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writes:hello im 14 years old about to be 15 next week, and i think im pregnant i havent told anyone but my boyfriend and if i tell my parents they'd kill me,im just so scared and dont know what to do, i havent took a test yet but when i do and it comes out positive should i get an abortion, keep the baby or what?? and im scared if i keep the baby my boyfriend will leave me and if i get an abortion i will feel so horrible what should i do??? thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): talk to your boyfriend and come up with a plan! I suggest the two of you tell you parents together in a public place. tell them your plan too because they need to see that your mature enough to make choises yourself! whatever you do, dont get an abortion like I did because you will regret it!good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): I totally understand what youre going through! I was pregnant last year when I was 15 and my bf wanted me to get an abortion. I just couldnt do it! I decided to do an adoption. my baby lives with a really nice family and I get to see her twice a month! so, 1st of all take maybe 2 or3 pregnancy tests because theyre not 100% accurate. dont worry about your parents, its not as bad as youd think. lastly I think you need to decide if you want to raise it, but concider adoption before abortion!goodluck
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 First things first. Go to the drug store and buy a test. You only have to worry about the other stuff if it's positive.
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Have a pregnancy test to be sure if you are pregnant or not.
I am against in abortion so I cannot give you an advice to do so. If you are pregnant I would suggest you need to speak to your parents. Have the courage to open up with them with honesty. Yes, your parents will be very upset and will feel very angry but they will not forsake you. You just have to deal with the consequences of your actions. Parents know best for their children. Listen to them for your own benefit.
Take care of you, do the right thing. DOn't be afraid. BTW, if the result is negative, next time have some precautions.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (26 May 2010):
 You could also put the baby up for adoption, you don't have to keep it if you decide to have it. Why not make an appointment to talk to someone at planned parenthood? They can give great advice and help you pick the right thing for you. Also they are completely 100% confidential. I don't want to try to change your moral views or religious ones, but you have nothing to feel horrible about with an abortion. From women I've talked to, more seem to struggle emotionally with giving up a baby than having an abortion. Do some research about the procedure from credible scientific sources.
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reader, r_a_w_r1645 +, writes (26 May 2010):
 im 15 right now. i know if i got pregnant i would definitley keep the baby. so if you are, please keep it. abortion isnt right. secondly, if it comes out positive your gonna have to face the fact that your bf might leave you, it happens to a lot of teenage moms, if you ever watch 16 and pregnant some guys on there leave their gfs. and you will have to tell your parents. no matter how much they say their dissapointed or yell and scream just try not to think about it and stay strong. just say your human thats one of the easiest things that makes people think.. write back with results of the pregnancy test and keep us updated. thanks. good luck. :)
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