?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This has nothing to do with relationships or sex or anything but I have to ask... Are teen mothers really that common? I'm fifteen and my little brother is turning four in a few weeks. I was 11 when he was born and I was all over him I always wanted to hold him and play wit... (159 words)

What should I do about my relationship with my dad? I feel sorry for him but I cant help but hate him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My father had a risky operation yesterday and when he called me afterwards I was genuinely disappointed that he had survived. I know this sounds truly horrible, but he is a bad person. My parents divorced when I was three after a very turbulent relationship, including times ... (360 words)

How can I stop myself from missing him so much and focus on my job for the next 4 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - we are a happily married couple for 10months now, my job has forced me to work on another country but its getting really heard everyday to cope with the idea of his absence he is encouraging me to work for sometime earn some capital, then go back home after 4 months but i f... (93 words)

I have feelings for both girls and boys, but I don't want to be gay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm 16 years old, and I'm gay. I don't want to be gay, because I want to have a life, where I get married to a beautiful woman, and have great kids, and be successful (I'd like to). Plus people who are gay are really frowned upon where I live, and you mostly hear abo... (361 words)

How to mend a broken heart.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupids, My partner of 1 1/2 years decided to end our relationship yesterday words cant even begin to express how heartbroken I am. I just don't understand why it ended and when I asked him he said he didn't know either. He keeps saying he feels differently about ev... (251 words)

My boyfriend wont tell his family about me because I am white, and now he is becoming distant from me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age - i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have some underline issues one is he ... (363 words)

I am sexually charged up and have no outlet! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Been married close to 3 years but we been best friends for almost 15 while having sex all throughout. Sex was never a problem before we got married and now it seems to be going south. Been to counseling and try different stuff. Now it now that i'm not getting any it's the ... (191 words)

She lies about talking to other guys - should I break up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend of 5 month's has been lieing to me about talking to guys and i dont know what to do. She treat's me very bad yelling at me for everything i do. Im absolutely in love with this girl and i dont know if i should break up wither or stay with her. She's lied to me ... (75 words)

Got fired because my ex married the boss

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Years ago I dated a woman for a little while and then we broke up. We were only together for a few months. We did not stay in contact. I had a job working for a small company for ten years. In all that time I have seen a lot of people come and go. I was there longer than ... (450 words)

Is there something wrong with how much time we spend together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

20 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How many times per week should you see your boyfriend/girlfriend when you're in a committed relationship? I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We spend weekends together and see each other once in the middle of the week...and sometimes an occassional Friday. I us... (161 words)

He goes out to clubs a lot -- is he cheating?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I asked this ? before I registered then decided to make a s/n si I'm asking again.... I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we DO NOT use condoms.. tonight I was looking in his wallet for a business card and I saw a ... (315 words)

My gangster ex left me for a hoodrat. Could a relationship work?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 yrs old. I have 2 kids ages 3 and 2. My exboyfriend is an active gangmember. Ive been with him since i was 15. Hes cheated on me several times n has been in in out of jail. Hes even been deported too. Ive delt with him 4 years think he would change, cuz he always told me ... (227 words)

Will he completely forget about me if I act like I don't care?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i still think about the guy i had been talking to for awhile every day and every night. i can't get him out of my head. he knows i'm head over heels for him and i'm pretty sure he uses it against me. so here's the thing, how do i act like i don't care at all. i want him ... (135 words)

Should I try and work things out with my heroin addict husband?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, im new to this, but here we go...... i am a mother to a beautiful little girl, i have a "husband" that i love. and a pretty good life.. i wish i could tell you my whole story, but ill try to sum it up to just the facts i guess. i am 25 and have been through some ... (646 words)

Breaking up and time outs

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20 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am hoping that someone can help me with this I have had in my life now for nearly 7 months. Recently I broke up with my beautiful partner in November and due to personal issues that he was having he said that he needed time to get himself sorted out, which is was not ... (264 words)

My boyfriend says I'm embarrasing!

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't dance. I don't drink. But I'm a girly-girl, I love to go out and have fun with my friends and him. Today I asked him how come you never take me clubbing?" we been together 2 years. He had the audacity to say to me "out of all the people I can take? Why would I take... (156 words)

How do I move forward when she keeps going back to her husband and kids?

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20 May 2010 (M)

age - I have been in a relationship for 4 yrs. My partner is divorced but i live with this constant threat of her going back to husband and kids. She has gone back once and come back. Now one child is not doing too well at school and she is depressed because she does not see him ... (95 words)

I could use some encouragement...

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old, I'm in grad school working on my doctorate...it's my second year. Outside of school I have no social life. During the school year, I'm distracted by everything so that I don't have time to dwell on the fact that most of the time, I spend alone at home. It's ... (397 words)

Are opposite communication styles a red flag?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my bf for 4 years. Everything is mostly good, but I feel like he's really bad at making me feel better when I'm stressed out, and actually makes it exponentially worse. Today, I mentioned an issue i've been having with my computer, but only in passing.... (738 words)

What is the truth to the meaning of my dream?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - last night i had a dream with a dear friend of mine who passed away several months ago, in the dream i went to look for him at some building because he hadnt been in contact me in several weeks so i was upset at him, i found him and became really mad at him and started to cry ... (140 words)

Should I ask him to hang out more?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well this might take a while.... Me and this kid first started talking when I got his number from my friend because she told me that he liked me. So it turned out he didn't at that point. So we just started talking and stuff. And he was obsessed and in love with my goo... (349 words)

How do I make this work without hurting my partner?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, and believe me when I say that he is the sweetest and kindest guy that I have ever met. And I love him so much. The problem is, that he sees us together getting married, and having kids, which is fine, ... (250 words)

I cheated on my wife. Really regret it!

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20 May 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My wife , Ria, is a beautiful caring. Wonderful women. A great wife and mother of our children.but .... Like an idiot , last month I went out to party while ria was here at home taking care of the kids like the great mother she is, I asked if she wanted to go with meh but she's ... (937 words)

Why was he embarrassed by the birthday gift I got him?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i was wondering if anyone out there could help me understand this. Why would a guy you have known for yrs and have a casual relationship with and are also good friends with. say to you that he was embarrassed by the birthday gift you gave him, even though he loved it and said... (189 words)

What was a condom doing in my boyfriend's wallet?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was snooping through my boyfriend of 2 years wallet (yes I know that's wrong but I was looking gore a business card he has) and I saw a condom in there. this kind of bothers me because its the kind of condoms we have put up in ... (171 words)

Why did he ask me out if he didn't want to go on a date?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I like finnally asked me out...not only am I confused on why he asked me out...I'm nervous. He said, "No dates yet!" Which doesn't make any sense... Why did he ask me out if he didnt want to go on a date? Help please?... (50 words)

Are we still Virgins?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive had sex with my guy, But he was using a condom every time we did it. I never got bleeding. Nor did he. So am I still a Virgin? and is he still a virgin? ... (44 words)

Will this lead into a relationship?

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - There this guy im in love with, his names victor. We never dated but we've knew each other since September. I told him I liked him and he didn't feel the same. Time passed and by feb he had fallen for me..he began to tell me he cares and we'd talk 24/7 texting. @ school he'd ... (387 words)

I'm afraid a date might be too awkward, please help!!

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20 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I have no idea what to do now. I got asked out by one of my previous boyfriends who i still had feelings for and i said yes. I've had two previous boyfriends but they only lasted not even a week. Just like my bf now our relationship only lasted like 5 days and we broke ... (217 words)