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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:okay so i really liked this guy, tim. he liked me back. we had been talking and seeing eachother a lot. so we hung out and it was really sweet. we held hands and he had his arm around me and it was really nice. i was thinking that hed ask me out and everything would be great but instead he just asked to hangout again. so i planned a movie night with several people. and i could tell tim was different when he stopped talking to me and just sort of sat there not doing anything. then we all went swimming and he sat near me in the hottub and i thought it would go well again. but then it turned around. we went back inside so we could watch a movie. in my house theres a long couch and a small one. he sat on the small one with my friend emilys boyfriend, zach. then me kelly jake and emily sat on one couch. but then mallory showed up at my house cuz i forgot i invited her since her and her boyfriend broke up. well she sat right in between zach and tim i was okay with it cuz she can be a flirt. and itd be immature to get mad. so i went along with it and then the pizza came so we all got up and ate. and the whole time mallory flirted with tim really badly. we all saw it so i comfronted her. and she said she would stop. we all went to sit down and she pulled tim so just her and him sat on the couch. i was so mad when she hit on him and knew how much i liked him and what happened the weekend before. after everyone left i confronted her again and we both yelled and i cryed and she said sorry and we were sort of okay. i felt betrayed though very much. so i skipped school for a day to calm myself. then when i went back i saw kelly, my true best friend. she said she had to talk to me and said she and jake had broken up and she had started to like tim too. and that they were hanging out that night. i felt like someone hit me. both of my best friends had completly betrayed and backstabbed me. and i didnt know how to deal cuz i still liked tim even tho id never admit it. plus kelly and mallory never even met tim until i introduced them! it wasnt fair!! i called home and left school and kelly didnt know why. what a great friend. and all day today, i cant stand looking at kelly or mallory or myself. or anyhting. i feel awful and i dont know how to deal with everything. i think tim was the first guy i ever really liked.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): Talk to tim about how you feel. See if he feels the same way about your friends that they feel about him. Sometimes guys will purposly like a girl to get to her friends, it happens. There is no way to get through this, no way. You just have to take every day one step at a time. But even though they may like him, he might not like them very much. I know it isn't fair, but you can't blame them for liking him, though they shouldn't throw it in your face and make you deal with it. Somewhere down in this confusion your friends and you will get through it, promise.
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