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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:well!!! ive been dating my bf for about two years and when we first started dating he seemed to always be talking to girls and i found out because i checked his texts. Ok so theres this one girl he seemed to like a lot because they talked a lot about how much theyd like to see each other and stuff like that. Oh btw i would not care at all if he talks to 100000 girls as long as hes not flirting with them or telling them how pretty they are. Well going back to the problem, they stopped talking because im guessing she got a bf but he knew i knew he was talking to her and he would always blame it on me, saying that i dont let him breath and stuff like that that i was always nagging at him. I can say id always bring it up and maybe that wasnt always the best thing to do but i didnt know what to do when the man that was supposed to be my bf was telling another girl how much he liked her every day. Well it has been like 6 months since they dont talk but like i said they stopped talking because she decided to ignore him and not talk to him anymore. I stopped telling him stuff about her two months before they stopped talking and granted things have been good now, but the problem is im still hurt because he never apologized for talking to other girls and even making plans to see her when he was still with me. I dont bring it up anymore but its in my heart and i cant stop looking at her picture on fb and feeling like such trash. I feel shes so pretty that even makes me want to be like her. It makes me feel like im some ugly person that couldnt make her man happy. We are still together but like i said i still have this feeling in my heart that is not going away. i want to feel pretty and know im not a monster that nobody can like. I cant talk to him about it because i know that if i do talk to him the first thing he is going to say is "why did you check my phone" "you pushed me to it" "you nagged at me" "you deserved it for checking my phone" "you wouldnt be hurt if you hadnt checked my phone" i know he is not talking to any other girls now because he even lets me have his phone on me all day long without worryin abut it and his been nice and loving and caring but how can i make myself forget and dont feel like im so ugly that any girl in the world can be prettier than me??? I just want this feeling to go away and not feel ugly. I know im not the most beautiful girl but i dont think any girl could be so ugly to be called ugly. I dont think im a monster but i feel like it :( how can i forget about her???
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): He's a jerk. Break up with him and find a guy who is really into you, and doesn't turn what he did wrong into what you did wrong (which was nothing.)
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reader, krunkqueen  +, writes (11 December 2010):
your not ugly ..he is for treating you this way! find someone who will appreciate you !
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 You should be asking, How can you forget about him?
Seriously, why are you still with him? Why are you with a guy who makes you feel ugly?
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