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writes:Me and my bf have been dating for a little over 3 months. He had been in a bad relationship before that and it really affected him. He tells me I'm not like her but you can see he was really hurt by her. We go to the same school (but we don't have any classes together) and the same church. I had to ask him out and he later told me that he was going to ask me out. The farthest we have gotten is holding hands. I've been wanting to kiss him for awhile now but he's really shy. I've been leaving him hints but he hasn't picked up on them. He has said on Facebook note he said he hasn't ever kissed anyone. I haven't either but I'm ready. Should I wait for him to be ready or should I just go for it?
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reader, CaliGrown09 +, writes (25 May 2010):
 When a kiss comes... it comes. Don't plan. It's gotta be in the moment, that's when it's the best :)
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reader, Love.YouForever84  +, writes (25 May 2010):
Talk to him about it , tell him how you feel and ask if he's ready yet , then decide from then (:
best of luck ! xx
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reader, YouWish +, writes (25 May 2010):
 Aww, he's scared as heck, and you're kinda shy too!
You gotta "ambush" him, meaning without letting him know about it, set it up so that you two "find" yourselves in a really romantic setting, like under the stars, or in a tunnel, or by a lake. Someplace without crowds of people and no one to interrupt you. Then when the time is right, just go for it. And if he still is too scared to get the hint, look him deep in the eyes and whisper to him..."I really feel like kissing you." Unless he's dead, you're as good as gold!
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reader, mstolk +, writes (25 May 2010):
I think a big clue that he wants you to kiss him is that he told you personally through an email that he had nevr been kissed. It's one thing if he mentions it in front of his entire group of friends. I would slowly and caustiosly go for it. I don't really like the phrase "go for it" it sounds a little to aggressive. Best of luck to you Hun! I'm going through the same thing right now. I'm so ready to not be part of the VL(virgin lips club)
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