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*irgocrazy
writes:i know this guy for over 2 years, we hangout everyday he introduced me to his friends i met his mom he met my mom and my sister. he tries hard to make me part of his life. he even told me he likes me but when it comes to actually being together he says that hes too young to have a serious relationship and he just wants to have fun. but then i find out he has a gf so i tell him bye but he still tries to keep me in his life. we would generally hold hands but rarely make out im not sure of the things he does and what is the point of having me in his life for this long and having gone all the drama if i didnt mean really mean anything to him he tells me that he wants me in his life and that u never know what will happen in the future we might get married...y would he say that why would anything change at that time if he doesnt even want to date me now....so i dont even know if i should stick around or move on but its not like i dont go out with other guys its just that with him i have more feelings for and see a future with its just i dont think he does im probably his back up plan or something..oh and he doesnt even add me on facebook because he knows that if im going to have it and see he talks to some girl im going to be upset and tell him bye again.....but like before he used to tell me that he doesnt talk to other girls that im the only girl but then he out of nowhere went out with this girl for a week and then he went away for 2 months during the summer and broke up before he came back....ugh i just dont know what to do anymore hes the only guy that im unable to just leave me alone
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 He is in the chase ,just for the thrill of it.He is not ready to commit or serious yet and only wanting to keep scores.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 May 2010):
If it says he has a girlfriend, don't take a chance. You don't know that he's single if it says that. Tread carefully.
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reader, virgocrazy +, writes (26 May 2010):
virgocrazy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh I'm not sure y it says he has a girlfriend he doesn't he's single.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 May 2010):
Don't be fooled by him. Don't be played. He doesn't' care about you or this other girl. He just wants to have his cake and eat it. Let him go, and move on.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (25 May 2010):
 He's lying to you and stringing you along. He tells you he doesn't want to date, but at the same time he has a girlfriend, yet he's still talking to you?
How would you feel if you WERE his girlfriend and he's out stringing other girls along? He's too immature for you, and you should tell him "bye" for good. For every guy like this one, there's another guy who's out there ready to give his heart to you once he gets to know you. You just have to break the habit of pining for emotionally unavailable ones. Let this player go play with himself! You are not one to be stung around like a puppy dog.
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