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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi there, im in a perdicament, im nearly 21 and ive been in 1 real serious relationship when i was 16, unfortunatly it didnt work out, ever since then i havent wanted to get into a relationship untill the rest of my life was sorted, ive been in and out of loads of jobs, nothing stuck because i dont think the sector im in is what i want to be in but i dont know what sector i want to be in, i love writing but atm have server writers block.you see i dont want to get into a relationship where im relying on the man to support me, i have done that and ive never felt soo trapped.ive also become that focused on trying to sort out the rest of my life that i hardly have allowed myself to have any fun or any kind of chance to meet a man.so my question to you is should i just forget or my inabitions and ambitions and do what everyone else does and leave it up to fate? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): You sound as if you need a little focus in your life, you are drifting a bit, feeling without purpose. Get a grip of what you need to do in the way of exams or qualifications, get some college brochures, there must be something out there for you to tackle and aim for. Along the way have interests, see friends, go to the cinema, let life happen. Don't go out of your way to meet someone to date - sometimes you meet the nicest people when you are not expecting to. Fate is all very well but you have to help it along a lttle.
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