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male
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41-50,
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writes:I do believe that I am a lovesick person. I dont always feel this way. I only feel this way whenever I meet a new girl, and all I think about is actually falling in love. Ive be alone for a long time, but I am not a virgin, or a prude.I feel really love sick this time, and I cant think straight now. I met up with an old girl friend from a long time ago, from back in high school. We are going to meet up in a little bit, but are schedules are very different.All I can think about is wanting to be with her. But unlike the past relationships when I get love sick, I get retarded and always ruin things. So I end up right where I started.We message back and forth, and I wont be able to see her for 2 weeks time, for what ever reason, and I want her attention, but I dont want to bombard her with messages, at most I might message her once a day, I dont want to bother her. But my issue is that I sit at home alone and just want to speak with her, even if it is a message. Am I thinking clearly in wanting to speak with her or should I just wait until we meet up in 2 weeks. I dont want her to think Im not intrested in her but in the same sense I dont want to chase her away with my feelings of needy ness.Advice me please Reply to this Question
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1poster is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIdk if i can tell her. I dont want to come off like a lonly guy. I dont know what u can call it. Lovesick or love struck. But what it is is that everytime i meet someone. I always hope that this is the person i will fall in love with and end up marring. I cant tell what feelings are pure or im just acting out of lonelyness. She said that she will go out with me so i havent been rejected. But i dont want to wait so long. This person used to love me once upon a time. But we were just to young. Now we are meeting again 10 years later as mature adults. I really just want to meet up with her and see how things go. But if the feelings i have are pure i really dont want to wait to express them. Make sense?
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