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writes:I have two questions. Are men attracted to women who have similiar personalities as they do?The other questions is I like this guy that I intially hated. Now I have a huge crush on him. Not sure how that happened but what I want to know is does this same thing happen to men as well where they become attracted to women they did not intially like?
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reader, cnith +, writes (26 May 2010):
 What was the reason you "hated" this guy? And what are the reasons you "love" him now? (like)
There is a thing that says opposites attract. I find that to be true but it didn't work out for me, so I ignore it now.
However, I do find a guy who challenges me to be much more attractive than a passive one who'll just let me get my way all the time.
That being said, if the original reason you 'hated' the guy was b/c he pissed you off, then it makes sense you 'love' him now. Sexual tension sometimes comes off as pissing each other off. ;)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Yes, some men are attracted to women who have similar personalities to them.
And yes, sometimes you get to become attracted to someone you didn't initially like.
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