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*ariel1309
writes:Hi everyone: Lately I've been going through a lot because of this guy I dated nd I'm in love with and now I don't know what to do. My story goes like this :I met him on january and since the first day we saww each other we had like a connection and like each other a lot . It might has been a lil fast but since then we became boyfriend and girlfriend ! He told me that he liked me and that he wanted me to be his girlfriend but lied to me sinces he said he wouldn't be able to introduce me to his fam because her mom thought hi made girls suffer and wouldn't want to meet any of his girlfriends. Well time went on and after a month he started to act weird he woulnt want to kiss me nd started to kind of avoid me . He told to like take a break and I was like no. But things got worse and finnaly I was the one who told him to break up. We had classes at the same school so. He would come to my class to see me and we would make out . One day he came to me sad almost crying to tell me that the girl he was in love with didn't love him anymore and that he had been trying to go back with her but I would tell him that she didn't love him and its ok they could be together but she didn't love him. That day I felt aweful I don't know how I could listen that all I did was to try to make him better even tho I was dying inside but by that time we were only friends. After a while he introduced me to some of his friends and told them I was his friend and that's how I found out through his friend that he was lying to me all the time and that he had a gf. I felt so bad nd wouldn't talk to him the same day he found out he called desesperatily nd wanted to see me I assume his friend told him he had screwed it up. I said I was busy. Nd didn't want to see him he started to try to make me feel good like talking like nothing had happened. After that I stopped seeing him. For. Like 2 month and he would call me text me and I wouldn't pick up his calls or text him back till one day I did nd we met we made out again he told me to go back together nd I said ok since then things were different we got really close to each other and we also made love for first time which for me was important , I was virgin. I would see him like 3 or 4 days a week we would share many things, I brought him to my house when nobody was here we would lay in my bed for hours we did so many stuff that linked us even more as a couple we had the best time together nd I felt for first time he really felt something for me , he oppened up to me and told me everything about him , his family and religion I undestood him and never complained I was even with him during ramadam when he had to fast I understood him in any sense , also when he lost his job I was with him all the time supporting him I was with him in good and bad times I would buy him gifts and stuff like that , we were like that for like 4 months till I found a picture of him hugging a girl on his facebook I felt so sad I asked for explanations but he denied everything I broke up with him after. A couple of day the girl would comment nd call him baby on his facebook . :( he still called me but I told him to leave me alone . He lives far from me so he's never in my area but recently he was in my area and he called me and almost begging me to see me I couldn't say no. When we saw each other again after like 1 month nd a half he told that he loved me that he had realized that but for my good hed rather let me go that stay with me cuz his family would accept me cuz of the religion unless I cover up myself nd become muslim , he asked me if I would do that he said if I would then he would never leave me I was confuse nd told him that I wouldn't b myself if I do that he said he understood me nd that's why we couldn't be together. Since that day I haven't seen him again but we did talk on the phione several times I feel that he loves me and I love him back but he doesn't wanna hurt his fam. Idk what to do what should I do? Please any advice would be good if there is any question just ask me I missed a lot of details here.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 You should stop believing his bull...t and stop let him manipulate you. That his family would not accept you may be true but it's not relevant,he treated you very disrespectfully regardless of his religion, and he will continue doing so until you allow him.
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reader, mariel1309 +, writes (9 December 2010):
mariel1309 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for ur comments ... its not eaasy tho im really confused and deppressed . :(
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Your story is unintelligible. Look it up between texting.
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